| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by ifex370(m): 8:11pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
myking95:
So does the world revolve around her? Himnhebdoesnt have emotional needs too? Can't u see d man loves his wife? She is simply taking him for granted. If I were him, stop sleeping with your wife asap...let her do her worst.
Just delete her gradually from your life...find happiness elsewhere. This is why I build my life around me and me alone...I'd rada have that gratification delayed than built around someone else. And at the end what happens... The results won't give you long lasting peace more it won't even solve d ish |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by lumzybo: 8:11pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Fear women!!! 1 Like |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by titiakins: 8:11pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Definitely!!!
She's cheating 1 Like |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Etizz: 8:13pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
ikechkwuegone:
Good day Nairalanders, I will like to be brief and specific.I am happily married with kids and we based in Eastern part of the country.
I and my wife work and contribute to the well being of the family.Some months ago I started noticing my wife's body language when ever she is on phone with her boss by been blushing like a single girl talking to her boyfriend.
Secondly the same Boss bought her a phone, which I did not take serious, thinking it will make the official communication between them more easier.
I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone.
Last week I accidentally checked her chat with the man , I was very surprised when I saw Her boss referred to my Wife as "My Baaby" at d beginning of their conversation and some other words like "Dear ao re u".
I confronted my wife, it was very difficult for me to confront her because I don't want the trust between us spoil.When confronted she gave me two answers, that Her calls every female staffs My Baaby, secondly that the message was mistake frm Her boss that it wasn't meant for Her that was why she didn't reply.I believed Her and we move on.
Two days ago I came back frm work and I met my wife lying down on the bed with phone conversation, instantly my wife change what they were discussing.I asked my wife what they were discussing but she stammering.
The same man do tell my wife about his wife inability to conceive the second child for him.
With all these instances I am totally confused and devastated. I love my wife so much , I can't wait for d worst to happen between her and d man, she is making keep suspecting her.
I am a very loyal to her, I bnever cheat on her, she is everything to me, I don't see her wife but a friend and confidential.
Married nairalanders I really need your advice on how to handle this before my happy home will be ruin, Almighty Lord will bless your home as u give me ur candid advice I would have helped you HACK your woman whatsapp so u can access her chat from your phone if she's online, but, I need to get hold of the phone for like 3mins then all your doubt will be over,.... 1 Like |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 8:13pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Checking your wife's phone wasn't "accidentally" bro, come now.
I think you've confirmed your suspicion already and it is probably disbelief that is playing mind games with you. |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Hamid7(m): 8:14pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
This is what you get in a society that have no standards. People should learn to call things their right names Using something else in place of its proper name can give provocative meaning |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by EPIJOE: 8:15pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
IT IS WELL |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
ifex370:
Make your wife feel more loved.. There's sth she's missing Gbam! Simple. |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by smogup: 8:15pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
ikechkwuegone:
Good day Nairalanders, I will like to be brief and specific.I am happily married with kids and we based in Eastern part of the country.
I and my wife work and contribute to the well being of the family.Some months ago I started noticing my wife's body language when ever she is on phone with her boss by been blushing like a single girl talking to her boyfriend.
Secondly the same Boss bought her a phone, which I did not take serious, thinking it will make the official communication between them more easier.
I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone.
Last week I accidentally checked her chat with the man , I was very surprised when I saw Her boss referred to my Wife as "My Baaby" at d beginning of their conversation and some other words like "Dear ao re u".
I confronted my wife, it was very difficult for me to confront her because I don't want the trust between us spoil.When confronted she gave me two answers, that Her calls every female staffs My Baaby, secondly that the message was mistake frm Her boss that it wasn't meant for Her that was why she didn't reply.I believed Her and we move on.
Two days ago I came back frm work and I met my wife lying down on the bed with phone conversation, instantly my wife change what they were discussing.I asked my wife what they were discussing but she stammering.
The same man do tell my wife about his wife inability to conceive the second child for him.
With all these instances I am totally confused and devastated. I love my wife so much , I can't wait for d worst to happen between her and d man, she is making keep suspecting her.
I am a very loyal to her, I bnever cheat on her, she is everything to me, I don't see her wife but a friend and confidential.
Married nairalanders I really need your advice on how to handle this before my happy home will be ruin, Almighty Lord will bless your home as u give me ur candid advice it pains me to tell you that she is cheating on you. The only way to save the marriage is for to quit the job and even change her number 1 Like |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
lumzybo:
Fear women!!! Not fear but love a good woman orelse u will end up lonely. 1 Like |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Rexleo(m): 8:17pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
What ever is it that you do don't talk or act it out on your wife.she will go defensive and you will no longer enjoy your home.the problem is not your wife but you and the boss. Take the phone send a chat and SMS to the boss stating an eye for an eye.the point of this is that you most not betray your emotions. be stoic.don't entertain any talk from you wife.afterwards drop the phone in hot oil.case closed you have just retrieved your home from the hand of a stranger. Be smart.the bottom line is that all this action should not generate noice and degenerate or else you lose the import of it.keep them guessing u.never discuss it with her even after it is resolved. 2 Likes |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Slimpotter:
I wonder how people reason.With all the abovementioned she's still saying it might be nothing. That's why I wonder girls way of thinking is twisted. She really is stupid Thats why i dont blame guys when they say Girls got Fish brains. Please permit me to add "Fried" .....U sabi as Fried fish head dey break easily, na so her brain be. 1 Like |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by zynzyn(m): 8:18pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
ikechkwuegone:
Good day Nairalanders, I will like to be brief and specific.I am happily married with kids and we based in Eastern part of the country.
I and my wife work and contribute to the well being of the family.Some months ago I started noticing my wife's body language when ever she is on phone with her boss by been blushing like a single girl talking to her boyfriend.
Secondly the same Boss bought her a phone, which I did not take serious, thinking it will make the official communication between them more easier.
I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone.
Last week I accidentally checked her chat with the man , I was very surprised when I saw Her boss referred to my Wife as "My Baaby" at d beginning of their conversation and some other words like "Dear ao re u".
I confronted my wife, it was very difficult for me to confront her because I don't want the trust between us spoil.When confronted she gave me two answers, that Her calls every female staffs My Baaby, secondly that the message was mistake frm Her boss that it wasn't meant for Her that was why she didn't reply.I believed Her and we move on.
Two days ago I came back frm work and I met my wife lying down on the bed with phone conversation, instantly my wife change what they were discussing.I asked my wife what they were discussing but she stammering.
The same man do tell my wife about his wife inability to conceive the second child for him.
With all these instances I am totally confused and devastated. I love my wife so much , I can't wait for d worst to happen between her and d man, she is making keep suspecting her.
I am a very loyal to her, I bnever cheat on her, she is everything to me, I don't see her wife but a friend and confidential.
Married nairalanders I really need your advice on how to handle this before my happy home will be ruin, Almighty Lord will bless your home as u give me ur candid advice A smart woman will never give you CLEAR EVIDENCE OF CHEATING!   She knows the implications eg your family and hers! A lot is at stake! If I were u I would opt out! Or maybe u set a very good trap 4 her  But BE SMART about it. No slips! |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by phemi01(m): 8:18pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Bros you really need to seek advice from professionals. I think your wife is cheating. Talk to her and beg her to tell you the truth. It's very painful especially when you really love her and you guys already have kids together. She really needs to tell you the truth as this is the only way things can ever be better between you too. |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by charlsecy(m): 8:19pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
ikechkwuegone:
I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone. No unprotected sex for now... |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by richard870(m): 8:19pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
From all indications , I would say she's .....hmmm |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
The problem is you have greater affection for your wife than she has for you which is what she capitalized on and treats you like a wet sock. 8 Likes |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by hmbassey1960(m): 8:19pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Guy if u love ur wife wella as u say first do enqiury about the boss and u should a real evidence for hand pay her suprise visit for office oneday observe tins no just conlude |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by slysteel: 8:19pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Tell yourself the truth,you know that your wife is sleeping with her boss,why are you here seeking a second opinion? 2 Likes |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by shounited74: 8:20pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
She is just about to cheat on you. |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by MissOpe(f): 8:20pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
DLondonboiy:
Calm down my brother, I'm sure you are overreacting.
Take your wife out tomorrow, maybe to a fine restaurant, and talk to her..She's your wife, so I believe you can talk to her.
Ask her if the tables were turned and you are the one always calling another woman, chatting with another woman and all whatnot, ask her how she would feel?
Her response would tell you the next line of action to take... A young man who has been identified as Chinedu Peter, was reportedly shot dead by a Police Officer, Ibe Uchenna, just in front of Christ the King Cathedra(C.K.C) Asa road, Aba, while coming back from an eatery with his girlfriend. It is alleged that the Police Officer refused taking the man who he shot to the hospital, and reportedly dumped him somewhere else after he had washed off his blood from the Police patrol van. |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by LePrezident(m): 8:20pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
emerged01:
Imagine a boss flirting with his staff! The boss is a dog and your wife must be stupid to be flirting with her boss. What you can do is to stop her from going to that work,collect her sim and break it,and buy her new sim. Disconnect her from him totally. Just wow really? You think the wife is his kid? You have tendencies of domestic violence. See, if the wife will go wayward there's nothing he can do about it. He needs to step up his game and make the marriage more fun... life happens, you can commit murder because of a woman. |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Lexusgs430: 8:21pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
ikechkwuegone:
Good day Nairalanders, I will like to be brief and specific.I am happily married with kids and we based in Eastern part of the country.
I and my wife work and contribute to the well being of the family.Some months ago I started noticing my wife's body language when ever she is on phone with her boss by been blushing like a single girl talking to her boyfriend.
Secondly the same Boss bought her a phone, which I did not take serious, thinking it will make the official communication between them more easier.
I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone.
Last week I accidentally checked her chat with the man , I was very surprised when I saw Her boss referred to my Wife as "My Baaby" at d beginning of their conversation and some other words like "Dear ao re u".
I confronted my wife, it was very difficult for me to confront her because I don't want the trust between us spoil.When confronted she gave me two answers, that Her calls every female staffs My Baaby, secondly that the message was mistake frm Her boss that it wasn't meant for Her that was why she didn't reply.I believed Her and we move on.
Two days ago I came back frm work and I met my wife lying down on the bed with phone conversation, instantly my wife change what they were discussing.I asked my wife what they were discussing but she stammering.
The same man do tell my wife about his wife inability to conceive the second child for him.
With all these instances I am totally confused and devastated. I love my wife so much , I can't wait for d worst to happen between her and d man, she is making keep suspecting her.
I am a very loyal to her, I bnever cheat on her, she is everything to me, I don't see her wife but a friend and confidential.
Married nairalanders I really need your advice on how to handle this before my happy home will be ruin, Almighty Lord will bless your home as u give me ur candid advice If they chat using whatsapp, simply download an app called Whatscan pro. Use QR code to pair both phones, and when her phone is within close proximity of the paired device, all chats would be replicated.. ..... Just wait and watch........... .. ..... ... . |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by purityval(m): 8:21pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Diplomaticbeing:
The very moment you allowed yourself to be emotionally entangled by your partner, automatically you make yourself powerless in the relationship and indirectly you become a servile. Negative occurrences like the ones you've witnessed so far are usually the after effects. You need to become a no nonsense man since you're certain of your loyalty towards her.
Become a self-willed lover - not a feeble-minded lover you're so far - towards her and see her change for good self-willedly too. Her change for good though would depend on whether she's still committed to your marriage union with her. I say demand for a profound mental change from her not a superficial face-lift, this shouldn't be an ultimatum per se but a demand for her own good, which will automatically leaves her with a choice to make. . . Never deny anyone freewill. And begin to tell yourself the truth that no human being is indispensable in your life. In the event that she fails to embrace a profound mental change, you take any action that will best suit you.
One funny thing about petty people is that they are always quick to initiate mind games but they are bad losers - they never embrace sportsmanship after their perpetual loss. Disingenuously allow them to go away with their shenanigans, you see them erroneously believe that truly they're smarter and more wicked than you're. Resist them and see them resort to disparaging and denigrating you. Then, reciprocate/mete out to them their negative attitudes in equal and opposite proportions and see them cry murder/victim. Pettiness sucks.
Beni sir 1 Like |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by femiolorun(m): 8:22pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
ikechkwuegone:
Good day Nairalanders, I will like to be brief and specific.I am happily married with kids and we based in Eastern part of the country.
I and my wife work and contribute to the well being of the family.Some months ago I started noticing my wife's body language when ever she is on phone with her boss by been blushing like a single girl talking to her boyfriend.
Secondly the same Boss bought her a phone, which I did not take serious, thinking it will make the official communication between them more easier.
I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone.
Last week I accidentally checked her chat with the man , I was very surprised when I saw Her boss referred to my Wife as "My Baaby" at d beginning of their conversation and some other words like "Dear ao re u".
I confronted my wife, it was very difficult for me to confront her because I don't want the trust between us spoil.When confronted she gave me two answers, that Her calls every female staffs My Baaby, secondly that the message was mistake frm Her boss that it wasn't meant for Her that was why she didn't reply.I believed Her and we move on.
Two days ago I came back frm work and I met my wife lying down on the bed with phone conversation, instantly my wife change what they were discussing.I asked my wife what they were discussing but she stammering.
The same man do tell my wife about his wife inability to conceive the second child for him.
With all these instances I am totally confused and devastated. I love my wife so much , I can't wait for d worst to happen between her and d man, she is making keep suspecting her.
I am a very loyal to her, I bnever cheat on her, she is everything to me, I don't see her wife but a friend and confidential.
Married nairalanders I really need your advice on how to handle this before my happy home will be ruin, Almighty Lord will bless your home as u give me ur candid advice What are you waiting for, its bodly written. Set trap |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by alen4smith(m): 8:22pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Nma27:
You are just a plain old fool consumed by your misery.. Wicked idiot. The op should turn his marriage upside down na. Instead of u to advice him, you are here spewing thrash... Anuoofia your foolishness stinks!you must be a cheat that is why you don't see anything wrong in what the op's wife is doing .empty vessel! 2 Likes |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by VeniJu: 8:24pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
ikechkwuegone:
Good day Nairalanders, I will like to be brief and specific.I am happily married with kids and we based in Eastern part of the country.
I and my wife work and contribute to the well being of the family.Some months ago I started noticing my wife's body language when ever she is on phone with her boss by been blushing like a single girl talking to her boyfriend.
Secondly the same Boss bought her a phone, which I did not take serious, thinking it will make the official communication between them more easier.
I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone.
Last week I accidentally checked her chat with the man , I was very surprised when I saw Her boss referred to my Wife as "My Baaby" at d beginning of their conversation and some other words like "Dear ao re u".
I confronted my wife, it was very difficult for me to confront her because I don't want the trust between us spoil.When confronted she gave me two answers, that Her calls every female staffs My Baaby, secondly that the message was mistake frm Her boss that it wasn't meant for Her that was why she didn't reply.I believed Her and we move on.
Two days ago I came back frm work and I met my wife lying down on the bed with phone conversation, instantly my wife change what they were discussing.I asked my wife what they were discussing but she stammering.
The same man do tell my wife about his wife inability to conceive the second child for him.
With all these instances I am totally confused and devastated. I love my wife so much , I can't wait for d worst to happen between her and d man, she is making keep suspecting her.
I am a very loyal to her, I bnever cheat on her, she is everything to me, I don't see her wife but a friend and confidential.
Married nairalanders I really need your advice on how to handle this before my happy home will be ruin, Almighty Lord will bless your home as u give me ur candid advice OP. This might sound funny but very true. Get a &'relationship spy'' and get more info abt ur wife & her boss.. It works alot. Mention me for detals. |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by ikwikwi: 8:24pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
You are not a sharp husband, she confirmed cheating with her boss. What are you waiting for. Am sure she feeds you. Good day Nairalanders, I will like to be brief and specific.I am happily married with kids and we based in Eastern part of the country.
I and my wife work and contribute to the well being of the family.Some months ago I started noticing my wife's body language when ever she is on phone with her boss by been blushing like a single girl talking to her boyfriend.
Secondly the same Boss bought her a phone, which I did not take serious, thinking it will make the official communication between them more easier.
I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone.
Last week I accidentally checked her chat with the man , I was very surprised when I saw Her boss referred to my Wife as "My Baaby" at d beginning of their conversation and some other words like "Dear ao re u".
I confronted my wife, it was very difficult for me to confront her because I don't want the trust between us spoil.When confronted she gave me two answers, that Her calls every female staffs My Baaby, secondly that the message was mistake frm Her boss that it wasn't meant for Her that was why she didn't reply.I believed Her and we move on.
Two days ago I came back frm work and I met my wife lying down on the bed with phone conversation, instantly my wife change what they were discussing.I asked my wife what they were discussing but she stammering.
The same man do tell my wife about his wife inability to conceive the second child for him.
With all these instances I am totally confused and devastated. I love my wife so much , I can't wait for d worst to happen between her and d man, she is making keep suspecting her.
I am a very loyal to her, I bnever cheat on her, she is everything to me, I don't see her wife but a friend and confidential.
Married nairalanders I really need your advice on how to handle this before my happy home will be ruin, Almighty Lord will bless your home as u give me ur candid advice[/quote] |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by bsonenterprise: 8:25pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Bros, buy your wife expensive things now and then. I have a secretary who uses all this extremely cheap china phone, I bought her a blackberry b5 for her last birthday, the lady almost killed me with calls. If I was an opportunist, I'd have showered her more gifts, tipped her often, and increased her salary and start smashing her. There is a million and one ways to catch a bored, broke, cash-hungry wife. but I am thankful im a loyal husband, and I dont even imagine myself sleeping with someone who works for me.
I recently took my madam to a three star hotel for one night, come and see the skills she displayed for me...and the day I bought her iphone 6, the cooking wey she cook, as in. This little romantic gesture chase away the predators...
Sit your wife down, tell her that job is a NO NO. It's either the job and the boss or the marriage. And please, make your standing firm...women hate a man who isnt resolute. You need to be the man, and stop tolerating this trash.
I am praying for every husband out there, may God bless you with money to spice your relationship. 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Talkingboy: 8:25pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Diplomaticbeing:
The very moment you allowed yourself to be emotionally entangled by your partner, automatically you make yourself powerless in the relationship and indirectly you become a servile. Negative occurrences like the ones you've witnessed so far are usually the after effects. You need to become a no nonsense man since you're certain of your loyalty towards her.
Become a self-willed lover - not a feeble-minded lover you're so far - towards her and see her change for good self-willedly too. Her change for good though would depend on whether she's still committed to your marriage union with her. I say demand for a profound mental change from her not a superficial face-lift, this shouldn't be an ultimatum per se but a demand for her own good, which will automatically leaves her with a choice to make. . . Never deny anyone freewill. And begin to tell yourself the truth that no human being is indispensable in your life. In the event that she fails to embrace a profound mental change, you take any action that will best suit you.
One funny thing about petty people is that they are always quick to initiate mind games but they are bad losers - they never embrace sportsmanship after their perpetual loss. Disingenuously allow them to go away with their shenanigans, you see them erroneously believe that truly they're smarter and more wicked than you're. Resist them and see them resort to disparaging and denigrating you. Then, reciprocate/mete out to them their negative attitudes in equal and opposite proportions and see them cry murder/victim. Pettiness sucks.
Somebody get me a dictionary please .
I love ur written skillz .
1 Like |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by chukwudi3(m): 8:25pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
Kobicove:
It's still too early to conclude that she's cheating on you . U want her to be pregnant for the oga before any action? |
| Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by jd1986(m): 8:25pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
friendl:
Oga husband ,l wan ask you one question :why your wife still dey talk to her boss after office hours ?
Trust me ,they have gone far in their relationship and trust me if you were from Edo state ,you would have died long ago Edo woman wicked like that?  What's the best way to avoid this kain thin?  |
