I am going to start this message with my very own quote “legit hustle is orgasmic”, I see women crying all the time about how one particular man used and dumped them, then they tag all men wicked and start with the singles forever quote, abeg me sef don tire to de hear my fellow women talk this way, hence this message.


Most women are gold diggers; I don’t dispute this claim, who doesn’t want to better their lives? Who doesn’t want to be the envy amongst their friends and neighbors? Who doesn’t want to ride in a nice car or live in a nice house? Who doesn’t want the good things life has to offer that we can’t afford? But have we thought about the prices we have to pay for living the good lives we can’t afford?


Honestly I got no problem with ladies who have taken it as their sole mission in life to “hunt” or rather date only rich men, after all na thru one way baba God take de bless person, the problem I have with these women is how soon they forget their backgrounds, how soon they forget they were once from the gutters, they once lived in face me I slap you houses and all of a sudden they rename themselves “BOSSCHICK” no sister you ain’t never been a boss your entire life, you’re just an A-hole.

Men love women who hustle on a legit level, even if you’re dating a rich man and you hustle level is nothing to write home about believe me he will get bored and look for someone else who can manage his money when he ain’t around, he gives you money all the time and you zoom off to the nearest boutique to get expensive clothes, shoes, handbags, jewelries and all the rubbish you don’t need and voila you won’t let Instagram and Facebook rest, you think you have arrived but your departure date in his life has begun a countdown.


Let me tell you a secret, dating a rich man is like an investment; the possibility of him ending up with you is a 20/100% gamble, love him, respect him, make him see your worth but bear in mind it might never lead to the altar, so what do you do when he gives you money? YOU INVEST!!!!!!! You don’t run off to buy clothes, shoes, jewelries and all those things that make you fake, what happens when he stops giving you? Or when he asks you to account for all he’s given you? Then you bring out all the rags you bought and present to him as an achievement? Even your village witches will spit on you.


Rich or poor everyman wants a woman who can account for money spent, not just spent but well spent, are you that woman? The way you spend a man’s money speaks volume of you, ask for only what you need and not what you want, if you know you can’t spend such money on yourself when you take yourself out why do you want to burden another man? Even if he gives you in excess buy what you need and save the rest, INVEST in your bank account, save for rainy days, things won’t be sunny forever.


Life has made all of us gold diggers, our digging may not be the way someone else digs but our desires are the gold we dig which makes us insatiable and we always crave for more, dig wisely, some men would go as far as testing you, they would give you 100k and say “babe do whatever you want with this money” maybe in a few days’ time they would ask for 10k and then you say “baby I don’t have” he has taken point of that one, some girls won’t even buy anything for the man from that 100k, haba sister you’re wicked.


Like I said, I don’t have a problem with women who don’t want to date genuinely hustling young men, it’s their lives; the only thing I’m going to say to you is “don’t forget where you come from” “carry your senses along” “INVEST” “SAVE” and remember this quote from me


"THE WAY YOU USE SOMEONE, SOMEONE ELSE WILL USE YOU THAT SAME WAY".



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UPYJg-B5Z4Y


Isabella Ibeji

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/12/this-message-is-for-broke-girls-who.html

thank you ma..


God bless

Hmmm...talk2bella made sense...1bag of lake rice for u.

Lolzzz

See as the man for that picture dey shine his teeth.
For his mind, he be like "O boy, I have found my missing rib", not knowing that he will soon have another missing rib.

Bella just spoiling show for these ladies

Viewing from the other room









Thanks

Some people will not like this

Looks like you're encouraging gold digging.

makydebbie:
Looks like you're encouraging gold digging.

We are all gold diggers

KingRex1:
Bella just spoiling show for these ladies

Make them dig with sense

True talk my sister

ikp120:
Lolzzz

See as the man for that picture dey shine his teeth.
For his mind, he be like "O boy, I have found my missing rib", not knowing that he will soon have another missing rib.

okay you try small for your make up...... kudos

lilmax:
okay you try small for your make up...... kudos

Thanks

Doctorfitz:
Hmmm...talk2bella made sense...1bag of lake rice for u.

Oya abeg come gimme

Talk2Bella:


Oya abeg come gimme

Na 1bag I talk it could be an empty bag u know.... ...U're down to earth I like that.... E b lyk u come from edo/delta

Doctorfitz:




Na 1bag I talk it could be an empty bag u know.... ...U're down to earth I like that.... E b lyk u come from edo/delta

That Igbo gal

Talk2Bella:


That Igbo gal

Hmmmmmmm.

Bella chukwu gozie gi

“babe do whatever you want with this money” maybe in a few days’ time they would ask for 10k and then you say “baby I don’t have” he has taken point of that one, some girls won’t even buy anything for the man from that 100k, haba sister you’re wicked.


This is what annoys me the most,they dont buy their man gifts,I precious that move alone from a lady,more than half of Naija ladies don't do this.
Everything na collect collect collect,beginning of next year will be my birthday and I'm very sure the new gal in life will do the same. I nor know the kine OT em give Naija gals.

Na wa o.. Everyone forming ....

ok

What is this one saying?

Talk2Bella:


We are all gold diggers

Na your punnnannyyy you dey use dig the gold?

I love your article. It made a lot of sense.
The truth is that broke girls without brains
stinks.
Can you imagine she has no good shelter,
poor living standard. Instead of thinking of
of setting up a good business, buy a land
somewhere, she chooses to show off
temporary liabilities to people who cares to
notice her because she is dating a rich guy.

Men love creative and industrious women and
these they take to the altars not money hungry
lazy fished brain demons that litter everywhere
looking for Magas.

The more industrious you are as a single woman
the better your chances of getting married to your
rich boyfriend.

Drienzia:
Na wa o.. Everyone forming ....

I dey tell u

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