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omosefeeguaibor:
Nice write up op, the part where you said the boy child is not taught to be a man, don't you think it's because the society we live in today, is tilted in a way that is favorable to the male child hence putting him in an advantageous position, so to whom much is given, a lot is required as well.
Secondly, if you think because you're a man and must follow all these rules, then in the long run, you may end up having issues with your self esteem.
Lastly from what i read so far, it seems you are putting blame on the female folk, rather than the society that has put you in that situation.

CreamyMoltenLar:
My dear I wouldn't mind dating hundreds of ladies and demanding for money from all of them oh. Pls let's turn the table, I think it's high time ladies enjoyed some advantages too

Doctorfitz:
To me the concept of feminism is sexism.... A form of hate against men... Their own,lovers,fathers and brothers

your definition of feminism is flawed asf.

Estharfabian:

your definition of feminism is flawed asf.

Doctorfitz:
What do I expect from a renowned feminist? Flawed statements asf

Touche...

Estharfabian:


Touche...

redbeans:
because i am a man, i can't be tempted to misbehave even when women dress provocatively.

Because i am a man, i have to lift my sorry ass up and struggle for money or face complains.

Because i am a man, i have to 'man up' and toast a girl even when she's feeling the nigga.

Doctorfitz:
Lols... Another major problem... The issue of rape and dressing. Very controversial topic maybe for another day....... Buh shey because I'm a man I should be tempted and not react? Smellymouth,,toks2008 and tosyne2much I need ur opinions.

Doctorfitz:
Exactly my point.... The society has been unjust to men buh we don't cry about it cos crying about it makes u less a man.... Daddy freeze came out the other time complaining about domestic violence what happened? He was mocked and ridiculed Buh so many men go through that and cant talk cos of ego and societal pressure.

tosyne2much:
You're spotted Bro

Anyone that advocates gender equality is just plain silly in my own opinion.... I think women are demanding too much even after several laws have been made to favour women and protect them from harm and dangers in the spciety, yet they still want to attain positions they don't merit just because they have v-jays

The idea of feminism is not really to be given equal opportunities to match up with men but to rub shoulders, cheat on them and perhaps, fight for positions they don't merit

omosefeeguaibor:
Nice write up op, the part where you said the boy child is not taught to be a man, don't you think it's because the society we live in today, is tilted in a way that is favorable to the male child hence putting him in an advantageous position, so to whom much is given, a lot is required as well.
Secondly, if you think because you're a man and must follow all these rules, then in the long run, you may end up having issues with your self esteem.
Lastly from what i read so far, it seems you are putting blame on the female folk, rather than the society that has put you in that situation.

Beamborla:
Tell me which positiond they don't merit.
Examples of their outrageous demands that make their demands too much would be appreciated.
Which law biko? The one that says married women should be left alone to serve close to their family so they can take care of their husbands and kids? When will married men be asked to sever close to their wives and kids? Or the wife is a robot that needs no one to care for her and help with the kids?

Which law? Laws that are made to protect the interest of men in disguise abi?

tosyne2much:
Sometimes, I ask myself what do women really want? So you still have problem with men not being always available to babysit their children as their wives do? The same you will complain that you can't marry a man that can't provide all your needs yet you want that same man to tale the responsibility of a woman's work

Beamborla:
You know you are going off point, right?

tosyne2much:
My dear, no matter how much of your time you devote in advocating gender equality, men will always be above women for as long as the earth exists and no one can change that

Beamborla:
Yes, men undergo pressure, no doubt.

We all point our fingers at the society. The society is 85% what members of your specie make of it. The pressure on men was not introduced by women, you men put it on yourselves. Women are still fighting for their voices to be heard and it's a man's world out there, isn't it? You make rules that are now biting you hard and you can't fight it cos you would be fighting yourselves. You all keep mute about your pains because accepting it would expose your vulnerability thus, putting a dent on your claim of masculinity and authority. Remember how the Catholic Church held on to the earth being flat?

Feminism wouldn't have existed in the first place if women were not being oppressed... Feminism is thriving because women are not their own undoing. How would you convince a child who grew up to see his or her father treating the mother like a slave that feminism is evil? Yes, men also get such treatment but the women learnt from somewhere, a good number of then are reacting to smth and there are few plain devils. Up-to 6 in every 10 wives are being maltreated by the husband while for the men, at most 2:10.

The thread you wrote this to counter have got nothing to do with feminism. It's just that whenever someone stands up to demand that the society be fair to women, she's automatically becomes a feminist and should be hushed. Another reason why feminism will continue to thrive.

When you constantly maltreat a sheep it would one day turn to fight for its freedom. That's what is happening today. A good number of you don't even understand what feminism is all about and the few who understands just don't see any reason why they should let go of the leash. Very few men really grasp the concept.

The more you fight and ridicule the movement, the stronger it becomes... Why do even feel threatened because women are asking for equality?

tosyne2much:
You're spotted Bro

Anyone that advocates gender equality is just plain silly in my own opinion.... I think women are demanding too much even after several laws have been made to favour women and protect them from harm and dangers in the society, yet they still want to attain positions they don't merit just because they have v-jays

The idea of feminism is not really to be given equal opportunities to match up with men but to rub shoulders, cheat on them and perhaps, fight for positions they don't merit

Beamborla:
Yes, men undergo pressure, no doubt.

We all point our fingers at the society. The society is 85% what members of your specie make of it. The pressure on men was not introduced by women, you men put it on yourselves. Women are still fighting for their voices to be heard and it's a man's world out there, isn't it? You make rules that are now biting you hard and you can't fight it cos you would be fighting yourselves. You all keep mute about your pains because accepting it would expose your vulnerability thus, putting a dent on your claim of masculinity and authority. Remember how the Catholic Church held on to the earth being flat?

Feminism wouldn't have existed in the first place if women were not being oppressed... Feminism is thriving because women are not their own undoing. How would you convince a child who grew up to see his or her father treating the mother like a slave that feminism is evil? Yes, men also get such treatment but the women learnt from somewhere, a good number of then are reacting to smth and there are few plain devils. Up-to 6 in every 10 wives are being maltreated by the husband while for the men, at most 2:10.

The thread you wrote this to counter have got nothing to do with feminism. It's just that whenever someone stands up to demand that the society be fair to women, she's automatically becomes a feminist and should be hushed. Another reason why feminism will continue to thrive.

When you constantly maltreat a sheep it would one day turn to fight for its freedom. That's what is happening today. A good number of you don't even understand what feminism is all about and the few who understands just don't see any reason why they should let go of the leash. Very few men really grasp the concept.

The more you fight and ridicule the movement, the stronger it becomes... Why do even feel threatened because women are asking for equality?

Doctorfitz:
Ur arguments are biased and myopic, do u know how many men get battered by their wives and their children have to grow up watching that?...... When you were growing up was it ur dad that was breastfeeding u? Do men naturally produce milk during and after delivery?... Nature made it a woman's job.



Soon y'all will want pregnancy transferred to men that naturally don't have a uterus...... Where the heck are you getting ur 85percent statistics and other values from?...



U have no arguments.... The write up is to enlighten folks like u and several other over demanding women with the wrong and common perception.

Doctorfitz:
My sister u have said nothing and it's obvious u are sexist a. K. A feminist..... Relax and read the write up one more time to get a good understanding.

tosyne2much:
Na so the tin be ooo my brother

tosyne2much:
You're spotted Bro

Anyone that advocates gender equality is just plain silly in my own opinion.... I think women are demanding too much even after several laws have been made to favour women and protect them from harm and dangers in the society, yet they still want to attain positions they don't merit just because they have v-jays

The idea of feminism is not really to be given equal opportunities to match up with men but to rub shoulders, cheat on them and perhaps, fight for positions they don't merit

Doctorfitz:
Almost every law favours women and they still want more?

1bkaye:
Could you please state some of these laws?

tosyne2much:
Laws of Moses

Pheals:
two sides of a coin! guys with counter thread since the days of fumilayo ransom kuti

thesuave10:
Honestly, men really do have it hard on themselves. The list is endless. However I think it's Society's fault