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Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 12:44pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
First and foremost let me start by saying DEAR LADIES YOU OWE NOBODY AN EXPLANATION HOW YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE! A lot of misconceptions has gone under the radar about Nigerian women being gold diggers ans "runz girls" but I just want to assure you these type of myopic comments only come from self loathing, low self esteemed poor and suffer headed Nigerian Let's take this from the religious community: A woman is mostly believed to be soft hearted, an item of delicacy and someone you care for (Men are designed to care for women that is why they are referred to as the HEAD) Enough of the sideway talks. Let's accelerate the hammer towards the nail. Ladies make sure you have nothing to do with broke boys. As accurate as this sounds many girls will still try to be Sentimental about the golden fact. Broke boys have nothing to offer. Ok let me give you a quick scenario. Yester-evening I was at a restaurant on the island just to relax and get a bit of serenity. While I was chilling with my scotch and some Pieces of barbecue I had requested for earlier, I noticed a couple sitting opposite my table. I could feel the love from her heart and theoptimism for a better future for both of them but what Spoilt the picture was Their table has all sort of similarities to the Sahara desert. It is so embarrassing to say as beautiful as the lady looked he couldn't make her feel good on a date and later on he got her a chicken pie and ice cream. I felt disgusted at the sight of this! Ok, having mentioned that, I want to inform you ladies about a Proven point. No guy will choose you over a richer lady. This might seem funny to you but that is the truth. That guy that keeps reminding you how much he loves and adores you? That guy who wouldn't stop sending you good morning/good night messages? That guy that sounds romantic and sweeps you off your feet? He will desert you at the twinkle of an eye immediately he Uncovers a rich lady. So tell me ladies, why are you forcing this to work with him? Why are you suffering when someone who isn't looking half as good as you are is being treated like a real woman? Why trek under the hot sun then later jump into a hot distressful danfo bus while your mates are sitting with their man in his latest Ac filled cool machine? It is no news that Women are emotional beings but being emotional shouldn't equals stupidity. If you don't care about your future at least care about the future of your kids and their upbringing. Signed Gflat 4 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 12:49pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
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Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
That's why it's necessary for ladies to be self reliant. 2 Likes |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 1:15pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
colik: It is, but not totally. I hope your perspective not from a feminist's point of view |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by adaksbullet: 1:22pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
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Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 1:25pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
I don't know how to feel about this op... You've placed so much value on financial and material gain at the detriment to men. I advocate that women look after themselves and choose men based on qualities that are not as shallow. If I'm hungry I should be able to feed myself. Women need to meet their needs and not expect a man to meet them. A man can buy you the world and still deny you love, respect, and honour which costs him nothing. #Feminist 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
Hasty generalization from a myopic point of view. Not all broke guys will die broke, Not all broke guys turn out ungrateful / faithful. Not all rich guys will die rich and not all rich guys remain faithful / grateful. Whatever happens to diversification, plus making money is not only a man's responsibility. Marry/ Date whom you love and you are compatible with. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
adaksbullet:Werey de eeeeeee u dey sang song oo |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by adaksbullet: 1:30pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
prettythicksme:mine foma wive turn nl asawo Are u noun enjoyed live |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
Gflat:Not totally? Care to lay more emphasis on that? It's not. |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 1:36pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
adaksbullet:Yes ooo,i am enjoyed live since i leaved you.U no sabi the thing. |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 1:38pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
colik: Like I said earlier, no matter how rich a lady is a guy is still the head of that relationship so he needs to focus on his duties as a MAN 2 Likes |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 1:39pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
AngelSweetLips: Apologies for seeing this thread that way. Please be advised I am Talking about one perspective not all in a relationship. I have seen a lot of ladies suffer with a guy. Let us be real 2 Likes |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 1:41pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
Alondra: lol, as expected. Not too hard to break down your message. You should try dating someone who is better and capable dear 1 Like |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 1:42pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
Prettythicksme please don't derail |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by firstking01(m): 1:43pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
The op is a deluded fellow |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 1:44pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
Gflat:Lol,i am sorry. |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 1:44pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
firstking01: Approaching people with your low way of reasoning is embarrassing. Can't you comment without being offensive? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by jmoore(m): 1:52pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
I am broke. Ladies stay away from me. 1 Like |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 1:52pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
Gflat: They suffer because they love and a woman shouldn't get a 'get out of jail card' because she is a woman. He is suffering too should he leave her because she's broke? |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 1:53pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
AngelSweetLips: Should she continue loving him until reality sets in? Until it seems too late to leave because they are married and things are not going smoothly? Miss, are you married? 2 Likes |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
Gflat:Never typed ' I am dating a broke guy' your advice is unnecessary. Point is: Let Love decide 2 Likes |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by firstking01(m): 1:54pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
Gflat:There was NO need emphasizing on your errorneous and shallow assertions...see, don't let spew what's in my mouth cos i dnt wanna get banned…if your mum had reasoned this way i'm sure you wouldn't be in existence to utter this fallatical gibberish |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 1:56pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
Gflat: Yes she should continue if she loves him. She should guide, support and encourage him to do better and be better. She should work on herself as well so that 2 heads can be better than one. I am not married, no... Will that fact invalidate my opinion? |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 1:58pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
firstking01: My mum don't need to reason that way because she owns a company and she met dad at one of the conferences they both attended. Dad is a barrister by the way and together they gave their kids good education and what of life. I know you are frustrated because you never had this kind of opportunity while growing up in the ghetto but next time before you place your slippery fingers on your 2.5inches phone to disgrace yourself try not to be recumbent in reasoning 2 Likes |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by adaksbullet: 1:58pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
prettythicksme:I'm ear u are noun fuccccck PabloOmoEscobar |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 2:01pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
AngelSweetLips: In your first comment you hashtag feminist but your words are betraying that claim. (maybe I am wrong) but spending time with a guy with no prospects of being successful at age 30 while you have better chances of being happy seems like a work of voodoo to me. Ok, you are not married so you probably don't know how difficult it seems to be responsible for two mouths in a month |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 2:13pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
Gflat: I don't know you're understanding of feminism ( another thread) I believe like attracts like. She must be like him in order to attract him. She won't attract what she isn't so until she changes her circumstances she won't meet a man that can meet all her needs. Like I said in my first comment if this broke man loves, appreciates and respects her and his only downfall is finance then she won't find another man who will give her all the things broke guy gave her plus money. You're argument is flawed because the only thing you are paying emphasis to is money. Now if you said he cheats abuses and is no good for her then I could agree but you're not. You're saying run because he can't take her to fine places and buy her fine things. You just want men with money to have all the girls and your broke brothers to go without because there just isn't enough rich men for all these women. |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 2:17pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
Screw feminism angelsweetlips A woman should provide for herself because no1 is reliable save for God. But also there's no reason u as a functioning adult shouldn't work and care for yer own needs. Unless of course u are a housewife/house girlfriend then u contribute in other ways. |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 2:18pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
DeepFriedPuff: Go chew on a soggy puff puff |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Gflat: 2:20pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
AngelSweetLips: Lol, you are not getting my point of view dear. as at this moment I am talking about women staying in relationships that are not productive 2 Likes |
Re: Advice To Nigerian Ladies - Gflat by Nobody: 2:21pm On Jan 13, 2017 |
Gflat: What is productive? Money? Scotch and bbq chicken? Abeg we are done. #agree to disagree 1 Like |
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