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bebe2:


8yrs live in lover

ReviewsNg:
They would have killed him in the north, long time ago

ElSherriff:
Scary stuff Man! Anyways...the ties that bind us to kids are not physical, they are spiritual and strong and long lasting. That is why you see kids almost behaving like their parents irrespective of time, place or circumstances. I have almost the same accent with my dad and we didnt live together for ages.
My point is, he is lucky he has a wife who is working and capable of looking after his kids even in the unfortunate scenario of losing his job. He should channel his energies to maintaining good health, and finding a lasting solution to his finances. You cant fight your blood because you want relevance. We may think the kids are being shielded from their father when in truth, the bond is getting stronger because they will grow up and realize the circumstances surrounding their segregation from their parents.
As for women who think they can trample upon a man because he has fallen, their own payment will be severe, you will train the kids, they will end up loving and appreciating their father.
I believe in second chances, in turning points and victory in the end. Let your brother be comforted, let him seek distraction and maintain his flame of love for his kids. One day, he shall behold them and it will compensate for lost time.

kushsy:
Out of desperation i bring this to naira land.

M brother had two kids from a lady they lived together for about 8years. After they met he lost his job and fell ill .

Somehow issues started when he could no longer do anything for his family. In our own little way we Assisted but not enough. She pays the rent, schools fees and all. I give her credit for this, not been easy at all.

The issue now is my brother moved out the house for almost a year now and she won't allow him visit or see his kids. She changed their school and moved them out of her house to a different location.

Recently they came for holidays and someone informed my brother who went to visit them but it resulted into a scuffle. She is bent on sending him to jail.. She accused him of kidnapping his own kids. My problem is he has no job, too broke to even fight back and we the family don't really want to get involved. They are in court.

I suspect the human right agency involved in the case are favoring her because of the circumstances...

ElSherriff:
Scary stuff Man! Anyways...the ties that bind us to kids are not physical, they are spiritual and strong and long lasting. That is why you see kids almost behaving like their parents irrespective of time, place or circumstances. I have almost the same accent with my dad and we didnt live together for ages.
My point is, he is lucky he has a wife who is working and capable of looking after his kids even in the unfortunate scenario of losing his job. He should channel his energies to maintaining good health, and finding a lasting solution to his finances. You cant fight your blood because you want relevance. We may think the kids are being shielded from their father when in truth, the bond is getting stronger because they will grow up and realize the circumstances surrounding their segregation from their parents.
As for women who think they can trample upon a man because he has fallen, their own payment will be severe, you will train the kids, they will end up loving and appreciating their father.
I believe in second chances, in turning points and victory in the end. Let your brother be comforted, let him seek distraction and maintain his flame of love for his kids. One day, he shall behold them and it will compensate for lost time.

kushsy:
Out of desperation i bring this to naira land.

M brother had two kids from a lady they lived together for about 8years. After they met he lost his job and fell ill .

Somehow issues started when he could no longer do anything for his family. In our own little way we Assisted but not enough. She pays the rent, schools fees and all. I give her credit for this, not been easy at all.

The issue now is my brother moved out the house for almost a year now and she won't allow him visit or see his kids. She changed their school and moved them out of her house to a different location.

Recently they came for holidays and someone informed my brother who went to visit them but it resulted into a scuffle. She is bent on sending him to jail.. She accused him of kidnapping his own kids. My problem is he has no job, too broke to even fight back and we the family don't really want to get involved. They are in court.

I suspect the human right agency involved in the case are favoring her because of the circumstances...

ElSherriff:
Scary stuff Man! Anyways...the ties that bind us to kids are not physical, they are spiritual and strong and long lasting. That is why you see kids almost behaving like their parents irrespective of time, place or circumstances. I have almost the same accent with my dad and we didnt live together for ages.
My point is, he is lucky he has a wife who is working and capable of looking after his kids even in the unfortunate scenario of losing his job. He should channel his energies to maintaining good health, and finding a lasting solution to his finances. You cant fight your blood because you want relevance. We may think the kids are being shielded from their father when in truth, the bond is getting stronger because they will grow up and realize the circumstances surrounding their segregation from their parents.
As for women who think they can trample upon a man because he has fallen, their own payment will be severe, you will train the kids, they will end up loving and appreciating their father.
I believe in second chances, in turning points and victory in the end. Let your brother be comforted, let him seek distraction and maintain his flame of love for his kids. One day, he shall behold them and it will compensate for lost time.

Benita27:
They're not married.
They have two kids together.
Your brother is broke and busted!, currently jobless.
The lady is the one taking up bills.
You didn't say why they've been having issues. If she takes him to a law court, she has more advantage over him.

They should try and settle their differences out of court.

ElSherriff:
Scary stuff Man! Anyways...the ties that bind us to kids are not physical, they are spiritual and strong and long lasting. That is why you see kids almost behaving like their parents irrespective of time, place or circumstances. I have almost the same accent with my dad and we didnt live together for ages.
My point is, he is lucky he has a wife who is working and capable of looking after his kids even in the unfortunate scenario of losing his job. He should channel his energies to maintaining good health, and finding a lasting solution to his finances. You cant fight your blood because you want relevance. We may think the kids are being shielded from their father when in truth, the bond is getting stronger because they will grow up and realize the circumstances surrounding their segregation from their parents.
As for women who think they can trample upon a man because he has fallen, their own payment will be severe, you will train the kids, they will end up loving and appreciating their father.
I believe in second chances, in turning points and victory in the end. Let your brother be comforted, let him seek distraction and maintain his flame of love for his kids. One day, he shall behold them and it will compensate for lost time.

fav444:
Ur brother bleeped up the moment he agreed to live and raise children together with a woman on whose head he didn't put even a cup of wine. I don't know how he is going to win that case. But if only they can settle the issue amicably out of court, am sure he may be considered in some way.

Alternatively
He may involve religious leaders in his church or mosque if he attends any.

Other guys in the house, this is a BIG lesson for una o

kushsy:
Out of desperation i bring this to naira land.

M brother had two kids from a lady they lived together for about 8years. After they met he lost his job and fell ill .

Somehow issues started when he could no longer do anything for his family. In our own little way we Assisted but not enough. She pays the rent, schools fees and all. I give her credit for this, not been easy at all.

The issue now is my brother moved out the house for almost a year now and she won't allow him visit or see his kids. She changed their school and moved them out of her house to a different location.

Recently they came for holidays and someone informed my brother who went to visit them but it resulted into a scuffle. She is bent on sending him to jail.. She accused him of kidnapping his own kids. My problem is he has no job, too broke to even fight back and we the family don't really want to get involved. They are in court.

I suspect the human right agency involved in the case are favoring her because of the circumstances...

Benita27:
They're not married.
They have two kids together.
Your brother is broke and busted!, currently jobless.
The lady is the one taking up bills.
You didn't say why they've been having issues. If she takes him to a law court, she has more advantage over him.

They should try and settle their differences out of court.

kushsy:
Out of desperation i bring this to naira land.

M brother had two kids from a lady they lived together for about 8years. After they met he lost his job and fell ill .

Somehow issues started when he could no longer do anything for his family. In our own little way we Assisted but not enough. She pays the rent, schools fees and all. I give her credit for this, not been easy at all.

The issue now is my brother moved out the house for almost a year now and she won't allow him visit or see his kids. She changed their school and moved them out of her house to a different location.

Recently they came for holidays and someone informed my brother who went to visit them but it resulted into a scuffle. She is bent on sending him to jail.. She accused him of kidnapping his own kids. My problem is he has no job, too broke to even fight back and we the family don't really want to get involved. They are in court.

I suspect the human right agency involved in the case are favoring her because of the circumstances...

bigtt76:
So for 8 years, your brother was chopping the thing for free resulting in the first and second child Yet none of you his family members could advise him to make permanent the relationship?

Una nor try. Do you know the stress that girl must have gone through from her parents? Rejection from friends and her close family?

Please advise your bro to go get a job and forget for now the kids. They will come back to him someday but let them be for now. That's the truth.

Nathan2016:
To be honest here, I think the woman should not in any circumstance allow your brother to see the children.

Bros lets be honest to ourself...the woman try and is not like they are married any longer...


the responsibility of any man on earth is to take care of his children not see them,....them b television..

lets reverse this thing now..


The wife moved out of the house....
she doesnt do any domestic work wen she was in the house...
the husband took care of the kids...cooking, cleaning, washing,, every house duty

And the lady later wants to see them...

Oga if na you..you no go break her head?

Handsomecutepie:
Another silly excuse

Miss, have you not seen married couple going through the same situation?

Marriage doesn't change a wicked, worthless, bad and unreasonable ladies...

More often than not, marriage even make such hoes to believed that they are holding their husband down

Handsomecutepie:
Another silly excuse

Miss, have you not seen married couple going through the same situation?

Marriage doesn't change a wicked, worthless, bad and unreasonable ladies...

More often than not, marriage even make such hoes to believed that they are holding their husband down

ElSherriff:
Scary stuff Man! Anyways...the ties that bind us to kids are not physical, they are spiritual and strong and long lasting. That is why you see kids almost behaving like their parents irrespective of time, place or circumstances. I have almost the same accent with my dad and we didnt live together for ages.
My point is, he is lucky he has a wife who is working and capable of looking after his kids even in the unfortunate scenario of losing his job. He should channel his energies to maintaining good health, and finding a lasting solution to his finances. You cant fight your blood because you want relevance. We may think the kids are being shielded from their father when in truth, the bond is getting stronger because they will grow up and realize the circumstances surrounding their segregation from their parents.
As for women who think they can trample upon a man because he has fallen, their own payment will be severe, you will train the kids, they will end up loving and appreciating their father.
I believe in second chances, in turning points and victory in the end. Let your brother be comforted, let him seek distraction and maintain his flame of love for his kids. One day, he shall behold them and it will compensate for lost time.

bigtt76:
Not a silly excuse dear. You and I know not what they both went through but I'm telling you the obvious, she might have gone through a lot with the guy.

BTW OP didn't tell us who owned the house when they both were co-habiting or who was the initial breadwinner or their location.

True, marriage could have worked out or not but why didn't they give it a chance first?

Trust me, i know what she must have been through with him

However, regardless what the situation was or is now, nobody should stand between a mother/father and his/her children

bigtt76:
Not a silly excuse dear. You and I know not what they both went through but I'm telling you the obvious, she might have gone through a lot with the guy.

BTW OP didn't tell us who owned the house when they both were co-habiting or who was the initial breadwinner or their location.

True, marriage could have worked out or not but why didn't they give it a chance first?



Trust me, i know what she must have been through with him

However, regardless what the situation was or is now, nobody should stand between a mother/father and his/her children

Handsomecutepie:

Get the Bleep out of here Dickhead

Did you read the story Cuntt?

Imagine the gibberish you put up there, pls tell me Mr, was that a suggestion or stupidity in its totality?

How dare you tell a man not to see his children simply cos he is going through a rough moment in life

Ironically, there are so many fathers out there who abandon their children despite d fact that they have all the resources in the world to take car of these children but they chose to walk out on the children

And the good mothers will still make every effort to build the bridge between the children and their fathers.