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Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Nobody: 3:00am On Jan 08, 2017
JoaquinElChapo:
tel us what is written in d bible maam fortune teller
I am using another example to get the poster to think, but here is the verse for your viewing. This is a clear example of people who can and cannot marry. They were DESTINED to not marry due to their circumstances. Some will not want to accept this because it makes them fear for themselves.

11 Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, [but only those to whom it has been given. 12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.”
Matthew 19:11-13
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Nobody: 3:02am On Jan 08, 2017
FortuneTeller:
I am using another example to get the poster to think, but here is the verse for your viewing. This is a clear example of people who can and cannot marry. They were DESTINED to not marry due to their circumstances. Some will not want to accept this because it makes them fear for themselves.

11 Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, [but only those to whom it has been given. 12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.”
Matthew 19:11-13
I don't understand d passage tho
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Nobody: 3:09am On Jan 08, 2017
JoaquinElChapo:
I don't understand d passage tho
What part do you not understand?
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Nobody: 3:11am On Jan 08, 2017
FortuneTeller:
What part do you not understand?
the bible passage
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Nobody: 3:13am On Jan 08, 2017
JoaquinElChapo:
the bible passage
I am not a primary school teacher, so I'm asking you specifically what you don't understand. I will add the preceding verse to see if it helps you.


10 The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.”
11 Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. 12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.”
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Nobody: 3:18am On Jan 08, 2017
FortuneTeller:
I am not a primary school teacher, so I'm asking you specifically what you don't understand. I will add the preceding verse to see if it helps you.


10 The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.”
11 Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. 12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.”
I hardly understand the bible. I read it like its novel. So I can't relate those verses to what op is saying
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Talk2Bella(op): 5:01am On Jan 08, 2017
SafeDavid:
You should do something about your voice recording tho' Its not so loud.

By the way, who does your make-up
About the audio will check that out smiley

As for the makeup grin Me
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by SafeDavid(m): 10:53am On Jan 08, 2017
Talk2Bella:
About the audio will check that out smiley
As for the makeup grin Me
Be kind to ff back for a Pm
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Talk2Bella(op): 10:58am On Jan 08, 2017
SafeDavid:
Be kind to ff back for a Pm
Alright
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Collyno82(m): 11:15am On Jan 08, 2017
FortuneTeller:
You say you believe that being married is a choice. Being that you are a Nigerian living in Nigeria, do you believe this verse?

7 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye
shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:
8 For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh
findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.
Matthew 7:7–8
Dearest FortuneTeller, I have asked you to send me your pretty face to no u genuinely from my heart but haven't received anything from you
l have seek to love you but I have found nothing
I have knock severally at the door of ur heart but you have not opened.
pls dear let this word of God have expression in our lives n come to fruition n fulfilment. I no we are not destined to be unmarried but the choice we make determines our status, for we are the architect of our own fortune.
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Nobody: 12:39pm On Jan 08, 2017
Collyno82:
Dearest FortuneTeller, I have asked you to send me your pretty face to no u genuinely from my heart but haven't received anything from you
l have seek to love you but I have found nothing
I have knock severally at the door of ur heart but you have not opened.
pls dear let this word of God have expression in our lives n come to fruition n fulfilment. I no we are not destined to be unmarried but the choice we make determines our status, for we are the architect of our own fortune.
It seems the scripture won't be fulfilled. Do you still believe it with all your heart? My dear we are DESTINED to never cross paths in our lives.
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Collyno82(m): 4:06pm On Jan 08, 2017
FortuneTeller:
It seems the scripture won't be fulfilled. Do you still believe it with all your heart? My dear we are DESTINED to never cross paths in our lives.
Hahaha really. U are wrong. Impossiblility only exist in the mind of an unbeliever. I no ur not an unbeliever. So is possible, we will cross one day. Happy Sunday
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Nobody: 4:25pm On Jan 08, 2017
Collyno82:
Hahaha really. U are wrong. Impossiblility only exist in the mind of an unbeliever. I no ur not an unbeliever. So is possible, we will cross one day. Happy Sunday
You really don't know what I believe because I have never said it fully. When you are 80 years old and we have not crossed paths, what will you say? All the whole of Nigeria is praying and things are only getting worse. The Bible speaks of the chosen people. If you believe in everything the Bible says, then you also believe that not everyone is chosen to be blessed. Someone asked the question why America is blessed and Nigeria is cursed. You may ask the question why some women will marry and others will not. Is it destiny or a choice?
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Collyno82(m): 4:56pm On Jan 08, 2017
FortuneTeller:
You really don't know what I believe because I have never said it fully. When you are 80 years old and we have not crossed paths, what will you say? All the whole of Nigeria is praying and things are only getting worse. The Bible speaks of the chosen people. If you believe in everything the Bible says, then you also believe that not everyone is chosen to be blessed. Someone asked the question why America is blessed and Nigeria is cursed. You may ask the question why some women will marry and others will not. Is it destiny or a choice?
Dat all the whole Nigeria is praying and things are getting worse doesn't mean that prayers are not effective to turn things around. Let me tell America is not bless & Nigeria is not cursed but the defining factor is our actions n inaction (circumstances). On the other hand God has not chosen anyone. The Bible said I have given you life n death, CHOOSE life that you may live. In this regard the choice is ours. Why some women will marry and others will not is not Destiny but are caused by a legion of factors like choice, circumstances and above all the Bible said that time n chance happeneth to them all. Dear nobody is destined to be unmarried but even U.
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Nobody: 5:37pm On Jan 08, 2017
Benita27:
Crap! Crap!! Crap!!!.

Can't you drive home your point and not bring in pastors?, "marriage is a sham", but you hope to someday.
I just knew your asss was small
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jan 08, 2017
Collyno82:
Dat all the whole Nigeria is praying and things are getting worse doesn't mean that prayers are not effective to turn things around. Let me tell America is not bless & Nigeria is not cursed but the defining factor is our actions n inaction (circumstances). On the other hand God has not chosen anyone. The Bible said I have given you life n death, CHOOSE life that you may live. In this regard the choice is ours. Why some women will marry and others will not is not Destiny but are caused by a legion of factors like choice, circumstances and above all the Bible said that time n chance happeneth to them all. Dear nobody is destined to be unmarried but even U.
Nigeria is more religious than the US, yet the US prospers while Nigeria... Does that make sense to you? If you believe the Bible then you believe in the chosen people. Everyone in Nigeria has been steadily asking, but very few have received. Is this destiny as it is the destiny of some never to marry?

"For you are a people holy to the LORD your God. The LORD your God has chosen you out of all the peoples on the face of the earth to be his people, his treasured possession."
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Elxandre(m): 9:26pm On Jan 08, 2017
the same bullshitt advice Toke Makinwa kept giving, even though she was literally grovelling at the feet of an open womaniser for over a decade.
Take relationship advice from women with a pinch of salt.
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by DrtroubleM: 8:07am On Jan 09, 2017
Talk2Bella:
Alright
Hey beware of that guy. He is known scammer and stalker here..

https://www.nairaland.com/3545143/nairalanders-beware-scammer-david-ojo#52429305
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Talk2Bella(op): 9:25am On Jan 09, 2017
DrtroubleM:
Hey beware of that guy. He is known scammer and stalker here..

https://www.nairaland.com/3545143/nairalanders-beware-scammer-david-ojo#52429305
Thanks dear smiley
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by Collyno82(m): 9:51am On Jan 09, 2017
FortuneTeller:
Nigeria is more religious than the US, yet the US prospers while Nigeria... Does that make sense to you? If you believe the Bible then you believe in the chosen people. Everyone in Nigeria has been steadily asking, but very few have received. Is this destiny as it is the destiny of some never to marry?

"For you are a people holy to the LORD your God. The LORD your God has chosen you out of all the peoples on the face of the earth to be his people, his treasured possession."
Religion is not a panacea for economic growth & development but right policies & good implemention are the basis for attaining greatness, China n other Asian tigers as a case study. Are u saying that Nigeria as a country n a people is not chosen with its abundant natural resources. If you say so ur not serious n sincere. I am yet to see a nation as blessed by God as Nigeria but some circumstances ranging from amalgamation n colonization, corruption n bad leaders dealt a bad blow to the country. I still maintain that nobody is destined to fail or to remain unmarried not even you or your enemies.
Re: Not Everyone Is Destined To Get Married {talk2bella} by BaEnki(m): 1:38pm On Feb 02, 2017
TashaGirl:
Yes baby. You are right wink. Niggas are just good for drilling cool and sooner or later, sexx toys will take over their work or robots self tongue.

I always SMH whenever I see them young getting married(I wish them well thou) but little did they know that it's not gonna be as sweet as they start(the outings, the great sex, the romance and bla bla).

Maybe because I read alot or I'm too matured kind of, marriage scared the hell outta me like hell.

>When he changes(which is normal).
> The family(this one Na hell if you don't get it right
> When he starts cheating because of sagged boobs(and for sure it's gonna sag cry).

Just pray to get it right when choosing and when you are in HELL, just leave for good.
Yea, what a life cry sad its so unfortunate that women beauty fade away so fast, thinking about ageing, I got scared, but its must as much as we're living.

Bella has got some valid points up there, though she should have subtly relates our writings with religion/Churches to avoid the wrath of them believers.

Marriage is not for everyone, yes! And we won't all procreate.
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