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Prudent200:
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OK thanks is it true masturbation reduce prostrate
cancer?

Nina4u:
There is not one verse of the Bible that condemns self-stimulation. There is not one that insinuates such a condemnation. Yet, day after day, we hear preachers condemn masturbation as a sin. Their arguments?
There is the argument that sex was created for mutual pleasure: Yes; I agree. Sex was. But masturbation is not sex. It is sexual, and many other things are sexual, but it is not sexual intercourse in itself. Sex is for mutual benefits; masturbation is for personal benefits. Two different things... Almost everybody masturbates, including those people who tell you that it is sinful, dirty, and a bad habit (yes; the hypocrisy is filthy). Most people start masturbating from their teens. Remember wet dreams when you first hit your teens? Usually that’s where it starts. A wet dream is a natural procedure by the body. No; it has nothing to do with witches and wizards or spiritual husbands and wives.... Masturbation is a normal part of the growing child’s exploration of his or her body and continues for the rest of the lives of most people. If you masturbate, you are not an oddity. Actually, its those who claim not to masturbate that are the oddities...

Nina4u:
Sex is God’s invention. He is the mastermind behind it—and His creation is worth far more to Him than it is to us. This beautiful expression of love was created out of His own heart.. When it comes to my tattoos.. Bring it on any day.. We can talk about the bible any time.. I got answers for you

Prudent200:
hello Guys please I really need your help and it killing me I started masturbating at the age of 18 I normally do use soap sometimes i try to stop but it wont let go,there was a time i stop for two month I was happy it will be over I started seeing my self doing it again.I made up my mind that at age 19 I will stop but i still find my self doing it I have stop using soap and I do use my hand after 4 minute I erupt I feel sad when i do it and it makes my Leg weak if i stand up and i want to stretch my leg it will be making praaaaa sound same goes to my hand,looking at it am a skinny guy at age 20 I develope another means which is bed masturbation i will be banging my Dick on the bed and it take 10 minute to erupt sometimes i do hold my sperm and continue banging the bed even as i type this I masturbated this night and i erupt i know we have doctor in the house and some nairalander guys do it.
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sometimes i feel am the only guy In this world masturbating I also read somewere masturbation reduce prostrate cancer and also,some were in a site that masturbation increase prostrate cancer to %35 in young men how true is this please i need advice please i do feel guilty when i realease help a brother please

FreeSpirited:
Masturbation is not a sin....U religious sheep should just get lost...all you need abt masturbation is knowledge of your body.

hmbassey1960:
ME TOO MY I THINK IS WORST HAVE BEEN MASTRUBATING FOR,ALMOST SIX YEARS NOW EVERYDAY, I WANT TO STOP IT BUT IT KEEPS COMING AM AFRIAD THAT IT MIGHTY CUS ME LOW SPERM COUNT AND THE THING IS THAT I WATCH TOO MUCH PORN, PLS DO U GUYS HAVE ANY IDEA HOW I CAN END THIS ACT I DO NT HAVE A GIRLFRIEND AND AM SHY TYPE I ALWAYS ERECTION GUYS PLEASE ANY WAY TO STOP THIS AM JUST SCARED IT MIGHTY RENDER INFERTILY ANY GOOD REASON IDEA PLEASE,NO PASTOR PREACHING OR IMMAN PLEASE JUST NEED A COMMON ADVISE CUS I NO DEY BELIEVE FOR RELIGION MATTER,AM JUST AFRIAD,SAY I NO GO FIT BORN PIKIN CUS I MASTURBATE ALOT PLEASE I NEED MATURE ADVISE NO INSULT,THANKS

onatisi:
The.easiest way to solve masturbation problem is to have real sex. Get sexually active with the opposite sex and the urge to masturbated will reduce or vanish

Marioplus:
MASTURBATION IS SIN
EVERYBODY DOES NOT MASTURBATE
I DO NOT MASTURBATE
I HAVE NEVER MASTURBATED IN MY LIFE
FROM THE DAY I WAS BORN TILL TODAY
ALL THOSE YOUR HYPOTHESIS OF 98% MASTURBATE AND 2% ARE LYING IS FROM THE HEART OF THE DEVIL!
MASTURBATION IS A CONSCIOUS SQUEEZING OR FUNDLING OF SEXUAL GENITALS TO SATISFY YOUR SEXUAL APPETITE AS I ALREADY DETAILED ABOVE
MASTURBATION IS DIFFERENT FROM HORMONAL RELEASE OF SPERM AND SEXUAL AROUSAL FROM DREAMS CALLED WET-DREAMS OR OTHER NAMES IN WOMEN.
I HAD WET-DREAMS WITHIN AGE 16-25 YEARS
FROM 25 YEARS OF AGE I STARTED LEAVING A LIFE OF PRAYER AND FASTING ON DAILY BASES TILL DATE
I HAVE NEVER HAD WET DREAMS TILL DATE
I STILL HAVE MY ERECTIONS AS A NORMAL YOUNG MAN WHEN I WAKE UP TILL DATE
I AM CURRENTLY 31 YEARS THIS AUG.2017
MASTURBATION DOES NOT HELP REDUCE PROSTATE CANCER IN MEN
I HAVE CATHOLIC PRIESTS WHO ARE 109 YEARS AND THEY TESTIFY TILL DATE OF NOT MASTURBATING OR EVER HAVING SEXUAL INTERCOURSE WITH ANY MAN OR WOMAN YET THEY HAVE NO PROSTATE ISSUES.
THE PROSTATE GLAND IS LOCATED IN BETWEEN THE WASTE BONES THUS SHRINKS OR GETS BAD IF YOU EITHER
DO NOT ENGAGE IN NORMAL SEXUAL INTERCOURSE TO KEEP YOUR WASTE BONE ACTIVE
OR ENGAGE IN REGULAR WASTE EXERCISE "WALK", "RUNNING", "FOOTBALL" OR ANY OTHER RELATED WASTE EXERCISE TILL YOUR DEATH
HENCE IT IS MUCH SEEN IN ELDERLY MEN WHO ARE NOT ACTIVE SEXUALLY OR EXERCISE-ORIENTED.
HOWEVER EXCESSIVE ACTION ON THE PROSTATE GLAND WHICH RELEASES SPERM ESPECIALLY "MASTURBATION" OVER-WORKS THIS GLAND AND CALCIFIES {MAKES IT TO BLOCK UP LIKE CEMENT-MIXTURE HENCE MAKING YOU FEEL PAIN DURING URINATION, RELEASE OF SPERM OR STOOLING/POOPING RELEASE UNWANTED WASTE PRODUCTS FROM YOUR BUTTOCKS} ESPECIALLY IN MEN.
THEN THE PROSTATE GLAND STAYS NORMAL "DOES NOT SHRINK OR CALCIFY"
HENCE IF YOU ENGAGE IN REGULAR EXERCISE
YOU WILL HAVE NO ISSUE WITH PROSTATE WITH OR WITHOUT SEXUAL INTERCOURSE.
MASTURBATION IS NOT AN OPTION AT ALL
MASTURBATION IS EVIL
INVITE JESUS CHRIST INTO YOUR LIFE.
HE WILL DELIVER YOU FROM THIS DEMONIC SPIRIT.
ONCE YOU MASTURBATE YOU FEED DEMONS OF DARKNESS WITH YOUR SPERM HENCE THEY WILL ALWAYS INFLUENCE YOU TO DO MORE IN ORDER TO FEED THEM AND THEY WILL MAKE SURE YOU WILL NEVER ACHIEVE ANY GOOD RESULT IN YOUR WHOLE LIFE APART FROM FEEDING THEM WITH YOUR SPERM.
YOU WILL ALWAYS MEET DISAPPOINTMENT IN LIFE
BECAUSE YOU ARE ALWAYS SURROUNDED WITH DEMONS OF DARKNESS WHO YOU FEED WITH YOUR BLOOD {SPERM}
"THE ANGEL OF THE LORD IS SURROUNDED AROUND THOSE WHO FEAR HIM AND DELIVERS THEM {GRANTS THEM SUCCESS}" (PSALM 34:7)
THIS BIBLE PASSAGE ABOVE BECOMES THE OPPOSITE FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO FEED DEMONS WITH THEIR SPERM EVEN THOSE INVOLVED IN ANY TYPE OF SEXUAL IMMORALITY.
MAY THE HOLY SPIRIT BREAK YOU AWAY FROM MASTURBATION AND EVERY SPIRIT OF SEXUAL IMMORALITY IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME. AMEN.
ASK YOUR PASTOR OR PRIEST TO TEACH YOU HOW TO PRAY IN TONGUES REGULARLY IN YOUR MOUTH AND YOUR HEART THUS YOU WILL MAKE FASTER PROGRESS IN BREAKING AWAY FROM THIS DEMONIC.

Tamer18:
My bro,it will take the grace of God for you to stop... To deal with the spiritual attack of masturbation you need to stop watching porngrapy,including ladies nakeness and above all always go to God in prayer on ur kneel... It will take time but at the last u will testify to the glory of God.

MainHerioneHoon:
I was with you , then you said you fast on a daily basis. Please eat something soon my guy you seem very hangry (hungry + angry)when you type in all caps.

Nina4u:
yes... Faith.. Hope.. Love.. The 3 essentials

Prudent200:
hello Guys please I really need your help and it killing me I started masturbating at the age of 18 I normally do use soap sometimes i try to stop but it wont let go,there was a time i stop for two month I was happy it will be over I started seeing my self doing it again.I made up my mind that at age 19 I will stop but i still find my self doing it I have stop using soap and I do use my hand after 4 minute I erupt I feel sad when i do it and it makes my Leg weak if i stand up and i want to stretch my leg it will be making praaaaa sound same goes to my hand,looking at it am a skinny guy at age 20 I develope another means which is bed masturbation i will be banging my Dick on the bed and it take 10 minute to erupt sometimes i do hold my sperm and continue banging the bed even as i type this I masturbated this night and i erupt i know we have doctor in the house and some nairalander guys do it.
.
sometimes i feel am the only guy In this world masturbating I also read somewere masturbation reduce prostrate cancer and also,some were in a site that masturbation increase prostrate cancer to %35 in young men how true is this please i need advice please i do feel guilty when i realease help a brother please

AnthonioAlsaid:
Deceive not yourself

It shrinks your dick

Causes depression

Erectile dysfunction

Premature ejaculation

Body weakness

Nina4u:
yes... Faith.. Hope.. Love.. The 3 essentials

Marioplus:
I get lots of questions on masturbation most especially from ladies -yes, ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins. Guys also masturbate. There is no debate on that. I’m not here to argue about who masturbates most, I need to deal with a serious issue.

Sexual urge for virgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear-says about sex.

Masturbation is handling/rubbing/squeezing your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their female-core while guys rub, massage or caress their sexual-organ. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what masturbation is. Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a male sexual organ and do solo sex (having sex by yourself).

From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for sex. It’s a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling sexually aroused and your sexual organ will stand erect for some minutes for no single reason in the world or you become sexually aroused on seeing a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get sexually aroused on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven’t committed any sin.

So what then do you do when you get hot and Hot? Have sex? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They masturbate! They give themselves release and personal pleasure through solo sex while claiming ‘virginity’ at the same time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:

1. Masturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the IMAGE of SOMEONE in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex with them while masturbating. That is MENTAL FORNICATION

2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had sex with man except objects during your solo sex.

3. You kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women don’t enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won’t be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won’t have feelings for your husband’s sexual-organ. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands’ sexual organ is too small didn’t marry as virgins. They must have been promiscuous as singles by masturbation or having several sexual partners.

4. You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will experience pre-mature ejaculation and your wife won’t enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You need self-control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair. Self-control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum after wedlock. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and have excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why total virginity pays!

5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have serious problem with delayed/ slow ejaculation. A situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It’s the reason some women are seemingly “barren” and can’t talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether. You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasures that come with sex IN MARRIAGE!

6. You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities otherwise known as spiritual spouse).

7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act.

8. You start getting unsatisfied and begins to desire the real thing. You fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real act.

9. You get a warped view of the opposite sex. You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirt or trousers -you become promiscuous.

10. You get damaged, hurt and broken.

11. You are at risk of hell fire!

These and more are the consequences of masturbation. They damage you and shatter you to pieces! What then should you do with your sexual urge? How do you handle the constant hunger for sex?
—-BELIEVE IN JESUS CHRIST AS YOUR OWN PERSONAL LORD AND SAVIOR
—-INVITE THE HOLY SPIRIT EVERY PASSING SECOND OF YOUR LIFE TO FILL YOUR SPIRIT, SOUL AND BODY WITH HIS OWN LIFE AND PRESENCE THEN WITH THE CONFIDENCE OF JESUS CHRIST INSIDE YOUR LIFE NOW AND THE POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT DRIVING EVERY DESIRE, THOUGHTS, DECISIONS, ACTIONS OF YOUR LIFE, YOU WILL DO THESE

1. DELETE all dirty pictures, pornography videos, sexually provocative e-books, pictures and hot, romantic movies/novels/magazines/clothes/objects in your phones/laptops/room-walls, in your room/bags/school-lockers with the CONFIDENT BELIEVE IN THE HOLY SPIRIT PRESENCE CUURENTLY IN YOUR LIFE NOW -they are powerful sexual triggers!

2. DISCONNECT your SELF from friends who say dirty, sexually provocative and immoral things/chats/text-messages AS A MATTER OF URGENCY BECAUSE THE HOLY SPIRIT COMMANDED YOU TO DO SO! Stop all sexy banters with friends (you are sexy/hot, am I not sexy/hot?, you are slaying e.t.c) and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful {Phil.4:8}

3. Get busy with your life, education and career, there is more to life than sex.

4. Transmute your sexual energy: Channel your sexual energy into something great. I had a strong sex drive in the institution. I simply channeled them into my education making me the best student in my department from the second year. I was very excited and energetic. I BURNT the ENERGY on my STUDIES. I also started my ministry and was very committed as my fellowship BIBLE STUDY CO-ORDINATOR. If you don’t BURN that ENERGY, YOU will COMMIT FORNICATION/ADULTERY/LESBIANISM/HOMOSEXUALITY/INCEST/BESTIALITY.

5. Study THE WORD A LOT especially PSALM 119. When you are FILLED with THE WORD, you have NO SPACE for the devil and his demons in YOUR heart.

6. Pray and speak in TONGUES ALWAYS. THE HOLY SPIRIT SANCTIFIES YOUR WHOLE BEING {SPIRIT, SOUL & BODY} CONSISTENTLY THROUGH HIS LANGUAGE FLOWING FROM INSIDE YOU TO YOUR OUTSIDE

7. Make friends with GODLY people.

8. DELETE pornography and romantic movies.

9. Get busy in THE SERVICE OF JESUS CHRIST KINGDOM.

10. OPEN YOUR HEART TO JESUS CHRIST COMPLETELY thus “LORD JESUS CHRIST I GIVE YOU MY WHOLE BEING AND LIFE, USE ME FOR YOUR GLORY ‘ONLY’ THROUGH YOUR HOLY SPIRIT ACTIVELY LIVING INSIDE ME NOW AND ALWAYS IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME. AMEN.” HE will surely HELP you OUT.

Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it. JESUS IS THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN HELP YOU. Call on him! God bless you.
JOIN A GENUINE FELLOWSHIP, GET COMMITTED TO JESUS CHRIST THEN EVERY OTHER THING FOLLOWS!!!

Nina4u:
Whether you whack your weed or polish the pearl, you’ve probably been told it’s unhealthy and can even cause blindness and infertility....not true ..lol For example, endorphins released during an orgasm can decrease our perception of pain, especially reducing menstrual cramping for women. With the help of the hormone prolactin, which is linked to sleep, women are more likely to feel exhausted and get a good night’s sleep.
Meanwhile, men can also benefit from masturbating by reducing the occurrence of a cold and the risk of prostate cancer. A study found components of the immune system are activated during masturbation, increasing the number of white blood cells in the bloodstream. Male solo sessions might also help reduce prostate cancer due to high ejaculation frequency... Apart from the medical benefits, masturbation has emotional and psychological benefits. It is a good mood elevator and an excellent stress buster. It also helps improve sexual relationship with yourself as well as your partner.
It is important to not view masturbation as something immature and shameful. It is something very normal which sexually active people do. It is not a bad thing and should not be viewed as a taboo. Masturbation has good effects on your body and mind. But the main catch in it is not to be doing it like a neurotic fixation. If that part is under control, just go ahead and do it.[color=#770077][/color]

Prudent200:
hello Guys please I really need your help and it killing me I started masturbating at the age of 18 I normally do use soap sometimes i try to stop but it wont let go,there was a time i stop for two month I was happy it will be over I started seeing my self doing it again.I made up my mind that at age 19 I will stop but i still find my self doing it I have stop using soap and I do use my hand after 4 minute I erupt I feel sad when i do it and it makes my Leg weak if i stand up and i want to stretch my leg it will be making praaaaa sound same goes to my hand,looking at it am a skinny guy at age 20 I develope another means which is bed masturbation i will be banging my Dick on the bed and it take 10 minute to erupt sometimes i do hold my sperm and continue banging the bed even as i type this I masturbated this night and i erupt i know we have doctor in the house and some nairalander guys do it.
.
sometimes i feel am the only guy In this world masturbating I also read somewere masturbation reduce prostrate cancer and also,some were in a site that masturbation increase prostrate cancer to %35 in young men how true is this please i need advice please i do feel guilty when i realease help a brother please

Amberon:
If you're not religious how then can you tell that it is not a sin? Can't you leave your comment without insulting people ? Did religious people insult you?

Nina4u:
yes... Faith.. Hope.. Love.. The 3 essentials

folakemigeh:
Hello OP, i did not finish all Your stories because they were lengthy but one thing you should be rest assured of is that basically 99% of male and female folks masturbate a lot.. i for once had been caught by my mum when i was 14 and she sat me down and lectured me about sex education.
But not withstanding i still do touch myself whenever i am horrny..... i feel it's better than contracting some STDs