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I'm still on this case and I think I'm going to be straightforward abt it. Two of my exes, we broke up 1yr and 3yrs ago respectively. More like they were the ones to break up with me. But we've been thru that whole breakup process and I'm cool with them. The problem now is that whenever we seem to be in the same place, they start acting in an awkward manner or seem to pretend like they don't See Me. While I'm cool with them and don't seem to be interested in long talks, at least a hi don't hurt nobody.they do this mostly when they r with other guys. So I'm guessing is this guilt or what?

Yes they're with other guys. How would you expect them to act? Come over and give you a kiss?

Two girls dump you......... Something is wrong with you my brother

What do you hope to achieve with the answer to this your question??

I understand where they are coming from because I'm the same way around exes. Can't say I understand their motivation though because their reasons could be different. When I do that, ignore an ex, is because they cease to exist in my eyes. I don't need to say "hi" because to me, we become strangers all over again after a break up. I tried befriending an ex once & I ended up ignoring him because I realized I was forcing myself to be nice. Even when he told me about what was going on in his life, I just didn't care, so it was pointless to be friends or stay in touch with him. Just my perspective though. Your exes could be doing it out of a myriad of reasons

Hello any body home

Probly you are still where they left you.

lytech1:
Probly you are still where they left you.

im thinking that too

I think it depends on what you guys were before dating proper...if you were first friends, getting back to status quo after breakup shouldn't be a biggiee....my exes and I still talk once in a while, yab ourselves on how things went: that's a proof of "no hard feelings"