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SweetyZinta:
Thank you toks2008 for this topic. I will take heed to your advice before I enter one chance.





some guy I was dating even took me to his area but did not take me to meet his siblings though he is an orphan.
he told me his uncle is the only one at home with his wife and the uncle is so aggressive, that he is avoiding the uncle's problem




what baffles me the MOST was my guy tried calling his sister to come say Hi to me but she NEVER showed up after spending 2-3 hours with this guy.



My eyes are OPEN now.

You are welcome.

zicoraads:
I know my Mom. You dare not bring any girl to the house except you are very sure. In short, she no wan even see anyone wey na friend. If you dare, she will continue disturbing your life. Come go do mistake bring another, your own na finitò.

Good mother

true talk mr toks, most of the tym a serious guy will take u to meet his parents, just hope fvckkboys wont start adopting this styl massively

TheSonOfMark:
What if the guy is playing everyone including his mum? He probably brought her home to his folks to get his 'nagging' mum off his back and get both women (mum and girlfriend ) into thinking he's serious about settling down.

jst what I thought and it's so common esp guys @30+

Toks2008:
If you are a lady of marriageable age dating a mature guy for a year or two and he has not met your parents or introduced you to his parents as his fiancee then you need to start having a rethink...it is either he is not sure yet or not really interested in a possible future with you.

My opinion.

Things have changed o, guys could meet your parents and grand parents, impregnate you and still not marry you. will the girl's parents kill him?

Even guys at 30 are not ready to settle down..... some are scared, some are waiting to live in their dreams, some want to have their millions first, some grew up as promiscuous, some don't even know when to be responsible.
'A lady marries to start a life, whole the guy married to end his life' that's how some see it

Can this year please end?
I think i just read the most stu.pid thing in 2016.

Toks2008:
Many ladies get carried away when a guy lavishes them with gifts and use sweet words in the bedroom or when they are alone together but the truth is that these words may just be mare sweet talks.

The simple truth is that men are very possessive and jealous.If a man truly desires you,he will do so many stuffs to prove it but most importantly would want to know your parents and entire family as well as show you off to his parents and family members because a man will hardly want to know your family or introduce you to his family if he is not truly interested in a possible future with you.

In-fact he would want everyone to know you belong to him so he will introduce you as MY lady,MY fiancee to anyone who cares to know and those who don't.But If all he does is call you Honey,baby,Bae,sweet chocolate honey sharwarma pie.....then you are on your own.

If you are a lady of marriageable age dating a mature guy for a year or two and he has not met your parents or introduced you to his parents as his fiancee then you need to start having a rethink...it is either he is not sure yet or not really interested in a possible future with you.

My opinion.

Heavance:
Things have changed o, guys could meet your parents and grand parents, impregnate you and still not marry you. will the girl's parents kill him?

Even guys at 30 are not ready to settle down..... some are scared, some are waiting to live in their dreams, some want to have their millions first, some grew up as promiscuous, some don't even know when to be responsible.
'A lady marries to start a life, whole the guy married to end his life' that's how some see it

lol! it's not that easy...

VibrationsZ:
true talk mr toks, most of the tym a serious guy will take u to meet his parents, just hope fvckkboys wont start adopting this styl massively

No sane parent will condole silly act from any randy son...he can do it once but not twice.