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Ibale{virginity} by Bolanlera(f): 7:22am On Dec 27, 2016 |
IBALE(VIRGINITY) .: Stories A virgin is someone who has never had sexual intercourse or sexual activity. Virginity In Yoruba Culture During the traditional era and before the advent of colonialism, virginity was held at high esteem among the Yoruba people. A lady is expected to get married as a virgin as having sexual intercourse before the wedding ceremony is a taboo. This is the reason why the intending couple are not allowed to have close contact or be in the same room with each other before the D-day: thus, the need for an intermediary (Alarina). Virginity to them is known as ‘Ibale’ and it is the pride of any Yoruba lady to keep hers till her wedding night.The wedding night is usually seen as a frightened day for the bride and her parents. In those days, mothers were fond of asking their daughters about their virginity so as to prevent the shame and disgrace that come with not been a virgin. On the wedding night, a white cloth is usually given to the couple and the cloth will be spread on their bedding, mostly mats. The parents of both families sometimes stay at the entrance of the house waiting for the cloth to be brought out of the house while some parents will be in their homes expecting result. In this culture, the white cloth is expected to be stained by blood and after the sexual intercourse, if the cloth is stained, it means that the new bride is a virgin. If it turns out that the white cloth is not stained with blood, it signifies that the new bride had been promiscuous and slept with a man before. A bride that is met as a virgin by her husband will be celebrated while the one that is not will be disgraced and banished from the village. The white cloth (stained or not) will be sent to the bride’s parents. Other items like rotten yam, half-filled matches or empty box of matches, half keg of palm wine will also be sent to them meaning that their daughter was rotten and not complete before she was married. The parents will be publicly blamed for not training their daughter. Grief, sorrow and loud cries will follow suit. Such bride that will sweep the whole village, dance naked in the market’s place before she finally leaves her village. The groom also has the right to divorce such a woman. On the other hand, if the newly-wed was met as a virgin, the groom’s family will send a full keg of palm wine, full matches box to the bride’s parents indicating that their daughter was complete before the wedding night. She will be praised publicly and her parents will be happy. It is believed that virgins have self-discipline and are well-trained by their parents. This custom and virginity has many advantages as it prevent the rate of fornication and helps the married women to be faithful with their husbands. Also, many lives have been lost to the act. Some young ladies have committed suicide because of the shame. Highly respected or elders can also commit suicide if their daughter was found to have lost her virginity before her marriage. This tradition is no longer in practice and has eaten deep by colonilisation. IBALE(VIRGINITY)....ITS ALL ABOUT A MAIDEN FROM HER VILLAGE TO THE UNIVERSITY, SHE KEEPS HER VIRGINITY THROUGHOUT HER LIFE, BUT WHEN SHE GET TO THE UNIVERSITY SHE HAVE TO FIGHT VERY HARD IN ORDER NOT TO LOSE IT BECAUSE IT'S A LAW AND AN OAT MAKE BY THE ANCESTORS AND MUST NOT MISTAKENLY BE BROKEN BY ANY HOW GUY IF NOT THEIR HUSBAND WILL THE MAIDEN LOSE HER VIRGINITY? WHO WILL DISVIRGIN HER? WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF HER SEAL HIS BROKEN? WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO THE GUY WHO BREAK IT? WHAT'S IS BEHIND THE LAW AND THE OAT? WHAT CAUSES THE LAW AND THE OAT? STAY TUNE FOR IBALE(VIRGINITY) http://global-4-lvs-colossus-8.opera-mini.net/hs27-02-05/19005/1/1/97xq4d7gwn3t4zst5beo/15697939_1826392784243865_6869685638402252705_n.jpg 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Chumzypinky(f): 9:44am On Dec 27, 2016 |
If i no read ds 1, mean say Buhari neva start 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Lleigh(f): 10:23am On Dec 27, 2016 |
when will this start....I am following in anticipation 1 Like |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Nobody: 11:20am On Dec 27, 2016 |
Waiting patiently..... |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by xaviercasmir(m): 12:02pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
I AM waiting OOOOOOO |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by JDAdeshina: 3:21pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
Subscribed... |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Adesina12: 10:46am On Dec 28, 2016 |
Lleigh: Dear Lleigh...I am here with you loaded with popcorn Please supply us Guiness 1 Like |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Nobody: 11:00am On Dec 28, 2016 |
We cuming thraaaa 1 Like |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Adesina12: 11:20am On Dec 28, 2016 |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Nobody: 11:35am On Dec 28, 2016 |
Adesina12:I cannuh read again? I'm tryna catch up with all the stories i missed while on ban 1 Like |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by wristbangle: 12:22pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Lawlahdey: Heya ekun kekere, what happened @ d bolded? |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Nobody: 12:24pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
wristbangle:Oga mynd banned me for 2weeks oh. .. I just got out nah |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by wristbangle: 12:38pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Lawlahdey: Lol. When ur body no dey rest nko? Welcome back. How was the prison? |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Nobody: 12:59pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
wristbangle:It was damning.. watery beans everyday I felt like strangling mynd |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by wristbangle: 1:35pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Lawlahdey: so young ekuns do complain too. Lol if he knows u want to strangle him, u will spend more jail term in prison. I hope your day is going well? Between, Nice one OP. |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Adesina12: 2:32pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Lawlahdey: What did you do? You too dey mesmerize about when they ask you to stay somewhere...how dey won't ban you. Just eat popcorn...with pepsi |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Nobody: 2:44pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
wristbangle:Today is boring as hell.. Yours is going well? |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by wristbangle: 3:02pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Lawlahdey: It's going on well. Quite hectic and harmattan is something else mehn. This ur signature dey prevent me from knowing more of ur naughty nature 2 Likes |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Nobody: 3:03pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Adesina12:Loool |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Nobody: 3:04pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
wristbangle:Awwwnn... Eehyaa |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by wristbangle: 3:11pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Lawlahdey: Lol. I no want "eehya" response jor . Am I permitted young ekun? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Lleigh(f): 3:12pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
OP We are all waiting expectantly opening this thread and the story hasn't dropped. I think we can make alternative prologues. Bolanlera please come and give us something. Adesina12 will run out of popcorn soon 1 Like |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Nobody: 3:17pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
wristbangle:My daddy wee talk |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by wristbangle: 3:17pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Lawlahdey: Lol your papa too hard oo! Young ekun don grow nau |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Nobody: 3:25pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
wristbangle:Omo oh kin ke're loju daddy eh oh |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by wristbangle: 4:08pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Lawlahdey: Omo yoruba niyin lati Ilu wo le ti wa 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Nobody: 4:25pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
wristbangle:Ibadan nle Oluyole |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Adesina12: 4:26pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Lleigh: lolzzzzzzzzzzz You 4get I own popcorn factory/corn plantation farm I can feed the whole world....heheeee... Enjoy my sweet popcorn joor and 4get your aches |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by wristbangle: 4:35pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Lawlahdey: Omo badan so sure |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Nobody: 4:37pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Re: Ibale{virginity} by Bolanlera(f): 9:05pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
PREVIEW…….. EPISODE ONE:MY LIFE STORY~~~~~ *****************,his family chase her away and take over my father’s properties. *****************,my mum could not sponsor me enough because she is an asthmatic patient ***************** so,that make our sales a bit low because I hawk almost in the late hour. *****************, Oops! I haven’t tell you abt Olamide. ************************************************************************************* I so much love him that I call him ***** and he also calls me ******. He was indeed God sent, he help me with my **********************************. watch out for IBALE{VIRGINITY} on January 1 happy new year in advance happy birthday to me in advance IBALE{VIRGINTY}. by Bolanlera 2 Likes
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Re: Ibale{virginity} by Bolanlera(f): 9:09pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Lleigh: i will soon bring it on please chill 1 Like |
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