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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by March1117(m): 11:09pm On Mar 18, 2017
FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

Since he gets erection, it then means he isn't impotent; that could be termed weak erection or so. But my candid advice is that you seek advice from FlexHerbal via 08066194562. Fortunately, he is also a nairalander.
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by bullabong(m): 11:10pm On Mar 18, 2017
Heromaniaa:
Yesterday was the day kasala burst for my head. I was on my way to an interview. Since 5 years wey I graduate, bros, I never see real job. But that yesterday, something told me that was the end of my job search. My girlfriend had linked me to a friend that had friend who was the GM in a manufacturing company. When I contacted the so called GM, he picked the phone and answered me like a vampire had given him a Mouth Gig.

“Who be rat? He spat out.

“It’s me Psalm. A friend of Sarah, who is a friend to Akpan, your good friend. He said you are the GM of Green food Industries.”

I could hear him chuckling on the other end.

“Werin you wan make I ju for you?” he replied. I was already getting pissed.

“I want to submit my CV to your company. I was told you could help me get a job”

“Bring am tomorrow, I go help you give the GM”

“Are you not the GM?

“Bro e be like say you never ready. I be the Gateman, your friend no tell your friend to tell your friend to tell you?

My jaw dropped. But I had no choice; I tidied my white shirt and dusted my CV. I must get that job the next day...

As early as 8 AM the next day, I set out. My gf had made a delicious afang soup the other night. I quickly heated four wraps of fufu, devoured it and left feeling like a bouncer. It had rained the other night and the bad roads were still muddy. I did my best to avoid reckless drivers from splashing dirty water on me. My best, as usual, was not enough.

A man in a black prado Jeep zoomed past, emptying a pot hole of muddy water on me. I did what any other frustrated man would do.


I boarded a bike and chased after him. Who knows, he could settle me with something tangible. The okadaman was a skillful rider but the prado guy had no chill. After five minutes, I spotted his car parked right in front of my babe’s apartment. Fear catch me like politician wey receive alert from Dasuki. I paid off the bike man and cautiously peeped into my girlfriend’s one room apartment. What I saw shocked me.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 11:12pm On Mar 18, 2017
fake story.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by k199192: 11:13pm On Mar 18, 2017
Heromaniaa:
Yesterday was the day kasala burst for my head. I was on my way to an interview. Since 5 years wey I graduate, bros, I never see real job. But that yesterday, something told me that was the end of my job search. My girlfriend had linked me to a friend that had friend who was the GM in a manufacturing company. When I contacted the so called GM, he picked the phone and answered me like a vampire had given him a Mouth Gig.

“Who be rat? He spat out.

“It’s me Psalm. A friend of Sarah, who is a friend to Akpan, your good friend. He said you are the GM of Green food Industries.”

I could hear him chuckling on the other end.

“Werin you wan make I ju for you?” he replied. I was already getting pissed.

“I want to submit my CV to your company. I was told you could help me get a job”

“Bring am tomorrow, I go help you give the GM”

“Are you not the GM?

“Bro e be like say you never ready. I be the Gateman, your friend no tell your friend to tell your friend to tell you?

My jaw dropped. But I had no choice; I tidied my white shirt and dusted my CV. I must get that job the next day...

As early as 8 AM the next day, I set out. My gf had made a delicious afang soup the other night. I quickly heated four wraps of fufu, devoured it and left feeling like a bouncer. It had rained the other night and the bad roads were still muddy. I did my best to avoid reckless drivers from splashing dirty water on me. My best, as usual, was not enough.

A man in a black prado Jeep zoomed past, emptying a pot hole of muddy water on me. I did what any other frustrated man would do.


I boarded a bike and chased after him. Who knows, he could settle me with something tangible. The okadaman was a skillful rider but the prado guy had no chill. After five minutes, I spotted his car parked right in front of my babe’s apartment. Fear catch me like politician wey receive alert from Dasuki. I paid off the bike man and cautiously peeped into my girlfriend’s one room apartment. What I saw shocked me.

Continue reading here
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continue reading here you said... Abi you just wanted me to know that you have a blog. Yeye. Story without end is that one story..?mtchew
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by holysainbj(m): 11:14pm On Mar 18, 2017
PaperLace:
You need to slap yourself if you think 'premarital sex' is the solution to this. When it happens within the marriage, what next? Does she go back to testing other dicks? Let's have it in mind that he could have easily taken PED to impress her while dating_ men have concealed worse defects.
ED can happen at any point in life to a (%) of men. Depression, anxiety, diet, lifestyle, stress_ could all cause ED after being TESTED by your partner. Sex before marriage isn't the ready solution.

Milady in as much as your opinion is reasonable to a reasonable extent, dont you think pre-marital sex might have saved her this untold grief and suffering she bears now? You have said slap yOurself if we think pre-marital sex is d ans, in this case, it should have been the perfect ans.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by blkmum700: 11:16pm On Mar 18, 2017
B4bestbrain:



Who told you that they don't have it?

How many of them are childless, single parents, divorcee, frustrated(always believing in the power of gun) to the extent of comiting suicide.

Don't be deceived. All that glitters are not gold!

Swap them to our kind of economy and see how many of them that will survive it.


Childless,Single Parents,Divorced or anything has noting to do with Spiritual Husband or Wife except you want to say to the contrary ,these are natural things and they have been happening for centuries.
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by k199192: 11:16pm On Mar 18, 2017
Acidosis:
Your sis and her husband need to provide the exact state of the whole issue to get a good advice.

Is it a hard-on issue?
Sustained e. rection issue?
Thrusting issue?
this one like amebo pass him life... See as amebo they sweet you. "your sis should provide exact state of bla bla bla".. Amebo rapata
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Rockyfancino(m): 11:17pm On Mar 18, 2017
Strange
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by shinebabe(f): 11:17pm On Mar 18, 2017
blkmum700:



can you confirm your Ruzu is working,have they used it on you before?

Do you have erectile dysfunction?
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 11:19pm On Mar 18, 2017
Merceline:
mechie onu gi. just because you support sex before marriage doesn't mean those who dont want to do sex before marriage should suffer. after all said and done you will still insult a prostitute. so much for being intelligent.

Nne oma jiri ya nwayo, Obuzi onye kwue ezi okwu panti ya efue


having said that, I'm a man with exposure and not like an average timid guys that liters on the streets, I will rather be comfortable with a wild and exposed lady than your so called virgin and crude girls


Present me a virgin and an ex prostitute I will choose the latter with the speed of lightning and save myself some dramas

.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by blkmum700: 11:19pm On Mar 18, 2017
shinebabe:


Do you have erectile dysfunction?


Yes answered your question,but have they used it on you before and confirm it's working.
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 11:20pm On Mar 18, 2017
Certitude:
Your sister's pvssy is unappealing. The story looks unreal though

Never heard of prematured ejaculation ? You men should Keep lying to yourself !
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 11:20pm On Mar 18, 2017
This is how a man gets treated when he relies on a woman and her family for upkeep. That's all I got from this. Men make your own money and accept no assistance from her family because you will be treated worse than their housemaid. They will table your business and tell the world your story.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by KKKWHITE(m): 11:21pm On Mar 18, 2017
Prayer and thats all marriage is for better for worst . Be patient
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by k199192: 11:21pm On Mar 18, 2017
FortuneTeller:


I've been thinking this as well. He doesn't behave feminine but how can one know? I find it strange he never wanted sex before marriage. My sis says he kissed her but never tried anything beyond that. He is very religious but it may be a cover.
and where did you learn that gay prick no dey stand.? If it doesn't stand how do they do the do.. The guy night just have a defect. Your mouth like "my husband is long and hard" . I am beginning to suspect you sef..
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by adioolayi(m): 11:22pm On Mar 18, 2017
Well.... The Penile muscle is hard, but not hard enough for penetration... That's grade 2 Erection hard score on EHS gradient.
Your sister's husband should see a Urologist.. I think it is a simple case.
Pending that time... he should try VIAGRA.... that's the only medication that can give Grade 4 EHS strong and full for penetration and satisfying intercourse

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by shinebabe(f): 11:23pm On Mar 18, 2017
blkmum700:



Yes answered your question,but have they used it on you before and confirm it's working.

If your answer is yes you won't be busy asking me juvenile questions. This is a serious issue for some people and you're here sexualising it.
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by sekem: 11:23pm On Mar 18, 2017
Certitude:

Your sister's pvssy is unappealing.
The story looks unreal though

Guy, you wicked.

See how you con turn the whole thing around. grin

Anyway sha, upon all the fortunetelling, fortuneteller cannot foretell a potent man for herself.

Yes, it's you.

We know it's you.

So don't tell us it's your sista, okay?

Fake fortuneteller wink
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by omolorlarh: 11:23pm On Mar 18, 2017
[quote author=yinkslinks post=54723169]Tell ur sister to call me for action 08029140695. I 4ucck like a mad man and my diiicck erects more in pusssssy[/quot
You are not making any sense at all
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by tunddy(m): 11:24pm On Mar 18, 2017
I think your sister is a virgin maybe the man is finding it hard to disvirgin her or maybe the man doesn't have the mind to disvirgin her.....then I think you will need to employ a professional to do that for your sister or you can employ me for that but to pay for my service is on the high side

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 11:24pm On Mar 18, 2017
LeView1:
This is how a man gets treated when he relies on a woman and her family for upkeep. That's all I got from this. Men make your own money and accept no assistance from her family because you will be treated worse than their housemaid. They will table your business and tell the world your story.


Hmmm, great insight.

Their marriage is a few months old and already the man's wife has started tabling private matters to her sister. From there big sis will tell mom, mom will tell dad -- before long, the man will cast.


It's really sad why in this 21st century some people cannot take charge of their issues but instead rely on peddling stories and seeking sympathy.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by k199192: 11:26pm On Mar 18, 2017
alexialin:
The man has a problem. Have seen this scenario happen before but I didn't go far getting married to the guy. During courtship, i realise he's everything the op just mentioned about her younger sis husband. And the funny part of it.. He's not eager for us to look for solutions especially spiritually to it. Cause he claimed he has taken all kind of herbs and drugs.. So I said then it's spiritual.lets go for prayers... that's when he then said he's not doing again.. He wants out.. I said ok good. See person wey I want help assist to restore his manhood.. He doesn't even want help. And he's so handsome, tall and comfortable financially .. That's how we breakup. Recently I heard from his friend that he does not want to date babes anymore.. And wants to be celibate.. I just shook my head and I told his friend.. That's his problem jare.. I have my own am thinking, money things on my mind.. he can do whatever he likes with his life..Better sef, so he won't raise babe hopes anymore.. I don't care. It's his choice.
One can take a horse to the river but u can't force it to drink water.

Op let your sister insist on taking him for medical checkup.. If nothing is revealed.. Then they should both go spiritual and find the cause.. Maybe he has donated his manhood for higher powers who knows.
see your mouth like spiritual, spiritual, spiritual,... That's why pastor will be eating your money upandan. Is it your manhood..from the way you sound, you still like the guy despite the soft prick. He is not doing again sha... Allow the man to be celibate.
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 11:27pm On Mar 18, 2017
the guy use im cassava for rituals ni? sad.anyway this is why its advisable to test b4 main usage sad in order to avoid stories that touch.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Moving4: 11:28pm On Mar 18, 2017
It can be treated now, let him see a Doctor
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by blkmum700: 11:29pm On Mar 18, 2017
shinebabe:


If your answer is yes you won't be busy asking me juvenile questions. This is a serious issue for some people and you're here sexualising it.


i see you won't answer my question,you don't have to be shy,know one is going to kill you,who says your Ruzu might not be of help to me,why is it difficult for you to answer Yes or No and what are you sexualising?
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by captainmuyi(m): 11:31pm On Mar 18, 2017
you can help your sistet by telling her a story love story
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Toks2008(m): 11:32pm On Mar 18, 2017
FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

Shebbi I have reiterated that marriage is a big scam

So where is the love? what if the table turned and it was your sis that has issues?

It is well.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 11:34pm On Mar 18, 2017
WriteBoy:



Hmmm, great insight.

Their marriage is a few months old and already the man's wife has started tabling private matters to her sister. From there big sis will tell mom, mom will tell dad -- before long, the man will cast.


It's really sad why in this 21st century some people cannot take charge of their issues but instead rely on peddling stories and seeking sympathy.

It's so sad because she has called her brother in law everything from gay to someone who is addicted to prostitutes. She has no evidence of this, it could be that her sister's pussy stinks and the guy looses his hard on because of it. Now because her family employ him and can afford to give him back what he spent marrying her, they can disrespect this way!!! Men please understand society doesn't respect a man that can't TAKE care of his woman financially. #Sad

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by k199192: 11:35pm On Mar 18, 2017
sasko:


you guys agreed for no sex before marriage and you still went ahead to seduce him...hmm


you are lucky to have meet a man with low self esteem
.
if na me, the bleep I go bleep am... She will say "ayamnotdoinagain" Yeye people.. No sex before marriage... At the end of the day when you eventually die, you will find out that all that righteous living was no use... Every body will turn to dust...

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 11:35pm On Mar 18, 2017
FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

I believe I have experienced this with one of my past girlfriends. The issue was caused by these factors:


1.She was a virgin and had tiny vagina
2.She was unshaven
3.She laid back like a log of wood
4.I lost my erection trying to penetrate her because her pubic hair chafed my glans
5.Whenever we tried to have sex and I remembered that it was super difficult to penetrate her, my spirits went down + my erection
6.I was in a very stressful period of my life and I couldn't be bothered about finding solutions to sex just yet


WHAT WE DID

1.We both shaved our pubic hairs
2.Lot's of Olive oil was used
3.I fingered her to break her hymen and also condition her vagina for sex
4.I smoked weed, drank agbo jedi and Power Horse
5.Lot's of fun were had grin grin grin



That he is able to achieve any sort of erection means that he has the potential to perform. Also, it would seem that his potency is not at question here because if your reports regarding the prostitutes are a fact, it leads me to believe that he did not go there to spend money looking at asses without doing.


Please ask your sister to consider going to a hospital in order to get professional advice

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by AK481(m): 11:37pm On Mar 18, 2017
Ishilove:

Experts in the house, does viagra work for this kind of situation?
Yes,
But she has to do a little more to keep him aroused like mouth and breast sucking.

One clue here is that " he visits prostitutes"
He enters the room,a prostitute takes off his clothes,plays with his nipples,sucks his nipple,sucks his penis and the the prostitutes wears him a condom.

Question here is can the wife do this ?
If yes,half of the problem is solved.

No 2.does he have a morning erection?
If yes then it's fine.

3.does he mastubates and watches porn ?and how often.was there a time he does it frequently like one a day of thrice a week?

Questions questions questions.

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