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Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by yazach: 2:33pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
*How to have sex with your spouse.* *CLEANLINESS* should be done before sex by both spouse. Husband can use exotic perfumes *DUA BEFORE SEX WITH YOUR SPOUSE* New couple can observe 2 Rakat of prayer while the wife should be at his back. The husband can touch her forehead and say: When you marry a woman, say: “O Allah, I ask You for the goodness within her and the goodness that you have made her inclined towards, and I seek refuge with You from the evil within her and the evil that you have made her inclined towards.” Transliteration allaahumma innee as’aluka khayrahaa, wa khayra maa jabaltahaa ‛alayh, wa a‛oodhu bika min sharrihaa, wa sharri maa jabaltahaa ‛alayh Follow by: "In the name of Allah. O Allah, keep the devil away from us and keep the devil away form what you have blessed us with." *“Bismillahi, Allahumma jannibnaa ash-shaitaan, wa jannib ash-shaitaan maa razaqtanna”* Experienced couples need to say the second one anytime the want to have sex About this, the Prophet said: *“After that, if Allah decrees that they will have a child, the devil will never be able to harm that child”*. [al-Bukharee] NOTE: Some Scholars say that children are disobedient to their parents usually because the parents forget/forgot to say the above duaa before having sex. pre-intimacy! pre-intimacy! pre-intimacy! pre-intimacy is Highly Recommended Islam emphasizes on pre-intimacy. Imam ‘Ali (A.S.) says, *“When you intend to have sex with your wife, do not rush because the woman (also) has needs (which should be fulfilled).”* There are no rules and laws in pre-intimacy as to how it should be done. The only laws and rules are the ones reached by the lovers by mutual consent and often unspoken understanding. Whatever is pleasing and satisfying to both the husband and the wife is right and proper; and whatever is mutually displeasing is wrong. The only limitation to this general rule would be any Shariah rule which goes against the wishes of the husband or the wife 1 Sex without pre-intimacy has been equated to cruelty. The Prophet (SAW) said, *“Three people are cruel: …a person who has sex with his wife before pre-intimacy.”* 2 Another hadith equates sex without pre-intimacy to animal behavior: “When anyone of you has sex with his wife, then he should not go to her like birds; instead he should be slow and delaying.” If your wife complain of sexual unsatisfied, then increase the pre-intimacy before sex 3 As for the role of a woman in sexual pre-intimacy, the Imams (A.S.) have praised a wife who discards shyness when she is with her husband. Imam Muhammad al-Baqir says, *“The best woman among you is the one who discards the armor of shyness when she undresses for her husband, and puts on the armor of shyness when she dresses up again.”* Throw away shyness when having sex with your husband This means that it's not good for a woman to feel shy when playing with her husband. If you are a Malima, when it comes to that, forget about your Malima things and "open fire" There is no loophole in Islam. It's a way of life. Don't come near your husband in the night with a hijab or a niqab or some rough dressing* *The decent dressing you wear when out is no longer "decent" at that moment*. when you return to your husband in the night, *put that away, wear tight, short, transparent dresses or go nude. Simple.* It is allowed for a Muslim man to enter his wife in her vagina from any direction he wishes – from behind or from the front just think of any style on the condition that it is done through vaginal. About this Allah revealed the following verse: *“Your wives are a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how you will” Al-Quran: al-Baqarah 2:223 Do it anytime: Day or night Women should not fast without the permission of the husband, except mandatory fast and when you are fasting the voluntary fast, both can break it because of sex Ladies please don't deny your husband when he needs it DO YOU WANT ANOTHER ROUND?? Try to take a bath before another round, this will increase your strength or at least perform ABLUTION As far as I know, their is no limitations to where spouses can see from each other PROHIBITIONS DURING SEX 1- It is strictly prohibited to come to her through ANUS Don't do or allow it except you're inviting punishment from Allah 2- Don't have sex during menstruation however, you can do other things 3- Mouth Action: This attitude is disliked among the scholars. Some related it to animal behavior and it is common among the west. Watching porn has been the source of learning this behavior and their is a serious warning regarding the act. It is very possible to contact some disease like cancer of the throat and many more through this act of which we are forbade to injure ourselves and if you die as a result, it is related to commit suicide 4- It is harram to watching or learning various sexual styles through porn be warned. 5- Masturbation is harram Wallahu Tahala Ahlam Copied with little additions 41 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by yazach: 2:59pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
Bleon99: Sorry Bros I beg no offence, this post is strictly meant for people with wisdom, prudent people, wise men, talented creatures, etc. 127 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by funshint(m): 3:07pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
Even as a Christian the indepth practicality of "some" of your teachings is what I like about Islam. Just wish we could look beyond our differences and see that we are all equal in the sight of God. *man brought about the division 81 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by dalaman: 3:32pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
So all this ritual just because two people want to have sex?? 64 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by mexxmoney: 3:52pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
You said children become disobedient because their parents didn't say the dua before having sex? Hello!!!! You really believe that crap? I don't know if I should laugh at you or cry for you 66 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by yazach: 5:17pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
Please this post is meant only for the wise once. Thanks 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by yazach: 6:44pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
Bleon99: Sorry, I think you need to take a pill for headache. 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by tintingz(m): 4:41pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
There are some point in your post tho but one will have to perform rituals every time sex is about to be done between married couples. NOTE: Some Scholars say that children are disobedient to their parents usually because the parents forget/forgot to say the above duaa before having sex.This one here is irrational. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Demmzy15(m): 5:42pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
^^^Inspector General of Police, Nairaland Don drop verdict! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by yazach: 6:32pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
tintingz: Can you explain the two points you mentioned |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by tintingz(m): 8:34pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
yazach:- Must married couples perform these rituals you mentioned in your post every time they wanna have sex? - So a child is disobedient because parents don't do dua/rituals before having sex, how is that even rational? 16 Likes |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Bleon99: 10:39pm On Apr 23, 2017 |
tintingz:hey tintingz...... that yazach guy doesn't know what he is saying............absolutely off point. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Kunlexic(m): 9:31am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Bleon99:Have u keep quiet?...idiot! When do u see a muslim to come to christain section to bring about derogatory comment about ur topic if not u are all violent...bunch of morons 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by tintingz(m): 9:36am On Apr 24, 2017 |
Bleon99:This is not about what he's saying but what he has been programmed to believe in. I'm very sure Mark Zuckerberg is more obedient and humble than some Muslims born with dua/rituals. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Kunlexic(m): 9:36am On Apr 24, 2017 |
yazach:not even headache...he need urgent attention of a psychiatric doctor for his mentally deranged 5 Likes |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Adecks01(m): 12:37am On Apr 25, 2017 |
Person no go release sperm before finishing this whole ritual? 19 Likes |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by yazach: 9:04am On Apr 25, 2017 |
tintingz:I always enjoy words of the glorious Quran, it always give clear cut answer to any question either the questioner is wise or stupid Surat azzumar Vs 9 Is one who is obedient to Allah, prostrating himself or standing (in prayer) during the hours of the night, fearing the Hereafter and hoping for the Mercy of his Lord (like one who disbelieves)? Say: “Are those who know equal to those who know not?” It is only men of understanding who will remember (i.e. get a lesson from Allah’s Signs and Verses). Another translation Is he who is devoutly (praying) at various times of the night, prostrate and upright, being wary of the Hereafter, and hoping for the mercy of his Lord (the same as the disbeliever)? Say, “Are the ones who know equal to the ones who do not know?” Surely only the ones endowed with intellects would remind themselves. 22 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Kunlexic(m): 9:12am On Apr 25, 2017 |
Bleon99:it is not ur fault...ur case need urgent psychiatric attention. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by tintingz(m): 9:49am On Apr 25, 2017 |
yazach:Where are the rituals before sex in the Quran? 6 Likes |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by tintingz(m): 9:53am On Apr 25, 2017 |
Adecks01:Lol, clown. 5 Likes |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Adecks01(m): 10:50am On Apr 25, 2017 |
tintingz:who? Me or him? Just asking oo 2 Likes |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by yazach: 10:52am On Apr 25, 2017 |
tintingz: Wallahi a very perfect answer for your question is in the same verse Surat azzumar Vs 9 Is one who is obedient to Allah, prostrating himself or standing (in prayer) during the hours of the night, fearing the Hereafter and hoping for the Mercy of his Lord (like one who disbelieves)? Say: “Are those who know equal to those who know not?” It is only men of understanding who will remember (i.e. get a lesson from Allah’s Signs and Verses). 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by tintingz(m): 11:06am On Apr 25, 2017 |
yazach:Where is sex in that verse? 12 Likes |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by tintingz(m): 11:06am On Apr 25, 2017 |
Adecks01:You na |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by Adecks01(m): 11:11am On Apr 25, 2017 |
tintingz:you have the right to personal opinion shaaaaa 1 Like |
Re: Having Sex With Your Wife (islamic Teaching) by yazach: 11:15am On Apr 25, 2017 |
tintingz: Why don't you find a nearest Mallam to you and ask him to explain it to you if you can not find the answer to your question even when it's obvious 1 Like |
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