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vibrant40:
Oga HARDON, how I wish I stumbled onto this tread before noon yesterday.
My case is so pathetic, u didn't know until I came to this tread that being a nice guy is a crime in the women world. No wonder I hardly ignite a relationship not to talk of keeping one.
Chai, my own mumu pass that of MR. BEANS.
Don't lemme waste your time, I just need help if there is going to be one for this grave mistake I have made.
There is this gal that I happened to be her kid sister's teacher. I fell for her the first day I saw her around my school.
Needs to get her I searched for her on Facebook and became friends with her. Asked for her number she gave it to me immediately after I had introduced myself. We began chatting on WhatsApp and we started as innocent friends. With my mumu boiling, hardly a day goes busy which I don't chat with this gal. After some months of the friendship, I thought of getting our friendship to the next level, so I asked her out. She was like hoo you are late cos I just gave my heart to some one last week. I thought this is one of the numerous ways which girls do play hard to get and I continued to mount pressure on the professing my love for her and how I can do anything for her (Chai I mumu die. Thanks to this tread for making me know sha) all she do is ask me to stop that she can't date me but I remained optimistic. Fast forward her grand mother died, (I rent an apartment from their family house) so she has to come home for the burial because she is in a tertiary institution college of education to be precise. She came home with her friends and came straight to my room. We exchanged pleasantries and she told me her friends and her would be lodging in my room. I gave a no problem gesture and in they packed their bags. That night I had wanted to sleep at a friend's house but they insisted I have to be with them. During the day of the burial she had wanted to hug me but stopped half way. This gave me the impression that she likes me but only forming (dunno if I'm right though) during the night they all slept on the bed I did on the rug. With that afternoon impressions, during midnight I tried to romance and kiss her but she stopped me. The next morning which I expected her to be mad at me what I just heard was "**** (she called my name). do you know you didn't allow me to sleep well and I am now having headaches. Her friends were like Ehnn after that nko. I played this mumu nice guy afterwards do everything they wanted and give all the requested for to them, I even had to see them off to the motor park in a rain!
We didn't chat well since they left on Sunday because she not always online due to the fact that she is writing exams. But chatted yesterday and I revisit the topic of her letting me be her guy. She asked me to stop but I didn't. This pissed her off to the extent that she resorted to verbal abuse on me, she told me that she don't and will never love me. She said I disgust her and so on...... Í Was also annoyed but I mumuly kept my anger and started begging her. I stopped the chat with her and came to nairaland to cool off myself. Then I jammed this tread, how I wish I had done it earlier...... But Boss can there be a kinda solution because I wish to wack this gal to show her ego doesn't pay.
Sorry for the long novel bro, I have to explain myself better. Thanks in anticipation.

okwypascal:
bro we got u covered


Return of Bleep okwypascal

Ustec:
Dont worry..!
after all the theory,
you will still come back here to complete your SENSEPILLS tablets

LorenzoWisdom:
nah....with respect to harddon teachings..the bang n advanced banh rule is D BEST SOLUTION....

Shegzkenneth:
Bosses in d house, plz, help me out, I just started dating a girl recently and everything was going on smoothly not until last week when I noticed her change in behavior due to d fact dat I over pamper her, don't know what to do to be in control again

Chibydinho:
You've got to change the way you handle her... Reduce the calls, the text msgs, do not yield to all of her needs and try to be yourself while with her not acting like a axs licker.
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More on that.. How did the relationship started?... Have you bleeped her or still acting nice on her?... Answer these questions, so we know in details what might be cause of her actions.

Chibydinho:
Thanks Harddon for opening such a thread... First time to comment here, but have read to page 50 of your teachings.

Honestly, I've learnt so much.

Japhet04:
Boss HARDDON Jokes apart you have really touched a lot of lives

Your mind is a fine wine.,

HARDDON:
Humbled!

Spread the good news. You dont eat good food alone, you share.

xynerise:
Harddon, oya teach me

HARDDON:
hahaha

tot you would neva ask!

I know you are still a Virgin even with all the flood lights that has been directed your ways!

Be romancing Keypads and futball forgetting there are softer things in life!

Shegzkenneth:
No, Still nice to her nigga

Shegzkenneth:
Bosses in d house, plz, help me out, I just started dating a girl recently and everything was going on smoothly not until last week when I noticed her change in behavior due to d fact dat I over pamper her, don't know what to do to be in control again

xynerise:
You are beginning to speak in parables

I don't get

HARDDON:


parables are the palmwine of the mind. with it, men brew wisdom and solutions and find lights.

Brew brother brew

iamrosheed:
Oga Harddon Wehdone Sir , please i need ur help
A guy in my faculty (i'm in 100, he is in 300 and the girl is in 100 ) wants to collect my girl, the dude is really trying to get her and right now am thinking she might fall for him (due to d guy's experience and maybe knowledge ) Oga harddon how can i stop my girl from falling for the guy .she is cathing fellings for the dude and i am sensing it.

vibrant40:
Oga HARDON, how I wish I stumbled onto this tread before noon yesterday.
My case is so pathetic, u didn't know until I came to this tread that being a nice guy is a crime in the women world. No wonder I hardly ignite a relationship not to talk of keeping one.
Chai, my own mumu pass that of MR. BEANS.
Don't lemme waste your time, I just need help if there is going to be one for this grave mistake I have made.
There is this gal that I happened to be her kid sister's teacher. I fell for her the first day I saw her around my school.
Needs to get her I searched for her on Facebook and became friends with her. Asked for her number she gave it to me immediately after I had introduced myself. We began chatting on WhatsApp and we started as innocent friends. With my mumu boiling, hardly a day goes busy which I don't chat with this gal. After some months of the friendship, I thought of getting our friendship to the next level, so I asked her out. She was like hoo you are late cos I just gave my heart to some one last week. I thought this is one of the numerous ways which girls do play hard to get and I continued to mount pressure on the professing my love for her and how I can do anything for her (Chai I mumu die. Thanks to this tread for making me know sha) all she do is ask me to stop that she can't date me but I remained optimistic. Fast forward her grand mother died, (I rent an apartment from their family house) so she has to come home for the burial because she is in a tertiary institution college of education to be precise. She came home with her friends and came straight to my room. We exchanged pleasantries and she told me her friends and her would be lodging in my room. I gave a no problem gesture and in they packed their bags. That night I had wanted to sleep at a friend's house but they insisted I have to be with them. During the day of the burial she had wanted to hug me but stopped half way. This gave me the impression that she likes me but only forming (dunno if I'm right though) during the night they all slept on the bed I did on the rug. With that afternoon impressions, during midnight I tried to romance and kiss her but she stopped me. The next morning which I expected her to be mad at me what I just heard was "**** (she called my name). do you know you didn't allow me to sleep well and I am now having headaches. Her friends were like Ehnn after that nko. I played this mumu nice guy afterwards do everything they wanted and give all the requested for to them, I even had to see them off to the motor park in a rain!
We didn't chat well since they left on Sunday because she not always online due to the fact that she is writing exams. But chatted yesterday and I revisit the topic of her letting me be her guy. She asked me to stop but I didn't. This pissed her off to the extent that she resorted to verbal abuse on me, she told me that she don't and will never love me. She said I disgust her and so on...... Í Was also annoyed but I mumuly kept my anger and started begging her. I stopped the chat with her and came to nairaland to cool off myself. Then I jammed this tread, how I wish I had done it earlier...... But Boss can there be a kinda solution because I wish to wack this gal to show her ego doesn't pay.
Sorry for the long novel bro, I have to explain myself better. Thanks in anticipation.

HARDDON:
in 100 level? Rosheed?

Here is a big brother advise: Lay a good foundation first in your academics before you talk about ladies.

In fact, i always advise students to focus on their books in year 1 and 2. Know why? these two years separates the class into two groups: those that would come out with 1st or second class upper( in one group) and those that would come out with 2nd lower and third class in another group.

If you start rolling with gurls now and heart breaks sets in(especially in exams period, most likely breakup period cos almost everybody goes broke and the big boys cease the opportunity to steal gfs with fud and gifts), you would lose focus and your academics would suffer.

Do also know that you are not safe yet even after getting the admission. You can be sent packing if you dont make up to certain points in your CGPA after year 2.

So let her go(however hard it may be, Man up and own your balls). dont sweat it. the beautiful ones are not yet born..... words of wisdom from a fine mind....

HARDDON:
Block Her on whatsapp, Delete her number from your phone, Unfriend her on facebook, delete her memory from your head, heart and mind, meet others and be kul this time around applying all your have learn here.


Breath fresh air Gee! it isnt that stuffy out there. Fine bones abound. fresher softer beings beckons not until you lift up your head from this doungeon, you can never see!

this is the best way to get her back.

btw,
{b} but your ability to misread situation is mega mehn {b} .

DavidTheGeek:
I wanted to just ignore this but i've decided to speak up cuz this guy has gone nuts.

DON'T PAY MYLESTONE FOR ANY BOOK. HE IS A SCAMMER.

Beware of Mylestone. He is a broke ass nicca desperately trying to make quick cheap money.

Due to his desperation, he created a new account to praise himself here when he saw that no one was giving him attention. The account is LorenzoWisdom https://www.nairaland.com/lorenzowisdom It was registered on April 26, 2017.

Country hard, guyman dem dey hustle. Shine your eyes.

Mylestone:
Has anybody from did thread ever came out to say I defraud HIM OR HER...LET D PERSON/PEOPLE DAT PM ME MAIL COME OUT N TESTIFY




A WORD IS ENOUGH 4 D WISE....

Chibydinho:
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I don't know, but I'm a hunter before I stumbled on this thread and discovered that even as I hunt, I should be tactical on it...
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My main suggestion is that you read this thread from page 0, I bet before you reach page 20, you will see what you were doing wrong and how to man up your game.
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By the way, your story is shorthanded... Explain more for easier assessment and solution.

HARDDON:
in 100 level? Rosheed?

Here is a big brother advise: Lay a good foundation first in your academics before you talk about ladies.

In fact, i always advise students to focus on their books in year 1 and 2. Know why? these two years separates the class into two groups: those that would come out with 1st or second class upper( in one group) and those that would come out with 2nd lower and third class in another group.

If you start rolling with gurls now and heart breaks sets in(especially in exams period, most likely breakup period cos almost everybody goes broke and the big boys cease the opportunity to steal gfs with fud and gifts), you would lose focus and your academics would suffer.

Do also know that you are not safe yet even after getting the admission. You can be sent packing if you dont make up to certain points in your CGPA after year 2.

So let her go(however hard it may be, Man up and own your balls). dont sweat it. the beautiful ones are not yet born..... words of wisdom from a fine mind....

Mylestone:
Has anybody from did thread ever came out to say I defraud HIM OR HER...LET D PERSON/PEOPLE DAT PM ME MAIL COME OUT N TESTIFY




A WORD IS ENOUGH 4 D WISE....