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oribi:
Love no get gender oooo....just pray love no nack u like witchcraft u go forget self esteem for bush

TinaAnita:
That girl must be suffering from low self esteem. She is not different from Debbie Rise who begs Bassey to love her. How pathetic! Please don't lead her on, you don't feel anything for her and there is nothing you can do about it. Let her be! I have no respect for any female who stoops so low to beg a man to love her

TinaAnita:
Guy I'd rather let the so-called love die a natural death than to stoop so low to force myself on a guy who is not ready to reciprocate my love..

fzybah:
This world sha.... Love is no more blind my dear.. Sit urself down and think very deeply, is ur gf really worth sacrificing such genuine love and feelings for ? Brother, genuine love is very scarce so if u find one, u should be very smart not to lose it. Ds lady genuinely love u for who and what u are..... Are u so sure ur gf has ds kind of love... If ur gf is worthy of sacrificing such sincere girl for, u can just let d lady go.... Love grows, u can't just start loving someone, it takes tym .... My advice tho...

jonaifame22:
I hope you won't regret dis later, having a girlfriend dis days is not that easy, a bird at hand is worth two In the bush.

tosyne2much:
It's funny to how people give unrealistic advice.. Do they think it's easy to sit a lady down and make her realize you've been observing her green light and that you can't date her?. I mean, is it as easy as people are clamouring on this thread?

If MOST guys can lie about being single each time they meet a lady prettier than their girlfriends , do you think these same guys will tell a lady point and blank that they can't date her? Make we no dey deceive ourselves jawe

Lemme leave you all to display your hypocrisy on this thread

Indomixx:
Hmmmm. Well i have known this girl liked me all along sha but i just decided not to say anything because i don't like her,not that she is not cute oo but i don't just feel for her. So just recently she has been saying stuffs about wanting to be my g.f.

I don't just understand her that even in my obvious show of lack of interest she still disturbs me. I don't want to enter out of pity and start hurting her feelings,because i really don't care for her.

Also,I don't want to reject her and also hurt her feelings. She is really a nice girl. It's funny a world that those who you like don't like you and the ones that you don't even care about are the ones who like you. Guys what do you think i should do,ladies pls have u been in such a situation before?

How did u cope. Thanks...
PS- Shoutout to those ladies who can let a guy know how they feel

mrdino:
Bro, I v done that before, though not point blank. Those kind of ladies are usually possessive or obsessive. Also , it would do her a whole lot of good to avoid heartaches and pain.

seeniorboy:
Bro!!being either of the classes you've mentioned,it ain't easy at all.I think the best here is,neither make her too close nor make her make her an enemy,just play neutral.

Josephamstrong1:
Important wen u sell the phone for a career or business start up.
Btw, tot I quoted a lady?

samwise99:
Na your type dey expect 3pages for one question

Inferno17:
I am not understandin'
U smoke kwale weed?

Inferno17:
I am not understandin'
U smoke kwale weed?

jonaifame22:
I hope you won't regret dis later, having a girlfriend dis days is not that easy, a bird at hand is worth two In the bush.

jonaifame22:
why not have another one for back up,it's not good to put all ur eggs in one basket

Indomixx:
exactly.... As in eh

LeView1:
Why not? Why can't guys just say no? Is it some unwritten law?

Indomixx:
GOD bless you bro... They don't knw how difficult it is. The girl may just hate u for life

numericalguy:
Some people are funny o. What's not easy about having a girlfriend.

Some girls sha.

thunderbabs:
You must be the adviser to Buhari on economic matters. No wonder the economy is messed up

oribi:
na so e dey b until e happen no worry lol

jonaifame22:
I hope you won't regret dis later, having a girlfriend dis days is not that easy, a bird at hand is worth two In the bush.

Indomixx:
i have a g.f bro

TinaAnita:
Life has taught me how to manage/control my emotions not my emotions controlling me to the point of losing my self-esteem.
Take for instance, I could be so in love with you and I'd decide not to talk to you for a month and I wouldn't break the no contact rule which leaves you wondering if I ever loved you in the first place, well that's the brain behind No Contact Rule (NCR). It's a very difficult task but very achievable as far as I'm concerned.
Again, I'm not the type that acts on my emotions or allow emotions to take control, that's where my stubborn nature comes to play. Once I sense that my love is not being returned reasonably I'd just withdraw, that's me. I can't stand one-sided love. I can't be doing all the loving na, we have to be on the same page for things to work out perfectly.