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No, I cannot.... . Why should I? If you wont give me the cookie, will rather leave than date you and still have a side chick... So no.

Dekatron:
No, I cannot.... . Why should I? If you wont give me the cookie, will rather leave than date you and still have a side chick... So no.

hmmmm so you must have the cookie..honest ansa

Yes. Been there, done that.

ennyhola:
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no...but a sort of closeness will wanna set in...she's mine why can't I just touch her?

touching is different from sex, and note: she is not urs u haven't even paid her bride price, even if u have paying her bride price doesn't mean u have buy her

Yes its possible. I did when i was in a relationship, really no big deal.

Lashort:
Hell yeah! I can

If only it was possible for a guy to spend on you without expecting you to do your womanly duties in return
I mean think about it. We just chill and talk and laugh and eat and take a nap and meet our friends or family members or people at work and do the same routine over and over again until we grow old and depart from this world. That would be cool

Rrrrrrrrrrr

see her mouth just dey chop then laugh Abi?
you nor care to nor where de money dey show from

Abang52:
see her mouth just dey chop then laugh Abi?
you nor care to nor where de money dey show from

lol

oluwasma:
so u cant date without sex. Guys guys guys!

yes na

Yes.... only if shez a virgin.

JhimmySpark:
Yes.... only if shez a virgin.

she might not be a virgin but dnt want to have sex. What about that?

oluwasma:
she might not be a virgin but dnt want to have sex. What about that?

.... Ahhhhhh.. eleyi gidi gan!!!.. side chick loading ...

oluwasma:
SafeDavid you again so you cant do without it abi

I'm not a Monk na.

yes

oluwasma:
Yaay!

. What is yaay!


wanna be a virgin...I can make you one

skillful01:
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What is yaay!



wanna be a virgin...I can make you one

dnt bother...make yourself one

oluwasma:
dnt bother...make yourself one

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Don't get pissed off,my sincere apologies.

Lol. .see den. .see all this gals. ..of course. Absolutely. ....everything na lie.. .continue

Yes if she's still a virgin asin wey never taste ham before, but if she be the type wey don date at least 10 guys and out of those 10 guys 7 of those guys done spoil that place come dey tell me say no sex na OYO

ennyhola:
I thought I can...but now I don't think it is possible
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I was single then
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Now I am in a relationship...
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thinking of breaking up..I love her..but once in a while I do feel like seeing what's hidden under bae cloth..@least smooching.. but no..she won't

I will rather stay single expecting nothing from a gal..than be in a relationship expecting something I couldn't get while single and not getting it again in that relationship

yea ur right....
was also single too but sincerely being in a relationship wuld also kinda require the both partners reconsidering sex option.

skillful01:
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Don't get pissed off,my sincere apologies.

nah m not oo...guess my tone was harsh..lol m sowie too..

bizzy500:
Lol. .see den. .see all this gals. ..of course. Absolutely. ....everything na lie.. .continue

it is true joor. I once dated a guy and we didn't have sex..years later he told me that he had a sidechic wen we were dating because I didn't allow him touch me so ladies can actually do without sex

I have a question for those ladys with the opinion of no sex before marriage. What if the guy accept your no sex before marriage proposal and on the night of your wedding day you happen to find out that his impotent. What will you do?

oluwasma:
it is true joor. I once dated a guy and we didn't have sex..years later he told me that he had a sidechic wen we were dating because I didn't allow him touch me so ladies can actually do without sex

hmm yea i guess. ..bur it always affect a relationship somehow

akinis09:
I have a question for those ladys with the opinion of no sex before marriage. What if the guy accept your no sex before marriage proposal and on the night of your wedding day you happen to find out that his impotent. What will you do?

ha Eleyi gidi gan..bad market

SmellingAnus:
difficult to answer knowing fully well that sex is not the Ultimate but sex is the " Hulk Hogan"....


Anyway, I have stayed without sex for almost three years for a particular period... Had a six month relationship without sex and the babe actually left me cos of that...

My final answer... Partially Yes and Partially no... In other words it depends on what I want that period. ...

HMM,question. were u impotent during dat 3yrs?

justiniyke29:
HMM,question. were u impotent during dat 3yrs?

hahahhaha not at all... It's just that I focused my mind on more fruitful/beneficial stuffs ... When you abstain from sex, you will realize much more how sex it self could have been a tool of set back...

oluwasma:
SmellingAnus I see you...of course sex is not the ultimate and a guy actually stayed without sex for 3 years wow I respect you. That's so nice....wish we can have more guys like you

Compulsory restraint is not a measure of inner nobility. It doesn't make him any better or spiritually higher. What counts is the purity of our thoughts at all times right down to everyday business.

The desire for intercourse is a natural thing and not implanted by man. It is even a sin to go against nature. If we celebrate celibacy as a 'sine qua non' to higher worth, we are wrong.

We cannot flatter God by condemning his handiwork. For some reasons, it may be good to be abstinent for a time. Such a person may be regarded as decent but nothing more. He is not necessarily more valuable in creation than others who engage in sexual activity.

What should come first is the genuine love for thy neighbor and the consistent keeping of the hearth of our thoughts pure. This is a requirement of the noble man.

Then, the rightful restraint from sexual misconduct, stimulation, morbidity and all other perversion would naturally fall away. I think this is the right approach.

SmellingAnus:
difficult to answer knowing fully well that sex is not the Ultimate but sex is the " Hulk Hogan"....


Anyway, I have stayed without sex for almost three years for a particular period... Had a six month relationship without sex and the babe actually left me cos of that...

My final answer... Partially Yes and Partially no... In other words it depends on what I want that period. ...

you just said it all... partialy yes and partially no is my answer too

Naaah, Just Can't

If i want to, i could.

Those that have had sex in past relationships would find it difficult to abstain in new ones.

Even when some guys decide not to touch their babes, the girls might end up thinking the dude is impotent, gay or just getting it outside so there's no pleasing some girls.

Hell no!!!

SmellingAnus:
hahahhaha not at all... It's just that I focused my mind on more fruitful/beneficial stuffs ... When you abstain from sex, you will realize much more how sex it self could have been a tool of set back...

So u focused 4 3yrs.owk let me swallow with a pinch of salt