₦airaland Forum

lady2lady:
Shut that thing you call mouth !
The Ladies Point was in coronation to " RIGHT "
And not to " MATERIALISTIC" things !! .. Mtchew

ianSweet:
Mtcheew. Must everyone comment?
Some people just cannot withstand reality.

lady2lady:
oh plss, spare me that .. Who doesn't know women are in politics .. I transfixed my point to "presidential election"
Even in the Bible,God Said Men Go suffer tire .. So it's not a new thing ..
And that's why men mostly carry the burden in some affairs ..
For all I know , "Women are often disregarded"

Xensity:
The woman forgot to mention these:

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to pay for you when you both go out, while you just eat and enjoy.

Because you are a woman, a man is not expected to hit you.

Because you are a woman, it's expected of men to do the physically challenging and strenuous jobs, while you do the easy ones.

Because you are a woman, men are expected to protect you like they were your bodyguards.

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to provide for you and take care of you, even if you can provide and take care of yourself.

Because you are a woman, men are expected to defy their natural programming, take medications, do exercises and practice hard, just to spend an inordinate amount of time pleasing you during sex.

I despise posts like this. The writer is painting a hyperbolic picture of what women experience while demonizing men in the process. She is also victimizing her gender in such a dishonest way, and making it seem like all she said is a true representation of how majority of men view or treat women in our present day.

And I find it quite funny that the minority of women who are actually facing subjugation, like the women in the Taliban, aren't the ones creating this kind of post, it's these trend seeking, brazilian hair-wearing, face-painting, dress-slaying, gadjet-flaunting opportunists that know nothing about their world, and who have it easier than their Nigerian male counterparts, that are the ones passionately championing feminism on social media.

All you feminist apologists should just shut the fuuuck up. There has never been a better time for women in the history of human civilization than now. The world is getting better for your female gender. Fuuucking remove the ideological blindfolds from your eyes and see.

Op, why don't you borrow a time machine and take your disingenuous thread to 18th century Nigeria. That's where it would make sense.

lady2lady:
It's in Nigeria or Africa we see such things , no regard for Woman and they're always disregarded in all things.

It's Only in America and all the rest of them , Woman are Respected.
They have equal rights etc

It's only in abroad that you'll see a Woman Take a Man out and Pay the Bills.

It's Only in Abroad that you will see Woman contest for presidential Elections. But Here In Nigeria , We're often told we know nothing and can't rule.

#God Help Us

Mcowubaba:


On topic, I solidly stand by my stance on Feminism and gender equality in Nigeria.
My stance is that most Nigerian Feminist or gender equality activists are obviously deluded in no small way.

I can't be equal with a girl that demands so much from me, how can u girls beg us for almost everything, then turn around to claim equality with us......

elitejosef:
#copied#

I AM A WOMAN!!! -

So what?
I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.

I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.

Because I am a woman, I don't have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality.....

Because I am a woman, my husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ''it is in their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him"

I cheat, and I am called a LovePeddler, I have committed an abomination, I have no right to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support I lack at home, I am an irresponsible mother.

So I am sent packing, from the home we both built, with all my earthly possessions stuffed into a tiny box on my head. I am henceforth forbidden from seeing my two older children, I'm lucky to be allowed to go with my little one still suckling on my left breast. Three years later, the little one is tagged a bastard. Now, my new name is "after-three", because I am a woman.

He is 28 and runs a company. He's tagged wonderful, hardworking, focused, career oriented, successful at a very young age.

I am 28 and I run a company " Hmmmm, she is not even married, unserious, can not order her priorities right, a hustler, loves money, let her go and get a husband oh"
And I wonder if being successful has anything to do with a person's gender.

Because I am a woman,
I am not allowed to have wits or be a prodigy, I cannot be financially buoyant, professionally successful or be treated with respect without a man beside me.

Then I am tagged a generous leg opener, "a runs girl". They never see the possibility that I actually had to go through ups and downs to get to where I am.
Because I am a woman.

A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he's being praised and congratulated for moving on, afterall life is for the living.

A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs, "ahhh! so early? Are u sure she wasn't sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. She's a witch! " Because she's a woman.

Because I am a woman, this post will be considered controversial, and everyone will try to correct me.
But don't forget, that I am a woman and it does not make me less human!!! Happy new year.

lady2lady:
Shut that thing you call mouth !
The Ladies Point was in coronation to " RIGHT "
And not to " MATERIALISTIC" things !! .. Mtchew

ay4shizzy:
u go skool so..u dy lnsult naija women na..u don pay man bill before..olodo

Xensity:
The woman forgot to mention these:

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to pay for you when you both go out, while you just eat and enjoy.

Because you are a woman, a man is not expected to hit you.

Because you are a woman, it's expected of men to do the physically challenging and strenuous jobs, while you do the easy ones.

Because you are a woman, men are expected to protect you like they were your bodyguards.

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to provide for you and take care of you, even if you can provide and take care of yourself.

Because you are a woman, men are expected to defy their natural programming, take medications, do exercises and practice hard, just to spend an inordinate amount of time pleasing you during sex.

I despise posts like this. The writer is painting a hyperbolic picture of what women experience while demonizing men in the process. She is also victimizing her gender in such a dishonest way, and making it seem like all she said is a true representation of how majority of men view or treat women in our present day.

And I find it quite funny that the minority of women who are actually facing subjugation, like the women in the Taliban, aren't the ones creating this kind of post, it's these trend seeking, brazilian hair-wearing, face-painting, dress-slaying, gadjet-flaunting opportunists that know nothing about their world, and who have it easier than their Nigerian male counterparts, that are the ones passionately championing feminism on social media.

All you feminist apologists should just shut the fuuuck up. There has never been a better time for women in the history of human civilization than now. The world is getting better for your female gender. Fuuucking remove the ideological blindfolds from your eyes and see.

Op, why don't you borrow a time machine and take your disingenuous thread to 18th century Nigeria. That's where it would make sense.

Respect55:
Why are u quoting me young lady? Why ? Am I the cause of ur frustration? Why not direct ur pathetic nature to the actual cause and fuuuckk off my post.

Right my foot. Who is denying u of one. Try to garner respect and recognition by engaging ur self in fruitful and legitimate deals and see all the respect u dire desire all over u and not to stay at home and wait for one man to come back from work and feed u as if u a disabled

MarieSucre:
So she's painting it like majority of men of view women like this??

So its not a majority of men that view women like this? Hmmmnnnn

You're right that women have it better. But did they just magically have it better?? Some people had to fight to for these rights that make the plight of women of this century "better".

Instead of trying to shut her up, why not join the fight? Afterall you agree that some "minority of men" are like this. You would do a lot of good talking to them man-to-man.

And the women under Taliban are being oppressed by men. This is not a fight between feminist and Taliban men but between Men and Men.

Pls I urge you to stand up to the Taliban. They are MEN like you, they would understand your language better than some physically weak, financially dependant, INFERIOR women. Thanks.

AngelsAndStars:
the same Bible says women should not speak where men gather(church,etc).

same Bible allows men marry more than one wives.

same Bible asks us to lead you while you support.

last time I checked, kowa candidate was a woman. did you vote for her?

abegi make I see road

MrsMurphy:
But when we start voicing out, we will be tagged feminist.




Check my signature

So, what's really bad in being feminist?

lady2lady:
oh plss, spare me that .. Who doesn't know women are in politics .. I transfixed my point to "presidential election"
Even in the Bible,God Said Men Go suffer tire .. So it's not a new thing ..
And that's why men mostly carry the burden in some affairs ..
For all I know , "Women are often disregarded"

AngelsAndStars:
you are the one that needs to shut up

she carefully picked the disadvantages of being a woman and left out the benefit. give us some credit for Christ sake.

things were not like this year's ago.

now I know why our fore fathers treated women that way. you are ungrateful beings. you do not say the good changes this generation has made, you always want more more more,

just look at your American society, women now push men out of their homes. even at that they are not satisfied.

our fore fathers were right. you people deserve what you get.

lady2lady:
Your level of perception is so low , to the extent you didn't understand a single thing I said !
What makes you think I was insulting women in that writeup? You're so dumb ..

And for calling mee " Olodo " .. Ion blame you ..
But you're a BIG TIME FAT FOOL !

lady2lady:
Trying to divert the issue ? , You're so dumb!

And for the record, I aint frustrated in any manner or any ground. I'm very independent.

Between .. I'm respected , try to fvck wid me and I'm gonna show ya that I'm Xena .. Mtchew!

MarieSucre:
Did you vote for her?

AngelsAndStars:
because you are a woman, we pay bride price and buy engagement ring and kneel for you. you no complain.

fools

lady2lady:
Trying to divert the issue ? , You're so dumb!

And for the record, I aint frustrated in any manner or any ground. I'm very independent.

Between .. I'm respected , try to fvck wid me and I'm gonna show ya that I'm Xena .. Mtchew!

Omeny:
Do u want to be a man?

Come on, where did this generation women got this madness from?

Our women has collected everything from us yet not satisfied.

What do they really want for God sake?

Mcowubaba:
Nobody stops or mocks a female presidential aspirant in Nigeria, in the last Nigerian Presidential election, Mrs Remi Sonaiya of Kowa party contested against GEJ and Buhari, why didn't you girls rally around for her and Vote her en masse

U can't expect her to be given the presidential position on a platter of gold, simply because she is a woman she has to work for it, with proper good politics, Alliance and campaign strategies, who knows maybe she may have come out successful.

U ladies just want opportunities and respect to be given to you because you have the mentality that you are specially made for good things Lie

Work for it, hustle hard, harder.

Women disregard themselves, how many women supports their wealthy husbands.

Personally, most of the Nigerian girls I have mingled with are all Leeches, the always demand excessively and can NEVER buy anything nice for Me, despite my many expenses on their behalf..

I can't support FEMINISM in Nigeria, especially the type of Feminism Nigerian girls are propagating..
You lots wants to eat your cake and have, play the Gender card when it favors you, then play the "I am a lady" when it doesn't favor you.

Deluded persons...

ianSweet:
Who collects the bride price? Is it not the same father and uncles? More foolish

seggzz:
(1) Is there any law against women raping men in Nigeria? At least we have almost equal number of cases women rape men.

(2) You see men deployed in death threatening position in the oil industry or anywhere compare to the female. You can see them occupying major offices than men.

(3) females are more likely to be promoted than men. Do you the reason?

(4) I'm not saying women don't also do petty jobs but who pays the bride price? why can't the female pay groom price? male is equally important as you do to your parents.

(5) females got rights to vote, to work, to earn but then they still don't want to accept reality - with greater power comes greater responsibility. I don't mean "raising the children, chores" etc.

What type of inequality are you talking about? There are things females are more favoured than men Nigeria. That is the simple truth!

jericco1:
ok kudos. but you guys want to be equal with your male counterparts?

Xensity:
The woman forgot to mention these:

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to pay for you when you both go out, while you just eat and enjoy.

Because you are a woman, a man is not expected to hit you.

Because you are a woman, it's expected of men to do the physically challenging and strenuous jobs, while you do the easy ones.

Because you are a woman, men are expected to protect you like they were your bodyguards.

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to provide for you and take care of you, even if you can provide and take care of yourself.

Because you are a woman, men are expected to defy their natural programming, take medications, do exercises and practice hard, just to spend an inordinate amount of time pleasing you during sex.

I despise posts like this. The writer is painting a hyperbolic picture of what women experience while demonizing men in the process. She is also victimizing her gender in such a dishonest way, and making it seem like all she said is a true representation of how majority of men view or treat women in our present day.

And I find it quite funny that the minority of women who are actually facing subjugation, like the women in the Taliban, aren't the ones creating this kind of post, it's these trend seeking, brazilian hair-wearing, face-painting, dress-slaying, gadjet-flaunting opportunists that know nothing about their world, and who have it easier than their Nigerian male counterparts, that are the ones passionately championing feminism on social media.

All you feminist apologists should just shut the fuuuck up. There has never been a better time for women in the history of human civilization than now. The world is getting better for your female gender. Fuuucking remove the ideological blindfolds from your eyes and see.

Op, why don't you borrow a time machine and take your disingenuous thread to 18th century Nigeria. That's where it would make sense.