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mizzyboy007:
Guy, I'll give you the best advice you can ever get here... pretend to live her and agree to her terms, keep fvcking her pussay constantly till you are tired. then when you finally find the girl of your dreams, dump her sorry ass. those kind of girls don't deserve your kind of person.... Guy no dull oh. just do what I said and see how happy you will be. cheers.

someone will heavily bombard your daughter's an.us and dump her sorry ass.
and the process will keep going on with your female family members

You will never trust her, so don't risk your future staying with her. You seem like a more reasonable man and besides there are plenty of women out there, leave her to sort her baggage and just walk away.

caukerzee:
Well it goes like this; I met this girl some months ago. I instantly had a liking for her reason being that she looked so much like an old friend. We got talking and as time went on, feelings began to set it. I made my intentions clear to her about wanting to date her and she was like "let's see how it goes". We hung out a couple of times, from the signs I was getting it became obvious that she was intrested in me.
One night we got chatting on whatsApp after we came back from an outing. I asked her: "hope you had fun today? " she replied: "yes. Thanks for making my day. It was generally a good day except that I'm having issues with my boyfriend ". ["Did I just hear boyfriend ?"; I said in my mind] Trying to play it cool I said: "Sorry about that". At this point I told many thoughts began to cross my mind. Not wanting to be a girlfriend snatcher I let it pass. We continued chatting. After a few convos she asked me: "Hope you're not hurt ?" "About?" (Pretending not to know what she was talking about ): I replied. "About the boyfriend stuff? "
"Nah...why should I?"
"But I have feelings for you and would have really like if we could work out I'm sorry ".
"Now I'm going to cry in my pillow for weeks (I said jokingly )".
"Lol. You're funny ".
"Do me a favour ".
"what ?"
"You're going to be responsible for getting me the second most beautiful and amazing girl now that I can not have you".
"Lol ".
Long story short, she began trying to convince me to give it a try. Telling me how her boyfriend stays outside town and how they only see once in a while. I let her know that I can't share my woman with another man, how I can't be the side guy. She kept insisting telling me to trust her. I still let her know that more than affection I need comitment and how it's impossible to be commited to two people and all the emotional baggage that comes with it (having witness a similar scenario ). She told me to pretend I didn't know about another man in her life. She kept insisting. I then asked: "If you have a boyfriend what that make me?"
"Boyfriend": she replied. We kept going back and forth about the scenario until I told her to forget it as I cannot be a "Backup plan". She claimed I did not care about her feelings.
The following evening her roommate called me asking me what I did to her friend and how she had been crying all evening. I felt bad and asked to meet so we could talk things over. I eventually agreed to date her giving her the following terms :
1. That she figures which of us she's going to continue with and a day will come when she has to decide or it's over.
2. That she never brings him up whenever we're together.
She was very happy and took the offer. Things got off to a great start. Time went on and we increasingly got fon of each other.
The first day we kissed, she told me she was feeling guilty. Trying not to be a drama queen, I reacted cooly. I just reminded her about our agreement of not bringing stuff like that up. She cries any time we have sextet and as time went on I made her feel comfortable about sex.
The relationship went on. We had fights, we reconciled every time like every other normal relationship.
A few days ago when she was supposed to leave town to her family for the Christmas, we had our goodbye sex and all that. We said our 'byes' and 'i miss you(s)' & parted ways. Latter that evening, she called me and was crying over the phone. I told her to calm down and tell me what the matter was. She told me that what she did with me earlier in the day, she did with the other guy. My heart shattred. I was so furious and didn't know what to say. I just ended the call. She kept calling and texting to apologise saying she won't bring him up again and that she needed someone to talk to at that point that's why she called. Ignored her for a while then I replied her; if she wants us to work out, she we have to meet up and talk about our relationship should be ideally. But she seems not to be able to make up her mind. I feel this is a typical case of trying to eat your cake and have it.
What do I do?

Wat may hve happened is that she thought u cld quench her thirst but she realised that u r only a lil bit better than her other bf who cldnt do nada too bt she needs more so she decided to apply u both to the system but d guy prolly became worse so she decided to call u. How many rounds was ur goodbye sex sef? Give us complete gist abeg. R u sure it wasnt one and half? That girl must be from Calabar or Benue.. Those ones nor dey tire.

SolexxBarry:
Make her a side chick too,if she can't stand it let her go

wa gbayi

SolexxBarry:
Make her a side chick too,if she can't stand it let her go

wa gbayi

Mimi56:
Your case is different!!!
Shiloh calling.
I had a friend like you.
His was worse,there was always a stated time to call her,she could be with d main guy.
I pitied him severally,couldn't blame him...guys like fine girls,fine girls cant be single na...except the freshly heartbroken ones who play hard to get too.
Yeye dey smell.

Hehehe ...I fear girls/ woman which is y if guys catch kitten(0.B.0) like this we no dey forgive am.

Whytelyon:

import stdio.nl
import secondeye.nl
import gfmodule.nl

main() 
  If found:CheatingGF==true
     Then 
          DisposeCheatingGf()
     And
         puts: EndOfSory()
Else found:goodGF ==true
     Then
          Puts:RelationshipTillMarriage()
       And
          puts:EndOfStory()

End.

I wrote this simple code to check for cheating gf'z on Nairaland Op take note.

Wiriting VB. Net ...hehehe

2dugged:
You put your self in the position, only you can bring yourself out,she needs someone to be her back up plan,trust me,she is not confused, she knows who to choose, if her bf wasn't better, she would have left him for you the very week you guys started dating, I will suggest you get out of that relationship, since you are the "my woman" type, cos I know some guys will not mind, cos it just going to be an emotional roller coaster for you if you continue to share and keep waiting for her to make her choice between the two of you

Girl! It is nt easy especially when u r stuck on smbody

caukerzee:
Well it goes like this; I met this girl some months ago. I instantly had a liking for her reason being that she looked so much like an old friend. We got talking and as time went on, feelings began to set it. I made my intentions clear to her about wanting to date her and she was like "let's see how it goes". We hung out a couple of times, from the signs I was getting it became obvious that she was intrested in me.
One night we got chatting on whatsApp after we came back from an outing. I asked her: "hope you had fun today? " she replied: "yes. Thanks for making my day. It was generally a good day except that I'm having issues with my boyfriend ". ["Did I just hear boyfriend ?"; I said in my mind] Trying to play it cool I said: "Sorry about that". At this point I told many thoughts began to cross my mind. Not wanting to be a girlfriend snatcher I let it pass. We continued chatting. After a few convos she asked me: "Hope you're not hurt ?" "About?" (Pretending not to know what she was talking about ): I replied. "About the boyfriend stuff? "
"Nah...why should I?"
"But I have feelings for you and would have really like if we could work out I'm sorry ".
"Now I'm going to cry in my pillow for weeks (I said jokingly )".
"Lol. You're funny ".
"Do me a favour ".
"what ?"
"You're going to be responsible for getting me the second most beautiful and amazing girl now that I can not have you".
"Lol ".
Long story short, she began trying to convince me to give it a try. Telling me how her boyfriend stays outside town and how they only see once in a while. I let her know that I can't share my woman with another man, how I can't be the side guy. She kept insisting telling me to trust her. I still let her know that more than affection I need comitment and how it's impossible to be commited to two people and all the emotional baggage that comes with it (having witness a similar scenario ). She told me to pretend I didn't know about another man in her life. She kept insisting. I then asked: "If you have a boyfriend what that make me?"
"Boyfriend": she replied. We kept going back and forth about the scenario until I told her to forget it as I cannot be a "Backup plan". She claimed I did not care about her feelings.
The following evening her roommate called me asking me what I did to her friend and how she had been crying all evening. I felt bad and asked to meet so we could talk things over. I eventually agreed to date her giving her the following terms :
1. That she figures which of us she's going to continue with and a day will come when she has to decide or it's over.
2. That she never brings him up whenever we're together.
She was very happy and took the offer. Things got off to a great start. Time went on and we increasingly got fon of each other.
The first day we kissed, she told me she was feeling guilty. Trying not to be a drama queen, I reacted cooly. I just reminded her about our agreement of not bringing stuff like that up. She cries any time we have sextet and as time went on I made her feel comfortable about sex.
The relationship went on. We had fights, we reconciled every time like every other normal relationship.
A few days ago when she was supposed to leave town to her family for the Christmas, we had our goodbye sex and all that. We said our 'byes' and 'i miss you(s)' & parted ways. Latter that evening, she called me and was crying over the phone. I told her to calm down and tell me what the matter was. She told me that what she did with me earlier in the day, she did with the other guy. My heart shattred. I was so furious and didn't know what to say. I just ended the call. She kept calling and texting to apologise saying she won't bring him up again and that she needed someone to talk to at that point that's why she called. Ignored her for a while then I replied her; if she wants us to work out, she we have to meet up and talk about our relationship should be ideally. But she seems not to be able to make up her mind. I feel this is a typical case of trying to eat your cake and have it.
What do I do?

Mehn she not for only you .. i would appreciate you alot if you can just Pm me her whatsapp number .. you should know already she no yours alone .. she is a bitch you cant marry her am sure , so just do your and leave .. let me do mine i wil treat her well i got the money

Keep fucking her until u re tired, then dump her

dairykidd:
Don't know what these other guys above me are saying but Op u got it all wrong from d beginning...she just wanted fun with u..just hot,banging,rough,butt naked s3x n u messed it all up looking for luv/relationship...She already has that brah!! That's why she let u kno abt d existing bf...u r d one with d problems not her...u just made both ur lives complicated when it could have been a beneficial sonthin.I don't kno why some guys can't read signs even when its written in bold.. Gluck

motherf*cker you a genius, you are smart. You just typed what I had in mind.

SolexxBarry:
Make her a side chick too,if she can't stand it let her go

funny enuf, u are right

caukerzee:
Well it goes like this; I met this girl some months ago. I instantly had a liking for her reason being that she looked so much like an old friend. We got talking and as time went on, feelings began to set it. I made my intentions clear to her about wanting to date her and she was like "let's see how it goes". We hung out a couple of times, from the signs I was getting it became obvious that she was intrested in me.
One night we got chatting on whatsApp after we came back from an outing. I asked her: "hope you had fun today? " she replied: "yes. Thanks for making my day. It was generally a good day except that I'm having issues with my boyfriend ". ["Did I just hear boyfriend ?"; I said in my mind] Trying to play it cool I said: "Sorry about that". At this point I told many thoughts began to cross my mind. Not wanting to be a girlfriend snatcher I let it pass. We continued chatting. After a few convos she asked me: "Hope you're not hurt ?" "About?" (Pretending not to know what she was talking about ): I replied. "About the boyfriend stuff? "
"Nah...why should I?"
"But I have feelings for you and would have really like if we could work out I'm sorry ".
"Now I'm going to cry in my pillow for weeks (I said jokingly )".
"Lol. You're funny ".
"Do me a favour ".
"what ?"
"You're going to be responsible for getting me the second most beautiful and amazing girl now that I can not have you".
"Lol ".
Long story short, she began trying to convince me to give it a try. Telling me how her boyfriend stays outside town and how they only see once in a while. I let her know that I can't share my woman with another man, how I can't be the side guy. She kept insisting telling me to trust her. I still let her know that more than affection I need comitment and how it's impossible to be commited to two people and all the emotional baggage that comes with it (having witness a similar scenario ). She told me to pretend I didn't know about another man in her life. She kept insisting. I then asked: "If you have a boyfriend what that make me?"
"Boyfriend": she replied. We kept going back and forth about the scenario until I told her to forget it as I cannot be a "Backup plan". She claimed I did not care about her feelings.
The following evening her roommate called me asking me what I did to her friend and how she had been crying all evening. I felt bad and asked to meet so we could talk things over. I eventually agreed to date her giving her the following terms :
1. That she figures which of us she's going to continue with and a day will come when she has to decide or it's over.
2. That she never brings him up whenever we're together.
She was very happy and took the offer. Things got off to a great start. Time went on and we increasingly got fon of each other.
The first day we kissed, she told me she was feeling guilty. Trying not to be a drama queen, I reacted cooly. I just reminded her about our agreement of not bringing stuff like that up. She cries any time we have sextet and as time went on I made her feel comfortable about sex.
The relationship went on. We had fights, we reconciled every time like every other normal relationship.
A few days ago when she was supposed to leave town to her family for the Christmas, we had our goodbye sex and all that. We said our 'byes' and 'i miss you(s)' & parted ways. Latter that evening, she called me and was crying over the phone. I told her to calm down and tell me what the matter was. She told me that what she did with me earlier in the day, she did with the other guy. My heart shattred. I was so furious and didn't know what to say. I just ended the call. She kept calling and texting to apologise saying she won't bring him up again and that she needed someone to talk to at that point that's why she called. Ignored her for a while then I replied her; if she wants us to work out, she we have to meet up and talk about our relationship should be ideally. But she seems not to be able to make up her mind. I feel this is a typical case of trying to eat your cake and have it.
What do I do?

Guy u c ehn, now is d right tym to introduce her to ur parents.. Just introduce her to your parents and finish what u hve started...

Girlfriend snatcher!

Me sef just comot for this kind situation sef... But wetin pain me pass be say I no chop the girl kpekus.... She no gree lemme enter....

Now she dey talk say she wan see me, I just snub her cos I no fit dey kiss only dey touch Bobby....

Na to enter the real koko

gidimasters:
Me sef just comot for this kind situation sef... But wetin pain me pass be say I no chop the girl kpekus

when u no enta d situation, how u take comot from am?

TheMan001:
when u no enta d situation, how u take comot from am?

Bro I meant me sef just wise up from this kind stuff...

She get bf but she no Wan break up...


ME. Don. Dey form. Bf but I just dey deceive myself....


Now I don turn full time heart player and breaker

op the best advice i can give is this sit her down have chat with her , tell u cant continue to date her since she is seeing someone else. It is either she pick u or the guy. If she picks u forgive her for whatever she might have done in d past and move on with her. if she picks d guy fine move on too nd forget about her . And mind u she can pick u and still be with d guy if u find out just end d relationship. Dont do things out of pity for her because u wont be able to move on with ur life.

Well my little 1kobo.... The girl wasn't interested in a long thing..she want to just have fun... Like serious good Bleep... But you Bleep it up...

Go get a real girlfriend so you guys can equate the shit..

But before you do ehn... Woli Arole need to do deliverance for you make mumu-love clear from your body and soul.

Because im not sure if na the babe you love abi Someone love the puussyyy

gidimasters:
Me sef just comot for this kind situation sef... But wetin pain me pass be say I no chop the girl kpekus.... She no gree lemme enter....

Now she dey talk say she wan see me, I just snub her cos I no fit dey kiss only dey touch Bobby....

Na to enter the real koko

so na only touch u touch d bobby... u nor even suck am sef... nawa oh... na him b say d girl want make u come start to dey suck her bobby (d left one) b4 she go come know wetin to do with u.

Guy run for ur dear life oooo Guy run for ur dear life oooo Guy run for ur dear life oooo

TheMan001:
so na only touch u touch d bobby... u nor even suck am sef... nawa oh... na him b say d girl want make u come start to dey suck her bobby (d left one) b4 she go come know wetin to do with u.

I'm sure gidimaster no tell the babe wetin she want hear or he wasn't touching her right... And the babe be like "you're scratching the boooobs Na, you no cut ur nails?"

gidimasters:
Bro I meant me sef just wise up from this kind stuff...

She get bf but she no Wan break up...


ME. Don. Dey form. Bf but I just dey deceive myself....


Now I don turn full time heart player and breaker

u b player come be breaker... u b Shaquille O'neal? Even Shaq no break d ball wen him dey play... u neva wise up anything, u neva evn start to know anything before u go come talk about wise up... better dey pray every morning make God give u ur own before u find dat special someone and play and break ur heart again instead of hers. come how old r u sef?

goingape:
someone will heavily bombard your daughter's an.us and dump her sorry ass.
and the process will keep going on with your female family members

keep going ape and stop talking nonsense....its poor peasants like you that girls deceive.... mumu

CoolVoice:
I'm sure gidimaster no tell the babe wetin she want hear or he wasn't touching her right... And the babe be like "you're scratching the boooobs Na, you no cut ur nails?"

If dis b d case, all I can say is EYAH!

caukerzee:
Well it goes like this; I met this girl some months ago. I instantly had a liking for her reason being that she looked so much like an old friend. We got talking and as time went on, feelings began to set it. I made my intentions clear to her about wanting to date her and she was like "let's see how it goes". We hung out a couple of times, from the signs I was getting it became obvious that she was intrested in me.
One night we got chatting on whatsApp after we came back from an outing. I asked her: "hope you had fun today? " she replied: "yes. Thanks for making my day. It was generally a good day except that I'm having issues with my boyfriend ". ["Did I just hear boyfriend ?"; I said in my mind] Trying to play it cool I said: "Sorry about that". At this point I told many thoughts began to cross my mind. Not wanting to be a girlfriend snatcher I let it pass. We continued chatting. After a few convos she asked me: "Hope you're not hurt ?" "About?" (Pretending not to know what she was talking about ): I replied. "About the boyfriend stuff? "
"Nah...why should I?"
"But I have feelings for you and would have really like if we could work out I'm sorry ".
"Now I'm going to cry in my pillow for weeks (I said jokingly )".
"Lol. You're funny ".
"Do me a favour ".
"what ?"
"You're going to be responsible for getting me the second most beautiful and amazing girl now that I can not have you".
"Lol ".
Long story short, she began trying to convince me to give it a try. Telling me how her boyfriend stays outside town and how they only see once in a while. I let her know that I can't share my woman with another man, how I can't be the side guy. She kept insisting telling me to trust her. I still let her know that more than affection I need comitment and how it's impossible to be commited to two people and all the emotional baggage that comes with it (having witness a similar scenario ). She told me to pretend I didn't know about another man in her life. She kept insisting. I then asked: "If you have a boyfriend what that make me?"
"Boyfriend": she replied. We kept going back and forth about the scenario until I told her to forget it as I cannot be a "Backup plan". She claimed I did not care about her feelings.
The following evening her roommate called me asking me what I did to her friend and how she had been crying all evening. I felt bad and asked to meet so we could talk things over. I eventually agreed to date her giving her the following terms :
1. That she figures which of us she's going to continue with and a day will come when she has to decide or it's over.
2. That she never brings him up whenever we're together.
She was very happy and took the offer. Things got off to a great start. Time went on and we increasingly got fon of each other.
The first day we kissed, she told me she was feeling guilty. Trying not to be a drama queen, I reacted cooly. I just reminded her about our agreement of not bringing stuff like that up. She cries any time we have sextet and as time went on I made her feel comfortable about sex.
The relationship went on. We had fights, we reconciled every time like every other normal relationship.
A few days ago when she was supposed to leave town to her family for the Christmas, we had our goodbye sex and all that. We said our 'byes' and 'i miss you(s)' & parted ways. Latter that evening, she called me and was crying over the phone. I told her to calm down and tell me what the matter was. She told me that what she did with me earlier in the day, she did with the other guy. My heart shattred. I was so furious and didn't know what to say. I just ended the call. She kept calling and texting to apologise saying she won't bring him up again and that she needed someone to talk to at that point that's why she called. Ignored her for a while then I replied her; if she wants us to work out, she we have to meet up and talk about our relationship should be ideally. But she seems not to be able to make up her mind. I feel this is a typical case of trying to eat your cake and have it.
What do I do?

Who else thinks the girl is psycho?
Oga, forget her, find someone else.

mizzyboy007:
keep going ape and stop talking nonsense....its poor peasants like you that girls deceive.... mumu

girls can't deceive me! But telling someone to keep banging one ape is another problem!


What kind of advice is that!

Jerrylolo:
i hope the girl's name is not tosin,trust me i have similar issues....the thing is, she is a b*tch ,do wat u can do with her and dump her ass...there is nothing u can say to let her leave the other guy... she just wanna bleep,even wen u leave her,she will find another guy and cont the cycle....so this post go reach fb,oga o

Would you believe if I tell you that I am having a similar issue. We met on Facebook, I liked her instantly but I threw away the thought when I saw that she shows on her profile who she is in a relationship with.

One way thing led to the other and she fell for me. She kept saying she loved me more than her man but would pick her man over me in marriage coz they've gone far and the guy had done lot in her life.

We met and we had fun....she always gush about how good I made her feel. If I call her one thousand times, she's gonna show up but can't marry me. Who cares anyway? Gotta dig till I'm tired.

Wetin dey there? Like another guy never dig my own past ladies while we were still on

Ladies are so confused. Just pity her man. He trusted her and behaving lover boy. How am I at fault when I'm helping her with what she wants.

I know this girl will cheat with other men on her hubby in marriage

mithras:
Who else thinks the girl is psycho?
Oga, forget her, find someone else.

Baba both of em r psychos.. op borrowed someone's property, d property even said goodbye and called him later on to tell him dat she's back with her owner... Watelse does he want from madam property?

akinsmyk:
Would you believe if I tell you that I am having a similar issue. We met on Facebook, I liked her instantly but I threw away the thought when I saw that she shows on her profile who she is in a relationship with.

One way thing led to the other and she fell for me. She kept saying she loved me more than her man but would pick her man over me in marriage coz they've gone far and the guy had done lot in her life.

We met and we had fun....she always gush about how good I made her feel. If I call her one thousand times, she's gonna show up but can't marry me. Who cares anyway? Gotta dig till I'm tired.

Wetin dey there? Like another guy never dig my own past ladies while we were still on

Ladies are so confused. Just pity her man. He trusted her and behaving lover boy. How am I at fault when I'm helping her with what she wants.

I know this girl will cheat with other men on her hubby in marriage

Is her name Tosin?

caukerzee:
Well it goes like this; I met this girl some months ago. I instantly had a liking for her reason being that she looked so much like an old friend. We got talking and as time went on, feelings began to set it. I made my intentions clear to her about wanting to date her and she was like "let's see how it goes". We hung out a couple of times, from the signs I was getting it became obvious that she was intrested in me.
One night we got chatting on whatsApp after we came back from an outing. I asked her: "hope you had fun today? " she replied: "yes. Thanks for making my day. It was generally a good day except that I'm having issues with my boyfriend ". ["Did I just hear boyfriend ?"; I said in my mind] Trying to play it cool I said: "Sorry about that". At this point I told many thoughts began to cross my mind. Not wanting to be a girlfriend snatcher I let it pass. We continued chatting. After a few convos she asked me: "Hope you're not hurt ?" "About?" (Pretending not to know what she was talking about ): I replied. "About the boyfriend stuff? "
"Nah...why should I?"
"But I have feelings for you and would have really like if we could work out I'm sorry ".
"Now I'm going to cry in my pillow for weeks (I said jokingly )".
"Lol. You're funny ".
"Do me a favour ".
"what ?"
"You're going to be responsible for getting me the second most beautiful and amazing girl now that I can not have you".
"Lol ".
Long story short, she began trying to convince me to give it a try. Telling me how her boyfriend stays outside town and how they only see once in a while. I let her know that I can't share my woman with another man, how I can't be the side guy. She kept insisting telling me to trust her. I still let her know that more than affection I need comitment and how it's impossible to be commited to two people and all the emotional baggage that comes with it (having witness a similar scenario ). She told me to pretend I didn't know about another man in her life. She kept insisting. I then asked: "If you have a boyfriend what that make me?"
"Boyfriend": she replied. We kept going back and forth about the scenario until I told her to forget it as I cannot be a "Backup plan". She claimed I did not care about her feelings.
The following evening her roommate called me asking me what I did to her friend and how she had been crying all evening. I felt bad and asked to meet so we could talk things over. I eventually agreed to date her giving her the following terms :
1. That she figures which of us she's going to continue with and a day will come when she has to decide or it's over.
2. That she never brings him up whenever we're together.
She was very happy and took the offer. Things got off to a great start. Time went on and we increasingly got fon of each other.
The first day we kissed, she told me she was feeling guilty. Trying not to be a drama queen, I reacted cooly. I just reminded her about our agreement of not bringing stuff like that up. She cries any time we have sextet and as time went on I made her feel comfortable about sex.
The relationship went on. We had fights, we reconciled every time like every other normal relationship.
A few days ago when she was supposed to leave town to her family for the Christmas, we had our goodbye sex and all that. We said our 'byes' and 'i miss you(s)' & parted ways. Latter that evening, she called me and was crying over the phone. I told her to calm down and tell me what the matter was. She told me that what she did with me earlier in the day, she did with the other guy. My heart shattred. I was so furious and didn't know what to say. I just ended the call. She kept calling and texting to apologise saying she won't bring him up again and that she needed someone to talk to at that point that's why she called. Ignored her for a while then I replied her; if she wants us to work out, she we have to meet up and talk about our relationship should be ideally. But she seems not to be able to make up her mind. I feel this is a typical case of trying to eat your cake and have it.
What do I do?

o really?

What a genius you are