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Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by bamisepeters(m): 12:10pm On Dec 24, 2016
Despite the fact that we promise each other heaven on earth at the beginning of every relationship, even before it is sealed you will know you can never be happy at all times with your partner, every marriage with its own imperfection.

Like i always say, it is good to set standards as to the choice of our partner, but even if the partner have all we desire in them it doesn't still guarantee happiness at all times.

This is just like saying if you have money you have everything forgetting we can only see what the rich man want us to see.

Because another woman is happy merely looking at her is not a guarantee that she is really happy, appearance is not reality.

Because you are going through the imperfection test in your relationship you now feel it shouldn't be, please don't be deceived, the wife of a president is not always happy with her man, they go through sad moments together too.

The preaching on how a good home should be by our religious leaders is not a guarantee that he left his home in a happy mood, but God's words must be delivered.

You just need to cover yourselves up, no home is perfect, you will always pass the test if you don't allow the way others feel or the feelings you see in others to distract your attention.

We are all pretenders, that is the truth.
Education nor wealth does not guarantee happiness all the time, the rich cries also, and in every educated human being there will be a moment of illiteracy which might be in open or close.

Manage your relationship and let the world want to imitate you and your spouse even in your imperfection like those you are looking up to are doing.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/12/dont-be-deceived-even-marriage-to.html

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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by Nobody: 1:59pm On Dec 24, 2016
Su waye? Su Baba ne!

Sai gamu a FTC.

Wanene Wanene, Su Baba ne.
Mai nene, menene. Such Baba ne.


OP, the are humans too so give them a break

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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by Doctorfitz: 1:59pm On Dec 24, 2016
Hmmmmm .true talk and deep words... Needless to say women get carried away by other women's appearances......like the saying goes all that glitters is not gold.... Some Na gel ..wash wash

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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by Nobody: 1:59pm On Dec 24, 2016
Of course go and ask pastor Chris and Anita. I wonder what gives them the license to preach when they can't keep their own house together.

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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by Goldenheart(m): 1:59pm On Dec 24, 2016
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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by Goldenheart(m): 2:00pm On Dec 24, 2016
Ontarget:
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For Rokiat
Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by Agimor(m): 2:00pm On Dec 24, 2016
Something happened yesterday in Shoprite in Warri . A guy approached a girl and demanded for her number,the girl gave out the number without hesitation. The young man promised he will call. In her presence, the guy entered his Range Rover 2016 model and drove off. The girl started running after the car & shouting "WRONG NUMBER!!!" Pls wait wait wait, I gave you a wrong number... Oh my God what have I done....Wait! HahahahahahahaHappy Christmas Watching Night.

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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by Goldenheart(m): 2:00pm On Dec 24, 2016
abuayman:
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for Toyin Tomato grin
Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by fortunechy(m): 2:02pm On Dec 24, 2016
You that's snapping pictures in United States of America, And Your location is Ijebu Ode what's your gain?

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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by viexcey(f): 2:07pm On Dec 24, 2016
With the fact that we ain't prefect makes marriage imperfect itself. So, Any marriage entered with a hope of perfection or every moment joy. hahaha.... the person is a dreamer. There must be challenges, I repeat every marriage encounter challenges, the only difference is the personalities of the people involved and how the two parties resolve their issues.

Marriage is no beans. Think well before saying "I do"

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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by Constantiney: 2:08pm On Dec 24, 2016
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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by passyhansome(m): 2:09pm On Dec 24, 2016
bamisepeters:
Despite the fact that we promise each other heaven on earth at the beginning of every relationship, even before it is sealed you will know you can never be happy at all times with your partner, every marriage with its own imperfection.

Like i always say, it is good to set standards as to the choice of our partner, but even if the partner have all we desire in them it doesn't still guarantee happiness at all times.

This is just like saying if you have money you have everything forgetting we can only see what the rich man want us to see.

Because another woman is happy merely looking at her is not a guarantee that she is really happy, appearance is not reality.

Because you are going through the imperfection test in your relationship you now feel it shouldn't be, please don't be deceived, the wife of a president is not always happy with her man, they go through sad moments together too.

The preaching on how a good home should be by our religious leaders is not a guarantee that he left his home in a happy mood, but God's words must be delivered.

You just need to cover yourselves up, no home is perfect, you will always pass the test if you don't allow the way others feel or the feelings you see in others to distract your attention.

We are all pretenders, that is the truth.
Education nor wealth does not guarantee happiness all the time, the rich cries also, and in every educated human being there will be a moment of illiteracy which might be in open or close.

Manage your relationship and let the world want to imitate you and your spouse even in your imperfection like those you are looking up to are doing.


Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/12/dont-be-deceived-even-marriage-to.html

May be you not opportune to meet real people, or person I have , they don't pretend next time don't generalize its wrong

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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by Okite15(m): 2:12pm On Dec 24, 2016
very wrong assertion, we are not all pretenders, don't generalize next time.
Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by Ginaz(f): 2:13pm On Dec 24, 2016
I just tire jare, sleep dey catch me sef. grin
Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by mostyg(m): 2:16pm On Dec 24, 2016
As long as they are humans....
We all have human flesh and could thus fall into temptation sometimes.
Our soul has been designed by the Almighty to choose between good and evil. Successful indeed is he who perfect his soul by doing good and ruined is he who let his soul led his astray.
Every human has the tendency to do evil even when you know it is evil probably to satisfy your list.
Faith alone at times would not prevent you from falling into sins. Taking precautions do.
For instance, you don't stay alone with a man or lady in a room when no one else is there. The devil will surely be your companion.

By always being in the company of righteous people who you share same ideologies and belief together you are not likely not to fall into sins.
Such people would always remind you of your stand on issues. This is not hypocrisy as some people would view it as long as your intention is good. You would also be shy to be seen doing some evil things if you are in the company of the righteous. You serve as watch over one another.

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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by soath(m): 2:18pm On Dec 24, 2016
My mood right now. I'm seriously hungry. angry

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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by davodyguy: 2:20pm On Dec 24, 2016
Nice one

You've spoken well.

Endurance is the key.

Pastor Adeboye's marriage is over 30 years old

Pastor Oyedepo's is over 30

Pastor Abiara's marriage lasted for years till death of his wife



Chief Evang Ebenezer Money's marriage was over 30 years till the wife died


If we ask them, they endured lost of 'BS' They would have cheated each other in the process, abused each other etc. But they lived together for so long.


See president buhari too, eho stayed married to only Aisha for over 20 years and still counting.

Now, see the younger ones

Pastor Chris okotie
Pastor Chris Oyakhilome

Not their fault, but they still experienced break ups.

Life has to do with endurance, if you want honey from the rock.

I'm also a married man and men are told to tolerate women

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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by WebSurfer(m): 2:21pm On Dec 24, 2016
grin grin
Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by bitchcrafts: 2:21pm On Dec 24, 2016
Amen!
Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by Nutase: 2:22pm On Dec 24, 2016
Marriage turns many to actors shocked

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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by princeakins(m): 2:24pm On Dec 24, 2016
Okotie look tho. grin
Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by smartsammie(m): 2:32pm On Dec 24, 2016
Ontarget:
Of course go and ask pastor Chris and Anita. I wonder what gives them the license to preach when they can't keep their own house together.
kai!!! keeping one's home is now the new licence to preach abi? Well done
Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by Veektoria(f): 2:33pm On Dec 24, 2016
soath:
My mood right now. I'm seriously hungry. angry
embarassed[quote author=soath post=52221020]My mood right now. I'm seriously hungry. Yeeee! You just made me 'hungrier' angry
Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by AngelicBeing: 2:33pm On Dec 24, 2016
davodyguy:
Nice one

You've spoken well.

Endurance is the key.

Pastor Adeboye's marriage is over 30 years old

Pastor Oyedepo's is over 30

Pastor Abiara's marriage lasted for years till death of his wife



Chief Evang Ebenezer Money's marriage was over 30 years till the wife died


If we ask them, they endured lost of 'BS' They would have cheated each other in the process, abused each other etc. But they lived together for so long.


See president buhari too, eho stayed married to only Aisha for over 20 years and still counting.

Now, see the younger ones

Pastor Chris okotie
Pastor Chris Oyakhilome

Not their fault, but they still experienced break ups.

Life has to do with endurance, if you want honey from the rock.

I'm also a married man and men are told to tolerate women
cool
Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by Lovelynature(m): 2:36pm On Dec 24, 2016
Ginaz:
I just tire jare, sleep dey catch me sef. grin
what's up girl? Sleep on a hot afternoon?
Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by bamisepeters(m): 2:38pm On Dec 24, 2016
Some comments shows many did not read all written... All i am saying is every marriage have its own ups and downs but understanding and endurance will make it succeed. Please read.

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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by dMODShavgonemad: 2:55pm On Dec 24, 2016
The Op has said the truth, most of u talking of generalisation here Dont know what u are saying. There isn't an 100% relationship, what the op is saying is that u should try as much as possible to let people want to imitate your kind of relationship.
And for those talking against those saying the truth about pastors, don't be gullible. Open your eyes to reality, if a pastor preaches against divorce and he commits such, he isn't fit to be called a pastor.
I read a story early this week where a lady gave out the brand new car her husband bought to the church all in d name of 'the Holy Ghost told me'. How many times has the Holy Ghost spoken to pastors to sell their private jets or flashy cars to bless the people. God uses the rich to bless the poor and not the other way. Be wise.

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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by blackaxe78: 3:03pm On Dec 24, 2016
Pastor Oyakhilome and Chris Okotie re good examples
Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by folks4luv(f): 3:07pm On Dec 24, 2016
passyhansome:


May you not opportune to meet real people, or person I have , they don't pretend next time don't generalize its wrong
maybe there are real people who do not pretend all the time, but everyone, esp adult have been though moments where they had to wear a smile even when they were burning inside, smile n kiss the kids even when life seem to be up and down. sometime. this doesn't make a person fake, but projecting a rosy picture to deceive others and male them jealous is being fake.

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Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by ianSweet(f): 3:09pm On Dec 24, 2016
Agimor:
Something happened yesterday in Shoprite in Warri . A guy approached a girl and demanded for her number,the girl gave out the number without hesitation. The young man promised he will call. In her presence, the guy entered his Range Rover 2016 model and drove off. The girl started running after the car & shouting "WRONG NUMBER!!!" Pls wait wait wait, I gave you a wrong number... Oh my God what have I done....Wait! HahahahahahahaHappy Christmas Watching Night.

LoL. Am feeling for the girl
Re: Even Marriage To A Religious Leader Does Not Guarantee Perfection by passyhansome(m): 3:16pm On Dec 24, 2016
folks4luv:

maybe there are real people who do not pretend all the time, but everyone, esp adult have been though moments where they had to wear a smile even when they were burning inside, smile n kiss the kids even when life seem to be up and down. sometime. this doesn't make a person fake, but projecting a rosy picture to deceive others and male them jealous is being fake.

I have picked up some articles on happiness, at the end of it one thing I always get is "Be real", Be direct with your emotions, if you are not happy wth your partner, express it immediately, not in a rude way or wait for hours before you do it, at the end you will happier from within.

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