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Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by lightblazingnow(m): 5:41pm On May 03, 2017 |
If you know you don't understand the word marriage stay clear off the promises and the joy of marriage. Don't get married for the fun of wedding, the status offline as a single. Escaping the tag on you by society. I am actually begging you for your peace of mind and life. Do you have the information? Have you been brought into the table of family responsibilities. I am begging you again if you don't know what is marriage please stay away from it. If not you will never be happy all of your days. The occasion of marriage is love procession. You watch yourself being in an occasion which is full of lovely scene and decorations. The people and the music. Everything singing love. Then after which, you will have to start a new life. You might have been living together before the occasion day. After the occasion brother, sister it's always different. The feeling is different. You can boldly feel you are a married person. Now this is the feeling of 97%, the other 3% perhaps are the ones driven to the occasion and forced to marry someone they do not have feelings for, or those who married for the wrong reasons. Whatever groups you fall into, marriage always brings a special feeling on the day of contraction. 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by dingbang(m): 5:45pm On May 03, 2017 |
Someone who doesn't like stress, can she make a good wife? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Nobody: 5:50pm On May 03, 2017 |
dingbang:why u want stress her, marriage no suppose be stress 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Afonjashapmouth: 5:50pm On May 03, 2017 |
This is a very valid post trust me 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by dingbang(m): 5:52pm On May 03, 2017 |
Oyind17:no I wasn't looking from it at that angle... Stress isn't caused by human factor only na.. There are other things dat causes stress.. 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Afonjashapmouth: 5:52pm On May 03, 2017 |
dingbang: You cannot base your judgment on that, cos.no.woman wants.stress but some are just extremely lazy so it depends on what you meant by the word stress 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Nobody: 5:54pm On May 03, 2017 |
dingbang:I get, marriage is supposed to be enjoyed but the reverse is the case in many Nigerian homes |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Afonjashapmouth: 5:54pm On May 03, 2017 |
dingbang: If this is the case try to be straight and open about it cos trust me a lazy woman cannot make a proper home, instead she naggs and gives you reasons always |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by dingbang(m): 5:55pm On May 03, 2017 |
Afonjashapmouth:yes.. Dats exactly the same thing I was explaining to oyind17.., maybe I should ask her what her definition of stress means and d type of stress she wants to avoid |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Nobody: 5:56pm On May 03, 2017 |
Afonjashapmouth:Why always fault the women, she is a human not a robot. Tolarate her shortcomings. |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Afonjashapmouth: 5:59pm On May 03, 2017 |
Oyind17: This is not blaming, now listen in a marriage duties and obligations are there to keep up with but if the woman is lagging in her own contribution then.there lays the problem. |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by dingbang(m): 6:00pm On May 03, 2017 |
Afonjashapmouth:well I don't think she might be lazy.... My mum when she comes back from a long journey with my dad.. She still enters d kitchen to prepare food for him.. Ignoring d stress accrued from d journey .. Sometimes. There might be moments when d family is hosting an occasion . which requires a lot of stress in cooking and all that.. Stress from jobs.. Stress washing a heap of clothes..well thank God for washing machine.. |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by dingbang(m): 6:01pm On May 03, 2017 |
Oyind17:its just the Nigerian economy dat contributes most to the stress in Nigerian homes.. |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Afonjashapmouth: 6:01pm On May 03, 2017 |
dingbang: Now you are confusing me What angle was your question.from?? Cos from what you just wrote your mum is not lazy so she makes a good wife |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by dingbang(m): 6:05pm On May 03, 2017 |
Afonjashapmouth:you know initially I asked a question . can a woman who say she don't like stress make a good wife.. You pointed it depends on the definition of stress she defines hers.... So far, from what she tells me, I don't think she might be lazy .. But what confused me is the type of stress she was talking about .. |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Afonjashapmouth: 6:07pm On May 03, 2017 |
dingbang: And that was why I suggested you come plain and address the type of stress before it turns out making babies is the stress she meant for an example. |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by dingbang(m): 6:08pm On May 03, 2017 |
Afonjashapmouth:ok bro |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Nobody: 6:09pm On May 03, 2017 |
Afonjashapmouth:A blissful marriage is based on the woman's ability to endure. I don't like talking about marriage but you seems cool and I want us to talk, I'm bored There are women who performs all their duty and the man still treat them bad. My aunt's husband is very authoritative to the extend that before she uses anything at home she'll take permission from him. He will walk up to her and say pull your cloths and he will make love to her and stand up. She said there are times she'll be crying during sex, he no send. If any of their kids is sick, she dare not take that child to the clinic until he permits her. Recently he daughter fell seriously ill and he said no to treatment. I told her if that girl dies, people will not take it kindly with her and that she should fight back and break free from her husband's manipulations. That was exactly what she did, guess what the husband didn't kill an ant. She fought to an extend I started begging her to respect him. So my brother most marriage depends on how the woman's ability to endure |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Afonjashapmouth: 6:13pm On May 03, 2017 |
Oyind17: And do you think marriage is supposed to be enjoyed or rather a game of endurance? |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Nobody: 6:19pm On May 03, 2017 |
Afonjashapmouth:Marriage is supposed to be enjoyed, African's have their own definition of marriage. Last week in Church, I was so angry in Sunday school our teacher was seriously telling us it's the woman's duty to keep her marriage. My blood dey hot where I siddon that Sunday |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Afonjashapmouth: 6:26pm On May 03, 2017 |
Oyind17: You got it twisted..... Both.genders have some level of duties in a marriage. Lets take for an example there level of negligence from a woman that can make a man instantly crawl out to sin while averagely women dont just cheat except there are missing spices note: averagely in a mentally stable home. However marriage is a very big institution that is bigger than I love her and she loves me, tolerance from the man needs to be more expanded because there will be that day of you wishing you could behead this lady. That is why it is crucial to look deeply into what.you can condone and not aim at.changing your partner after marriage cos trust me it hardly works but rather breaks the home. |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Nobody: 6:31pm On May 03, 2017 |
Afonjashapmouth:Are you married? You just said what I always say to people. Love will disappear at a point in marriage, sex will disappear in some cases, trust won't be there too. The only thing that keeps the marriage in such trying time is tolerance, a lot of it till you guys come back on track. |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Afonjashapmouth: 6:50pm On May 03, 2017 |
Oyind17: Of course I am married however I have prepared my mind for the worst, however even that is.not enough. Just learn daily and never treat your woman with the same dose another man is.using for his else...... Just scold and dont let it slide to the next month. |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by lightblazingnow(m): 7:10pm On May 03, 2017 |
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Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Nobody: 7:10pm On May 03, 2017 |
Afonjashapmouth:This is interesting. Don't prepare for the worst. The best is coming your way. We women hate when our men complains about everything. Tell her those things she's doing wrong jokingly atimes. Marriage no be come chop my brother |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Afonjashapmouth: 7:15pm On May 03, 2017 |
Oyind17: You have to be honest with yourself every moment will not be rossy |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Nobody: 7:19pm On May 03, 2017 |
Afonjashapmouth:You are right, still hope for the best Marriage is never a bed of roses, look for a way to make it work. I know some women are something else |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Afonjashapmouth: 7:20pm On May 03, 2017 |
Oyind17: Its working and we know how to patch our lapses |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Nobody: 7:22pm On May 03, 2017 |
Afonjashapmouth:I wish I can be more open, do you also feel women are to keep the marriage? Like sacrificing all to make it work. Can I ask you some personal questions? |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Afonjashapmouth: 7:24pm On May 03, 2017 |
Oyind17: Hit me up on whatsapp if its personal then. 09025186831 |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Nobody: 7:32pm On May 03, 2017 |
Afonjashapmouth:thanks |
Re: Marriage Is A Serious Matter Oooooooo by Afonjashapmouth: 7:36pm On May 03, 2017 |
Oyind17:zero eight zero 33 six seven 48 one 9 |
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