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Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by mykel25(op): 6:43am On Apr 03, 2017
mayorski01:
Op i would just drop comments to your messages and her replies.

Your first msg.
You should hv spiced it up abit. "so oya tell me who were u on call with? That babalawo son from your village abi.." i mean a little bit of humour would make a lady do anything for you.

Her reply
u probably caught her off guard. add that plus she might have had a stress ful day and you not helping matters. thats a kinda ok reply.

Second msg
You sounded like a school headmaster with this.

Her reply
She tried putting you in your place as you were clearly making attempts to be domineering.

Third msg
why the Bleep would you call her guilty. You sound scared, if you ve bin playing your games well you wouldn't be bothered about this.
"shey i would complain ni" U knw you would. and infact you already complaining without bin sure.

Her reply
Straight up!

Fourth msg
if you not bin possesive already i wonder what you doing

Her reply
She ignored your statement about bin possesive cuz she knows are and doesnt wanna start another argument

Fifth Reply
"and the call was long" how did you know it was long. girls make long calls, relax.. it could have bin a thousand and one reasons

Her reply
"so if it was a guy nko".. definitely was not a guy. and you just bleeped up. Bae is tired hence the "leave me alone".

Analysis: you gotta work on your game bro.
Noted!
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by mykel25(op): 6:45am On Apr 03, 2017
Pweedycutie:
Op ya friend cudnt decode dtx his bae had a rough day/mood swings..
using mh self as an example I love to be left alone during doz moments. ..He shud try and talk to her nd get to know her better than jumping into conclusions
OK thanks
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by mykel25(op): 6:47am On Apr 03, 2017
lovelygurl:
Man no wonder she's fed up with the guy. I would be too. He sounds sooooo insecure not because of the asking but the "has that answered my question". Wtf huh
I that wasn't mean .....it was just to make her aware she's answering a question with a question
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by mykel25(op): 6:49am On Apr 03, 2017
Tuham:
Perfect explanation cheesy buh maybe thats not the first time the OP is experiencing that sad
Good morning ma
Not d first time oooi
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by mykel25(op): 6:51am On Apr 03, 2017
Aderola15:
I would respond in the same manner. Infact, I have responded in same manner countless times nii. cool cool cool


It could be mood swing.
Its a common occurrence... Na every time she dey get mood swing ni grin ...if I have mood swing I do tell my partner have mood swing n we shd talk later.... To me she sounded like d guy is an option
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by mykel25(op): 6:54am On Apr 03, 2017
Aderola15:
Even if it isn't the first time, once I'm in a foul mood. Don't even bother yourself chatting with me, I will just give silly answers to your questions nii. lipsrsealed
Morning cupcake, how was your night hun? kiss
Then it better to make d person be aware of your mood
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by mykel25(op): 6:56am On Apr 03, 2017
Tuham:
Ehn ehn? cheesy cheesy You ladies dey try ooh cos if na guys, dem go just mention am in their chat like;

You: Whats up boo mi smiley
Guy: Hello dear, abeg we go chat later. One yeye man just spoil my mood just now now undecided
You: ehn ehn.. Mind talking about it with me now? huh
Guy: Maybe later.. my mood no jez fit talk now sad
You: Okay
Guy: brb..

but Ladies
Guy: hello baby mi smiley
Lady: hello
Guy: how are you smiley
Lady: fine
Guy: called your number earlier but seems, you're busy huh
Lady: hmm
Guy: Hope nothing is wrong?
lady: hmm hmm
Guy: Are you sure?
Lady: fine
Guy: [feeling confused and log out]

Why not kuku tell how you feel instead of making the guy confused? grin grin

Night was great Ade and yours?
This spoke my mind
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by mykel25(op): 6:57am On Apr 03, 2017
joeace2020:
Most girls who talk to their guys like this usually feel he's got nothing to offer so they've got nothing to answer to. Get money guy and you'll be amazed at how friendly and responsive she'll be when she talks to you.
Hmm but he has money... Tho she myt ve options of a better guy sha
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by Nobody: 7:21am On Apr 03, 2017
mykel25:
This spoke my mind
Yuh welcome bro grin grin grin
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by Nobody: 7:25am On Apr 03, 2017
mykel25:
Not d first time oooi
Really?

Then you guys need to sit each other down in a mature way and talk about where your relationship is going to.

"Relationship where you cannot both tell each other whah is bothering you, is that one a Relationship" undecided
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by Seanjay(m): 8:33am On Apr 03, 2017
I think u r not important to d girl. So she feels have nothing to explain to you be it the mood swing or whoever she is talking to
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by Nobody: 8:52am On Apr 03, 2017
mykel25:
Its a common occurrence... Na every time she dey get mood swing ni grin ...if I have mood swing I do tell my partner have mood swing n we shd talk later.... To me she sounded like d guy is an option
Loool... Guys and assumptions ehn. lipsrsealed

I only talk about my mood swing when I'm over it because nobody can bring me out of it and from your chat, it's obvious you are the kinda guy that wouldn't want his messages ignored. So if she's me I'm just gonna reply monosyllabically and God help you, you get on my nerves that moment... You go hear wehnnn lipsrsealed cheesy grin
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by Nobody: 8:54am On Apr 03, 2017
mykel25:
Then it better to make d person be aware of your mood
How do I vent my frustration on you if you know it's just mood swing and you ignore me? huh angry tongue
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by pryme(m): 9:06am On Apr 03, 2017
Op, get busy with other things, ignore her for a week, if these results in a breakup, then it was already over.

Mood swings my a.s.

if you can't command iota of respect when you are dating, do you think it will happen when you are married?
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by waywardpikin: 9:14am On Apr 03, 2017
Alphamale2017:
no time for too much emotional entanglement or u will miss it. wjlhile chasing ur dream if konji catch u . , entice one pretty one , bang and then. continue working on your plans and chasing ur dreams
. most ladies are emotionally unstable . when u are emotional with. them , u may enjoy a little . but u will still be hurt later . so don't he emotionally entangled with them . relieve ur kongi an move on.

dont fall for that love thing . its a scam . relationship nowaday's is like highest bidder .

if u are still trekking don't be syprised when guy will use pencil light Camry to collect her . and u are fvcked .

anoda guy comes along with better cash and ride , she moves along. , the Camry guy is also fvcked .

it's just highest bidder . the thing is a scam abeg .

**modified**

I know about the typo's in my comment . . I typed this with my last strength . so don't expect me to edit . if u don't like it .

I am in my house come and beat me smiley
Nigga I owe you a crate of whatever you drink. This is the pure and unadulterated truth.
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by joeace2020(m): 11:05am On Apr 03, 2017
mykel25:
Hmm but he has money... Tho she myt ve options of a better guy sha
There's always another guy with more.
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by Alphamale2017(m): 2:26pm On Apr 05, 2017
waywardpikin:
Nigga I owe you a crate of whatever you drink. This is the pure and unadulterated truth.
thanks my nigga. smiley
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by Fourwinds: 3:49pm On Apr 05, 2017
Aderola15:
I would respond in the same manner. Infact, I have responded in same manner countless times nii. cool cool cool


It could be mood swing.
come what mood are u swinging.? u girls are so complicated and weird
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by Frolic: 3:51pm On Apr 05, 2017
Ds 1 never reach something to worry about nah
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by Fourwinds: 3:55pm On Apr 05, 2017
Aderola15:
Loool... Guys and assumptions ehn. lipsrsealed

I only talk about my mood swing when I'm over it because nobody can bring me out of it and from your chat, it's obvious you are the kinda guy that wouldn't want his messages ignored. So if she's me I'm just gonna reply monosyllabically and God help you, you get on my nerves that moment... You go hear wehnnn lipsrsealed cheesy grin
just take a look at urself.....most girls are unstable
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by mayorski01(m): 4:20pm On Apr 19, 2017
Pweedycutie:
Op ya friend cudnt decode dtx his bae had a rough day/mood swings..
using mh self as an example I love to be left alone during doz moments. ..He shud try and talk to her nd get to know her better than jumping into conclusions
hell yh. bad mood days.
Erm Brown colour I think cheesy
Re: loving the wrong person?.. HELP! by Pweedycutie(f): 8:35pm On Apr 19, 2017
mayorski01:
hell yh. bad mood days.
Erm Brown colour I think cheesy
Lolzzz
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