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Nina4u:
sweet heart ... an old joke observes that 98 percent of people masturbate--and the other 2 percent are lying.... How many of you have had dreams about sex and end up having an orgasm in your sleep? And how many of you have orgasms in your sleep on a regular basis?
Most people know that men start having wet dreams (nocturnal emissions) at puberty. Orgasms (or ejaculations) during sleep are a natural and common occurrence... For men, the terms wet dreams, nocturnal emissions, or spontaneous orgasms are all the same thing. Some men are woken up by their orgasm/ejaculation, while others wake up to find that they have already come and may not remember having had a sex dream...is that in your eyes the same as mastorbating? Sweety this is normal .. What I find very interesting and not often discussed, is that women also have sex dreams that may or may not end in orgasm. As with other aspects of sexual arousal, there may be no obvious, tangible signs (like ejaculation), but she may be woken up by a strong orgasm. In fact, some women report they can have stronger orgasms in their sleep compared to the orgasms they have when they are awake. Some women can even have multiple orgasms in their sleep. Because women usually don’t have ’emissions’ with their sex dreams, terms like nocturnal orgasms, spontaneous orgasms, and sleep-related orgasms are used to describe these instead....Have you ppl read biology ?? It is important to understand that sleep-related orgasms are a natural occurrence for both men and women that can start around the time of puberty. Some studies suggest that the occurrence of sleep-related orgasms may correspond to relative testosterone levels, both for men and women. Some cultures have been more open in talking about it than others. In fact, there is historical documentation of sleep-related orgasms for women dating back to ancient Greece about women having and enjoying sex dreams. (Gotta love the Greeks!) Despite it being such a common occurrence, it is not really taught in sex education classes, or by parents (especially not for girls). Consequently, many people develop bad feelings or guilt related to having sex dreams and sleep-related orgasms because they think they are not normal, or they are disturbed by the content of their dream.... The interesting part about sex dreams and sleep-related orgasms is that for many people, especially women, they can be more intense than what they experience in their sex life. This is because while you are asleep, there is less inhibition and less conscious restraint. Studies of brain scans have shown that there is actually a ‘turning off’ of certain areas in the brain that process outside information, motor activity, and emotion at the time of orgasm.... When it comes to mastorbation.. We all do it.. So if you cum in your sleep then >wetin u go do? <

OHH THANKS A LOT FOR EDUCATING THESE SET OF ILL INFORMED GUYS PARADING AS MORAL MONGERS, MASTURBATING IS NOT GOOD MY FOOT

Nina4u:
but u cum in u sleep... U got demonds fukking u or just normal growing up be a man or do u fast and ask for forgiveness the way God created u?

I won't asslick u like that friend of yours. The wet dream is a normal emission to clean the seminal ducts when the testes are full...with subsequent times it becomes less frequent when the body adjusts itself to the lower levels of induced prolactin and dopamine from sexual activity.
About the spiritual side to it. Most bodily functions can be affected by the state of the mind. That's why depressed and bitter people have u higher levels of cortisol ( a stressor hormone) which causes a large number of ailments.
Point bodily function can be influenced by the mind.
Now the portal between the spiritual and the physical consciousness in a man's life is his mind...that's why most spiritual activity requires "belief" or "Faith" which is essentially opening up your mind and consciousness to that sprit to work with evidence manifesting in your physical life.. Even God said some cannot receive salvation because their minds have been blocked, God even said that no man can receive anything from Him as he is spirit, without faith. He admonished us to feed our minds with the knowledge of Jesus Christ .
Your physical life is greatly influenced by the spirit. A sprit of lust can cause a man to have unnatural sexual urge, can induce sex in his dreams...its simply because the man has submitted himself to the operations of that spirit by both mental activity and physical actvity ( the stimulation and mental imaging ofnyour object of list) and thus the spirit comes and manifests in the man's physical life.
This applies to other things too like failure and the rest. That is why people who are afraid to fail and chose tondo north ng about it, end up failing, they opened their minds to negative spirits, even God admonished us hat he has not given us the sprit of Fear, but of Power, Love and a Sound mind.
So yes it is very possible to have sexual activity with spirits in dreams , just as it is possible to have supernatural strength by spiritual forces. The physical,mental and material realms can be manipulated by the spiritual realms...depending on what the mind accepts consciously, subconsciously or unconsciously.
( dreams and visions are just channels which existence in other planes spiritual or mental is brought to our consciousness) pause and think here.
By the way for those who have experienced it, humans do have sexual activity with demonic beings in flesh form for various reasons or in ignorance. If you haven't experienced it or u don't know, you don't know.

Enlightened minds rarely find fellow enlightened minds.
Apart from sexual immorality do u know that bitterness and anger(not to be confused with a temper) also has adverse effects on the being? Just said this to draw parallels of other cause effect relationships.
I didn't write this for you, I'm skeptical about you understanding it. I wrote it for the benefit of others in the thread that they might be informed.
Stop Masturbation

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It won't be easy ,but the only true way to give it up is true repentance, study the word of God as often as u can ,by all means necessary avoid any movie at all dt has sex scene ,even body touching as in sexual wise, avoid being alone, talk abt it wit sumone (a Christian) dt will always check on u and b4 u know 1mnths ur off it

Martin124:
u are right

Hmmm.....




are you sure or you just want role with the flow?

Prudent200:
hello Guys please I really need your help and it killing me I started masturbating at the age of 18 I normally do use soap sometimes i try to stop but it wont let go,there was a time i stop for two month I was happy it will be over I started seeing my self doing it again.I made up my mind that at age 19 I will stop but i still find my self doing it I have stop using soap and I do use my hand after 4 minute I erupt I feel sad when i do it and it makes my Leg weak if i stand up and i want to stretch my leg it will be making praaaaa sound same goes to my hand,looking at it am a skinny guy at age 20 I develope another means which is bed masturbation i will be banging my Dick on the bed and it take 10 minute to erupt sometimes i do hold my sperm and continue banging the bed even as i type this I masturbated this night and i erupt i know we have doctor in the house and some nairalander guys do it.
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sometimes i feel am the only guy In this world masturbating I also read somewere masturbation reduce prostrate cancer and also,some were in a site that masturbation increase prostrate cancer to %35 in young men how true is this please i need advice please i do feel guilty when i realease help a brother please

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Amiblaize77:
Really? Just ribs ? Thought it was the eyesocket that's threading

aaa babe what are trying to say?

Marioplus:
I get lots of questions on masturbation most especially from ladies -yes, ladies masturbate a lot, especially virgins. Guys also masturbate. There is no debate on that. I’m not here to argue about who masturbates most, I need to deal with a serious issue.

Sexual urge for virgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear-says about sex.

Masturbation is handling/rubbing/squeezing your genitals consistently to achieve orgasm. Ladies may stroke their female-core while guys rub, massage or caress their sexual-organ. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask me what masturbation is. Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever represents a male sexual organ and do solo sex (having sex by yourself).

From teenage upward, you will have a strong desire for sex. It’s a sure sign you are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in marriage. In your 20s it will be stronger and intense! You may wake up feeling sexually aroused and your sexual organ will stand erect for some minutes for no single reason in the world or you become sexually aroused on seeing a curvy lady! You may start noticing shapes and curves and you have to shake your head several times to keep the image off. You may get sexually aroused on watching a romantic movie and discharge something. You check up and discover you are wet. All these are normal, you haven’t committed any sin.

So what then do you do when you get hot and Hot? Have sex? I know you know my answer and some singles will never be caught dead sleeping around, so what do they do? They masturbate! They give themselves release and personal pleasure through solo sex while claiming ‘virginity’ at the same time. Masturbation is completely wrong and not the way out. Let me explain:

1. Masturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the IMAGE of SOMEONE in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone you like but incapable of having. You imagine having sex with them while masturbating. That is MENTAL FORNICATION

2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, you may mistakenly deflower yourself and also introduce infection into your genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince your future partner that you never had sex with man except objects during your solo sex.

3. You kill your ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women don’t enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If you are used to getting orgasm by yourself, you won’t be able to get it from your husband. If you are used to objects in your private part, you won’t have feelings for your husband’s sexual-organ. You will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Women who complain their husbands’ sexual organ is too small didn’t marry as virgins. They must have been promiscuous as singles by masturbation or having several sexual partners.

4. You will not have a good sex life as a man. You will experience pre-mature ejaculation and your wife won’t enjoy you leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. You need self-control to fully enjoy sex and give your wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. Because you are used to instant release from masturbation, you may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding leaving your wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. She may close up, become frigid and stop having sex altogether which may lead to you having an affair, she having an affair or both of you having an affair. Self-control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum after wedlock. You are able to delay ejaculation, go on for a long time and have excellent orgasm while giving your wife pleasure too. That is why total virginity pays!

5. If you do not suffer premature ejaculation, you may have serious problem with delayed/ slow ejaculation. A situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with your hands kills your ability to feel/enjoy sex with your wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It’s the reason some women are seemingly “barren” and can’t talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether. You have so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasures that come with sex IN MARRIAGE!

6. You start having sex in the dream with a known or unknown person (demonic entities otherwise known as spiritual spouse).

7. You feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act.

8. You start getting unsatisfied and begins to desire the real thing. You fantasize more about sex and start longing for the real act.

9. You get a warped view of the opposite sex. You see them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirt or trousers -you become promiscuous.

10. You get damaged, hurt and broken.

11. You are at risk of hell fire!

These and more are the consequences of masturbation. They damage you and shatter you to pieces! What then should you do with your sexual urge? How do you handle the constant hunger for sex?
—-BELIEVE IN JESUS CHRIST AS YOUR OWN PERSONAL LORD AND SAVIOR
—-INVITE THE HOLY SPIRIT EVERY PASSING SECOND OF YOUR LIFE TO FILL YOUR SPIRIT, SOUL AND BODY WITH HIS OWN LIFE AND PRESENCE THEN WITH THE CONFIDENCE OF JESUS CHRIST INSIDE YOUR LIFE NOW AND THE POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT DRIVING EVERY DESIRE, THOUGHTS, DECISIONS, ACTIONS OF YOUR LIFE, YOU WILL DO THESE

1. DELETE all dirty pictures, pornography videos, sexually provocative e-books, pictures and hot, romantic movies/novels/magazines/clothes/objects in your phones/laptops/room-walls, in your room/bags/school-lockers with the CONFIDENT BELIEVE IN THE HOLY SPIRIT PRESENCE CUURENTLY IN YOUR LIFE NOW -they are powerful sexual triggers!

2. DISCONNECT your SELF from friends who say dirty, sexually provocative and immoral things/chats/text-messages AS A MATTER OF URGENCY BECAUSE THE HOLY SPIRIT COMMANDED YOU TO DO SO! Stop all sexy banters with friends (you are sexy/hot, am I not sexy/hot?, you are slaying e.t.c) and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful {Phil.4:8}

3. Get busy with your life, education and career, there is more to life than sex.

4. Transmute your sexual energy: Channel your sexual energy into something great. I had a strong sex drive in the institution. I simply channeled them into my education making me the best student in my department from the second year. I was very excited and energetic. I BURNT the ENERGY on my STUDIES. I also started my ministry and was very committed as my fellowship BIBLE STUDY CO-ORDINATOR. If you don’t BURN that ENERGY, YOU will COMMIT FORNICATION/ADULTERY/LESBIANISM/HOMOSEXUALITY/INCEST/BESTIALITY.

5. Study THE WORD A LOT especially PSALM 119. When you are FILLED with THE WORD, you have NO SPACE for the devil and his demons in YOUR heart.

6. Pray and speak in TONGUES ALWAYS. THE HOLY SPIRIT SANCTIFIES YOUR WHOLE BEING {SPIRIT, SOUL & BODY} CONSISTENTLY THROUGH HIS LANGUAGE FLOWING FROM INSIDE YOU TO YOUR OUTSIDE

7. Make friends with GODLY people.

8. DELETE pornography and romantic movies.

9. Get busy in THE SERVICE OF JESUS CHRIST KINGDOM.

10. OPEN YOUR HEART TO JESUS CHRIST COMPLETELY thus “LORD JESUS CHRIST I GIVE YOU MY WHOLE BEING AND LIFE, USE ME FOR YOUR GLORY ‘ONLY’ THROUGH YOUR HOLY SPIRIT ACTIVELY LIVING INSIDE ME NOW AND ALWAYS IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME. AMEN.” HE will surely HELP you OUT.

Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive and sinful. Avoid it and end it with speed if you are deeply involved in it. JESUS IS THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN HELP YOU. Call on him! God bless you.
JOIN A GENUINE FELLOWSHIP, GET COMMITTED TO JESUS CHRIST THEN EVERY OTHER THING FOLLOWS!!!

GOD BLESS YOU REAL GOOD!!! YOU'VE SPOKEN THE RIGHT, REAL & WHOLE TRUTH. MAKE SURE YOU DO NOT GIVE ATTENTION TO HATERS OF THE TRUTH! I PRAY FOR MORE GRACE, POWER & ANOINTING TO YOUR ELBOW. GOD BLESS YOU REAL GOOD.

Nina4u:
You are so lying and are very uneducated..

Nina so what are you trying to prove here?

Nina4u:
I get hunted like a wild animal on fb so I'm chillin from there for a while.. Ppl crazy.. Lol

funny nina

Nina4u:
u get energy from cumming u feel refreshed or it releive stress.. God gave u sexual earge.. Its natural so u can reproduce

@Ninja4U........Pls be very careful not to be in the danger of hell, also make sure you are not leading others in the way of sin which leads to eternal death in hell fire which is beyond this earthly death!!!

YOU'VE BEEN WARNED!!!

Nina4u:
na so... He he.. Done

Hmm,na oyibo dey yan pidgin english like this?

Martin124:
eh eh that one is ok na!!! Wait ooo this one wey u con dey speak my language with me,,,you don enter our environment?

I just dey wonder oo

God created legs to work and not to play football, Messi is a sinner ; the gospel according to your logic

SirMichael1:
Sex you say, not masturbation (Abuse of the body). God created sex for pleasure between married couples and also for reproduction. He didn't create those organs for self pleasure. Besides, all you wrote up there just proved my point. Masturbation is bad. Kills the spirit faster than it kills the body.

Get that right ma'am

nina4u

Some ppl cut some ppl clit? nawa o. Asides pidgin, your angle on this topic is making sense

Nina4u:
it just shows ur a healthy young male or female.. God created you this way.. Just like Muslims cut off the clitoris so female wont feel sexual arousal... If God didn't want you with a clitoris he wouldn't create you with one.. Religious brainwashing is all it takes.. So if u self-service u doodle 10 times a week u get impotent bla bla bad for u prostrate bla bla but if u married and have sex 3 times a day nothin dey happun? Some ppl are slaves under religion and don't understand that it is just natural..

Don't allow yourself to be alone, also be with people... That will help alot

Stallione:
I just dey wonder oo

Nna eh

That is your personal problem. Your pastor Chris is the anti chris. A pastor that says masturbation is a sin worse than the devil. Jesus Christ said mere lusting over a woman in your heart is adultery.

We don't care about what you people think. Continue in your delusion of grandeur.

FreeSpirited:
you guys keep creating sin and inexistent fear killing peoples mind and soul......Pastors Chris is the only one knowledgeable abt the truth of masturbation...all of u all are deluded

Amberon:
That is your personal problem. Your pastor Chris is the anti chris. A pastor that says masturbation is a sin worse than the devil. Jesus Christ said mere lusting over a woman in your heart is adultery.

We don't care about what you people think. Continue in your delusion of grandeur.

I'm sure u havnt listened to the preaching..u are jst condemning upandown .Pastor Chris said masturbation is not a sin...he's right go back and watch the video....And stop being a fanatic.

Ebije1:
u de lie

ah na u b my hand

Boy, I was once in ur shoe. First pray to God to help you. Secondly, mind the things you watch, the gist u hear like sexual gist. Nd whenever the sensation comes, go to the midst of people, u wouldn't want to disgrace urself openly nd where u can't, avoid postures that enhance it. May God help you.

GeneralOjukwu:
You should know the type by now...Asslicker extraordinaire...house nigger.

One boiz2men that i dealt with before my moniker was banned is a prime example. They feel sucking up to women online helps.

PATHETIC

hahahahahaha.. me? asslicker?
maka y... i dont know if u mentioned me so as to get me angry but i laughed when i read this...



abeg try to screenshot where i lick yansh....... and u said u dealt with me...

lwtmb... really? when was that? i dont remember fighting any guy on NL... na only gals i dey yab for NL... say u b girl now.. u for see thekind reply i for give u..

u never dealt with me.... i have scanned through my profile... i nor see where i lick yansh.. meanwhile im shocked u know my moniker... im not an activee NLder.. yet u know my moniker... u must be a fan then....


no hard feeling bro.. im sorry u were banned... i never use the report button no matter how much u insult me... so it wasnt me who caused ya ban

Nina4u:
yes... Faith.. Hope.. Love.. The 3 essentials

For me.. The heart beat.. The faith.. The love Is all in the heart.. Right behind the rib cage

MrsPhysics:
Lol. He must be very angry typing but he is correct.
I have never done it before, and it does not cross my imagination. I hate the act because of religious reasons.

Good for you for never starting , you enjoy the moment but afterwards you feel guilty trust me I know.

MainHerioneHoon:
Good for you for never starting , you enjoy the moment but afterwards you feel guilty trust me I know.

You are right. It's better to stay away from anything that could lead you into it. The quest for sex causes such arousal.

Nina4u:
Those who say they don't.. Lie

Nina where you from pls

Nina4u:
We all do it from time to time.. Even married couple mastorbates.. Alone time... Women too...

you misled the dude, that guys stick might fall off soon. the guy is already deeply depressed and will suffer erectile dysfunction and quick ejaculation

he has exceeded the sane limit for musturbation. it's not a daily bread unless you are depressed

Drixxx:
Nina where you from pls

I'm from Sweden but I live in usa

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boiz2men:
hahahahahaha.. me? asslicker?
maka y... i dont know if u mentioned me so as to get me angry but i laughed when i read this...



abeg try to screenshot where i lick yansh....... and u said u dealt with me...

lwtmb... really? when was that? i dont remember fighting any guy on NL... na only gals i dey yab for NL... say u b girl now.. u for see thekind reply i for give u..

u never dealt with me.... i have scanned through my profile... i nor see where i lick yansh.. meanwhile im shocked u know my moniker... im not an activee NLder.. yet u know my moniker... u must be a fan then....


no hard feeling bro.. im sorry u were banned... i never use the report button no matter how much u insult me... so it wasnt me who caused ya ban

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YAWN.... all these rants, WTF?


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5 other people apart from me know you are useful only for butt-tonguing....here's a cookie,sonny!

Won't reply you again, you need same help as the OP... .

Like I said that's your personal problem. Pastor Chris is not Jesus. Jesus condemned all sorts of sexual immorality and masturbation is one of them. He said mere lusting after a woman is adultery, so go and worship your pastor Chris.

FreeSpirited:
I'm sure u havnt listened to the preaching..u are jst condemning upandown .Pastor Chris said masturbation is not a sin...he's right go back and watch the video....And stop being a fanatic.

Following this thread ASAP

GeneralOjukwu:
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YAWN.... all these rants, WTF?


https://i.imgur.com/12MsQ.gif

5 other people apart from me know you are useful only for butt-tonguing....here's a cookie,sonny!

Won't reply you again, you need same help as the OP... .

k.


SirMichael1 , dont be fooled... anyone can claim to be anythg on NL... the dude you were hailing... see people he follows and how he was begging the lady... note that he immeditely followed the lady too .. now check who i follow... . who is the real ass-licker

meanwhile.. NL see who this mancho man follows and he isnt a butt licker