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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by fratermathy(m): 11:55pm On May 04, 2017
See as they are demonising masturbation as if they don't do it or haven't done it before.

Bloody hypocrites. 80% of those saying the act is not good will do it again tonight. Worse, some patronise prostitutes to satiate their sexual urges and think themselves better than those who masturbate.


@Op: NOTHING is wrong with masturbating. It's a normal human thing to do as long as it is done in MODERATION! If it becomes a problem by being an addiction, then you should go for proper counselling. These religious and ill-informed folks on Nairaland won't be of much help to you.

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by MASTERMIND04(m): 11:55pm On May 04, 2017
burkingx:
No please don't STOP !!! Just continue , Vasline Company needs the sales revenue grin grin grin
Bad girl grin grin grin
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Tunjinodaysoff(m): 11:57pm On May 04, 2017
Masturbation is not good but it is better than having many partners and contracting infections. If you are masturbating i will advise that you ensure that you have an exit plan...most times it is better to have a sexually active loving partner who can gbensh as much as you desire.

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by nuelphilips1759(m): 11:58pm On May 04, 2017
Avoid Porn or any pornographic related material. Avoid staying alone. Go for deliverance . God will see you through if your determined to quit the habit.

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by meekmill(m): 11:58pm On May 04, 2017
Prudent200:
hello Guys please I really need your help and it killing me I started masturbating at the age of 18 I normally do use soap sometimes i try to stop but it wont let go,there was a time i stop for two month I was happy it will be over I started seeing my self doing it again.I made up my mind that at age 19 I will stop but i still find my self doing it I have stop using soap and I do use my hand after 4 minute I erupt I feel sad when i do it and it makes my Leg weak if i stand up and i want to stretch my leg it will be making praaaaa sound same goes to my hand,looking at it am a skinny guy at age 20 I develope another means which is bed masturbation i will be banging my Dick on the bed and it take 10 minute to erupt sometimes i do hold my sperm and continue banging the bed even as i type this I masturbated this night and i erupt i know we have doctor in the house and some nairalander guys do it.
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sometimes i feel am the only guy In this world masturbating I also read somewere masturbation reduce prostrate cancer and also,some were in a site that masturbation increase prostrate cancer to %35 in young men how true is this please i need advice please i do feel guilty when i realease help a brother please





it not easy bro but you have to try

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by khayce: 11:58pm On May 04, 2017
and for the purpose of a subject like this, Apostle Paul advised a man marries if he knows he cant control himself ..to avoid fornication. meanwhile nowadays, the guys wants to stay single yet the man under them want to continue doing miracle.




go and marry ooooo angry church altars are full of single ladies praying for husband




go and marry ooooo

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Nobody: 12:00am On May 05, 2017
-Remove guilty conscience
-Consider it normal
-If after doin by mistake, Dont regret or be depressed... smile or laugh and continue doing wat u were doin b4
-Follow d above steps and u will gain control -over it.. it is not something u can just erase from u lyk dat..it is something u can choose to do or not after gaining control

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by tonyblack10: 12:01am On May 05, 2017
Easiest way to stop masturbating:
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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by tonyblack10: 12:01am On May 05, 2017
tonyblack10:
Easiest way to stop masturbating:
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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by kanayoNickel: 12:01am On May 05, 2017
since i learnt masturbation reduces prostate cancer....I've been doing it like every day.

besides, it takes you away from STD's

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by fratermathy(m): 12:03am On May 05, 2017
Nina4u:
There is not one verse of the Bible that condemns self-stimulation. There is not one that insinuates such a condemnation. Yet, day after day, we hear preachers condemn masturbation as a sin. Their arguments?
There is the argument that sex was created for mutual pleasure: Yes; I agree. Sex was. But masturbation is not sex. It is sexual, and many other things are sexual, but it is not sexual intercourse in itself. Sex is for mutual benefits; masturbation is for personal benefits. Two different things... Almost everybody masturbates, including those people who tell you that it is sinful, dirty, and a bad habit (yes; the hypocrisy is filthy). Most people start masturbating from their teens. Remember wet dreams when you first hit your teens? Usually that’s where it starts. A wet dream is a natural procedure by the body. No; it has nothing to do with witches and wizards or spiritual husbands and wives.... Masturbation is a normal part of the growing child’s exploration of his or her body and continues for the rest of the lives of most people. If you masturbate, you are not an oddity. Actually, its those who claim not to masturbate that are the oddities...

I love you for this. It's so sad that Nigerians are 50 decades behind the real world. These are things that normal countries have moved past. Masturbation is completely 100% natural and even good for the body. It is a means of exploring yourself to know what tickles you as well as a means of avoiding unwanted, risky and potentially STD-laden sexual contacts in the bid to satiate sexual urges.

The sad truth is that 99% of those castigating the act on this thread are masturbating either directly or indirectly and 100% have done it at least once, directly or indirectly. The problem here is religiosity. Nigerians are so blinded by religion that they believe they must conform to a particular social construct, hence the hypocrisy that comes with matters such as this. You'd see those who hide and do things like this and come out to openly castigate others who do it. Once you lift the fog of religious fundamentalism from your eyes, you see the beauty and pleasure that this world has to offer and you won't be mentally tortured, like the Op.

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by babamoha(m): 12:03am On May 05, 2017
Cut off your two hands.lol
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by ItalianWine(f): 12:03am On May 05, 2017
Prudent200:
hello Guys please I really need your help and it killing me I started masturbating at the age of 18 I normally do use soap sometimes i try to stop but it wont let go,there was a time i stop for two month I was happy it will be over I started seeing my self doing it again.I made up my mind that at age 19 I will stop but i still find my self doing it I have stop using soap and I do use my hand after 4 minute I erupt I feel sad when i do it and it makes my Leg weak if i stand up and i want to stretch my leg it will be making praaaaa sound same goes to my hand,looking at it am a skinny guy at age 20 I develope another means which is bed masturbation i will be banging my Dick on the bed and it take 10 minute to erupt sometimes i do hold my sperm and continue banging the bed even as i type this I masturbated this night and i erupt i know we have doctor in the house and some nairalander guys do it.
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sometimes i feel am the only guy In this world masturbating I also read somewere masturbation reduce prostrate cancer and also,some were in a site that masturbation increase prostrate cancer to %35 in young men how true is this please i need advice please i do feel guilty when i realease help a brother please

Keep praying one day it'll stop

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by mastermaestro(m): 12:04am On May 05, 2017
It stops only by Divine intervention. Don't start it if you are mulling over it. You will regret it!
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Nobody: 12:04am On May 05, 2017
Hello OP, i did not finish all Your stories because they were lengthy but one thing you should be rest assured of is that basically 99% of male and female folks masturbate a lot.. i for once had been caught by my mum when i was 14 and she sat me down and lectured me about sex education.
But not withstanding i still do touch myself whenever i am horrny..... i feel it's better than contracting some STDs

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by ontruth(m): 12:04am On May 05, 2017
Nina4u and Martin124 God bless you 2 for derailing the thread .Meanwhile Nina even tried in making some contributions,but Martin124 smh.

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by ip2121918021(m): 12:05am On May 05, 2017
Op, don't listen to the biblical bullshit posted on page (0).

If God didn't want us masturbating, he wouldn't give us these hormones / he would only make us have erections when we're married grin grin.

It's nothing to be shameful about really.

But if you really want to stop.

Get yourself a girlfriend grin grin

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Ajasco222: 12:08am On May 05, 2017
Best Answer! OP Please follow these suggestions below. Masturbation is STUBBORN and it won't leave you if you can't control it. Best is for you to stay positive, try not to think about it. Engage in other activities NOT relating to sex/sexual activities like watching movies, hanging out etc.. and above all, learn to control yourself. Sooner/Later it would stop trust me.
iPurge:
-Remove guilty conscience
-Consider it normal
-If after doin by mistake, Dont regret or be depressed... smile or laugh and continue doing wat u were doin b4
-Follow d above steps and u will gain control -over it.. it is not something u can just erase from u lyk dat..it is something u can choose to do or not after gaining control
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Descholar: 12:09am On May 05, 2017
My brother there is no too much grammar 4 about u stoping masturbation. the only simple way to stop masturbating is a personal decision to make, u have to take a decision dat u will not do it again and then vow within urself that if u do it that u will loose something very precious to u maybe ur life, which will help u to always quench d urge whenever the urge comes cos wenever it comes and u remember d vow will help u to withdraw from doing it.

secondly give ur life to Christ and map out at least one week for praying and fasting over it, which must be taken serious, and u will c urself free from such demonic act. God will help u as u do this.
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Nobody: 12:10am On May 05, 2017
Solution is real born again......Give your life to Jesus Christ totally.......Then you go for deliverance

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Strawman: 12:10am On May 05, 2017
AnthonioAlsaid:
Deceive not yourself

It shrinks your dick
Causes depression
Erectile dysfunction
Premature ejaculation
Body weakness
Nina4u:

You are so lying and are very uneducated..

@ Nina4u though you may not agree with every point the antiwankers have made, everything this man typed up here is true, though not for masturbation, but for overmasturbation instead.

I'm not going to go way into detail, but for when he said, "It shrinks your dick", someone who's beating his meat too much can easily damage the nerves and tissues down there and as a result making his dīck look smaller and unable to get as hard an erection as he normally used to.

As for depression, porn addicts develop low dopamine levels, which could cause depression, boredom, guilt, low self esteem and anxiety.

As for erectile dysfunction, basically same reason for him saying "it shrinks your dick".

For premature ejaculation, the OP pretty much handled it in his point no.4, all that he typed there is true.

For body weakness, too much wanking causes tiredness and fatigue cos you're not giving the body time to replenish itself.

Note phrases like "too much", "addicts", etc. in my explanation. OP started when he was 18 and if it's now gotten to the point when he's come online to complain then he is most likely overmasturbating.

My advice for the OP, Prudent200, dude think of all the consequences in the long run; it's not worth it at all. Don't let your body's desires completely control you. Nobody's going to come there to handcuff you or tie you in a straightjacket for you to stop; the only hope you have is yourself. It's all up to your willpower to stop this addiction.

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by tundeks: 12:10am On May 05, 2017
Delete all pornographic pictures and videos on ur phone, laptop. Stop watching pornography, channel ur time to ur study. Try and get a girl friend dt u can discourse with cos d more u masturbate, d more u dnt hv values for ladies.
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by mikkyjagga1(m): 12:11am On May 05, 2017
nice the op could speak up, this is a problem eating deep into the fibre of the young in our society especially the guys, it has alot of adverse effects that range a from fatigue, depression and low mental ability....it releases chemicals in the brain that can be likened to a drug addiction, first of all you have to understand that you are hurting urself and your social life is going down the drain due to this, then you have to decide to set your mind on positive and pure toughts...lastly get busy and active in a bible believeing church so you can grow your spiritual life, u can pm me your number so I include you in a support group where we run minds and share materials that help us forge ahead....it's possible to stop it....i speak from the realm of experience!
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by mastermaestro(m): 12:14am On May 05, 2017
Tunjinodaysoff:
Masturbation is not good but it is better than having many partners and contracting infections. If you are masturbating i will advise that you ensure that you have an exit plan...most times it is better to have a sexually active loving partner who can gbensh as much as you desire.

Exit plan? grin It takes Divine intervention to stop an addiction like masturbation because the materials that evoke the urge for it are nearly everywhere. For those into it, it begins as an act of self pleasure. Then it later deteriorates to a depressing nightmare. Many who had believed it would end naturally when they get married, today are still jammed behind its steel doors.

Divine intervention!!!!
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by seuncyrus(m): 12:17am On May 05, 2017
kingofcamelot:
Jesus . a white person speaking pidgin..


Is it new/strange ? undecided
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Motolank: 12:19am On May 05, 2017
All you need to do is to stop putting your hand on your genital, that's all shocked
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by seuncyrus(m): 12:22am On May 05, 2017
johnlucy123:
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May you and priest Moses die of HIV ... Go get a job fool and stop giving Us a bad name ... and to think this is the best ur stupid self could come up with is a big shame

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by mikkyjagga1(m): 12:25am On May 05, 2017
sadly you are ignorant and you don't even know it, Gal 5:20 msg version talks of uncontrollable addictions being a work of the flesh, you don't know what you are even saying...how can you even encourage a shameful habit as such,
something you do praying not to get caught, something that can overcome one to the extent of doing it anywhere once you are aroused...please stop being an agent without knowing it..
Nina4u:
There is not one verse of the Bible that condemns self-stimulation. There is not one that insinuates such a condemnation. Yet, day after day, we hear preachers condemn masturbation as a sin. Their arguments?
There is the argument that sex was created for mutual pleasure: Yes; I agree. Sex was. But masturbation is not sex. It is sexual, and many other things are sexual, but it is not sexual intercourse in itself. Sex is for mutual benefits; masturbation is for personal benefits. Two different things... Almost everybody masturbates, including those people who tell you that it is sinful, dirty, and a bad habit (yes; the hypocrisy is filthy). Most people start masturbating from their teens. Remember wet dreams when you first hit your teens? Usually that’s where it starts. A wet dream is a natural procedure by the body. No; it has nothing to do with witches and wizards or spiritual husbands and wives.... Masturbation is a normal part of the growing child’s exploration of his or her body and continues for the rest of the lives of most people. If you masturbate, you are not an oddity. Actually, its those who claim not to masturbate that are the oddities...
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by DrogoG(m): 12:29am On May 05, 2017
Prudent200:
hello Guys please I really need your help and it killing me I started masturbating at the age of 18 I normally do use soap sometimes i try to stop but it wont let go,there was a time i stop for two month I was happy it will be over I started seeing my self doing it again.I made up my mind that at age 19 I will stop but i still find my self doing it I have stop using soap and I do use my hand after 4 minute I erupt I feel sad when i do it and it makes my Leg weak if i stand up and i want to stretch my leg it will be making praaaaa sound same goes to my hand,looking at it am a skinny guy at age 20 I develope another means which is bed masturbation i will be banging my Dick on the bed and it take 10 minute to erupt sometimes i do hold my sperm and continue banging the bed even as i type this I masturbated this night and i erupt i know we have doctor in the house and some nairalander guys do it.
.
sometimes i feel am the only guy In this world masturbating I also read somewere masturbation reduce prostrate cancer and also,some were in a site that masturbation increase prostrate cancer to %35 in young men how true is this please i need advice please i do feel guilty when i realease help a brother please

There's nothing wrong with masturbation. As long as it does
mastermaestro:


Exit plan? grin It takes Divine intervention to stop an addiction like masturbation because the materials that evoke the urge for it are nearly everywhere. For those into it, it begins as an act of self pleasure. Then it later deteriorates to a depressing nightmare. Many who had believed it would end naturally when they get married, today are still jammed behind its steel doors.

Divine intervention!!!!

There's nothing wrong with masturbation. So as long as it doesn't prevent you from living a productive life, you're good to continue.

Masturbation is good.

.
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Nobody: 12:31am On May 05, 2017
I was a victim too, best way to stop is getting a cold shower whenever the thought of it comes, also try reducing the amount of time you stay on the Internet, make real friends, the ones you can reach physically, not online friends.... Bro you're good

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Texty: 12:34am On May 05, 2017
Start banging real girls you. Will eventually stop
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by holytribe(m): 12:38am On May 05, 2017
Na wa ooo! @ Nina4u just full this thread. I wish I can tap into your knowledge ooo... Lol

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