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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Adeyeye09(m): 7:39am On May 05, 2017
Nina4u:

sweet heart ... an old joke observes that 98 percent of people masturbate--and the other 2 percent are lying.... How many of you have had dreams about sex and end up having an orgasm in your sleep? And how many of you have orgasms in your sleep on a regular basis?
Most people know that men start having wet dreams (nocturnal emissions) at puberty. Orgasms (or ejaculations) during sleep are a natural and common occurrence... For men, the terms wet dreams, nocturnal emissions, or spontaneous orgasms are all the same thing. Some men are woken up by their orgasm/ejaculation, while others wake up to find that they have already come and may not remember having had a sex dream...is that in your eyes the same as mastorbating? Sweety this is normal .. What I find very interesting and not often discussed, is that women also have sex dreams that may or may not end in orgasm. As with other aspects of sexual arousal, there may be no obvious, tangible signs (like ejaculation), but she may be woken up by a strong orgasm. In fact, some women report they can have stronger orgasms in their sleep compared to the orgasms they have when they are awake. Some women can even have multiple orgasms in their sleep. Because women usually don’t have ’emissions’ with their sex dreams, terms like nocturnal orgasms, spontaneous orgasms, and sleep-related orgasms are used to describe these instead....Have you ppl read biology ?? It is important to understand that sleep-related orgasms are a natural occurrence for both men and women that can start around the time of puberty. Some studies suggest that the occurrence of sleep-related orgasms may correspond to relative testosterone levels, both for men and women. Some cultures have been more open in talking about it than others. In fact, there is historical documentation of sleep-related orgasms for women dating back to ancient Greece about women having and enjoying sex dreams. (Gotta love the Greeks!) Despite it being such a common occurrence, it is not really taught in sex education classes, or by parents (especially not for girls). Consequently, many people develop bad feelings or guilt related to having sex dreams and sleep-related orgasms because they think they are not normal, or they are disturbed by the content of their dream.... The interesting part about sex dreams and sleep-related orgasms is that for many people, especially women, they can be more intense than what they experience in their sex life. This is because while you are asleep, there is less inhibition and less conscious restraint. Studies of brain scans have shown that there is actually a ‘turning off’ of certain areas in the brain that process outside information, motor activity, and emotion at the time of orgasm.... When it comes to mastorbation.. We all do it.. So if you cum in your sleep then >wetin u go do? <
the dude said he wants to stop, u re giving him reasons to continue. oya kontinu

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by zephry(m): 7:40am On May 05, 2017
Nina4u:

sweet heart ... an old joke observes that 98 percent of people masturbate--and the other 2 percent are lying.... How many of you have had dreams about sex and end up having an orgasm in your sleep? And how many of you have orgasms in your sleep on a regular basis?
Most people know that men start having wet dreams (nocturnal emissions) at puberty. Orgasms (or ejaculations) during sleep are a natural and common occurrence... For men, the terms wet dreams, nocturnal emissions, or spontaneous orgasms are all the same thing. Some men are woken up by their orgasm/ejaculation, while others wake up to find that they have already come and may not remember having had a sex dream...is that in your eyes the same as mastorbating? Sweety this is normal .. What I find very interesting and not often discussed, is that women also have sex dreams that may or may not end in orgasm. As with other aspects of sexual arousal, there may be no obvious, tangible signs (like ejaculation), but she may be woken up by a strong orgasm. In fact, some women report they can have stronger orgasms in their sleep compared to the orgasms they have when they are awake. Some women can even have multiple orgasms in their sleep. Because women usually don’t have ’emissions’ with their sex dreams, terms like nocturnal orgasms, spontaneous orgasms, and sleep-related orgasms are used to describe these instead....Have you ppl read biology ?? It is important to understand that sleep-related orgasms are a natural occurrence for both men and women that can start around the time of puberty. Some studies suggest that the occurrence of sleep-related orgasms may correspond to relative testosterone levels, both for men and women. Some cultures have been more open in talking about it than others. In fact, there is historical documentation of sleep-related orgasms for women dating back to ancient Greece about women having and enjoying sex dreams. (Gotta love the Greeks!) Despite it being such a common occurrence, it is not really taught in sex education classes, or by parents (especially not for girls). Consequently, many people develop bad feelings or guilt related to having sex dreams and sleep-related orgasms because they think they are not normal, or they are disturbed by the content of their dream.... The interesting part about sex dreams and sleep-related orgasms is that for many people, especially women, they can be more intense than what they experience in their sex life. This is because while you are asleep, there is less inhibition and less conscious restraint. Studies of brain scans have shown that there is actually a ‘turning off’ of certain areas in the brain that process outside information, motor activity, and emotion at the time of orgasm.... When it comes to mastorbation.. We all do it.. So if you cum in your sleep then >wetin u go do? <
I've never masturbate in my life and that is not a lie
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by AnyiBest247(m): 7:41am On May 05, 2017
The pro and anti masturbation analysis are both educative but confusing.
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by opius: 7:51am On May 05, 2017
Nina4u:
hahahahaha I'm a woman oo

Ma grin grin grin

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Amiblaize77(f): 7:52am On May 05, 2017
Martin124:
eh why na?ribs


Really? Just ribs ? Thought it was the eyesocket that's threading
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by upuphim(m): 7:52am On May 05, 2017
Give your life to Jesus Christ first and ask Him to deliver you. That's all you need.
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Nina4u(f): 7:57am On May 05, 2017
sugarlyn:
my dear, u can stop it for ever. avoid staying alone, Change ur pattern of sleeping and pray to Jehovah God to help u. write down ur victory (the day u did not masturbate). avoid watching porn.and nude films,pictures. remember it comes to the mind first,so always fill ur thought with good things that are wholesome. stay clean.
Are you a Jehovas witness?
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Nobody: 7:58am On May 05, 2017
Nina4u:

sweet heart ... an old joke observes that 98 percent of people masturbate--and the other 2 percent are lying.... How many of you have had dreams about sex and end up having an orgasm in your sleep? And how many of you have orgasms in your sleep on a regular basis?
Most people know that men start having wet dreams (nocturnal emissions) at puberty. Orgasms (or ejaculations) during sleep are a natural and common occurrence... For men, the terms wet dreams, nocturnal emissions, or spontaneous orgasms are all the same thing. Some men are woken up by their orgasm/ejaculation, while others wake up to find that they have already come and may not remember having had a sex dream...is that in your eyes the same as mastorbating? Sweety this is normal .. What I find very interesting and not often discussed, is that women also have sex dreams that may or may not end in orgasm. As with other aspects of sexual arousal, there may be no obvious, tangible signs (like ejaculation), but she may be woken up by a strong orgasm. In fact, some women report they can have stronger orgasms in their sleep compared to the orgasms they have when they are awake. Some women can even have multiple orgasms in their sleep. Because women usually don’t have ’emissions’ with their sex dreams, terms like nocturnal orgasms, spontaneous orgasms, and sleep-related orgasms are used to describe these instead....Have you ppl read biology ?? It is important to understand that sleep-related orgasms are a natural occurrence for both men and women that can start around the time of puberty. Some studies suggest that the occurrence of sleep-related orgasms may correspond to relative testosterone levels, both for men and women. Some cultures have been more open in talking about it than others. In fact, there is historical documentation of sleep-related orgasms for women dating back to ancient Greece about women having and enjoying sex dreams. (Gotta love the Greeks!) Despite it being such a common occurrence, it is not really taught in sex education classes, or by parents (especially not for girls). Consequently, many people develop bad feelings or guilt related to having sex dreams and sleep-related orgasms because they think they are not normal, or they are disturbed by the content of their dream.... The interesting part about sex dreams and sleep-related orgasms is that for many people, especially women, they can be more intense than what they experience in their sex life. This is because while you are asleep, there is less inhibition and less conscious restraint. Studies of brain scans have shown that there is actually a ‘turning off’ of certain areas in the brain that process outside information, motor activity, and emotion at the time of orgasm.... When it comes to mastorbation.. We all do it.. So if you cum in your sleep then >wetin u go do? <
Prof Nina cheesy cool

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by ollypapi(m): 7:58am On May 05, 2017
Prudent200:
hello Guys please I really need your help and it killing me I started masturbating at the age of 18 I normally do use soap sometimes i try to stop but it wont let go,there was a time i stop for two month I was happy it will be over I started seeing my self doing it again.I made up my mind that at age 19 I will stop but i still find my self doing it I have stop using soap and I do use my hand after 4 minute I erupt I feel sad when i do it and it makes my Leg weak if i stand up and i want to stretch my leg it will be making praaaaa sound same goes to my hand,looking at it am a skinny guy at age 20 I develope another means which is bed masturbation i will be banging my Dick on the bed and it take 10 minute to erupt sometimes i do hold my sperm and continue banging the bed even as i type this I masturbated this night and i erupt i know we have doctor in the house and some nairalander guys do it.
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sometimes i feel am the only guy In this world masturbating I also read somewere masturbation reduce prostrate cancer and also,some were in a site that masturbation increase prostrate cancer to %35 in young men how true is this please i need advice please i do feel guilty when i realease help a brother please



You need to be genuinely born again and after that u need to pray earnestly I mean serious prayer till you are delivered or go for deliverance..masturbation is the manifestation of unclean spirit which is demonic
I was in it but now I am a regenerated man what cause it is u look at erotic pic, erotic clips and sexually explicit items on internet
my bro all u need is salvation that's just it... devil is killing your destiny gradually...Read more of bible worship God in your privacy and guide your heart with word of God..

God still love you so much even more than you think
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Nina4u(f): 8:01am On May 05, 2017
Amiblaize77:



Really? Just ribs ? Thought it was the eyesocket that's threading
I no dey be lepa ..i no dey be oroba eighter na.. I'm just right lol

Re: Please Help On Masturbation by NaturaEssie(f): 8:03am On May 05, 2017
Not everyone maturbates,even the thought of it gives me headache.Just pray and be willing to stop!
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Nina4u(f): 8:06am On May 05, 2017
geobukky:
Prof Nina cheesy cool
it just shows ur a healthy young male or female.. God created you this way.. Just like Muslims cut off the clitoris so female wont feel sexual arousal... If God didn't want you with a clitoris he wouldn't create you with one.. Religious brainwashing is all it takes.. So if u self-service u doodle 10 times a week u get impotent bla bla bad for u prostrate bla bla but if u married and have sex 3 times a day nothin dey happun? Some ppl are slaves under religion and don't understand that it is just natural..

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Xkalaban(m): 8:11am On May 05, 2017
Sacluxpaint:


Your case was pornography induced, of course that affects your performance. Besides wanking helps reduces the risk of prostrate cancer. Of course too much of everything is not good. I self-service and still got that mandingo size dick and my sex life is OK.what I don't do is watch porn to self-service.

Exactly bro, too much of everything isn't good. But isn't that what the op is talking about? He says he's overwanking & it's beginning to affect his health. So the thing has become a bad habit. Of course it feels nice to self-service off like once in a while but it shouldn't be frequently.

And btw I never complained about my dick size. I like the size of ma 3rd leg & my sex life is super awesome grin grin grin
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Dbrave1(m): 8:11am On May 05, 2017
so everybody do it I think am the only one on the planet sometime I may not do for 6month I feel sad about it but mine is not always
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by flamingREED(m): 8:12am On May 05, 2017
This Nina
Is a sinner
Actually.

From her mode,
You'll tell that she destroyed a good part of her being long ago - the conscience.

Nonetheless,
Intelligent people believe both probable and proven facts, why regulars at the politics section are smarter: They often, if not always,
Request for sources.

So, Nina4u, where's/re your source(s)?
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Xkalaban(m): 8:15am On May 05, 2017
Adeyeye09:
the dude said he wants to stop, u re giving him reasons to continue. oya kontinu

Thank you. U really understand unlike some other peeps on here.
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by fof1: 8:17am On May 05, 2017
Marioplus:
I get lots of questions on masturbation most especially from ladies -yes, ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins. Guys also masturbate. There is no debate on that. I’m not here to argue about who masturbates most, I need to deal with a serious issue.

Sexual urge for virgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear-says about sex.

Masturbation is handling/rubbing/squeezing your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their female-core while guys rub, massage or caress their sexual-organ. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what masturbation is. Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a male sexual organ and do solo sex (having sex by yourself).

From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for sex. It’s a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling sexually aroused and your sexual organ will stand erect for some minutes for no single reason in the world or you become sexually aroused on seeing a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get sexually aroused on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven’t committed any sin.

So what then do you do when you get hot and Hot? Have sex? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They masturbate! They give themselves release and personal pleasure through solo sex while claiming ‘virginity’ at the same time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:

1. Masturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the IMAGE of SOMEONE in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex with them while masturbating. That is MENTAL FORNICATION

2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had sex with man except objects during your solo sex.

3. You kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women don’t enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won’t be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won’t have feelings for your husband’s sexual-organ. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands’ sexual organ is too small didn’t marry as virgins. They must have been promiscuous as singles by masturbation or having several sexual partners.

4. You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will experience pre-mature ejaculation and your wife won’t enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You need self-control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair. Self-control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum after wedlock. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and have excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why total virginity pays!

5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have serious problem with delayed/ slow ejaculation. A situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It’s the reason some women are seemingly “barren” and can’t talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether. You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasures that come with sex IN MARRIAGE!

6. You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities otherwise known as spiritual spouse).

7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act.

8. You start getting unsatisfied and begins to desire the real thing. You fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real act.

9. You get a warped view of the opposite sex. You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirt or trousers -you become promiscuous.

10. You get damaged, hurt and broken.

11. You are at risk of hell fire!

These and more are the consequences of masturbation. They damage you and shatter you to pieces! What then should you do with your sexual urge? How do you handle the constant hunger for sex?
—-BELIEVE IN JESUS CHRIST AS YOUR OWN PERSONAL LORD AND SAVIOR
—-INVITE THE HOLY SPIRIT EVERY PASSING SECOND OF YOUR LIFE TO FILL YOUR SPIRIT, SOUL AND BODY WITH HIS OWN LIFE AND PRESENCE THEN WITH THE CONFIDENCE OF JESUS CHRIST INSIDE YOUR LIFE NOW AND THE POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT DRIVING EVERY DESIRE, THOUGHTS, DECISIONS, ACTIONS OF YOUR LIFE, YOU WILL DO THESE

1. DELETE all dirty pictures, pornography videos, sexually provocative e-books, pictures and hot, romantic movies/novels/magazines/clothes/objects in your phones/laptops/room-walls, in your room/bags/school-lockers with the CONFIDENT BELIEVE IN THE HOLY SPIRIT PRESENCE CUURENTLY IN YOUR LIFE NOW -they are powerful sexual triggers!

2. DISCONNECT your SELF from friends who say dirty, sexually provocative and immoral things/chats/text-messages AS A MATTER OF URGENCY BECAUSE THE HOLY SPIRIT COMMANDED YOU TO DO SO! Stop all sexy banters with friends (you are sexy/hot, am I not sexy/hot?, you are slaying e.t.c) and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful {Phil.4:8}

3. Get busy with your life, education and career, there is more to life than sex.

4. Transmute your sexual energy: Channel your sexual energy into something great. I had a strong sex drive in the institution. I simply channeled them into my education making me the best student in my department from the second year. I was very excited and energetic. I BURNT the ENERGY on my STUDIES. I also started my ministry and was very committed as my fellowship BIBLE STUDY CO-ORDINATOR. If you don’t BURN that ENERGY, YOU will COMMIT FORNICATION/ADULTERY/LESBIANISM/HOMOSEXUALITY/INCEST/BESTIALITY.

5. Study THE WORD A LOT especially PSALM 119. When you are FILLED with THE WORD, you have NO SPACE for the devil and his demons in YOUR heart.

6. Pray and speak in TONGUES ALWAYS. THE HOLY SPIRIT SANCTIFIES YOUR WHOLE BEING {SPIRIT, SOUL & BODY} CONSISTENTLY THROUGH HIS LANGUAGE FLOWING FROM INSIDE YOU TO YOUR OUTSIDE

7. Make friends with GODLY people.

8. DELETE pornography and romantic movies.

9. Get busy in THE SERVICE OF JESUS CHRIST KINGDOM.

10. OPEN YOUR HEART TO JESUS CHRIST COMPLETELY thus “LORD JESUS CHRIST I GIVE YOU MY WHOLE BEING AND LIFE, USE ME FOR YOUR GLORY ‘ONLY’ THROUGH YOUR HOLY SPIRIT ACTIVELY LIVING INSIDE ME NOW AND ALWAYS IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME. AMEN.” HE will surely HELP you OUT.

Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it. JESUS IS THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN HELP YOU. Call on him! God bless you.
JOIN A GENUINE FELLOWSHIP, GET COMMITTED TO JESUS CHRIST THEN EVERY OTHER THING FOLLOWS!!!

THIS IS A SURE MASTERPIECE. I CONCUR 98%. THIS IS EHAT ALL CULPRITS AND PERVERTS TRULY NEED. IT IS NOT RELIGION IT IS CHRISTIANITY AT ITS BEST SHOW OF GODLINESS AND PURITY IN SERVICE.
FOLLOW THESE GUIDELINES AND GOD MUST OR WILL SURELY DELIVER U AND ESTABLISH U FOR HIMSELF. ANY TRUE BELIEVER OF D SRCIPTURE,EXPOSED,EXPERIENCED,SPIRIT FILLED WILL KNOW THAT, MASTURBATION IS A SIN BEFORE GOD. IT IS SENSUAL,SEXUAL IMMORALITY, FILTY AND UNHOLY PRACTICES. ALL TRUE BELIEVERS MUST NEEDS DEPART OR DISTANCE FROM. WHAT IS PURITY WHEN U DO SOLO SEX OR SATISFY URSELF, POSSESS A FILTY THOUGHT LIFE.... GOD HEAL OUR HEARTS.
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Theblackstalln: 8:25am On May 05, 2017
After reading this long thread let me talk my own too


Am actually having a similar problem with op but I don't masturbate almost every time, I do it mostly when having difficulty sleeping I feel somehow after doing it but it actually works for me.


Secondly am single and I do get erections easily when I see, talk to, touch or think about fine girls with good assets, am actually fed up about this aspect because sometimes some girls would seat on my laps but i won't be comfortable hence I try to give an excuse to get out of the situation even tho I see guys doing this without any worries(abeg what's the secret?)


In conclusion tho I have thought to myself that if I had a sexual active partner all these would probably go away, so that's what am working on now but I don't want just get any sexual partner just cos of sex I want a lil bit of chemistry BTW us too(some might say am stupid now) but that's being the delay tho, else I had girls I could have done it with but I always find an excuse because of this

Also I observed if one is lonely or idle one tends to want to masturbate so I try as much as possible to get busy when I can by reading or playing games with friends or working my ass off so I get tired easily and sleep off

Op more I think we both need a girlfriend end point tongue

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by BonetEzra(m): 8:25am On May 05, 2017
AnthonioAlsaid:



Thank you honey

I wonder how a supposedly lady would know what

Happens in a man's body

Thanks again
Yea, you just confirmed how uneducated you are.. But for your understanding, it is called physiology and @Nina is well informed..
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Nina4u(f): 8:32am On May 05, 2017
flamingREED:
This Nina
Is a sinner
Actually.

From her mode,
You'll tell that she destroyed a good part of her being long ago - the conscience.

Nonetheless,
Intelligent people believe both probable and proven facts, while regulars at the politics section are smarter: They often, if not always,
Request for sources.

So, Nina4u, where's/re your source(s)?
do you know I got testemonies? God has always guided my steps and his arch angles walking infront to guide me.. Ya all are lost under religious brainwashing that says this or that is a sin.. The old testament was for the Israelite alone.. Gods ppl.. But we are under the new testament.. We are not Jews.. By sending Jesus down to earth he gave us all a chance to etarnal life.. Read your bible.. Trust in God and stop feeling so darn guilty.. God created you just the way you are and instead of having 3 bfriends or side chicks mastorbation protects u from aids bla bla and relive stress.. If u have u wife and have sex 4 times a day.. U still gonna get prostrate cancer be impotent ore blind? Common now common sense.. God created u this was with sexual feelings for a reason and it just shows ur healthy young man or woman.. Read biology.. Its a natural occurents of growing up

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by luggy(m): 8:33am On May 05, 2017
so u want to stop masturbatin, pls kill ur self.
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by luggy(m): 8:33am On May 05, 2017
kill ur self
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Theblackstalln: 8:35am On May 05, 2017
flamingREED:
This Nina
Is a sinner
Actually

From her mode,
You'll tell that she destroyed a good part of her being long ago - the conscience.

Nonetheless,
Intelligent people believe both probable and proven facts, while regulars at the politics section are smarter: They often, if not always,
Request for sources.

So, Nina4u, where's/re your source(s)?
Judge of Life, na u wey no be sinner now....mstcheww lipsrsealed
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Nina4u(f): 8:38am On May 05, 2017
luggy:
kill ur self
I don't aprishiate that statement.. My brother just killed himself a year ago and it almost killed me too I collapesed ended up in a coma had a stroke while I was in a coma but God saw me through
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by adekhingz(m): 8:39am On May 05, 2017
OP, go and marry...
.. or meet a trained health provider....or text "RHS (followed by your sexually related questions" to "38350" for free. those people fit get better answer. Or, OP? OP? OP? How many time did I call you?....................................maybe u should just go over all previous comments. if e work, lemme know #$miles

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by fortunechy(m): 8:41am On May 05, 2017
google it

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Nina4u(f): 8:41am On May 05, 2017
flamingREED:
This Nina
Is a sinner
Actually.

From her mode,
You'll tell that she destroyed a good part of her being long ago - the conscience.

Nonetheless,
Intelligent people believe both probable and proven facts, while regulars at the politics section are smarter: They often, if not always,
Request for sources.

So, Nina4u, where's/re your source(s)?
I can almost bet you go to church on Sundays but if a theif come around u laff feel the smell of blood and watch how they burn him alive and u smell the barbeque flesh and film and upload on YouTube and u think God go lissen to you?
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by fof1: 8:42am On May 05, 2017
Nina4u:
Whether you whack your weed or polish the pearl, you’ve probably been told it’s unhealthy and can even cause blindness and infertility....not true ..lol For example, endorphins released during an orgasm can decrease our perception of pain, especially reducing menstrual cramping for women. With the help of the hormone prolactin, which is linked to sleep, women are more likely to feel exhausted and get a good night’s sleep.
Meanwhile, men can also benefit from masturbating by reducing the occurrence of a cold and the risk of prostate cancer. A study found components of the immune system are activated during masturbation, increasing the number of white blood cells in the bloodstream. Male solo sessions might also help reduce prostate cancer due to high ejaculation frequency... Apart from the medical benefits, masturbation has emotional and psychological benefits. It is a good mood elevator and an excellent stress buster. It also helps improve sexual relationship with yourself as well as your partner.
It is important to not view masturbation as something immature and shameful. It is something very normal which sexually active people do. It is not a bad thing and should not be viewed as a taboo. Masturbation has good effects on your body and mind. But the main catch in it is not to be doing it like a neurotic fixation. If that part is under control, just go ahead and do it.[color=#770077][/color]

D DAMAGES AND SIDE EFFECTS OUTWEIGHS D BENEFITS PLS. AM 50+ & HAVE NEVER MASTURBATED AND CAN'T EVEN DO IT.ITS DIRTY,MY MIND CAN'T TAKE IT. MOST CAUSES OF THIS EXPERIENCE IS IMBALANCED UP BRINGING.I KNEW D LORD EARLY IN MY ADOLESCENT BUT NEVER THOUGHT OF OR PRACTISED IT. PLS RELEASE URSELF FROM MENTAL IMPURITY. "KEEP UR HEART WITH ALL DILIGENCE,FOR IUT OF IT ARE D ISSUES OF LIFE" PRO.4 V 23 & JOB31 V 1 INSTRUCTIONS ARE VERY HANDY.GET INVOLVED IN BENEFICIAL AND PURPOSEFUL SOCIAL / COMMUNAL SERVICE OR ENTERPRISE. SPORTS, EDUCATION, MINISTRY RESULTING FROM A REPENTED,COMMITTED CHRIST CENTRED ENTERPRISE...
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Nina4u(f): 8:45am On May 05, 2017
fof1:


D DAMAGES AND SIDE EFFECTS OUTWEIGHS D BENEFITS PLS. AM 50+ & HAVE NEVER MASTURBATED AND CAN'T EVEN DO IT.ITS DIRTY,MY MIND CAN'T TAKE IT. MOST CAUSES OF THIS EXPERIENCE IS IMBALANCED UP BRINGING.I KNEW D LORD EARLY IN MY ADOLESCENT BUT NEVER THOUGHT OF OR PRACTISED IT. PLS RELEASE URSELF FROM MENTAL IMPURITY. "KEEP UR HEART WITH ALL DILIGENCE,FOR IUT OF IT ARE D ISSUES OF LIFE" PRO.4 V 23 & JOB31 V 1 INSTRUCTIONS ARE VERY HANDY.GET INVOLVED IN BENEFICIAL AND PURPOSEFUL SOCIAL / COMMUNAL SERVICE OR ENTERPRISE. SPORTS, EDUCATION, MINISTRY RESULTING FROM A REPENTED,COMMITTED CHRIST CENTRED ENTERPRISE...
what happens if u married and have sex 4 times a day? U dick go fall off?
Re: Please Help On Masturbation by busybrain123(m): 8:46am On May 05, 2017
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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by Egemeole: 8:48am On May 05, 2017
Prudent200:
hello Guys please I really need your help and it killing me I started masturbating at the age of 18 I normally do use soap sometimes i try to stop but it wont let go,there was a time i stop for two month I was happy it will be over I started seeing my self doing it again.I made up my mind that at age 19 I will stop but i still find my self doing it I have stop using soap and I do use my hand after 4 minute I erupt I feel sad when i do it and it makes my Leg weak if i stand up and i want to stretch my leg it will be making praaaaa sound same goes to my hand,looking at it am a skinny guy at age 20 I develope another means which is bed masturbation i will be banging my Dick on the bed and it take 10 minute to erupt sometimes i do hold my sperm and continue banging the bed even as i type this I masturbated this night and i erupt i know we have doctor in the house and some nairalander guys do it.
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sometimes i feel am the only guy In this world masturbating I also read somewere masturbation reduce prostrate cancer and also,some were in a site that masturbation increase prostrate cancer to %35 in young men how true is this please i need advice please i do feel guilty when i realease help a brother please
. Actually I cannot tell the date I started Masturbating. When I was small I started having sexual urge. So in order to satisfy my sexual urge. I went into one side of lewdness which was not Masturbation but romancing and making love to pillow and also lust. By that time pornography was not that popular and easily watched. So getting to j.s.s.2 I started watching pornography. One day in the school my friend was talking about sperm. So he talked about how his brother's friend used his hand on to masturbate and after a while he ejaculated. By this time I don't know how to masturbate only still romancing and making love to pillow and rolled foam that what I was doing. I did it to a point in time that one day I saw blood inside my manhood. Because I was not able give out sperm by that time. So it reached one day I decided to put what I heard from friend about his brother's friend in practice. When I did it I like it I decide to being doing it. But within short period of time I got addicted to it. Even one day I was sleeping with Mum I started masturbating. Wahoo that was the binging of addiction to masturbation. A time came when I could no longer go a day without at least masturbating two times some times I ejaculate 4 times straight just with small rest after each ejaculation. And by this time, I use to pornographic movies on my phone to masturbate because I was tired of using my imaginations. Therefore I had a lot pornographic movies on my phone. But the consequences was telling on me. And I don't want them examples are getting slim, very weak, and retard growth, e.t.c So one day I & my parents went to hospital, because I was sick. The hospital ran a test for my blood percentage. The result showed I had only 58% blood but when Mum checked my blood status when I was very young it was 80%. Ehn. My mother asked me if I am having sex with girls I said no, and really I had not have sex with a woman before. But I knew inside me that it is that masturbation. So I was afraid because it can lead to point of having below 50% percent blood. Which if someone has such % of blood, if he or she do any tough excise e.g playing football or running he or she can die. Ehn , within I thought on this things and I knew I love playing football so much. So I have this thought inside me that if my blood % got to the point of being below 50% when I do those tough excise and work I will die. Fear grabbed me. And before this time I fought in different ways to quit masturbating no way out. So as I saw I can't stop it I decided to take a break of one month from it and after this one month I will be doing small small. 2 days after I watched porn. video. Ehn, like as if fire just started burning I started masturbating. Mehn By this time if I had not done it for a long time I can start masturbating at your front. It happened once, when my roommate in the school was around I started masturbating, he was looking at me, and I did not notice it because I was hiding at bed corner. Kai, when I notice shame filled my heart. So I continued in it till I came back to Jesus, because I got born-again few months before I came back to Jesus but I backslide because of masturbation and lust. So after I repented, I told the preacher my condition. So He advised me to pray and fast from 6pm to 6am. And I did it. to tell the truth it is 3 years plus now I have not masturbated. Not only that Jesus has kept me in the faith. The only way out of any sin is Jesus. Repent, believe in Him. He will do it and keep you for Heaven. Note if you die in sin. It is Hell fire for you. Remain bless as you read.

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Re: Please Help On Masturbation by fof1: 8:51am On May 05, 2017
Nina4u:

sweet heart ... an old joke observes that 98 percent of people masturbate--and the other 2 percent are lying.... How many of you have had dreams about sex and end up having an orgasm in your sleep? And how many of you have orgasms in your sleep on a regular basis?
Most people know that men start having wet dreams (nocturnal emissions) at puberty. Orgasms (or ejaculations) during sleep are a natural and common occurrence... For men, the terms wet dreams, nocturnal emissions, or spontaneous orgasms are all the same thing. Some men are woken up by their orgasm/ejaculation, while others wake up to find that they have already come and may not remember having had a sex dream...is that in your eyes the same as mastorbating? Sweety this is normal .. What I find very interesting and not often discussed, is that women also have sex dreams that may or may not end in orgasm. As with other aspects of sexual arousal, there may be no obvious, tangible signs (like ejaculation), but she may be woken up by a strong orgasm. In fact, some women report they can have stronger orgasms in their sleep compared to the orgasms they have when they are awake. Some women can even have multiple orgasms in their sleep. Because women usually don’t have ’emissions’ with their sex dreams, terms like nocturnal orgasms, spontaneous orgasms, and sleep-related orgasms are used to describe these instead....Have you ppl read biology ?? It is important to understand that sleep-related orgasms are a natural occurrence for both men and women that can start around the time of puberty. Some studies suggest that the occurrence of sleep-related orgasms may correspond to relative testosterone levels, both for men and women. Some cultures have been more open in talking about it than others. In fact, there is historical documentation of sleep-related orgasms for women dating back to ancient Greece about women having and enjoying sex dreams. (Gotta love the Greeks!) Despite it being such a common occurrence, it is not really taught in sex education classes, or by parents (especially not for girls). Consequently, many people develop bad feelings or guilt related to having sex dreams and sleep-related orgasms because they think they are not normal, or they are disturbed by the content of their dream.... The interesting part about sex dreams and sleep-related orgasms is that for many people, especially women, they can be more intense than what they experience in their sex life. This is because while you are asleep, there is less inhibition and less conscious restraint. Studies of brain scans have shown that there is actually a ‘turning off’ of certain areas in the brain that process outside information, motor activity, and emotion at the time of orgasm.... When it comes to mastorbation.. We all do it.. So if you cum in your sleep then >wetin u go do? <


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