Bro DAT girl don c person wec e pass u financially,4get about her dey are mor to contribute to society Dan ladies, make ur life mor meanful Dan d way it was wen she left u she will come begg

Cholls:
my sister shatap there love yasef kwa!


Hey brother welcome to the club.


I wont tell you not to cry cuz it shows you are human........now listen dont seldom take any babe serious for now.......you dont wanna know how many women I banged to get over a rejection not to talk of Hearbreak.

You apparently still get your validation from women. You Sir, need to heal.

I can't cry because of a girl like this

pryme:
Op first thing you have to strike out is self pity, there are many great men that have been dumped by ladies, yet they move on to attain greater things in life. Many ppl both men and women go thru and feel the same pain you are feeling now. Some come out stronger some come out worse off, how you come out if it? you have to choose.

Strength or Weakness.

If you are the sport type, guy don't dull get some good boots and go to football field and make tackles or score goals.

Try to socialize more, (you never know who you may meet).

Try to keep your mind busy (cos it's only when your mind is idle that you be entertaining painful thoughts), in my own case I will find my old PS 2 pad, set God Of War to the hardest level, then find a congregation of monsters that think they're so tough, then have Kratos pound the living Darkness out of them.

In time you will heal.
With time you will be Fine.

So get moving.

Thanks bro

first of all sorry, it will get better. all i have to say is stop shedding tears its too precious no one deserves your tears unless they're dead. my relationship ended too about 3,4 days ago at first i felt bad, funny enough i forced myself to cry i shredded a few tears cause someone said that was the first step, now i no longer care the secret is simple focus on other things do that one thing you've Been dying to do for a while now, don't kill yourself over one girl o, everything happens for a reason. be strong be a man.

BlueShine:


I have tried to hate.. . It not working

don't go down that route bro....it won't work because its not healthy.

go outdoor, meet new people and have fun.

time heals all wound.

BlueShine:
My ex gf broke up with me last week and I have been begging her she refused, I gave up on got tired, decided to try and move on with my life, I keep crying most times during the day, I want to forget about her but it is not working. It is so painful knowing the one you love has moved on with her life.

Please guys help me, how can I get hold of my self, I have tried to keep myself guys but still no way to get her off my head, I am seriously suffering right now, I have intense headache. I cant control my emotions, my mum is very sad seeing her grown up son cry this much and sad.

I haven't been able to eat properly ever since, I have no appetite, she has ruined my life. I cant concetrate on anything again, I have stopped everything I am doing because of the uncontrollable tears, each time I see a girl I remember her and I cry.

Please help me

hello. i want to ask u a question. is she ur first loveif yes y did she break up wt uwere u d one at faultanswer sincerely so dt i can advise. tnx

Vikky014:
hello. i want to ask u a question. is she ur first loveif yes y did she break up wt uwere u d one at faultanswer sincerely so dt i can advise. tnx

She is not first love. She broke up with excuse of my love is too big for her. I wasn't at fault.... I don't hurt people at all.

BlueShine:
My ex gf broke up with me last week and I have been begging her she refused, I gave up on got tired, decided to try and move on with my life, I keep crying most times during the day, I want to forget about her but it is not working. It is so painful knowing the one you love has moved on with her life.

Please guys help me, how can I get hold of my self, I have tried to keep myself guys but still no way to get her off my head, I am seriously suffering right now, I have intense headache. I cant control my emotions, my mum is very sad seeing her grown up son cry this much and sad.

I haven't been able to eat properly ever since, I have no appetite, she has ruined my life. I cant concetrate on anything again, I have stopped everything I am doing because of the uncontrollable tears, each time I see a girl I remember her and I cry.

Please help me

do u have work? I think that's the cause. Get something doing to get your self busy

BlueShine:



She is not first love. She broke up with excuse of my love is too big for her. I wasn't at fault.... I don't hurt people at all.

lol. swthrt pls wht u can do to overcome this is to ignore her for atleast 1 mnth. strting frm dis night. if she calls or text dnt reply...pls dnt break d rule. ignore her...it worked for me. nw dude is still begging to hv me back..


i dnt think u cried like me sha bc mum and dad even threatened to disown me if they catch me again shedding tears for him...

Vikky014:
lol. swthrt pls wht u can do to overcome this is to ignore her for atleast 1 mnth. strting frm dis night. if she calls or text dnt reply...pls dnt break d rule. ignore her...it worked for me. nw dude is still begging to hv me back..


i dnt think u cried like me sha bc mum and dad even threatened to disown me if they catch me again shedding tears for him...

Lol if she even ever called or text self, it would have been cool. She has fully moved on. I don't understand how easily she was able to do that. The thing Is if I was ugly at all, it would have been understandable, if you see me now you will think "see this fine guy, he must be enjoying lots of girls" mean while it is the very exact opposite. Lonely in a quiet world like a grave yard. My biggest problem is I become very attached to one lady like my life depends on it, I cant see any other lady apart from that one even if she is cheating for example I won't better, best I can do is give her condom to be safe, I believe in being free, so I give maximum freedom, but I myself will never cheat. Yet I get so fucking hurt everytime in the relationship. I try to smile. I feel so down, heavy weight on me. It's not like I want her back, I don't even want her back cause if she can hurt me like this she can kill me, my problem right now is my emotion and soul is wounded. How can someone I dated for 3 years plus do this to me. Someone I trusted. Killed me completely. Each time I think of how I have been so blind. I cry

BlueShine:



Lol if she even ever called or text self, it would have been cool. She has fully moved on. I don't understand how easily she was able to do that. The thing Is if I was ugly at all, it would have been understandable, if you see me now you will think "see this fine guy, he must be enjoying lots of girls" mean while it is the very exact opposite. Lonely in a quiet world like a grave yard. My biggest problem is I become very attached to one lady like my life depends on it, I cant see any other lady apart from that one even if she is cheating for example I won't better, best I can do is give her condom to be safe, I believe in being free, so I give maximum freedom, but I myself will never cheat. Yet I get so fucking hurt everytime in the relationship. I try to smile. I feel so down, heavy weight on me. It's not like I want her back, I don't even want her back cause if she can hurt me like this she can kill me, my problem right now is my emotion and soul is wounded. How can someone I dated for 3 years plus do this to me. Someone I trusted. Killed me completely. Each time I think of how I have been so blind. I cry

lol. urs na 3 yrs plus..mine ws 4 yrs. dude went for NYSC and strtd yarning dust abt hw he is no longer comfortable wt a no sex rlationship despite initiating. if i call d silly girl go pick. i jst moved on jare atleast i no sell myslf. bt yrs and reasonable suitors were severed bc of him. Well u can always try ur best by engaging urslf. i was using piano to help myslf sha
.dnt know ur hobby bt try and engage urslf anytime u remember her. she isnt calling bc u r begging her. so stop

Smoke one..youll be good

Vikky014:
lol. urs na 3 yrs plus..mine ws 4 yrs. dude went for NYSC and strtd yarning dust abt hw he is no longer comfortable wt a no sex rlationship despite initiating. if i call d silly girl go pick. i jst moved on jare atleast i no sell myslf. bt yrs and reasonable suitors were severed bc of him. Well u can always try ur best by engaging urslf. i was using piano to help myslf sha
.dnt know ur hobby bt try and engage urslf anytime u remember her. she isnt calling bc u r begging her. so stop

Eyah, sorry o thanks anyway.

BlueShine:


Eyah, sorry o thanks anyway.

lol. so happy dt i moved on bc he is nw crying...he evn calld this evening to asl hw my NYSC is going. i jst told him to stp calling me dt i'm ok. dt ws after missing his calls since lastweek. so its fun

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This is what happens when you have no goals and aspirations.

Somebody left you and you're killing yourself when there are better girls out there.

That's what love causes, with time, you will definitely get over it, just don't force it, its normal for you to brood over the break up, meanwhile, staying around people would help you, go out with friends and you will get better, being there and done.

That's what you get when you go into a relationship with only your heart leaving your brain behind

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23, how can you help me ?

Rukkydelta:
That's what you get when you go into a relationship with only your heart leaving your brain behind

you sound like a heart breaker, people who are in love, are they normal?

frugal:
This is what happens when you have no goals and aspirations.

Somebody left you and you're killing yourself when there are better girls out there.

thanks, i hope you achieve your goals.

BlueShine:


thanks, i hope you achieve your goals.

You need it more.

slimthugchimee:
you need a rope,poison or gun...


choose gun, its faster and easier.....


find that modafking bilch and pull the trigger to her head

damn hoe

Every advice u dish out counts... Knowingly or unknowingly...

You won't know either if it's your advice the OP would go with.. Please be serious when giving advice not in this manner.... Seriously u never can tell what will happen next..

The Internet stays... And remembers all!!!

kimbra:
Usually when I am heart broken I look for my ex's imperfections and develop resentment towards him. This helps to clear my head.

Secondly, I pick up my maths text book and start solving those difficult areas have avoided for years and it works.

Thirdly, I tell myself I don't need them to be happy, and losing me is their lose cos a well deserving person would always come. It's just a matter of time!.

Word! U mean a well deserving guy like men eh?

luminouz:

Word! U mean a well deserving guy like men eh?

I don't get you.

This is why I don't love too much.

you will get over it with time sorry

ToriBlue:
This is why I don't love too much.

Is there a way you can control your emotions and not love someone too much?

BlueShine:


Is there a way you can control your emotions and not love someone too much?

After series of heartbreaks, it took me years to learn to control my emotions and feelings. I can fake love, I can also conceal it.

BlueShine:
My ex gf broke up with me last week and I have been begging her she refused, I gave up on got tired, decided to try and move on with my life, I keep crying most times during the day, I want to forget about her but it is not working. It is so painful knowing the one you love has moved on with her life.

Please guys help me, how can I get hold of my self, I have tried to keep myself guys but still no way to get her off my head, I am seriously suffering right now, I have intense headache. I cant control my emotions, my mum is very sad seeing her grown up son cry this much and sad.

I haven't been able to eat properly ever since, I have no appetite, she has ruined my life. I cant concetrate on anything again, I have stopped everything I am doing because of the uncontrollable tears, each time I see a girl I remember her and I cry.

Please help me

crying under ur mummy's roof over a biatch! Are u for real?