[quote author=KennyID17 post=55641105]

Taa! Iffa hear. The fact is that in most scenarios, na women dey control sexual activity. All these guys here forming sex before marriage na sin, if their woman agrees to get down, they won't think twice about it.

that's the level of your exposure jooor. not all woman control sexual activity in a relationship

stane007:
To every Nigerian that believes if a man loves you, he won't ask to get into your pants, Nigerian Facebook user, Victor Daniel has this to say:

If I love you, I will ask for sex. Forget that "if he loves you he won't ask to get into your pants" talk. I'm being honest as I can.

I'm sexually active and one of the ways I express my deepest emotions is through sex. Love and sex is connected and if you love someone, you will be sexually attracted to the person.

Before I start any relationship with a girl, I make sure to let her realise that I am sexually active and sometimes I may seek sexual relief from her.

Stop downplaying sex. The importance of sex to me cannot be overemphasised. I will not enter a relationship with a woman simply for the sex. No. But if I fall in love with you, I'm also going to establish a sexual intimacy with you.

Hmm, I didn't know it has become this deep.

that Guy is A true son of his father.

Flawlesbae:
Men n sex....

its.very important babie

Atlantia:
He's aired his opinion...good for him.

Opinions differ and so I cannot say he has spoken for all men.

r u 4 or against?

I love how he expressed his sexuality. Simply honest with no disrespect toward anyone.

True talk Broda!
Only immature and confined minds will say otherwise.

stane007:
To every Nigerian that believes if a man loves you, he won't ask to get into your pants, Nigerian Facebook user, Victor Daniel has this to say:

If I love you, I will ask for sex. Forget that "if he loves you he won't ask to get into your pants" talk. I'm being honest as I can.

I'm sexually active and one of the ways I express my deepest emotions is through sex. Love and sex is connected and if you love someone, you will be sexually attracted to the person.

Before I start any relationship with a girl, I make sure to let her realise that I am sexually active and sometimes I may seek sexual relief from her.

Stop downplaying sex. The importance of sex to me cannot be overemphasised. I will not enter a relationship with a woman simply for the sex. No. But if I fall in love with you, I'm also going to establish a sexual intimacy with you.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/04/stop-downplaying-sex-if-i-love-you-i.html

..........what you said might be true but,what about those guys who seek only sex.i mean guys who makeout with girls they dont love and will never think of marrying.some guys are deceitful when it comes to sex,they will promise heaven and earth just to have their way,funny some will even pretend to be crying

Eaglesence:


Well brother such as you need urgent help from God. Pardon me to say, you.headed for hell if your belief system is as twisted as this. If you believe God is real, then you had better take His commandments seriously. One of which is " sex outside marriage being wrong" Peace.

...........i dont think you understand the point,yes you are right ,its a sin to fornicate but how many people can resist that urge,you can you resist it

HARDDON:




Ehmmm, lets not be sentimental: How can u go comparing a passionate full blooded throbbing magnum to some lifeless synthetic materials?


@ dp, reminds me of yester years. Looks more like d u of old

My dear, it the same feeling, even if its not, it just a slight difference

Still same me, did not change much I guess.

Omagago:
Stupid boy.




NB: for those of you quoting negatively, I pity yhu guys all, for this shows how degenerate the present crop of youths are morally and saintly. May God in His infinite mercy forgive us all.


SICK GENERATION.


Like I said somewhere, I am in my house, if yhu are vexed, come and beat me.

Oga, if you dey masturbate and dey here dey form don Holy, you are a fornicator, a stupid one at that. if you watch porn regularly or sometimes, you are a fornicator...

the dude made a valid point... ladies at times make it look like that's the reason guys come after them which is not true... If a man loves you without being sexually attracted to you, madam just forget it, the remedy to your case is in space... Ask married couples where love exists without sex! it's a natural stimulus. It depends on individuals to decide whether or not to stay chaste till marriage. I agree some guys just want to have safe sex, but then it doesn't discredit those that are in love and having sex...

Chastity and abstinence is very good, but then the truth has to be told.

maxioptiultra:


Threats! Threats! Threats!

You threaten women with this 'until you clock 40' nonsense, just to get them to open their legs.

What makes you think every woman would rather sin against God than remain single? What makes you think all men insist on sex before marriage? What makes you think a woman who is abstaining will not find her kind? What makes you think all woman are attracted to guys who preach fornication? I for one can NEVER be attracted to a guy like you and the Facebook poster who is shameless enough to preach fornication. I would rather die unmarried that walk down the aisle with your kind.

Goodnight.

You see, it's not even by force to get married, until your African parents start breathing down your neck, you guys that preach abstaining from sex till marriage are just myopic with a lopsided frame of mind,

Oh! You think sex is just a play thing? NO! It's an Art. When you're now married being a virgin with your celibate bf too, you'll now be looking for ways to be creative with each other, then sin comes in.

That's how one of my born again uncle who's to Wed this month be asking me all series of question regarding sex, and how to satisfy her virgin wife also cos he's heard all sort of stories about men not able to satisfy their wives who now ended up being with another man,

Be living in Bible times in this 21st century and be waiting for that Jacob that will serve you for 7 years no sex before getting married.

Even the thought of me marrying your kind makes me wanna puke.
Whatever rocks your boat though.. Good morning.

tobrinskilanski:

shows u are sex proclaimer...continue. dont blame ur sistaz or dautaz if dey sleep wit every guy dey date in d name of luv.
...sex is sacred 4get if it's a sin or not.

my business my life.. your problem your life... life would have been peaceful if we had practice this. mstewweee

If he truly loves her he will work towards marriage and about sex if she wants it good if not restrain yourself, but never force it on her or set it as a criteria for the relationship.

Omagago:



I don't support sex outside marriage cos that's fornication.

He is indirectly saying that he is a fornicator.

He obviously indulges in fornication, nevertheless you have no right to say he is stupid.correct him, but not with harsh words. As his words showed him to be so also yours showed u to be. Love and mutual respect always bro.

Not everyone is destined to get married.

geezyk:
That guy just said it all, give him one bottle of cold gulder cos Na man he be, I cant imagine myself not having sex with someone I claim to love, cos that's the way I sure express it to her, dey dere dey say na fornication, until you clock 40 no suitor your eyes go clear madam wise..

just d way the devil wants to use us buh who cares

This is the truth!!! But is always bitter!!

BABANGBALI:
I hate sex but I love blOooow job die

my broda u need Jesus to die again just for u. Keep deceiving yourself

Trina0936:
As far as I am concerned, mugus would keep on been used and dumped by smart girls without even getting a kiss talk more of sex from them. Ladies,just keep your main guy and use these other ones like ATM because at the end all they want is just sex. As long as the main guy thinks you are independent and don't demand money from him,he would never dare to ask you for sex and will still wife you!! Women you all have the power to give or demand what you need,use it wisely!!
Fuckboys are nothing but ATM machines!!
If my post pained you so much just go and die,because women would always control men whenever sex is involved.
#truthisbitter#twocanplaythatgame

one Olosho sighted

Trina0936:
As far as I am concerned, mugus would keep on been used and dumped by smart girls without even getting a kiss talk more of sex from them. Ladies,just keep your main guy and use these other ones like ATM because at the end all they want is just sex. As long as the main guy thinks you are independent and don't demand money from him,he would never dare to ask you for sex and will still wife you!! Women you all have the power to give or demand what you need,use it wisely!!
Fuckboys are nothing but ATM machines!!
If my post pained you so much just go and die,because women would always control men whenever sex is involved.
#truthisbitter#twocanplaythatgame

one Olosho sighted i pity ur main man!

Omagago:



I don't support sex outside marriage cos that's fornication.

He is indirectly saying that he is a fornicator.

But your system support calling someone Stupid , lol, I pity you , the difference between the things we see as sin varies and some sin you enjoy it Eg Hot Sex , some sin you don't enjoy Eg calling someone Stupid!!!

UzomaFC:
Just look at how we who calls ourselves Christians are insulting our maker our father. John 3:16 says for God so loved the world and gave up his "only" begotten son. And tomorrow we ll complain that things re not moving fine but we re the cause of our problems. This generation is messed up, instead of we burying our faces in shame and ask God to forgive and help us, some of us re here hailing evil words, let ppl who ll abuse go ahead, let God punish me if I don't remove that rubbish from my daughters via Gods grace.

Shut up jare! What is prayer for here now? A country where churches are more than schools, what have we gained? If the Bible is supposed to be fuctioning as your brain then I think the skull shouldn't have anything in there. Stop bringing religion into everything. Don't tell me sex before marriage is a sin. Why don't God just let human starts having sexual desire only after marriage? At least he can do all things.Think with your brain not with Bible or Quran.

maxioptiultra:


Threats! Threats! Threats!

You threaten women with this 'until you clock 40' nonsense, just to get them to open their legs.

What makes you think every woman would rather sin against God than remain single? What makes you think all men insist on sex before marriage? What makes you think a woman who is abstaining will not find her kind? What makes you think all woman are attracted to guys who preach fornication? I for one can NEVER be attracted to a guy like you and the Facebook poster who is shameless enough to preach fornication. I would rather die unmarried that walk down the aisle with your kind.

Goodnight.

just look at who is talking, first & foremost u have no moral justification for sounding the way u do, U know why b/cos u no longer a Virgin, had it being u are one I would have listened to u, people like u have had their heart broken severally by men they trusted & opened their legs for but on the long run u were disappointed & jilted. and u come to NL & be sounding so modest.

cooljoe:
r u 4 or against?

I am against.

Prettyenit18:
Not everyone is destined to get married.

Even at that, since you don't want sex, please go tho the convent so we know you don't want sin around you, I'm sure you flirt with other guys, well as they said, Sinners judging sinners for sinning differently...

UIA04:

Eez paining you abi?

You better retrace your steps back to god
The world we live In is deeper than you think
There is more to sex than 15 minutes enjoyment especially when you lack know of that persons spiritual background

that is why god intended it for only married Couples ,god knows how sweet it is and that abuse is imminent


There is more to life than wasting your time money and spirit man to iNdescriminate sex

Hypocrite. Preach that to those who cares. If you were such a nice person, the crap you've been vomiting won't be coming from your holy mouth.
You can deceive others, but not this guy.

Bash10:



Shut up jare! What is prayer for here now? A country where churches are more than schools, what have we gained? If the Bible is supposed to be fuctioning as your brain then I think the skull shouldn't have anything in there. Stop bringing religion into everything. Don't tell me sex before marriage is a sin. Why don't God just let human starts having sexual desire only after marriage? At least he can do all things.Think with your brain not with Bible or Quran.

guy I love u die, yes I support 100% let's start having sexual desire after marriage & let's know who 'll be the first to commit fornication. Then u' ll see them(ladies) running after us begging even if we won't marry them, make we help them get pregnant. U know women & children, that time they won't remember it's fornication again, b/cos the favor now is on there side.

Kebreal92:

I once had a lady I was so stupid to fall in love with, and was also stupid to tell her no to premarital sex. Guess what,she took to her heels and till now,because of the love I had for her and she failed to realize,kinda regretting not doing it.... Too bad she has to leave

One thing you've failed to realise is that not every lady will be willing to engage in premarital sex and not every guy is interested in getting into a lady's pants just because they're dating.

If you want sex then date a woman who wants the same.

If you don't,date someone who shares your views.

These things should be settled before you both decide to be in a relationship so that one of you wouldn't feel cheated at the end of the day.

Trina0936:
As far as I am concerned, mugus would keep on been used and dumped by smart girls without even getting a kiss talk more of sex from them. Ladies,just keep your main guy and use these other ones like ATM because at the end all they want is just sex. As long as the main guy thinks you are independent and don't demand money from him,he would never dare to ask you for sex and will still wife you!! Women you all have the power to give or demand what you need,use it wisely!!
Fuckboys are nothing but ATM machines!!
If my post pained you so much just go and die,because women would always control men whenever sex is involved.
#truthisbitter#twocanplaythatgame

You can only control a pauper or man without balls with sex.
A tight nigga who knows what he's doing will fûck another woman under the same roof with you and you'll still be forming slay queen.

OK na,go on sooun.
But when u get HIV,no come here dey talk say make we help u o.everybody with im own problem.
GBE agbelegbu re,bo wuwo,bi ko wuwo

I be virgin but I hear say sex sweet pass sugar and na the tin de make relationships stronger so the guy is damn right.