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Enahi:
@op sorry about what happened to you.

My little advice next time you hang out with a guy, advice you both split the bill. The guy will get to know you are responsible and considrate. Most guys are usually surprised when I bring out half or quarter of the bill .

No matter how broke or low on cash you can be, never give a man the opportunity to insult or embarrass you. I will rather stay home and not go out than go out and be insulted. Excerpt the man insist on taking me out.

You deserve all the respect and love, don't give an idi*t the chance to insult you.

She insulted herself by following a man to eat "fish"as if her life depend on that and most annoying she went with friends ...She doesn't deserve respect .Respect is reciprocal ...If u fail to respect yourself nobody will respect you .It is only in Nigeria a lady will see a date as avenue to eat and drink freely as if her life depend on the food (It is poverty mentality ) .

Cutehector:
And to forget hw silly u were munching all the fish and softdrink? It neva occured to u such of that nature may occur? U no chop befor u comot for house? Hungry girls evrywhr

Bro,I thought you had outgrown all these habits when u started dating that nairalander or is it maturity you call it.

Adaeze003:
Actually, going to the guys house is what the thread is about.

I dunno who u are or why you taking, so; personal on me , I already gave her a piece of my advice its kinda wrong to waste a guys money when you knew what he wanted in the first place and still went ahead and made him take u out, of course he's a jerk he would demand for something stupid, but if u are fund of wasting a guys money ....... let me direct this to you stop it before a guy harms you

samtol4:
She insulted herself by following a man to eat "fish"as if her life depend on that and most annoying she went with friends ...She doesn't deserve respect .Respect is reciprocal ...If u fail to respect yourself nobody will respect you .It is only in Nigeria a lady will see a date as avenue to eat and drink freely as if her life depend on the food (It is poverty mentality ) .

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Years and really annoying when you.go out on a date with someone u don't like and then take your friend along...... of cause he's bound to disrespect you, things like this makes a guy see you as an hungry fellow

sevantex:
Sumbodi who was askin u out nd u weren't interested in, u still went on a date wit him and went wit a friend so u culd exploit. No wonder u kept highlighting all d amount he spent on u in ur post. Stop d chop nd run mentality and u won't get embarassed. And also, stop generalising, all guys aren't dogs. Ur date misbehaved but he isn't all guys. Be careful cos ur next chop nd run venture mite end up worse. Adios!

Thumbs up

esosa993:
I dunno who u are or why you taking, so; personal on me , I already gave her a piece of my advice its kinda wrong to waste a guys money when you knew what he wanted in the first place and still went ahead and made him take u out, of course he's a jerk he would demand for something stupid, but if u are fund of wasting a guys money ....... let me direct this to you stop it before a guy harms you

Talk about who is taking what "personal". Why are you in defense and attack mode? I'm guessing coz I'm female. Lol... smh.

Anyhoo... Happy Sunday.

Do you really reside in Ibadan sweetheart?

summerflame:
Do you really reside in Ibadan sweetheart?

You wan carry ownership?

kelish:
got d bigest embarrassmnt of life yestaday,
i happen to met a guy in my friend's lodge last friday afta beggin i desided 2 gv him my phn no he started callin evryday to woo me he comes 2 my hotel evtyday 2 see me we againd dat he s goin 2 tak me out on thursdy by 4 ,d day came i woke up vry weak i til manage 2 go wit my frnd wen we got dere he orderd a bottle of 33 beer for himself nd 2 bottles of soft for me nd my frnd we didnt evn chat well he leta got fish for 400 evrytin he sent on urs was nt up to 1000 wen we finishd he said we should go 2 his house nd dat my frnd should go i told him i wsnt going anywere ,dats were d trouble startd he said he was not goin 2 let me go evn wit d intervention of ppl we refuse 2 let me go. he disgraced me bcus of #700 he spent on me it took d intervention of his frndz to resuce me GOD forbid dat i will go bk 2 him.some guys r stupid

Sweetheart how much you don work for ur life. Just 700

OP, do you have a boyfriend?

Adamsdelrio:
If some guys are dogs then some ladies are bitches... I lie?...

sure, there are some shameless women out there in the world.

Adaeze003:
Talk about who is taking what "personal". Why are you in defense and attack mode? I'm guessing coz I'm female. Lol... smh.

Anyhoo... Happy Sunday.

I should be the one smh, u know why u countered my opinion because I was against what the girl did, because I wasn't in support of those gals that waste a guys money that's why you angry,and u wanna know why I think like that........ cos I don't keep females around me because most gals are just fake and they want it to always be a guy spending money on them,u should direct the advice to the gal and not me because am not some hungry gal neither am I gullible to always go to peoples houses whether guy or gal

esosa993:
I should be the one smh, u know why u countered my opinion because I was against what the girl did, because I wasn't in support of those gals that waste a guys money that's why you angry,and u wanna know why I think like that........ cos I don't keep females around me because most gals are just fake and they want it to always be a guy spending money on them,u should direct the advice to the gal and not me because am not some hungry gal neither am I gullible to always go to peoples houses whether guy or gal

I wouldn't have replied your first comment but for the mere fact you said I should not keep going to a guys house like am some mumu........gal that statement is very very rude

No dey fall my hand. I be ib base

Jarizod:
firstly, I smell lies

In ur words " wen we got dere he orderd a bottle of 33 beer for himself" which nigga drinks 33 bottles of beer at once! He wan die

E wa gba mi ke

Secondly,u fvck up

You even took ur friend along. .were u planning to eat and take away or what

Lemme not drop the last point.. Its deadly

Lol 33 beer na name of drink like Gulder, Star, etc.

Oleeeee
Your won eat fweeeeee fisSshhhh lolllll
God con catch U̶̲̥̅̊ ..
Olosho

And that's why you say all men are dogs abi?

No wahala. I won't argue.

By the way, what breed is your father?

Give 2 caesar what is caesar's. . .. . . .cheap thing!

@ op, what dog breed is your father?

kelish:
got d bigest embarrassmnt of life yestaday,
i happen to met a guy in my friend's lodge last friday afta beggin i desided 2 gv him my phn no he started callin evryday to woo me he comes 2 my hotel evtyday 2 see me we againd dat he s goin 2 tak me out on thursdy by 4 ,d day came i woke up vry weak i til manage 2 go wit my frnd wen we got dere he orderd a bottle of 33 beer for himself nd 2 bottles of soft for me nd my frnd we didnt evn chat well he leta got fish for 400 evrytin he sent on urs was nt up to 1000 wen we finishd he said we should go 2 his house nd dat my frnd should go i told him i wsnt going anywere ,dats were d trouble startd he said he was not goin 2 let me go evn wit d intervention of ppl we refuse 2 let me go. he disgraced me bcus of #700 he spent on me it took d intervention of his frndz to resuce me GOD forbid dat i will go bk 2 him.some guys r stupid

Pls modify,punctuate nd compose the sentence very well.......Or delete the post.

summerflame:
@ op, what dog breed is your father?

read nd understand b4 embrassing your self ,i said "some guys"

kelish:
got d bigest embarrassmnt of life yestaday,
i happen to met a guy in my friend's lodge last friday afta beggin i desided 2 gv him my phn no he started callin evryday to woo me he comes 2 my hotel evtyday 2 see me we againd dat he s goin 2 tak me out on thursdy by 4 ,d day came i woke up vry weak i til manage 2 go wit my frnd wen we got dere he orderd a bottle of 33 beer for himself nd 2 bottles of soft for me nd my frnd we didnt evn chat well he leta got fish for 400 evrytin he sent on urs was nt up to 1000 wen we finishd he said we should go 2 his house nd dat my frnd should go i told him i wsnt going anywere ,dats were d trouble startd he said he was not goin 2 let me go evn wit d intervention of ppl we refuse 2 let me go. he disgraced me bcus of #700 he spent on me it took d intervention of his frndz to resuce me GOD forbid dat i will go bk 2 him.some guys r stupid

How could you bring someone else along on a date doesn't that defeat the purpose of a date in the first place? Kai! Naija mentality self. O ga o.

seunlayi:
the guy was actually foolish. he invited the lady, must the next thing after drinks be always bed?

I tire o.

vani86:
I admit. The dudes behaviour was appalling.

But OP a guy invited you out on a date, you went with a friend , you guys have planned to drain him dry shey.

He was even patient enough to entertain d 2 of you, if it was me, would have stood up and left.

Did not know girls still do that sh.it. yes some dudes are dogs while some girls are bi.tches

Man, that naija mentality is surprising man. The purpose of a date is to find out if you guys have chemistry. If there is none then you don't ask her out on a second date. You both go your separate ways.

That's why in my opinion, the ideal first date shouldnt be going out to eat. It should be something like getting a cup of coffee, Ice cream or soft drinks. It gives you guys time to talk a lot and see if you have much in common.

sevantex:
Sumbodi who was askin u out nd u weren't interested in, u still went on a date wit him and went wit a friend so u culd exploit. No wonder u kept highlighting all d amount he spent on u in ur post. Stop d chop nd run mentality and u won't get embarassed. And also, stop generalising, all guys aren't dogs. Ur date misbehaved but he isn't all guys. Be careful cos ur next chop nd run venture mite end up worse. Adios!

Gbam

Utchgirl:
Dt guy bu onye ofemm'anu !

'33' no dey dia side and instead of him 2 ask d Op 4 some explanation ,he is here displaying his ignorance on line.

You do know that not everybody drinks right?!?

kelish:
got d bigest embarrassmnt of life yestaday,
i happen to met a guy in my friend's lodge last friday afta beggin i desided 2 gv him my phn no he started callin evryday to woo me he comes 2 my hotel evtyday 2 see me we againd dat he s goin 2 tak me out on thursdy by 4 ,d day came i woke up vry weak i til manage 2 go wit my frnd wen we got dere he orderd a bottle of 33 beer for himself nd 2 bottles of soft for me nd my frnd we didnt evn chat well he leta got fish for 400 evrytin he sent on urs was nt up to 1000 wen we finishd he said we should go 2 his house nd dat my frnd should go i told him i wsnt going anywere ,dats were d trouble startd he said he was not goin 2 let me go evn wit d intervention of ppl we refuse 2 let me go. he disgraced me bcus of #700 he spent on me it took d intervention of his frndz to resuce me GOD forbid dat i will go bk 2 him.some guys r stupid

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]How did the people who commented on this thread actually understand what you typed up there?

Are you using a Nokia C2 phone? [/color]

I wonder o.

you want chop but I no want give. Don't you know that chopping and giving goes hand in hand?

I tire to comment...

kelish:
got d bigest embarrassmnt of life yestaday,
i happen to met a guy in my friend's lodge last friday afta beggin i desided 2 gv him my phn no he started callin evryday to woo me he comes 2 my hotel evtyday 2 see me we againd dat he s goin 2 tak me out on thursdy by 4 ,d day came i woke up vry weak i til manage 2 go wit my frnd wen we got dere he orderd a bottle of 33 beer for himself nd 2 bottles of soft for me nd my frnd we didnt evn chat well he leta got fish for 400 evrytin he sent on urs was nt up to 1000 wen we finishd he said we should go 2 his house nd dat my frnd should go i told him i wsnt going anywere ,dats were d trouble startd he said he was not goin 2 let me go evn wit d intervention of ppl we refuse 2 let me go. he disgraced me bcus of #700 he spent on me it took d intervention of his frndz to resuce me GOD forbid dat i will go bk 2 him.some guys r stupid

Go and make your own money, and stop being a parasite

davidif:
You do know that not everybody drinks right?!?

Can't figure wht u r trying 2say.
pls tel me wht u wana say