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Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by rosietha(op): 9:49pm On Apr 02, 2017
Dextology:
Presently, there dearth of good and sincere guys that will love to be in relationship without indulging in sex. Try relax a bit and try making some friends. Depression kills faster than any other thing. Channel your strength into something viable and exciting.

Finding good guys in this era is an herculean task, some pretend to be good just to achieve their selfish aim. Just be patience and take your time.
Thank you very much, ur opinion means a lot
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by SNOWCREAM(m): 9:51pm On Apr 02, 2017
rosietha:
am not doing iyanga o... Just trying to be careful and the pin on my signature isn't functional
oya pm me the functional one wink or should I give you mine?
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by Nobody: 9:51pm On Apr 02, 2017
rosietha:
Thank you very much, ur opinion means a lot
You're welcome, the right man will locate you. Sincere you don't need a guy.
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by SNOWCREAM(m): 9:53pm On Apr 02, 2017
Bumbae1:
My dear Focus and finish your Nysc
Good guy will come when you least expect it wink
Sometimes when we too hasty we let the bad ones slide in without knowing cause he potrayed some good attributes at first ..

If you lonely like Sinz said up there Jesus will be your company cheesy


Cc Mynd44
why you dey call mynd44 now, later my babes in other section will see all my comments when this gets to FP and disown me cry
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by SNOWCREAM(m): 9:55pm On Apr 02, 2017
I'm looking at one particular person here, forming good guy with his comment and advice, sure he's recommending himself for future purpose undecided cheesy angry
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by Nobody: 9:55pm On Apr 02, 2017
SNOWCREAM:
why you dey call mynd44 now, later my babes in other section will see all my comments and disown me cry
Lol ma binu o
Just wanted her to get more advice cheesy
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by Nobody: 9:55pm On Apr 02, 2017
Bumbae1:
True story cool
confirm,pple dey complain say u nor dey reply their mail?are you aware?
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by FitnessDoctor: 9:56pm On Apr 02, 2017
rosietha:
my fellow concern romancelanders I need your sincere advice both the good and the bad.

I just find it hard to find a good guy not that those I have come across are bad but most of them just want my body and that's all. I am a kind of girl that loves romantic relationships and most of them take me for granted.Also due to my introverted kind of lifestyle I hardly met guys,i don't even have friends and most times this makes me depressed and lonely. Any advice on how people like me can find good guys because I may not be the only one going through this...mind you I am a pretty girl waiting for my NYSC and in my 20's.
First... Romantic guys are hard to find... in every 100,000 guy in Nigeria only 1 is as romantic as you seek... and worst is that these guys are not too crazy about relationships, but once they get in one.. they give all to it..

Second.. You need to start planning to be an independent business woman.. I think the reason why you date so many guys is because you are idle... You don't have much going on for you so friends and boyfriends make up a big part of your life.. Although the fact that you are introvert puts it at a lower scale..

If you go into a trade like writing books, designing dresses, working out companies you will work in when you finish your Nysc, how old you will be when you open your own business, when and how you will open it.. how old you will be when you make your first 1 million naira, and how you will make it..

All these and you wouldn't have time for all these average guys who run after women's bodies, because you will be so busy working and building yourself above their class.. and when you have achieved your dreams, you can get a man... or better, you can meet a man that will worship the ground on while you are reaching for your dreams.. These kind of men are the most romantic because they respect your courage, your defiance, your strong will and want to help you, love you and make you reach your expected end..

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by SNOWCREAM(m): 9:56pm On Apr 02, 2017
Bumbae1:
Lol ma binu o
Just wanted her to get more advice cheesy
ah you be alakoba o, I even suspect he's the one my siggy is referring to undecided
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by Nobody: 9:57pm On Apr 02, 2017
Martin124:
confirm,pple dey complain say u nor dey reply their mail?are you aware?
People or u
Replied for morning after church .. checking it now
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by SNOWCREAM(m): 9:58pm On Apr 02, 2017
Beware of this advice givers the most grin wolves in Teddy bear clothing angry
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by Nobody: 10:00pm On Apr 02, 2017
Bumbae1:
People or u
Replied for morning after church .. checking it now
meeeee!!! I mean pple dear,why u dey put water inside basket na? wink
Bumbae1:
People or u
Replied for morning after church .. checking it now
meeeee!!! I mean pple dear,why u dey put water inside basket na?
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by rosietha(op): 10:05pm On Apr 02, 2017
FitnessDoctor:
First... Romantic guys are hard to find... in every 100,000 guy in Nigeria only 1 is as romantic as you seek... and worst is that these guys are not too crazy about relationships, but once they get in one.. they give all to it..

Second.. You need to start planning to be an independent business woman.. I think the reason why you date so many guys is because you are idle... You don't have much going on for you so friends and boyfriends make up a big part of your life.. Although the fact that you are introvert puts it at a lower scale..

If you go into a trade like writing books, designing dresses, working out companies you will work in when you finish your Nysc, how old you will be when you open your own business, when and how you will open it.. how old you will be when you make your first 1 million naira, and how you will make it..

All these and you wouldn't have time for all these average guys who run after women's bodies, because you will be so busy working and building yourself above their class.. and when you have achieved your dreams, you can get a man... or better, you can meet a man that will worship the ground on while you are reaching for your dreams.. These kind of men are the most romantic because they respect your courage, your defiance, your strong will and want to help you, love you and make you reach your expected end..

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
wise words...thank you so much
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by rosietha(op): 10:06pm On Apr 02, 2017
[quote author=SNOWCREAM post=55205782]Beware of this advice givers the most grin wolves in Teddy bear clothing angry[/quote

noted...thanks
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by RoyalBlak007: 10:10pm On Apr 02, 2017
undecided

Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by SNOWCREAM(m): 10:12pm On Apr 02, 2017
[quote author=rosietha post=55206016][/quote]oya give the bad guy your functional pin cool
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by Nobody: 11:21pm On Apr 02, 2017
Papiikush:
The good guys are dead. We buried the last one this morning.
Chivalry is dead and women killed it
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by Hannysmilez(f): 11:30pm On Apr 02, 2017
Honey,you don't 'find' guys-you 'attract' them.
Secondly,what on earth are u 'finding' them for? Let them be;when it's time,they'd find you. Nature has a way of sorting things out real well-you try to interfere;you screw things up.
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by Nobody: 11:33pm On Apr 02, 2017
Hannysmilez:
Honey,you don't 'find' guys-you 'attract' them.
Secondly,what on earth are u 'finding' them for? Let them be;when it's time,they'd find you. Nature has a way of sorting things out real well-you try to interfere;you screw things up.
Actually the universe is indifferent. Plus in today's age radical approaches are accepted as long as Shea not too aggressive
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by youngfocus(m): 11:48pm On Apr 02, 2017
rosietha:
my fellow concern romancelanders I need your sincere advice both the good and the bad.

I just find it hard to find a good guy not that those I have come across are bad but most of them just want my body and that's all. I am a kind of girl that loves romantic relationships and most of them take me for granted.Also due to my introverted kind of lifestyle I hardly met guys,i don't even have friends and most times this makes me depressed and lonely. Any advice on how people like me can find good guys because I may not be the only one going through this...mind you I am a pretty girl waiting for my NYSC and in my 20's.
Introvert life,ouch it socking,the bad girl attract gud guys while the good girls attract bad guy,law of magnet like pole repel,while unlike pole attract,am nt saying u should b bad ooo,make that man,i mean dat man,wat am i even saying that handsome guy ur boyfriend,am not talking abt uncle kola ooo,am talking abt jesus make him ur boyfriend for nw the right guy will surely come for u,i will av said i should help u out nw,bt am already taken.wait for ur own guy,u are still young dear no cause for alarm.shalom
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by Hannysmilez(f): 11:49pm On Apr 02, 2017
pcguru1:
Actually the universe is indifferent. Plus in today's age radical approaches are accepted as long as Shea not too aggressive
well,this is your opinion as my post is mine
I just feel she shouldn't force it. If she's good guy material and good guy comes her way--it's gon flow
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:27am On Apr 03, 2017
rosietha:
my fellow concern romancelanders I need your sincere advice both the good and the bad.

I just find it hard to find a good guy not that those I have come across are bad but most of them just want my body and that's all. I am a kind of girl that loves romantic relationships and most of them take me for granted.Also due to my introverted kind of lifestyle I hardly met guys,i don't even have friends and most times this makes me depressed and lonely. Any advice on how people like me can find good guys because I may not be the only one going through this...mind you I am a pretty girl waiting for my NYSC and in my 20's.
If all the guys that approach you are this way then you have to look within yourself to discover what it is about YOU that attracts all these no good guys... And change/upgrade yourself.
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by Nobody: 3:33am On Apr 03, 2017
rosietha:
Yes dear, I always do but will get married one day to a human
In your 20s U have a long way to go. Maybe U will meet the man @NYSC camp. This shouldnt bother you now. No matter how inteoverted a woman is a man will wife her if she is worth it
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by torres89: 3:57am On Apr 03, 2017
rosietha:
my fellow concern romancelanders I need your sincere advice both the good and the bad.

I just find it hard to find a good guy not that those I have come across are bad but most of them just want my body and that's all. I am a kind of girl that loves romantic relationships and most of them take me for granted.Also due to my introverted kind of lifestyle I hardly met guys,i don't even have friends and most times this makes me depressed and lonely. Any advice on how people like me can find good guys because I may not be the only one going through this...mind you I am a pretty girl waiting for my NYSC and in my 20's.
how about a friendly hangout
all expenses paid
pm me
Re: Please I Need Matured Advice by blessedvisky(m): 6:13am On Apr 03, 2017
rosietha:
I am not advertising anything dear, just saying my mind
Lol
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