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I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by deprof9(m): 12:18pm On May 04, 2017
hey fam, in my previous thread, I talked about my girl whom I caught with another guy red handed. though most of u thought it was made up, it truly happened to me. but guess what? I took some advice from you guys and broke up with her ASAP!


But there's a problem, before the break up, there was a day I met her at her friends shop, she complained that she wants to make her hair but she has no money, then with much persuasion by her friend I asked her to make it for her then I'll foot the bill.


but that was when we we're still dating, few days after the break up her friend called and asked for the money, I related with a friend and he advised not to pay the money, I agreed with him because I realised that she's nothing but a bloody good digger.


I told them that I will not pay the money. then just yesterday a thug called me and threatened to harm me if I don't pay up. I still don't want to in order not to look stupid, but right now I'm contemplating btw paying and let peace reign or keeping my words and not look like a coward.

plz guys I need advice urgently.
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:21pm On May 04, 2017
Pay the money... your breaking up with your girl doesn't concern the hairdresser. Pay her money and move on
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by GEExclusive: 12:22pm On May 04, 2017
Who's up for some tori?
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by maxti: 12:23pm On May 04, 2017
Keep to the agreement. Pay up
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by madone: 12:24pm On May 04, 2017
Go and pay the money u have given ur word already.ur word is ur bond.be a man go pay.just call the girl tell her no p u ll pay.
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by Nobody: 12:25pm On May 04, 2017
grin grin grin
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by Afonjashapmouth: 12:28pm On May 04, 2017
Just pay up like a gentleman and try not.to go by urself send a kid to drop the bondage on them. But which Nairalander say make u.break up People dey listen.to some advices shaa
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by Fadamant: 12:29pm On May 04, 2017
deprof9:
hey fam, in my previous thread, I talked about my girl whom I caught with another guy red handed. though most of u thought it was made up, it truly happened to me. but guess what? I took some advice from you guys and broke up with her ASAP!


But there's a problem, before the break up, there was a day I met her at her friends shop, she complained that she wants to make her hair but she has no money, then with much persuasion by her friend I asked her to make it for her then I'll foot the bill.


but that was when we we're still dating, few days after the break up her friend called and asked for the money, I related with a friend and he advised not to pay the money, I agreed with him because I realised that she's nothing but a bloody good digger.


I told them that I will not pay the money. then just yesterday a thug called me and threatened to harm me if I don't pay up. I still don't want to in order not to look stupid, but right now I'm contemplating btw paying and let peace reign or keeping my words and not look like a coward.

plz guys I need advice urgently.


Straight up. Those friends of yours are stupid to advice you not to pay that hair maker after giving her your word. And for you, you only remembered that you needed to be strong after you have promised to pay, right.

Put your ego aside and pay that girl her money, if you don't want trouble, after all she didn't force you to agree to pay.
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by Nobody: 12:31pm On May 04, 2017
Well, u have to pay for that hairdresser sha..she done her work with ur gf now ex...
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by Laveda(f): 12:31pm On May 04, 2017
JeffreyJamez:
Pay the money... your breaking up with your girl doesn't concern the hairdresser. Pay her money and move on

Simple!

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Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by darbeelicous(f): 12:33pm On May 04, 2017
im a female and I'll tell u d truth. don't pay up. for the fact that they're friends and she waited till after d break up should be a hint that she has payed but just want to play u mugu finally.

like u said, she's a bloody gold digger!
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by waywardpikin: 12:35pm On May 04, 2017
Are you stoopid? Come on goan pay that money jare.
Oni iranu oshi angry
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by Basildvalour(m): 12:38pm On May 04, 2017
Be a gentleman, keep to your words.


Just because she is no longer your girlfriend doesn't mean you will eat your words. Don't do anything for a girl just because she is your girlfriend. Do it because you want to do it.
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by deprof9(m): 12:43pm On May 04, 2017
JeffreyJamez:
Pay the money... your breaking up with your girl doesn't concern the hairdresser. Pay her money and move on
thanks man..... but thing is, this girl in particular still calls me and threatens me that she has moved on and if I know what z good for me I better pay up. some of these things actually prompt me not to pay it.
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by deprof9(m): 12:44pm On May 04, 2017
I thought so too...... thanks.
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:51pm On May 04, 2017
deprof9:
thanks man..... but thing is, this girl in particular still calls me and threatens me that she has moved on and if I know what z good for me I better pay up. some of these things actually prompt me not to pay it.

If you pay,will she see any reason to call you and talk rubbish?. Just pay and close that chapter of your life and move on.
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:01pm On May 04, 2017
You had a deal with the HAIRDRESSER (as you told her directly to do the hair) and not with your deceitful gf.... So regardless of the type of animal/LovePeddler you were dating, you must pay the hairdresser
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by tifany89(m): 2:36pm On May 04, 2017
darbeelicous:
im a female and I'll tell u d truth. don't pay up. for the fact that they're friends and she waited till after d break up should be a hint that she has payed but just want to play u mugu finally.

like u said, she's a bloody gold digger!
I will advice he pays. There is nothing dere moreover not like the money is much. Let that be ur parting gift to her.
Re: I'm Being Threatened, What To Do? by NeeKlaus: 2:41pm On May 04, 2017
darbeelicous:
im a female and I'll tell u d truth. don't pay up. for the fact that they're friends and she waited till after d break up should be a hint that she has payed but just want to play u mugu finally.

like u said, she's a bloody gold digger!
Who is this one? Is that the best advice you could come up with?? undecided

What if the hairdresser eventually carries out her threat and harms him, you would be in your house chilling, right?? undecided

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