dollyjoy:
The message should be 'don't allow societal pressure force you into an unprepared marriage'

I' m sure by the time you start getting close to menopause without any hope of settling down you'd start running from one spiritual house to another forgetting you once stated that 'everyone isn't destined to get married'

Talk2Bella:


your brain is shallow doesn't mean mine is, no the article wasn't plagiarized, I wonder if you even know the meaning of that word, as for whatever you've written up there total rubbish as you still haven't made any sense.

so according to you, everyone is destined to get married? why? so women who are second wives are destined to marry another person's husband yea? or those who died at the hands of their husband were destined to marry and be killed abi

please try and have sense

firstking01:
Chai, you are a failed writer and blogger, you need help asap....you sound asif they forced people to getting married...even in christiandom we don't force people to get married...i said it's a necessity if you are a christian...as i'm typing this i have apostle paul's bible backups if you wil……


For the woman who chosed to go in as a second fiddle, na her choice....i dnt even know why i'm answering you sef...


Goan work on yourself girl...on stuffs like this i'm grouned, just that we no dey make noise until the occassion calls for it


Have a good evening .

Talk2Bella:


what has spiritual houses got to do with marriage in the first place, how many have you visited? you seem like the kind of person who would take every man's name she's dated to a spiritual house to confirm if he's the right one for you.

my dear take a chill pill please, don't be shackled free yourself from the mental slavery called marriage which isn't a do or die affair, I know there's this elated joy that comes with bearing "MRS" but sadly not everyone will

Collyno82:

u talk from experience n exactness. is like u been visiting dem. that u choose not to marry does not translate to the caption of ur write up

Collyno82:
talk2bella, ur wrong. the Bible said that is not good for a man/woman to be alone. Don't tell me that u can't find a man Destined for you in the whole world. stop spreading this falsehood in the name of being a realist

Collyno82:
talk2bella, ur wrong. the Bible said that is not good for a man/woman to be alone. Don't tell me that u can't find a man Destined for you in the whole world. stop spreading this falsehood in the name of being a realist

FortuneTeller:


Everyone is not destined to marry. There are men in jail, gay, and mentally challenged. Even if there are single men available in China, should a Nigerian woman run to China to find one? Even the Bible speaks about who should be content with being unmarried. It may sound sad, but it's the truth.

Mypeople2:
Bella I think you need a man in your life.Someone that will erase what you just wrote from your head.May God give you a good man

FortuneTeller:


Everyone is not destined to marry. There are men in jail, gay, and mentally challenged. Even if there are single men available in China, should a Nigerian woman run to China to find one? Even the Bible speaks about who should be content with being unmarried. It may sound sad, but it's the truth.

FortuneTeller:


Everyone is not destined to marry. There are men in jail, gay, and mentally challenged. Even if there are single men available in China, should a Nigerian woman run to China to find one? Even the Bible speaks about who should be content with being unmarried. It may sound sad, but it's the truth.

Talk2Bella:

I said churches and pastors aunty na u carry am reach spiritual houses mbok
You be regular ba

Collyno82:

am not aunty am ur brother n husband. am a he

Tajbol4splend:
Talk2bella, on Feb 14 when nairalanders have a party, even if my gf is there, I will propose to you and I promise you that you will say yes to me.. I come get you and tell you.

Talk2Bella:

SafeDavid:


You're not looking bad tho'.

Talk2Bella:

Collyno82:
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Fortuneteller u Don find me come here? issorai. we're I have issues is Dat word DESTINED. is either u don't understand it in the context of the write up or u claim to be a realist like the op. that someone single is in jail as u posit don't mean he is destined to be unmarried rather circumstances made it so. like the Rev. fathers who are unmarried are not destined to be singles but they chose to be that way. either for the love they have for the calling or their parents mandated them, is far from being Destined

Talk2Bella:

Thanks

SafeDavid:


but why Ibeji?

Talk2Bella:


It's my surname

SafeDavid:


Are you for real?

Thought you were Igbo.

Talk2Bella:

I am

FortuneTeller:


Do you not understand there is a deficit of people to marry in some areas? A woman can marry a drug dealer, a schizophrenic, or a gay but should she do it for the sake of marriage? There are even some people as who don't wish to get married as you said. So is it the destiny of each of these people to marry? There are many women in West who never marry. They have children and died NEVER married. It is not because they didn't want to marry, but because there was no one available to them who was willing to marry. There are many reasons some people will don't have a wife or husband. I don't know your age, but you cannot be an adult with life experience if you do not know this.

FortuneTeller:


Do you not understand there is a deficit of people to marry in some areas? A woman can marry a drug dealer, a schizophrenic, or a gay but should she do it for the sake of marriage? There are even some people as who don't wish to get married as you said. So is it the destiny of each of these people to marry? There are many women in West who never marry. They have children and died NEVER married. It is not because they didn't want to marry, but because there was no one available to them who was willing to marry. There are many reasons some people will don't have a wife or husband. I don't know your age, but you cannot be an adult with life experience if you do not know this.

Collyno82:

like I said earlier no one is destined either to be married or to be unmarried. there are two factors that determines ur state, they are choice & circumstances. having said that I still maintain that the op is wrong in her choice of words by saying that not everyone is destined to get married.

FortuneTeller:


Do you believe what is written in the Bible?

FortuneTeller:


Do you believe what is written in the Bible?

Collyno82:

I believe Wat is written in the Bible so much so you don't quote it out of context. if I may ask Wat is it Dat is written in the Bible