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Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by uniquechukwuma: 5:50am On Jan 21, 2017
You may not have noticed at first but once you did, it’s all you can think of. You may not be able to recall the last time he did say it and you wonder exactly when he fell out of love. If you question him, he just smiles and tells you you’re being silly or that he doesn’t want to talk about it. A woman always knows when something has changed in her relationship. If he hasn’t expressed his love for you and his actions say more of the same, it’s time to take control. If you leave this situation unattended, he’ll become increasingly distant to the point that he eventually dumps you.

Try to think back to when your boyfriend stopped saying “I love you.” Although you may not be able to pinpoint the exact day you should be able to approximate the time he started to pull away. Was there anything in particular that you two were arguing about then? Did something happen that hurt him emotionally? If you can determine what may have contributed to his feeling less connected to you, apologize to him for it. Let him know that you regret what happened. Be genuine and heartfelt when you do apologize and vow to right the wrong. This one act alone can sometimes help tremendously.

Perhaps it’s been more of a slow progression and he’s been pulling away from you for awhile now. In this case you have to reflect on when you two were first together and how the dynamic between you two back then differs from the dynamic between you now. Sometimes a couple simply stops trying to keep the romantic part of their relationship alive. They end up living more as friends than partners and although they still deeply adore each other, the love may have slipped away. If you feel this is the case, you need to put more effort into rebuilding that lost spark.

Regrettably what it usually means for a relationship when your boyfriend stops saying “I love you” is the end is near. If he’s not the type who does well with confrontation he may just allow the connection between you two to die a very slow death. This can take months or even years. If he’s more direct, be prepared for him to tell you in the very near future that he needs some time or a break. A man who isn’t in love will eventually want his freedom so he can seek out a relationship with someone he truly adores.

source: https://www.igodotv.com/2017/01/21/your-boyfriend-stopped-saying-i-love-you-what-it-means-for-your-relationship/

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Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by BlackDBagba: 5:52am On Jan 21, 2017
Sad but very true words. Sometimes, life has a way of dealing blows....
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by Emmy1234567890: 5:57am On Jan 21, 2017
Booked
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by Nobody: 5:58am On Jan 21, 2017
cool

Although I never had such an experience because am exceptional
But even if I do, I will table it to God via prayers.
He will surely intervene.
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by uniquechukwuma: 6:00am On Jan 21, 2017
kenonze:
cool

exactly
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by Lanceslot(m): 6:21am On Jan 21, 2017
kenonze:
cool
Although I never had such an experience because am exceptional But even if I do, I will table it to God via prayers. He will surely intervene.
Nne see as you set like tomatoe Jos.

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Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by Kakamorufu(m): 6:47am On Jan 21, 2017
I dnt talk it very often sef
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by Nobody: 6:54am On Jan 21, 2017
That's because Words aren't enough.

He is certainly looking beyond just words
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by uniquechukwuma: 6:10pm On Jan 21, 2017
TheSlyone2:
That's because Words aren't enough.

He is certainly looking beyond just words

Lols no be small words aren't enough
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by Nobody: 6:57pm On Jan 21, 2017
uniquechukwuma:

Lols no be small words aren't enough
I don't understand, can "I love you" fit your bills?
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by refiner(f): 7:08pm On Jan 21, 2017
I love u?...before nko,will u hate me?


Pheeeew undecided
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by adajoe555: 7:12pm On Jan 21, 2017
this is really true oh . hope my won't end up like that
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by uniquechukwuma: 7:20pm On Jan 21, 2017
adajoe555:
this is really true oh . hope my won't end up like that

are you afraid?
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by adajoe555: 6:02am On Jan 22, 2017
kind of

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Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by MabraO: 6:11am On Jan 22, 2017
What's so special about saying this sef. Wen Dey say action speaks louder than voice
This is 2017 I don't take people by their words only by their actions.

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Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by uniquechukwuma: 6:15am On Jan 22, 2017
It means for some people
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by uniquechukwuma: 6:16am On Jan 22, 2017
It counts
MabraO:
What's so special about saying this sef. Wen Dey say action speaks louder than voice
This is 2017 I don't take people by their words only by their actions.
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by MabraO: 6:28am On Jan 22, 2017
uniquechukwuma:
It counts
.

To me it doesn't

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Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by uniquechukwuma: 7:42am On Jan 22, 2017
Opinion differs
MabraO:
.

To me it doesn't
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by firstking01(m): 8:16am On Jan 22, 2017
kenonze:
cool
Although I never had such an experience because am exceptional But even if I do, I will table it to God via prayers. He will surely intervene.
Untypical statement from a nairaland girL.
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by debonairprinx(m): 10:03am On Jan 22, 2017
One major problem of mine. Falling out of love easily. Most times I wish to put more effort into making things work, I just don't feel it anymore.
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by uniquechukwuma: 1:19pm On Jan 22, 2017
Dont fall out of love bro i can prescribe sites for relationships for you
debonairprinx:
One major problem of mine. Falling out of love easily. Most times I wish to put more effort into making things work, I just don't feel it anymore.
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by debonairprinx(m): 6:21am On Jan 23, 2017
uniquechukwuma:
Dont fall out of love bro i can prescribe sites for relationships for you

I would love that. Hopefully I find something useful.
Re: Your Boyfriend Stopped Saying "I Love You" – What It Means For Your Relationship by uniquechukwuma: 8:03am On Jan 23, 2017
Check out one website www.igodotv.com/relationship
debonairprinx:


I would love that. Hopefully I find something useful.

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