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Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by Naijablade: 11:06pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
Please i dont know how to talk to girls,am always scared and shy.i usually have affection for girls buh i end up masturbating with their image on the back of my mind and then the affection vanishes. Please i need your help i am already 17 going to 18 |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by Nobody: 11:07pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
ikp120:beggar spotted |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by ipobarecriminals: 11:07pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
focus on ur book/school not girls. 2,u don't know how to talk to girls cos u are razor blade..Finish ur jamb/waec,graduate from university, get job and watch how beautiful girls go dey run after u.@ ur age,if u give one girl Bellevue just cut short ur grace 1 Like |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by ikp120(m): 11:07pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
Naijablade:How much do you have to pay for my service? |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by MrShine(m): 11:10pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
#u need google in ya laive |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by MrShine(m): 11:11pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
#u need google in ya laive
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Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by LethargiQue: 11:21pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
By the time you get to 40, you would've had a massively muscular left or right arm, and an empty sack of balls.. Continue beating off your 2inch pipe.. |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by smardray(m): 11:24pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
My bro, save dat tin like im saving mine.. I mean ur .... MONEY |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by sseunth(m): 11:26pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
ipobarecriminals:na so una go dey talk.... He needs solution to his prob, u telling him to go face his book... Go carry the face put for book na |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by ipobarecriminals: 11:34pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
sseunth:u are still a kid.wetin kids Sabi? @ 17,he need to focus on either vocational trade/school,not running after girls. Girls can wait now.i told my first girl, no boyfriend until she's through with her NYSC.. 1 Like |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by SoftP(m): 11:41pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
See the opposite sex as a friend , not as sex object, that way uve built self confidence by .. i guess u are more relaxed relating with ur male folks' yea because u see them as friends |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by SoftP(m): 11:44pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
ipobarecriminals:and u believe going to sch is the height of life! Make una nor dey deceive una selves ooo |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by dingbang(m): 11:46pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
Ur own is finished... |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by tosyne2much(m): 11:55pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
ipobarecriminals:This is not a good advice.. This is one of the reasons why we have remained backward in this part of the world What has book got to do with being able/unable to approach a lady? Haven't you seen men who are through with school yet they can't woo a lady? When you offer this kind of advice to young chaps, they won't listen at all, but will only take your advice into consideration if you guide on how to go about it or how to minimize it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by Nobody: 11:58pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
Naijablade: What you're going through is normal for your age. Try building a friendship with a girl first then let that friendship grow into a relationship. Either way don't think you're different in anyway because all people go through what you're feeling now at your age. Have fun and make friends with girls for now. |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by Nobody: 12:06am On Apr 28, 2017 |
@17 you're already masturbating by creating your own fantasy,ride on. op,are you working(earning a salary/self employed); if no,then be calm cos you're not yet ready for gf stuff. |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by sseunth(m): 12:11am On Apr 28, 2017 |
ipobarecriminals:if u have something else to say, pls do. Book is not everything. If he should face his book now, that doesnt mean he will be able to talk to opposite sex when it is time. And remember to get a bodyguard for your girl. |
Re: Pls My Fellow Nairalanders Help Me by teelaw4life(m): 12:52am On Apr 28, 2017 |
Op, the best advice i can give you is that if being around girls make you feel uncomfortable, then by all means make sure you are always around them. Do this consistently everyday for 20 days at least. But whenever you're in their means try to contribute to whatever conversation they're having even if it's just one word. By surrounding yourself with the trigger of your shyness and overloading your sensory organs to this trigger, you are systematically desensitizing yourself. And soon, in no time, you'll be used to being around girls, talking to them and who knows you could become the greatest playboy the world's ever seen since Casanova. The key is to relax. Meanwhile keep jerking off if it helps you relieve your sexual frustration. This is a matter of preference, personal opinion and sentiment. It has nothing to do with how you feel around girls. On another hand OP girls are overrated. There's nothing there. Just see them as boys who don't have dick. |
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