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Sorry guys don't know if the topic is the right one or not

I met this really pretty girl on 4th of march, her beauty caught my attention with her nice figure, we got talking, Went on a date and then I asked her out she accepted.

She is a really nice person, well behaved with good character, a kind of girl any man would want, but the thing here is I don't feel sexually attracted to her at all!
Don't get me wrong I am madly in love with her, but I don't feel urge to have Sex with her, I just love to be around her, I just love to hear her talk, her presence alone is soo satisfying that I don't even want sex.

We are more like best friends.

But guys I don't understand, she has a nice body and on top that she is beautiful but I am not sexually attracted to her 1 bit.

I see her more as a friend and someone I just want to be with for the rest of my life.

Although if I think of sex with her I get hard and all that but just normally without me thinking really hard, my mind never goes there, we could be together alone and not do anything, not that I cant make love to her if I want to but I just don't think of it, being with her alone is just so overwhelming.

Guys I don't know if anyone here has been through this before, it's quite surprising, she is the only girl I have felt this attraction to, I am havin thoughts like maybe she is my soul mate or something that's why it's like this.?

hmm....brb.....feeling sleepy.....

Ar u gay? Its lyk shes 2 soft 4 u 2 handle n u tink shes fragile u nid sumtn HARD...chck urself bro

Aliyeous:
Ar u gay? Its lyk shes 2 soft 4 u 2 handle n u tink shes fragile u nid sumtn HARD...chck urself bro

No not gay.

Is that the true pure love we keep hearing about?

mazizitonene:
hmm....brb.....feeling sleepy.....

Ok bro

Nma27:
Is that the true pure love we keep hearing about?

Hmm meself I don't even know.

It's because yhu feel true and pure love for her.. Just. Leave it that way...

Don't spoil it!

EXERCISE LIL PATIENCE...THE ELDERS WILL SOON ARRIVE TO DISH OUT ADVICE..

EXERCISE LIL PATIENCE...THE ELDES WILL SOON ARRIVE TO DISH OUT ADVICE...

either u gay or u feeling the type of love someone would feel for a friend or a sibling.either way u ought not to have asked her out.u should have a sort of sexual attraction for ur wife or girlfriend..if u dont have such..dont ask her out .

Jodha:
It's because yhu feel true and pure love for her.. Just. Leave it that way...

Don't spoil it!

So love get two types?
1. True and pure
1. Dirty and false


Is that what you're saying?

Nma27:
Is that the true pure love we keep hearing about?

Jodha:
It's because yhu feel true and pure love for her.. Just. Leave it that way...

Don't spoil it!

the type of love someone would have for his sister..yes.

what do you want us to do now?

Jodha:
It's because yhu feel true and pure love for her.. Just. Leave it that way...

Don't spoil it!

Okay thanks

Amarabae:
what do you want us to do now?

Nothing I just wanted to know if someone else has gon through this?

Kondomatic:
So love get two types?
1. True and pure
1. Dirty and false


Is that what you're saying?

Love is pure and true... Lust is dirty and false.. That's what I'm saying

Jodha:
Love is pure and true... Lust is dirty and false.. That's what I'm saying

Love without lust in a relationship is nothing.

Kondomatic:
Love without lust in a relationship is nothing.

My dear.. It's yhur opinion but you're totally wrong.. Yhu better change that mentality..

it's good ,it's not a problem

in fact your relationship is still very young

Amarabae:
what do you want us to do now?

We might as well start dancing "Ati logwu" cultural dance

Jodha:
Love is pure and true... Lust is dirty and false.. That's what I'm saying

You make brain wella!!!

BlueShine:
Sorry guys don't know if the topic is the right one or not

I met this really pretty girl on 4th of march, her beauty caught my attention with her nice figure, we got talking, Went on a date and then I asked her out she accepted.

She is a really nice person, well behaved with good character, a kind of girl any man would want, but the thing here is I don't feel sexually attracted to her at all!
Don't get me wrong I am madly in love with her, but I don't feel urge to have Sex with her, I just love to be around her, I just love to hear her talk, her presence alone is soo satisfying that I don't even want sex.

We are more like best friends.

But guys I don't understand, she has a nice body and on top that she is beautiful but I am not sexually attracted to her 1 bit.

I see her more as a friend and someone I just want to be with for the rest of my life.

Although if I think of sex with her I get hard and all that but just normally without me thinking really hard, my mind never goes there, we could be together alone and not do anything, not that I cant make love to her if I want to but I just don't think of it, being with her alone is just so overwhelming.

Guys I don't know if anyone here has been through this before, it's quite surprising, she is the only girl I have felt this attraction to, I am havin thoughts like maybe she is my soul mate or something that's why it's like this.?

You lobe her for who she is. She brings joy to you and that all that matters for now. Let's hear the continuation in 6 months time. Time, they say, reveals all things and is also a healer.

Maybe you guys are related by blood without knowing it. Pls investigate!

Give it some time,buh if d feeling persists,then you bring her to me.... Before you bore her sexual life to death...

Aliyeous:
Ar u gay? Its lyk shes 2 soft 4 u 2 handle n u tink shes fragile u nid sumtn HARD...chck urself bro

You and your likes really have a serious problem. A man has the right to choose the type pf women he likes. Some like em fat, some slim, some chubby and so there is nothing gay about liking fit women

abduljabbar4:
You and your likes really have a serious problem. A man has the right to choose the type pf women he likes. Some like em fat, some slim, some chubby and so there is nothing gay about liking fit women

did i in anyway cal ur name wen i made dat post? SAKARAI KAWAI

Aliyeous:
did i in anyway cal ur name wen i made dat post? SAKARAI KAWAI

Banza wawa. Who do you even think you are?

abduljabbar4:
Banza wawa. Who do you even think you are?

am a nobody. Sannu dan gidan karuna

This is the kind of bf most gals are hoping for
Dont try to touch her

Blazed:
Maybe you guys are related by blood without knowing it. Pls investigate!

hmmm well, she is of a different tribe though, but the tribe is related to each other though, i will ask her more about her family though, thanks. because the way i feel for her is very different from normal love is the reason i have to come here to ask if anyone has been through this,m it is really weird, i insanely like her but not in a sexual way, feel lots of deep connection to her

before we continue, how would you feel if you discover that another guy is smashing her? would you feel jealous? i

Jodha:
My dear.. It's yhur opinion but you're totally wrong.. Yhu better change that mentality..

In dating and marriage, love without lust is useless and I personally prefer friendship and lust to love.