Hmmmmmmm, I smell deceit from the guys end, how old is your sister? Let them keep asking God for help and go for medical examination and intervention especially seminal fluid analysis to determine if he can father a Child. With medical treatment his erection might improve and if he can father a Child and your sister can manage the condition of the ROD without cheating then they can both embark on news measures to have children with the Man's sperm, if she can't be faithful to him she should leave, Infidelity is a no go area for me and great Sin before God almighty. These whole process shouldn't be more than 6 months Max. Abeg if she no fit make so with the husband's POOR SEXUAL performance she SHOULD LEAVE!!!

sasko:
.You see women.. they are one kind of hypocritical being and if it was the other way round...hmm


should your popular slogan (for better for worse) jettisoned. .huh

She must have said no s*x before marriage thinking she's being clever

She want to eat her cake and have it
.

Bros think this thing well ooooooo, if na hour Sis you go dey happy? How are you sure the no sex thing wasn't the guy's idea? I wish you know how Good those with this problem at concealing it and how far they are willing to go to cage the lady of their Choice.

FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

contact meon 08088992014 if i may help sms only please

tolulinks:

Tell the man to buy a penis pump. He should pump his penis for about 10 mins. He'd be hard as hell and stay erected. Thank me later.

For how long? It's not only the joystick that matas but what is inside the balls, if those aren't good then there is no point staying. Some women can pretend to manage the poor condition of the Sadstick ( (Rod/pen-s) I wouldn't call it joystick Now, na penis wey make woman happy be Joystick.) if the man can father children with it (e.g with IUI) . guess what, majority of then end up cheating after a few years. Also some will say if the Rod is a Joystick instead of a Sadstick and choose to adopt children or go for IVF(invitro fertilisation) and keep on enjoying their man. But if both conditions are bad will you expect the woman to stay? You dey use battery charger everytime to wake the pen-s one dey e no go respond abi you no know?

FortuneTeller:


I can't tell him... but I will tell my sis. I hope the man is not a gay who has entered our family.

that is unlikely

OR RITUALIST?MAY BE HE HAS USED HIS DIGIDIGI to do something from BABA IJEBU.

Gmajor:
The guy in question is probably gay.

Tell her if I can be helping him before he will find a good solution.When he is fit,I STEP ASIDE.

Oyind18:
Watin dey weaken men these days.

aunty ur BF/husband weak also?

Certitude:

Your sister's pvssy is unappealing.
The story looks unreal though

don't mind her she is just trying very hard to justify premarital sex!

Equal2DeTask:


aunty ur BF/husband weak also?

Na you weak

Oyind18:
Watin dey weaken men these days.

your boyfriend own too no dey work?sorry o

Oyind18:
Na you weak

i knw y i ask question cuz i strong wella as substitute

Jman06:
Your sis should find out if the dude is in the habit of regular masturbation. If so, then he has to stop as fast as possible. Some guys can masturbate several times daily and exhaust their genital muscles such that when it is time for the real action, the organ doesn't respond. The good news is that abstinence for some weeks with no sexual activities will help the organ come alive. He should also avoid consumption of much sugar and exercise often.

35yrs is too early to have that issue.

You're right.
Masturbation and porn can deaden the response of a man to a real woman, and they're not readily aroused when they are with a real woman. Prolonged abstinence should set him right. At 35, he may not be immune from hypertension and diabetes( which may cause erectile dysfunction) and he need to be checked out by a doctor

That's not the definition of impotence. He just has an erectile dysfunction which can be corrected through treatment and medication. Usually men with this problem take viagra. But since the marriage has not been finalized and it's driving ur sis nuts, then she should find her way now before it's too late

Acidosis:
Your sis and her husband need to provide the exact state of the whole issue to get a good advice.

Is it a hard-on issue?
Sustained e. rection issue?
Thrusting issue?

Up you! Mr. Investigator.

Oyind18:
Watin dey weaken men these days.

Eya so u dey experience the same thing

Make una carry the man go meet that lady that sells sex enhance herbs for agege..lady porkiriya,ma wo obo nran..thank me Later

FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

Modified

Hello

sorry I am seeing this late. First your sister didn't marry an impotent man. What your husband has is called "Sexual Exhaustion" which is the cause of his ED.

It has to do with his brain on porn. It happens to most men who used porn to masturbate at a very early age so their brain is twisted to porn and not reality.

To know nothing is wrong with your husband, when you visit a urologist, he will definitely tell you nothing is wrong after series of test.

It is not a permanent problem but a temporary problem and it takes the two of them to work this out.

How old is your sister? because maturity in solving this is very essential.

1. If your husband is still masturbating, he should stop that and porn. sit him don and tell him what you discovered. I believe both of you are very close so you can open up to each other, you are husband and wife

2. He should go 30 days pure without any sexual activity and then introduce sex unto it little by little. After 30 days, you will see immense improvement if you true to the 30 days but you wont be totally cured as it takes 90 days to recover from sexual exhaustion. after the first 30 days, introduce sex maybe twice a week which is necessary to re-wire the brain back to reality. He could also take supplements, eat a lot of fruits and drink a lot of water and also with a lot of exercise. This hasten the whole process. Some men have been said to recover within two weeks of sexual exhaustion.

3. you have to have that connection to be helpful, cuddle him, make him connect with you. You are even lucky he has an erection at all, some don't do so can't know if it is psychological or physiological. I married my husband with PIED and that is when I started making research on this health issue. I couldn't even make him have an erection but when he watches porn of masturbates, it is soooo hard and erect so we went through this process and now I even beg him to stop that I am tired . Once any man has an erection at all during sexual intimacy with a woman, he is not impotent so many factors can contribute to his sexual dysfunction which is very reversible.

4. google on "sexual exhaustion" and both of you should go through this together she will feel better when you discover its not the end of the world or your marriage.

This process takes a while so please be patient with him. He will also experience flat lines along this period so don't freak out during this periods

Her husband might not even know he had such until he decided to have a penetration with her so don't tag him a devil.

PIED (Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction) is common among many men. Its psychological and very reversible so your sister should not freak out.

When having sex, both of them should relax and also see a doctor.

Lastly, please keep issues to you both, seek help together if you require but dont start telling friends and relatives. This is not maturity in marriage and be very careful so you dont spoil your marriage because that man will definitely recover if you both work together.

cheers

Why are people saying he is gay, do gays don't have erections

FortuneTeller:
AMEN!! Amen!! You don't know how my sis has cried to me. She is such a good person. She doesn't deserve this. May God help her.

sorry about that. She probably doesnt deserve that.

Please dont let your sister waste her life praying for the _penis of her husband. It isn't going to rise. It's not a curse. The guy is either impotent or incurably gay.

You dont want him tortring your sister's anus, do you? Besides, how will they ever make babies if they always do anal.

By law, temporal and spiritual, the marriage is null and void.

The man married your sister out of deception.

Return the bride price and other gifts and free your sister from that shackle.

Get a lawyer to know how to go about nullifying the marriage in court.

Most of these handsome guys you see who look dandy are quite effeminate and gay.

I, unfortunately, know this because my cousin is gay and he has lots of these guys around him.

I'm always like yuck!

Anyway, my regards to your sis and i wish her better luck next time.

#FornicationStillRemainsSinfulRegardless.

Ishilove:

Marriage is NOT a scam. My parents and countless others I know testify to this

So do mine. I believe most marriages that fail are the 21st century one.

During the time of our parents, things like cheating and wife battering was very scarce. Now it's something you hear everyday.

Acidosis:
your sis is a vir .gin right?


Well, I don't believe a man can maintain hardness and lose same hard-on consistently upon pene.tration. Such can happen only on a TV screen.

It's either the man is completely impotent (with no hard-on), or he finds it really hard to pe.netrate.. If the latter is the case, your sis must stop crying. It is a joint issue.

By the way, you claim they have tried herbal and pastors... Are there no hospitals around?

Bro, it happens oooo.
It's no joke.
It happened to me when I just got married and my wife was equally complaining.
I thought it was spiritual at first becos I usually had erection before then but after all I survived it.
Seriously I can't say this is exactly what I used.

diva90:
That's not the definition of impotence. He just has an erectile dysfunction which can be corrected through treatment and medication. Usually men with this problem take viagra. But since the marriage has not been finalized and it's driving ur sis nuts, then she should find her way now before it's too late

They are one and same thing.
Impotency = ED = Inability to have or sustain an erection.

Don't mistake it with male infertility.
All the people saying impotency isn't ED, biko_ stop spreading falsehood. Impotency is ED!

Premarital sex is best now since men and women are not truttful to themselves. Test your goods before buying

Excessive masturbation can cause erectile dysfunction. Let him take Vega. It will help sustain the erection.

Let him stop mastubation and the problem will stop

sasko:
.You see women.. they are one kind of hypocritical being and if it was the other way round...hmm


should your popular slogan (for better for worse) jettisoned. .huh

She must have said no s*x before marriage thinking she's being clever

She want to eat her cake and have it
.

What an age of moral decadence... You are here celebrating iniquity and every iniquity lover is liking your comment. What a lost age we are in! Who told u that a man that was potently engaging a woman in sex before marriage cannot lose his potency?

FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

Get her black seed oil to give to her husband...let him take 2 spoons morning before breakfast, and two spons before bed...results are instantaneous. Thank you.

MoltenMagma:
Your sister or you?

we all know na she.

Impotence is very common and most men over 35 has experienced inability to get or sustain erections at least once in their lifetime.
Your sisters husband gets erections but cannot sustain, that means he needs to figure out why he cannot maintain it to penetration.
It is very impotence very treatable and a few conditions such as obesity, diabetes, heart disease and even certain medication.may cause it.

Is he overweight, diabetic, on medication , a smoker or drink alcohol?

The best thing your sister can do to immediately get results is to put him on a mainly vegetarian , with very little carbohydrates especially processed ones such as bread or any food made from white flour. Also no smoking or alcohol or any soft drinks.

Plenty water , excercise and cutting out dairy and processed foods and anything containing sugar and animal fats should help him see sufficent improvement to at least consummate the marriage within a few days.

Tell her to implement my suggestions, let me know after a few days how it went.

FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

iSufferFools:
So do mine. I believe most marriages that fail are the 21st century one.

During the time of our parents, things like cheating and wife battering was very scarce. Now it's something you hear everyday.

This is A BIG FAT LIE.
During the time of our parents, our mothers endured several beatings by their husbands.
Thats y most women of these days (especially me) has sworn to leave their husbands house anyday he raises his filty hands on them.

Marriage is NOT BY FORCE !

[You are wicked. If it were to be your sister that is finding it difficult to conceive, will you come here and say all this to your inlaw? Then start quoting chapters if bible to him. Maybe what the young man is going through might come from your sister or your family.
quote author=FortuneTeller post=54625128]

I can't tell him... but I will tell my sis. I hope the man is not a gay who has entered our family.[/quote]

Lol

alexialin:
The man has a problem. Have seen this scenario happen before but I didn't go far getting married to the guy. During courtship, i realise he's everything the op just mentioned about her younger sis husband. And the funny part of it.. He's not eager for us to look for solutions especially spiritually to it. Cause he claimed he has taken all kind of herbs and drugs.. So I said then it's spiritual.lets go for prayers... that's when he then said he's not doing again.. He wants out.. I said ok good. See person wey I want help assist to restore his manhood.. He doesn't even want help. And he's so handsome, tall and comfortable financially .. That's how we breakup. Recently I heard from his friend that he does not want to date babes anymore.. And wants to be celibate.. I just shook my head and I told his friend.. That's his problem jare.. I have my own am thinking, money things on my mind.. he can do whatever he likes with his life..Better sef, so he won't raise babe hopes anymore.. I don't care. It's his choice.
One can take a horse to the river but u can't force it to drink water.

Op let your sister insist on taking him for medical checkup.. If nothing is revealed.. Then they should both go spiritual and find the cause.. Maybe he has donated his manhood for higher powers who knows.

so you had to bring my problems here to NL abi? Iffa must hear this