enuk80:
its very painful..d girl has no sense..imagine 25yrs old girl fucking 19yrs old boy who should have been hier junior brother times 3...she is deranged..if it were to be someone above her age or her age mate, d view wud ve been maybe u didn't Bleep her well, or u don't give her much cash, or u r not caring and so on...i wonder y she has to fall for 19yrs old boy...that girl has mental problem..

as for d baby, don't let her abort it..I doubt if d baby is urs or if d baby belongs to d 19yrs old boy..just wait for paternity test..

Firstly, don't underrate any thing called man. U know the kind mouth he get weda her BF no get that type. His look and that tender handsomeness .
The girl see sumchin der.

Annie939:
u don't need to blame her, she's a Lady guys are going after her both single and married ones. we are all human beings

E yaa so because she b lady make she dey open N close anyhow abi?

kipesco:


E yaa so because she b lady make she dey open N close anyhow abi?

hmmmmm nooooooooo just saying, maybe it was a mistake from the lady

Annie939:
u don't need to blame her, she's a Lady guys are going after her both single and married ones. we are all human beings

Am not very sure your brain is functioning!!!

Hopefulman,
The biggest mistake you'll make will be to let her back. Trust me, I've been there before, I was her first too, we were together for many years, in my case she claimed distance was the cause. I forgave, forgot and we even got engaged. Had to even resign my job and get something else in the same town so she wouldn't be "bored" again.

Till...... I stumbled upon her facebook messages setting up a date to have se.x with the same guy who is now married.

Her new defense? that she just chat with him nothing happened

Guy, She'll only get better at covering her tracks and your mind will never be at ease.

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Anyways, most girls are wayward now, finding someone that wouldn't cheat is a needle in a haystack.

Collect your baby and dump her....please do DNA test..make you no enter voice mail

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Women are confused,ur story is so sad and heartbreaking,but I think cos u disvirgined her,she just wanted to taste another dick before getting married and get hooked,but unfortunately for her,she was caught,u can stil forgive her for d fact u disvirgined her and she isn't d only one u have slept with,its hard to see a Nigerian girl now dat is not a virgin that haven't slept with atleast 2guys.Am sure dats d reason she even went for a 19yr old guy knowing she wouldnt gain anytin from him,but its your choice to make,its a sad story.But you wouldn't be d first to forgive a Cheating Girl,many guys here telling u to dump her have done d same too,only if u re sure she is changed and worth it.

Too many Bleep ups even after the incident, I been give her second chance that's why this issue lingered till now, but bruv another thing I hate is an unappreciative woman, she's not helping me forget the incident too, a lot I can't type

diamondstar90:
Take it easy bro, at least she confess with her mouth, respect dat fact. If she no tell you nko, you go know. I know it not easy to forgive and forget but think of the old time you shared together [color=#000099][/color]

lolz...dey deceive yourself.......old times ko..new times ni

Hopefulman:



Babe I can't marry this babe cos I don't feel desame way, I feel extremely betrayed, disrespected especially as na small boy, this incident happened 4th December, I have tried chasing her but she form wanting a second chance, wasn't it cos I was smart enough to find out .?.

What's your take on this issue cos I am still badly hurt

are you seriously asking someone's take on a cheat?.....a 19, yr old doing doggy with your bae!!!.....don't let her emotionally sway you...dump her now!!!!!!

nairalander:
Hopefulman,
The biggest mistake you'll make will be to let her back. Trust me, I've been there before, I was her first too, we were together for many years, in my case she claimed distance was the cause. I forgave, forgot and we even got engaged. Had to even resign my job and get something else in the same town so she wouldn't be "bored" again.

Till...... I stumbled upon her facebook messages setting up a date to have se.x with the same guy who is now married.

Her new defense? that she just chat with him nothing happened

Guy, She'll only get better at covering her tracks and your mind will never be at ease.

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Anyways, most girls are wayward now, finding someone that wouldn't cheat is a needle in a haystack.

How things wan take work when I probably don't feel desame way, OK, during one of the times I got pissed and was questioning her, she said the guy too is weak in bed like her, with my temper and how nice I have been I suppose beat her up then push her out of my house but had a dream of me cooling off in the cell, so reason why I took it cool from beginning till now, but I know what I am doing and what I want for myself . Wetin I go do na my mind e dey

@Hopefulman...see bro, i'll tell you the real fact...For God's sake brother, send that girl packing....she doesn't deserve you at all...Never should you settle for less bro...you don't know prolly God just wanted to expose her for you to see her ways before you get married to her...what if you guys have already gotten hooked officially?...God don show you a great sign bro!...tho it's hard but yet, in future, when you look back, you'll have every cause to thank Baba for that sole decision you made...don't let her sweet talk/beg you...that's how ladies are!

@hopefulman. please, which app you take trace that ur girl. I need am like seriously.

slimany:
@hopefulman. please, which app you take trace that ur girl. I need am like seriously.

Read well, na the format I take enter am before she begin vomit, at first she was denying it right in front of me, I went through her phone while she was sleeping when she visited my place that week, if not she would have done the act and still pretend well..

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thowbie7ven:
@Hopefulman...see bro, i'll tell you the real fact...For God's sake brother, send that girl packing....she doesn't deserve you at all...Never should you settle for less bro...you don't know prolly God just wanted to expose her for you to see her ways before you get married to her...what if you guys have already gotten hooked officially?...God don show you a great sign bro!...tho it's hard but yet, in future, when you look back, you'll have every cause to thank Baba for that sole decision you made...don't let her sweet talk/beg you...that's how ladies are!

You see am talk, sincerely I know these things, she's just after the benefits she gets and doesn't want to loose those privileges, I been care for this babe pieces , na only me understand wetin I dey yan

Hopefulman:



Read well, na the format I take enter am before she begin vomit, at first she was denying it right in front of me, I went through her phone while she was sleeping when she visited my place that week, if not she would have done the act and still pretend well..

FEAR WOMEN

hmmmn. oga o. what else again. good nigerian girls don finish. If a girl u disflowered and dated for 5years and she was comfortable to the bearest maximum could do these to u!!!!!!!!!!!!!™™™™… ha, otitan. make I waka go switzerland go pick wife.
Ps- From your writeup. I learned that nothing can prevent a lady from cheating! If perhaps ure poor and not good looking like me (Dont bother checking my profile pics,I no upload am) , I would have admitted she cheated on u for that reasons but alas, it ain't so. Bro. am shocked.

slimany:



hmmmn. oga o. what else again. good nigerian girls don finish. If a girl u disflowered and dated for 5years and she was comfortable to the bearest maximum could do these to u!!!!!!!!!!!!!™™™™… ha, otitan. make I waka go switzerland go pick wife.
Ps- From your writeup. I learned that nothing can prevent a lady from cheating! If perhaps ure poor and not good looking like me (Dont bother checking my profile pics,I no upload am) , I would have admitted she cheated on u for that reasons but alas, it ain't so. Bro. am shocked.

After two months I am still shocked, it was recently I found out the nigga is 19, na wetin make me begin para afresh

Hopefulman:



After two months I am still shocked, it was recently I found out the nigga is 19, na wetin make me begin para afresh

Bro. I swear with everything I have. I will/ and can never marry such a lady as wife. The memory will linger till you no longer see her. But the more u see her, u can never forget such messy things. I believe u already having that scenerio of that 19year old sexing ur wife playing in your head like imagining it. bro. Infirm ur parents and tell then all,they will also support u cos they will not want u to marry a newbie olosho. and bring a bastard son for them in future as grandchildren.

shinarlaura:


I think u should forgive her. You re hurt because u still love her

Abeg dump the shit! Hoe can never be loyal.

shinarlaura:


I think u should forgive her. You re hurt because u still love her

Abeg dump the shit! Hoe can never be loyal.

Hopefulman:



After two months I am still shocked, it was recently I found out the nigga is 19, na wetin make me begin para afresh

Nowadays u will see married women of 35+45 running after boys of 20-23 na like this them dey start. They full every where these days its common thing now.

Hopefulman:



Babe I can't marry this babe cos I don't feel desame way, I feel extremely betrayed, disrespected especially as na small boy, this incident happened 4th December, I have tried chasing her but she form wanting a second chance, wasn't it cos I was smart enough to find out .?.

What's your take on this issue cos I am still badly hurt

Guy do yourself good by moving on. She will still cheat again.

Hopefulman:



Too many Bleep ups even after the incident, I been give her second chance that's why this issue lingered till now, but bruv another thing I hate is an unappreciative woman, she's not helping me forget the incident too, a lot I can't type

Bros i have tasted such and i feel your pain too but i can't share from it...bitter truth is, she has played her role in your life

Is the baby even yours?

Hopefulman:
At least she was bold enough to confess.


I deflowered a lady and dated her 5 years, she was with me all through the struggle when I had absolutely nothing, 5 years on thank God things changed, I could die for this girl cos I make sure she lacks absolutely nothing at all. Guess what?

Just recently I caught her cheating cos she wasn't smart about it, as a matter of fact I knew before she went to spend the weekend with the guy but I didn't stop it cos I wanted to give her a benefit of doubt cos of my trust and believe in her that has waxed on for 5 years, I thought she would just visit and leave cos having the opposite sex as friends mean nothing as long as you know your boundaries.


Behold she slept at this guy's place for two nights and avoided talking to me, calls and barely could read my messages. I let her be too so she enjoys herself..

Note : I had taken her home and made my parents know this is the one I want to marry and they have blessed us, as a matter of fact she's in contact with my parents and I made them like her.


Another thing is sexually I was the monster and sex Frick between us and she complains alot about my undying sex appetite, she rarely satisfies me cos she's weak in bed, but I learnt to be patient with her, teach her all she knows and manage the sex like that, so if there's someone who should cheat it would be me, but I had loved this babe too much to cheat, so me not satisfying her wasn't the issue..


Now let me blow your mind like Al Queda, guess who she went to Bleep for two days while I was up all night and couldn't sleep for desame two days knowing my supposed to be wife I shower all the love, care, money on with tears wondering how confused these women can be, it was a fukkkking 19 year old boy, meanwhile she's 25 and I will be 30 by May


After I gave her a face to face confrontation with the scope of having a spy app on her phone and knowing all she does, she confessed she bleeped him twice but it's her first time ever, "Babe what is your reason for this stupidity ?, ", she's like I am sorry I just wanted to explore. imagine such bullshittt


You can never please a woman.

Bro you so right here,we are or were in the same shoes here,i think i did everything for her and her family and satisfied her in all way i can think of both financially and sexually... i think girls are just not worth the hassle

Favour22amaka:
Why would u get her pregnant in d first place wen u knew something was fishy.

How was I to know boss !!

No be the cheating part dey even vex me, na the lies... Personally, If I hear it from you, forgiveness is on the table... If I discover it myself or hear elsewhere,, na summary dismissal


the fact that she did it with someone less than you in virtually every way is an absolute insult to you as a man.. .. Its unacceptable.. Such a thing has no reason and no justification... Since we can't understand WHY it happened, there is no way of preventing it from happening again... So, bros, I see no alternative than to quit the relationship....

. That is what I did..... Though my situation no reach this one...

Hopefulman:
At least she was bold enough to confess.


I deflowered a lady and dated her 5 years, she was with me all through the struggle when I had absolutely nothing, 5 years on thank God things changed, I could die for this girl cos I make sure she lacks absolutely nothing at all. Guess what?

Just recently I caught her cheating cos she wasn't smart about it, as a matter of fact I knew before she went to spend the weekend with the guy but I didn't stop it cos I wanted to give her a benefit of doubt cos of my trust and believe in her that has waxed on for 5 years, I thought she would just visit and leave cos having the opposite sex as friends mean nothing as long as you know your boundaries.


Behold she slept at this guy's place for two nights and avoided talking to me, calls and barely could read my messages. I let her be too so she enjoys herself..

Note : I had taken her home and made my parents know this is the one I want to marry and they have blessed us, as a matter of fact she's in contact with my parents and I made them like her.


Another thing is sexually I was the monster and sex Frick between us and she complains alot about my undying sex appetite, she rarely satisfies me cos she's weak in bed, but I learnt to be patient with her, teach her all she knows and manage the sex like that, so if there's someone who should cheat it would be me, but I had loved this babe too much to cheat, so me not satisfying her wasn't the issue..


Now let me blow your mind like Al Queda, guess who she went to Bleep for two days while I was up all night and couldn't sleep for desame two days knowing my supposed to be wife I shower all the love, care, money on with tears wondering how confused these women can be, it was a fukkkking 19 year old boy, meanwhile she's 25 and I will be 30 by May


After I gave her a face to face confrontation with the scope of having a spy app on her phone and knowing all she does, she confessed she bleeped him twice but it's her first time ever, "Babe what is your reason for this stupidity ?, ", she's like I am sorry I just wanted to explore. imagine such bullshittt


You can never please a woman.

I hav a very very similar experience with u man. I don't even try to please them anymore as much as I don't maltreat them. This lady is 26yrs old nw and we still talk but d whole love thing is just bizzare now. She has indeed explored!

There is no girl u will meet that has not been involved with another guy one way or the other. If u however claim you are not responsible for the pregnancy, why plan to abort it?. If however, u are responsible, forgive her and take up responsibility. Do not do an abortion. Do not kill an innocent child. do the needful. Go ahead and marry her. Iam so sure when u are married, she wont cheat on you. Finally, watch you back. Are free of the sin you are accusing her of?. Don't forget, what goes round, comes round.

Hopefulman:


Mtcheee, I am hurt cos na one 19 year old boy wey she no go gain anything from and not in desame level with me she go open leg for.

When she was like she wanted to explore I was like if you explore with me na bad thing ?, babe wey dey complain seriously about my sex appetite and begging me to reduce it, who should be the Explorer here ?

That her complaining about ur sex appetitie is a smokescreen. Infact that's one of d reasons d shock hit u more. Women are naturally pretencious and tricky iin this part of d world.

Menzy86:
That her complaining about ur sex appetitie is a smokescreen. Infact that's one of d reasons d shock hit u more. Women are naturally pretencious and tricky iin this part of d world.

Allah na wetin burst my bololo dada pass, I no go lie I couldn't hold the tears. But guy nothing dey xup