₦airaland Forum

ayinba1:
As a woman and it is natural that I feel sad that my husband takes a new wife, whether he smiles, laughs or frowns at the ceremony. However, I have a different approach to it. The wedding day is for the new bride and his countenance honors the new wife more than dishonoring the current ( not old ) wife. The new wife is nervous of course because she will never have the "joy" of having her husband to herself alone and this union becomes a union of 3. But she is going into it with as much courage and joy as she could.

This is tough but until we all start to regard everything we have - health, wealth, children, kids, friends etc as gifts from Allah, we would have a really tough time dealing with events pertaining to loss/reduction.

Our muslim brothers (or men) want to practice the sunnah of polygamy, yet some do not offer tahajjud, nor have the kind manners that are sunnah. This is one quick sunnah a lot of them are eager to fulfil but it also begs to the very nature of man.

For married sisters, do your very best in keeping your part of the deal in a marriage. Men do complain about women adding weight once they start having kids, (yes, I know they put on weight too), some complain that the wife is not comfortable when their relatives visit, while they do not mind the wife's relatives visiting. Other complaints include lack of intimacy, nagging,. Please if you work, do not become responsible for household expenses ( Basics) Islamically, let the man do what he is required to do. You only play a silent supportive role. Don't work so hard that you are exhausted when he requests for action because men will ask.
Please note that the complaints listed above do not get fixed with the addition of new wife

bntY:
Thanks for ur contribution, @ all.
...Sissie, you dont think you will be makin dis section of d land 'arid' by diverting discussion to our mobiles?

bntY:
Thanks for ur contribution, @ all.
...Sissie, you dont think you will be makin dis section of d land 'arid' by diverting discussion to our mobiles?

snapscore:
Anyone willing to keep the thread going

Zeinymira:
Let's do it

snapscore:
Yay!!

This made me really happy because I feel like there aren't a lot of sisters in this section.

Zeinymira:
There are lots of Muslim sisters on NL.........some of them use to be active while some just read threads and leave

Zeinymira:
There are lots of Muslim sisters on NL.........some of them use to be active while some just read threads and leave

demmy66:
passing by... ema salamu alaykum ni bi oooooo

snapscore:
I want to meet them .

I feel like it'd be nice to have like a community of sisters but I don't know how to reach out to them.

Zeinymira:
Ehmm... we could start by mentioning them

snapscore:
Salam alaikum sisters,

How easy is it to get a maxi cardigan that doesn't show the shape of the arm?

Zeinymira:
walaykum salaam

You will have to buy an oversize........ or sew one

snapscore:
I have looked for oversize tire... All the ones I saw would stick to my arms regardless the size. I think it has to do with the material.

I never really thought about sewing. I guess I'll have to consider that.

Jazakallu khyran

Btw how are doing today?

Zeinymira:
wa antum fa jazakumullahu khayran.

I'm good..... alhamdulillah and you?

zayhal:
As-Salam Alaykum Warahmatullah Wabarakatuh sisters.

Good job you're doing keeping the forum alive. Keep it up.

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HayatH pinkdiamondz k4kenny

Salam alaykum sisters,

How are you doing?

snapscore:
Salam alaikum sisters,

How easy is it to get a maxi cardigan that doesn't show the shape of the arm?

Sissie:
Wa alaikun salam.


You can buy a bat wing maxi cardigan

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HayatH pinkdiamondz k4kenny

Salam alaykum sisters,

How are you doing?

HayatH:
Walakmu Asalaam ukhti! I'm going to admit, I lurk a lot lol so I barely post anything but it would be nice to keep this thread active

snapscore:
Salam alaikaum Zeinymira and zarinaain
How are you doing?

snapscore:
Salam alaikaum Zeinymira and zarinaain

How are you doing?