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nkemdi89:
Na lie o, Yoruba woman no send for age, even if the boy is 15 as long as he is responsible the family will sponsor him. Unlike IBO's that will start considering class, religion denomination, family, OSU factor, anambra factor. In fact Yoruba's are the best when it comes to marriage sometimes, but that doesn't guarantee they won't divorce with time.

nkemdi... You're igbo... I'm yoruba...you still dey follow me drag what i know about yoruba mothers... I have a yoruba mum.

See, yoruba mums care about respect so much. They feel the older wife will respect their sons less in marriage. Which happens most times. Yoruba mums frown at this, they even frown at agemates getting married.

The only time yoruba men were permitted to marry older wives back in those days was if the woman was the wife of the mans deceased father or brother..... Igbo's do same from my little knowledge.

#Afonja

NevetsIbot:
its definately not sarcasm. I'm an afonja. I know what i'm saying

Kindly enlighten me.

[quote author=shortgun post=56192603]Early marriage has its ups n downs[/quot





Late marriage too has it's up's and down's. Early marriage is even better than late marriage by far.......

Even inside the white gown too....Na wa ooo Wetin person no go see 4 this world oooo

IkpuMmadu:
then they must be stupid, Love is the last thing that you consider...they are infatuated. Why did they proceed. Dont they have parents

who else would sponsor the wedding, the parents na.

Those two couldnt use protection, got the girl pregos. Wedding was arranged cos it seemed like the right thing to do. The guy is still a student, i'm cock sure

NevetsIbot:
who else would sponsor the wedding, the parents na.

Those two couldnt use protection, got the girl pregos. Wedding was arranged cos it seemed like the right thing to do. The guy is still a student, i'm cock sure

They made it look like as if they won some nobel prize...what tribe are they from anyway?

Whi are the people encouraging such a stupidity

I guess twaz because of d preg he had to married her to save both families shame

Dem go born a full team 2geda wit reserve players. Early marriage without experience outta bang & rely on parent.

dingbang:
20 yr old boy will now be fvcking anyhow while i dey here dey listen to rubbish news about fornication. i dey go marry i don vex.

Na lie be that thing ooo. You marry no mean you go dey Bleep anyhow.

seniorkachion:
Kindly enlighten me.

See, yoruba mums care about respect so much.
They feel the older wife will respect their sons
less in marriage. Which happens most times.
Yoruba mums frown at this, they even frown
at agemates getting married. The only time yoruba men were permitted to
marry older wives back in those days was if
the woman was the wife of the mans
deceased father or brother..... Igbo's do same
from my little knowledge.

this marriage was arranged cos there was no other choice. The girl's pregnant. On a normal day on normal cases of introduction to lovers families, hardly will you find a yoruba woman agree to let her son marry an agemate or older woman without her first trying to dissolve the relationship..

It doesnt mean all yoruba women are against it.. I'd say 90% of them loathe it but may finally give in and let them marry. But, the mum will always be at alert for a sign of disrespect.

In the 20yrs & 24yrs old case, this was probably forced and planned to eradicate shame

IkpuMmadu:
They made it look like as if they won some nobel prize...what tribe are they from anyway?

Whi are the people encouraging such a stupidity

they're yoruba.

Na pregnancy cause am jare

nkemdi89:
Na lie o, Yoruba woman no send for age, even if the boy is 15 as long as he is responsible the family will sponsor him. Unlike IBO's that will start considering class, religion denomination, family, OSU factor, anambra factor. In fact Yoruba's are the best when it comes to marriage sometimes, but that doesn't guarantee they won't divorce with time.

I will believe you when I see two yoruba teenagers wedlock without a protruding tummy.

And who told you that the parents won't consider anything anything except love. In your world two minors can marry.

mfm04622:
Na lie be that thing ooo. You marry no mean you go dey Bleep anyhow.

wetin dis one dey yarn... If I marry.. Na five years of fvck nonstop before she go give birth

...what tribe are they from anyway?

Whi are the people encouraging such a stupidity[/quote]No go there!

shortgun:
For me I will pick late marriage over early marriage.
The human mind keeps evolving and changing over time, the things you like to do years ago you will no longer fancy.
I think people should have been able to define their personality before getting married. The type of partner you want to be with years ago will not be ur choice today.
The only joy in early marriage is having kids early at the same one will make mistakes raising those kids cos of immaturity and youthful exuberance .

Late marriage people also make mistakes in raising kids.

NevetsIbot:
See, yoruba mums care about respect so much.
They feel the older wife will respect their sons
less in marriage. Which happens most times.
Yoruba mums frown at this, they even frown
at agemates getting married. The only time yoruba men were permitted to
marry older wives back in those days was if
the woman was the wife of the mans
deceased father or brother..... Igbo's do same
from my little knowledge.

this marriage was arranged cos there was no other choice. The girl's pregnant. On a normal day on normal cases of introduction to lovers families, hardly will you find a yoruba woman agree to let her son marry an agemate or older woman without her first trying to dissolve the relationship..

It doesnt mean all yoruba women are against it.. I'd say 90% of them loathe it but may finally give in and let them marry. But, the mum will always be at alert for a sign of disrespect.

In the 20yrs & 24yrs old case, this was probably forced and planned to eradicate shame

Thanks.

NevetsIbot:
they're yoruba.

Na pregnancy cause am jare

Guy you are cool headed. I already advised the op to back off so the thread won't be derailed with tribal rants.

one4GOD:
I smell selfish interest. at age 20 what does a boy know about sustaining marriage or commitment into it. uwa nmebi!!! and they are even flaunting their shame on social media, boy 20 pregnant a girl of 24 and she even wore a wedding gown. Evil has suddenly become good just because people approve of it doesn't mean God does too.

I didn't add age madam.

dingbang:
wetin dis one dey yarn... If I marry.. Na five years of fvck nonstop before she go give birth

Abeg I beg you in god's name make you no marry.

Which kind marriage be this. Wonders of the world.

geekybabe:
You will have to pray against many things o. Slay queens, pepper dem gang, strange perverted friends (f*ckboys) and the latest ones, lexy boys.

Join me in prayers I'm serious though.

pyyxxaro:
So for church now

When Pastor go say # All the Excellent Men wait behind for a meeting #

This Wiz-Man go wait


Started dating her when he was 16yrs and she was 20yrs


Afonjas I hail una

Frustrated osu

[quote author=GloryIsaac post=56192945][/quote]G boy, I'm looking at 25 years

one4GOD:
I smell selfish interest. at age 20 what does a boy know about sustaining marriage or commitment into it. uwa nmebi!!! and they are even flaunting their shame on social media, boy 20 pregnant a girl of 24 and she even wore a wedding gown. Evil has suddenly become good just because people approve of it doesn't mean God does too.

....this is the best they could do to cover the so called shame u re crying about....what else do u advice miss Good woman

Siscooh:
The enemy is bringing out the worst. He is making man to celebrate every thing that doesn't look like normal. French President etc. Jesus is coming back sooner than we imagine.

...dont get u...what happen to french president?

Its better they are married , than for her to end up as a baby mama @ age 24. Age has nothing to do with success in marriage . agbayas of 30years and 40years are killing themselves and divorcing everyday . are those one ripe for marriage ??smhh
With this young couples they will listen to their parents and make their marriage work . its good to marry early .
And its good to marry a young man, who will be willing to grow and adjust with his wife .
One thing I notice about divorce in marriage is stubbornness, unnecessary pride and arrogance , selfishness and too many lies .
I doubt if this young couples wil have such problems .
Happy married life to them . Now they can focus on more important things in life.

enimooko:
Mmmhh. Permissive society and excuses are like 5&6. "Marriage is JUST a celebration!" May your own marriage be more than just a celebration.

Don't qoute me wrong I said white marriage, underline.u might have done the needfull within the two families before coming to public for celebration.

RxTaiwo:
So it's now a crime to marry older woman

Christ in me! Where did you see that? My son won't marry odede as Esans will put it. Are you an old woman? Mabinu

Obontami come and see something

A 20 year old boy don put market

seniorkachion:
Abeg I beg you in god's name make you no marry.

oya bribe me... I fit end up marryn ur sister

okay.

THE BIGGINING DEY GOOD SHA BUT THE MIDDLE AND ENDING GO DETERMINE