I hope the day he asks for the cochie, if you refuse and he insists you are going to reluctantly let him have it? Just like you are reluctantly eating his money cos he persists? If not? Then Amadioha is just by d corner waiting for you

Jodha:
Well I didn't technically eat his money, he gave me (without me asking) and I collected. Although I don't see money as a criteria in choosing a spouse, I'm human, he kept insisting on wanting to take care of me(although I told him, I wanted him just as a friend)

The thing is right now I'm confused, I mean I no longer spend money anymore, he does almost everything for(drives me wherever I go, takes me out daily, except I refused, takes me shopping etc), the truth is that I don't see him as anything more than a friend.

Although he hasn't said anything related to sex, I'm scared (there's no free thing) at least in Nigeria.

Should I keep collecting from him and pretend he's an angel sent from heaven to take care of my needs, or should I call it a quit (if I should, how do I do it)?

No harsh words please, I just need your candid opinion.

he could be yr life partner so becareful hw u send him away

Keep pestering him to introduce you to his girlfriend or volunteer to link him up with a nice girl if he denies having any. Also let him know about other guys who are into you and how you feel about them. Don't pretend to be alone and expect him to leave you alone.

Jodha:
Well I didn't technically eat his money, he gave me (without me asking) and I collected. Although I don't see money as a criteria in choosing a spouse, I'm human, he kept insisting on wanting to take care of me(although I told him, I wanted him just as a friend)

The thing is right now I'm confused, I mean I no longer spend money anymore, he does almost everything for(drives me wherever I go, takes me out daily, except I refused, takes me shopping etc), the truth is that I don't see him as anything more than a friend.

Although he hasn't said anything related to sex, I'm scared (there's no free thing) at least in Nigeria.

Should I keep collecting from him and pretend he's an angel sent from heaven to take care of my needs, or should I call it a quit (if I should, how do I do it)?

No harsh words please, I just need your candid opinion.

go back and get Bleep...u want to run away abi ...u can't..its give and take...he has given u and he needs to taste ur succulent pussy if it is actually succullent

U sure that guy ain't a ritualist .. Men don't just spend money like that

Be careful

Seems to me that you are afraid that he would ask for something in return.... relationship/sex. He may have money to burn and feels good spending it on you because he really likes you as a friend... a real friend... someone he really trusts. So maybe all of this can be his way of showing how much you mean to him as a friend. It would then be like a slap in his face to refuse his offers.... that can spoil the relationship. I suggest you let him know how you feel .... that you are now uncomfortable receiving all these offers.... and ask him directly why is he going to this extent?... is he hoping to get something in return? Let him explain... and make sure he doesn't dance around the question. You can take it from there.

HARDDON:
Op, there is something u shld know:

There are alot of factors responsible for this...

A. He sees u as a younger sis( probably he doesnt hv any n wished so much he did)

b. He is so much in luv wit u he doesnt even know how to express it, so he is using d gifts as soft landing pads

C. He sees u as his Wify n therefore can hold nothing back

D. He is into some kinda voodoo. N probably d more u eat of his money, d more he gets

E. He is not a strewpid Mr Nice guy that luvs ur company n ur ultimate well been n care is a top priority .


I put it to u that if itz Option B or C, u alrready know ... u just rushed in here to confirm dat. But u really dont want d flow to stop.

Have u ever asked him bout his GF?
What he really wants from u?

Yea i know u havent

He came wit r/ship tots @ first but u told him off n Fzoned him so d spending can keep flowing


U talking about resisting his gift is just a decoy.
U know what u r doing.

May he wake up from dis dream

don't mind the op keep earing the money you know what you are doing mtcheeew If this guy was my brother you for don hear am

eezeribe:


The best way to quit is to refund every dime he spent on you... Or pay him back in kind before quitting. If you quit without giving anything in return, you are a Gold digger... If you continue "eating" his money without reciprocating... You are one step away from being an OLOSHO.O

And here is your answer

HARDDON:
Op, there is something u shld know:

There are alot of factors responsible for this...

A. He sees u as a younger sis( probably he doesnt hv any n wished so much he did)

b. He is so much in luv wit u he doesnt even know how to express it, so he is using d gifts as soft landing pads

C. He sees u as his Wify n therefore can hold nothing back

D. He is into some kinda voodoo. N probably d more u eat of his money, d more he gets

E. He is not a strewpid Mr Nice guy that luvs ur company n ur ultimate well been n care is a top priority .


I put it to u that if itz Option B or C, u alrready know ... u just rushed in here to confirm dat. But u really dont want d flow to stop.

Have u ever asked him bout his GF?
What he really wants from u?

Yea i know u havent

He came wit r/ship tots @ first but u told him off n Fzoned him so d spending can keep flowing


U talking about resisting his gift is just a decoy.
U know what u r doing.

May he wake up from dis dream

There is nothing like I know what I'm doing I don't care about his money, I never asked him of anything one day, he just kept spending.



I've asked him if he had a gf, he said no, that no girl has ever attracted his eyes.

I clearly told him the feeling wasn't mutual, he accepted In been just friends

If you are serious about putting distance, tell him you have started seeing someone and use that as an excuse to get space.

He will soon use you for money ritual na that you go know whatsupp

Free things dey purge, eat the one you can refund.

I am yet to understand what you mean by "he insisted ", can't you also insist of not taking the money? Ladies can be very funny sometimes; now after you have slaughtered him financially you are planning of calling it quit. I don't think anybody can insist you must take poo and you will take it, you want to cheat deliberately.

I am yet to understand what you mean by "he insisted ", can't you also insist of not taking the money? Ladies can be very funny sometimes; now after you have slaughtered him financially you are planning of calling it quit. I don't think anybody can insist you must take poo and you will take it, you want to cheat deliberately.

xendra:

Funny enough a friend of mine had this kind of experience, thought the guy was coming for a relationship or something, she fell inlove with him told us about him so much that even though I never met him one-on-one I know him so well.
but it broke her heart when he told her he was getting married. Turned out he was only being nice. My friend is married to someone else now but still very much in love with that guy.
And she is not the only case I know

I am not sure about your case but be careful he might or might not be coming for something. I believe if he wanted something he would ask, or you could ask him, directly or indirectly

it is someone like ur friend I fear to settle down with because she will definitely give up her Cookies even in marriage because of dat strong affection she had for d guy while both of dem where single......


terrible thing

PabloOmoEscobar:
What's she saying? Claimed you don't want his money but you kept eating and he keeps cruising you around town with his car. Smh.
I hope when his day to reap comes, you'll also 'reluctantly' let him harvest his produce


Like someone rightly said, 'day of reckoning is coming'

How can you just jump into conclusion? Did she force him or did she ask for anything, all he did is from his own free will, u just read a post, fail to understand and vomit trash! Sister, as long as you make ur intentions clear to him from the beginning, no need to panick, just stay as far as possible away from this dude and firmly reject all his offers, he'll get tired and leave u alone.

darbeelicous:
How can you just jump into conclusion? Did she force him or did she ask for anything, all he did is from his own free will, u just read a post, fail to understand and vomit trash! Sister, as long as you make ur intentions clear to him from the beginning, no need to panick, just stay as far as possible away from this dude and firmly reject all his offers, he'll get tired and leave u alone.

bird of a feather.......

Jodha:




There is nothing I know what I'm doing I don't care about his money, I never asked him of anything one day, he just kept spending.



I've asked him if he had a gf, he said no, that no girl has ever attracted his eyes.

I clearly told him the feeling wasn't mutual, he accepted In been just friends

Stop collecting anything from him...not all these "he is an angel sent from hell" to take care of your needs!

PabloOmoEscobar:
bird of a feather.......

yea........ U're very correct.....so?

darbeelicous:
yea........ U're very correct.....so?

sosoliso airline

PabloOmoEscobar:
sosoliso airline

darbeelicous:

pele ti e

PabloOmoEscobar:
pele ti e

ehyaa....... I feel ur pains!

darbeelicous:
ehyaa....... I feel ur pains!

go sleep

PabloOmoEscobar:
go sleep

is it by force? die na

Fourwinds:
it is someone like ur friend I fear to settle down with because she will definitely give up her Cookies even in marriage because of dat strong affection she had for d guy while both of dem where single......


terrible thing

drop that fear. not every woman is as you imagine. she is not that type and doesn't do sex outside marriage.
Nothing says its wrong to fall in love with a man that knows how to treat you right, its not the same thing as being cheap.

xendra:
drop that fear. not every woman is as you imagine. she is not that type and doesn't do sex outside marriage.
Nothing says its wrong to fall in love with a man that knows how to treat you right, its not the same thing as being cheap.

heheheheheeee......same every woman will swear dat their daughters are virgins...


u now ask., she dey follow d girl go every where.??

darbeelicous:
How can you just jump into conclusion? Did she force him or did she ask for anything, all he did is from his own free will, u just read a post, fail to understand and vomit trash! Sister, as long as you make ur intentions clear to him from the beginning, no need to panick, just stay as far as possible away from this dude and firmly reject all his offers, he'll get tired and leave u alone.

My brother thank you very much but I've been avoiding him since for almost a month now, I don't pick his calls but I still see him sometimes on the road and he'll be talking to my conscience and all that saying he just wants to be my friend but I'm rejecting him and stuffs like that

adeniyisamuel59:
I am yet to understand what you mean by "he insisted ", can't you also insist of not taking the money? Ladies can be very funny sometimes; now after you have slaughtered him financially you are planning of calling it quit. I don't think anybody can insist you must take poo and you will take it, you want to cheat deliberately.

My dear it's either you're confused or just daft, read my posts again maybe you'll get my point

Jodha:


My dear it's either you're confused or just daft, read my posts again maybe you'll get my point

[b][/b] truth can be very bitter: stop being a gold digger.

Imagination is a beautiful thing

Eat as much money as u can and dump his ass..