MrsMurphy:
This is the true definition of what mainly African women go through

Chipappii:

elitejosef:
#copied#

I AM A WOMAN!!! -

So what?
I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.

I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.

Because I am a woman, I don't have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality.....

Because I am a woman, my husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ''it is in their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him"

I cheat, and I am called a LovePeddler, I have committed an abomination, I have no right to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support I lack at home, I am an irresponsible mother.

So I am sent packing, from the home we both built, with all my earthly possessions stuffed into a tiny box on my head. I am henceforth forbidden from seeing my two older children, I'm lucky to be allowed to go with my little one still suckling on my left breast. Three years later, the little one is tagged a bastard. Now, my new name is "after-three", because I am a woman.

He is 28 and runs a company. He's tagged wonderful, hardworking, focused, career oriented, successful at a very young age.

I am 28 and I run a company " Hmmmm, she is not even married, unserious, can not order her priorities right, a hustler, loves money, let her go and get a husband oh"
And I wonder if being successful has anything to do with a person's gender.

Because I am a woman,
I am not allowed to have wits or be a prodigy, I cannot be financially buoyant, professionally successful or be treated with respect without a man beside me.

Then I am tagged a generous leg opener, "a runs girl". They never see the possibility that I actually had to go through ups and downs to get to where I am.
Because I am a woman.

A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he's being praised and congratulated for moving on, afterall life is for the living.

A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs, "ahhh! so early? Are u sure she wasn't sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. She's a witch! " Because she's a woman.

Because I am a woman, this post will be considered controversial, and everyone will try to correct me.
But don't forget, that I am a woman and it does not make me less human!!! Happy new year.

MrsMurphy:
This is the true definition of what mainly African women go through

Jayjay0:

Total rubbish from the start to the end .

Men don't compare our lives to women and we don't try to take or replace them and we have been living fine ever since..ladies should learn the same and not compare or try to be like men cause it make them look stupid..your a woman. Live and act like a woman and watch things happen in your favour

elitejosef:


Only wish it could be moved to front page for some ladies out there to draw strength from

Jayjay0:

Total rubbish from the start to the end .

Men don't compare our lives to women and we don't try to take or replace them and we have been living fine ever since..ladies should learn the same and not compare or try to be like men cause it make them look stupid..your a woman. Live and act like a woman and watch things happen in your favour

Xensity:
You forgot to mention these:

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to pay for you when you both go out, while you just eat and enjoy.

Because you are a woman, a man is not expected to hit you.

Because you are a woman, it's expected of men to do the physically challenging and strenuous jobs, while you do the easy ones.

Because you are a woman, men are expected to protect you like they were your bodyguards.

Because you are a woman, a man is expected to provide for you and take care of you, even if you can provide and take care of yourself.

Because you are a woman, men are expected to defy their natural programming, take medications, do exercises and practice hard, just to spend an inordinate amount of time pleasing you during sex.

I despise threads like this. You are painting a hyperbolic picture of what women experience while demonizing men in the process. You are also victimizing your gender in such a dishonest way, and making it seem like all you said is a true representation of how majority of men view or treat women in our present day.

You feminist apologists should just shut the fuuuck up. There has never been a better time for women in the history of human civilization than now. The world is getting better for your gender. Fuuucking remove the ideological blindfolds from your eyes and see.

Why don't you borrow a time machine and take your disingenuous thread to the 18th century. That's where it would make sense.

elitejosef:
#copied#

I AM A WOMAN!!! -

So what?
I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.

I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.

Because I am a woman, I don't have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality.....

Because I am a woman, my husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ''it is in their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him"

I cheat, and I am called a LovePeddler, I have committed an abomination, I have no right to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support I lack at home, I am an irresponsible mother.

So I am sent packing, from the home we both built, with all my earthly possessions stuffed into a tiny box on my head. I am henceforth forbidden from seeing my two older children, I'm lucky to be allowed to go with my little one still suckling on my left breast. Three years later, the little one is tagged a bastard. Now, my new name is "after-three", because I am a woman.

He is 28 and runs a company. He's tagged wonderful, hardworking, focused, career oriented, successful at a very young age.

I am 28 and I run a company " Hmmmm, she is not even married, unserious, can not order her priorities right, a hustler, loves money, let her go and get a husband oh"
And I wonder if being successful has anything to do with a person's gender.

Because I am a woman,
I am not allowed to have wits or be a prodigy, I cannot be financially buoyant, professionally successful or be treated with respect without a man beside me.

Then I am tagged a generous leg opener, "a runs girl". They never see the possibility that I actually had to go through ups and downs to get to where I am.
Because I am a woman.

A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he's being praised and congratulated for moving on, afterall life is for the living.

A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs, "ahhh! so early? Are u sure she wasn't sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. She's a witch! " Because she's a woman.

Because I am a woman, this post will be considered controversial, and everyone will try to correct me.
But don't forget, that I am a woman and it does not make me less human!!! Happy new year.

MrsMurphy:

But when we start voicing out, we will be tagged feminist.




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MrsMurphy:
This is the true definition of what mainly African women go through

lawrenzi:
If you get into an argument with a man and he slaps you, leave him and never come back into his life. why on earth would a man slap a woman? what kind of man is that? Can you slap a man? If you are wrong in a relationship apologize and don't get things complicated for yourself. Never underestimate the place of ' i am sorry" in your relationship. As a human being, you have a right to be angry, even animals too get angry at some point. Ask my friend Victor Ladi Arantes what his dog did to him. If your husband cheats on you and you are not ok with it, it is advisable you talk to him about it or better still walk away from his life. No body at this stage should tolerate a cheating partner. Even these days women are also guilty of cheating as men too, just that they are more careful with it. you should slim down(for yourself), dress better(for yourself), cook better(for yourself), pray harder(for yourself) and be more pleasant to him(maybe for him), if that is what is required to make your family fabulous why not do it? in as much as he does what you also want. As a human being You should not depend on one partner for all emotional needs, you just have to be careful with the kinds of need you get outside your partner. If at 28 you run a company and you are happy with it, why care about what people are saying, it's your life to live and not their's. After all marriage does not determine a successful life. As a woman you have a right to be successful, rich, be happy and be treated with respect without a man. The truth is that there are ladies who work hard to get their money without the help of any man and there are generous leg opener who got their money through runs or opening legs. It's their life. A man loses his wife after year and remarries, dear it's his choice and a woman remarries after four years, it's his choice too. different strokes for different folks. This post is not controversial because you are a woman, it is controversial because a lot of women are building their reality on some one else's foundation. i am sure this post was copied and this does not apply to you. A lot of ladies have lost happiness because they are trying to act the script written by someone else. Why not write your own script and act it