dabrightt:
You made some good point but we still have men that don't cheat and will never cheat.who are those men?......................................................................................................................................................................... A man that have accept jesus has his lord and savior and wish to make heaven have to run from all sin including adultery and furnication..Read romance 8 vs 5 to 9.
The major problem ladies have is that they want a God fearing man ask ur self this question are u God fearing to decerve a God fearing man..A God fearing man will never cheat on his woman leave it or take

Jman06:
That's the fact! But that doesn't mean there aren't 'virgin' guys who will not cheat. The point is that any body can be that irresponsibe to cheat on their spouses. That is why it is not proper for people to insist on marrying a particular tribe, social class or religious group with the assumption that the rest are bad. Or say say i will not marry so and so person because he/she is an atheist or doesn't attend your church.

Laveda:


Oh lawd!

Toks2008:


Do you know why I'm still single at 41 even when I could just get married to any available lady?

I want to make sure I get a lady who is sexually pleasing to my eyes,cooks well and loves God.

If I have all these in a lady and she maintains proper decirum then she will beg me to cheat on her.

I just don't understand why I should start sleeping around when I have what I want in one lady.

Some say I'm too picky but I would rather be picky and get what I want than settle for just any option and cheat on her or live my sexual life fantasizing about another lady.

obiorathesubtle:


My dear, the ladies love the big head.. I think you're falling in love too..


Eeyah.. Sorry dear.. Even a priest can't be trusted..


Take it from me.. Men love cheating like honey

obiorathesubtle:



What? I can and will never vouch for my dad.. Ever since I discovered we like almost the same thing, we're very much alike in mind.. I've never trusted him.. Plus.. I have proof it has happened..


My mum.. I can't vouch for her either.. She's only human.. . But I love her regardless..


Cheating is an art.. If you don't get caught.. You are safe..

Lawlahdey:
I have never been heartbroken.
And I have only dated once before, i'm also in a relationship right now.
This post was created not because i'm heartbroken but because it's the FACT.

ChizzyMaris:
Hey Lolade, relax.. that all the guys you've ever dated cheated on you doesn't meant there aren't faithful men out there.
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You know, I actually wanted to offer a silent prayer on your behalf now, but I don't know if I should pray for Lolade or Lawlahdey?
May you find your own faithful man anyway.
Amen?

ChizzyMaris:
Hey Lolade, relax.. that all the guys you've ever dated cheated on you doesn't meant there aren't faithful men out there.
.
You know, I actually wanted to offer a silent prayer on your behalf now, but I don't know if I should pray for Lolade or Lawlahdey?
May you find your own faithful man anyway.
Amen?

Laveda:


Keep trying to justify your cheating acts..

Its all shades of wrong and you know that.. Or why do you feel remorse when you do?

I can't condone a cheating man, that I'll never do. I wish every woman lives by that. . its even better you stay single and fùck around like dogs than deceiving us.

Lawlahdey:
Women, of course.
But this post isn't aimed at portraying men as the only ones that cheat, rather it's aimed at correcting the impression of most ladies that a man can remain faithful to them only for the rest of his life.
Sure, it's possible but only in few cases.

Ladies should always expect the worst from their man.

Lawlahdey:
We all know that.
Some of us just don't wanna admit it.

JeffreyJames:


That's not a healthy way to start a relationship. If a lady Is expecting the worse from her man then what is the basis of the relationship? I've been in only 2 relationships and both ended with me being cheated on. That doesn't mean my next relationship I'll have it in mind that the girl is going to cheat. Everybody is different. It's not healthy to use the case of another person to judge someone else.

obiorathesubtle:



I don't feel remorse when I cheat.. I've embraced my demons.. We howl at the moon together..



Uuuh.. Okay.. We love doing that.. But it gets boring.. So the excitement comes In when you have a wife and cheat on hear..

FTBOY:
chai! this boy is rotten.

refiner:
Lol...isokay...
Ur siggy tho...i'm curious

JeffreyJames:


That's not a healthy way to start a relationship. If a lady Is expecting the worse from her man then what is the basis of the relationship? I've been in only 2 relationships and both ended with me being cheated on. That doesn't mean my next relationship I'll have it in mind that the girl is going to cheat. Everybody is different. It's not healthy to use the case of another person to judge someone else.

Lawlahdey:
I have never been heartbroken.
And I have only dated once before, i'm also in a relationship right now.
This post was created not because i'm heartbroken but because it's the FACT.

Toks2008:


Can you now feel the heat I feel anytime I create factual threads?

You can imagine them thinking this is about your experience...the same way they believe all I write is who I am but I am tired explaining to people that I'm a realist and the fact that I have never cheated on my lady or may never cheat on my wife does not mean other men won't neither will that make me preach sexual faithfulness. ...it's a matter of choice.

Jarizod:

morning boss!

Laveda:


Carry on till you get caught and she kicks you out..

Let's not argue, when real life hits you, you'd learn to stay faithful. For now keep sharing your dick like the national cake.

Unless I want to be caught.. I won't get caught.. There are more than a thousand ways to conceal cheating.



Real life has hit me. And it did in the way that has made me see, it's more sensible to embrace it than try to be what you're not..



Hahahaha.. The eaters love the cake. They aren't complaining. Who doesn't love cake? .

obiorathesubtle:




Lmao.. Can you swear your dad never ventured into another vagina apart from your mum's?

kimbra:
My dad wasn't a dog, Obiora.

Im sorry.. Very sorry if I gave the impression of regarding him as one..



All I'm saying my dear, please don't ever vouch for him.. For safety..

Laveda:

Carry on till you get caught and she kicks you out..

Let's not argue, when real life hits you, you'd learn to stay faithful. For now keep sharing your dick like the national cake.

obiorathesubtle:



If my woman cheats ad I catCh her..



She's doing the walk of atonement..


I don't condone cheating from my woman.. Biitch my dick is big enough..


Shame! Shame! Shame!

DarkRebel101:


In other words, monogamy is built on the premise of jealousy. Is that it?



*No, I was referring more to your previous post.
I think it's based more on commitment, loyalty and love for just that person you choose.
The context of jealousy came in where you actually considered sleeping with other women besides your wife but thought twice about her doing the same thing, cos you know it'll hurt your feelings, ego, probably your esteem, etc.*




Yes, there must be rules. Rules like “no man must kill his fellow man”; but not arbitrary rules that robs one of his/her freewill. I know that in Islam it is nearly mandatory for the females to put on a hijab, at least for as long as they still live under their parent's roof. I see most of these elehas wear their hijabs grudgingly, waiting for the slightest form of freedom to present itself so as to free themselves from what I suppose they consider to be a cage. And this as you may know often happens when they gain admission into the higher institution, away from the watchful guidance of their parents.



* Lolz, yet to meet a niqabi that grudgingly wears the hijab except one being forced to use the niab by an 'oversabi' husband or elder one.
I have friends that willingly choose to, even having to deal with having their family and friends accept them that way. That's the more common scenario. They don't see it as a cage, people around them paint it so.
Like when I use my hijab, someone who has never used one would think it's nice to pity me cos of the heat, when he or she is the one bathed in sweat and I'm as dry as can be*




You said it yourself that your religion permits men to marry more than one wife. What you did not state is that while your religion permits this, it does not allow for a woman to marry more than one husband. Now, is this rule arbitrary or not? Is it sexist or not? Is it fair, or is just another subtle reaffirmation of passive-agressive patriachy?


*I won't delve too much into this. Looking at it, a lot of things isn't fair to women. *

Never mind that I'm pointing fingers only at Islam here. It actually is the case in all religions.

Lilyqueeny:



You are right but one has to be careful in choosing a spouse

Lawlahdey:
Looks like comprehension wasn't embedded in your DNA. *sighs*

Bye.

obiorathesubtle:



Im sorry.. Very sorry if I gave the impression of regarding him as one..



All I'm saying my dear, please don't ever vouch for him.. For safety..

TrapHedges:


its nothing serious tho..i tried to mail you.. Ii didnt get a reply tho