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Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by Jman06(m): 6:58pm On May 05, 2017
ekems2017:
Pls run away from that quiet guy. He will deal with you after quietly planning you for decades.
The lousy one in quote will call you to order immediately you offend him.
That's wrong assumption! The one that will deal with you will definitely do regardless of whether he is reserved or loud.

For me, i talk very well when it is necessary, but for me to be going about talking to everybody and attracting unnecessary attention to myself, nah. It breeds disrespect.

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Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by naturefellow(m): 7:07pm On May 05, 2017
Jodha:
Hmm
madam, na jamb question?
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by naturefellow(m): 7:10pm On May 05, 2017
Prettyenit18:
Quite, reserved, simple and intelligent guys
#teamquietsimple&intelligent oya, ka ma roll! wink

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Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by aribisala0(m): 7:17pm On May 05, 2017
It depends on culture. Fulani don't like people to talk too much while Eboes and Yorubas can talk for Africa. Though Eboes are the champions always boasting.
A man should not be a woman's radio
Also depends on age. As you get older you realise it is better to listen than to talk and you learn how to make other people talk. You never learn anything while talking so you talk more to those you wish to learn about you

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Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by Prettyenit18(f): 7:22pm On May 05, 2017
wink
naturefellow:
#teamquietsimple&intelligent oya, ka ma roll! wink

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Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by borntoexcel2000(m): 7:27pm On May 05, 2017
I have to disclose that being an introvert is sexy! A lot of people themselves being a loud and reveling personality, love the company of someone that can bring out the poise in them every once in a while. Someone that can maintain their composure and talk only when heard.

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Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by pahzz(m): 7:28pm On May 05, 2017
AktorLee:
being reserved doesn't mean u are quiet. it means u just don't talk anyow or act anyow esp in public. But when you are with bae, d beast in u comes out.

My experience though. She even complains i talk too much when we are alone.

God bless you bro. That's the one thing I've been trying to explain to a lot of people, but they seem not to understand
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by pizzylee(m): 7:51pm On May 05, 2017
why did u guys get d ideology DT once a relationship is not boring, then its healthy. there is more to a relationship than boredom n fun(lively).....its not a TV show

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Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by Nobody: 8:14pm On May 05, 2017
Kfed4ril:


Hello, quietness doesn't mean one is boring, it only means not been comfortable with people you are not familiar with.
I'm a quiet guy, but I swear I get really close to a person ehh, the person go tire for me.

If you doubt you can try me out.

You are really funny. Am sure you will agree with me that some persons, are naturally quiet, doesn't matter how close they are to you.
Now am referring to such persons, everyone has their preference. Am not so concerned with him being quite outside, but when with me, Please be lively!

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Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by Nobody: 8:16pm On May 05, 2017
richard870:
And what 'thing' is that if I may ask
angry The relationship
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by Nobody: 8:17pm On May 05, 2017
xtivin:

What if the lively, fun and out going is an armed robber

No, he wont be!
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by Nobody: 8:18pm On May 05, 2017
Caseless:
you no try at all for boys.
Right undecided
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by menwongo(m): 8:35pm On May 05, 2017
KunleSteel:


Menwongo, help me slap this guy, abeg.
grin grin grin

Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by menwongo(m): 8:39pm On May 05, 2017
skywalker001:
if introvert marry introvert they will born imbeccccile
#TeamExtrovert
This punishment is good for your type

Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by smushi(m): 8:41pm On May 05, 2017
AktorLee:
being reserved doesn't mean u are quiet. it means u just don't talk anyow or act anyow esp in public. But when you are with bae, d beast in u comes out.

My experience though. She even complains i talk too much when we are alone.

See as u burst me
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by danchuzzy(m): 8:51pm On May 05, 2017
robotix:
don't mind all the stupid ladies saying boring. I am an introvert myself and I don't talk any how. An ex who left me will do any sacrifice to have me back now... but it's too late. Just like the idiots who have think quiet and reserve introverts are boring, she thought too.

I don't like people who see introverts are misfit.

Most of these people don't even know the amount of work done mentally by an average introvert and they almost always solve problems before them.

All I can say is..... THANK YOU!

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Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by tomisinuno(m): 10:14pm On May 05, 2017
Hmmm
Mathschic, you must love maths. I love maths also. We hav same thing in common, and i am also the quite type too wink
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by Kfed4ril(m): 10:23pm On May 05, 2017
Floxyluv:


You are really funny. Am sure you will agree with me that some persons, are naturally quiet, doesn't matter how close they are to you.
Now am referring to such persons, everyone has their preference. Am not so concerned with him being quite outside, but when with me, Please be lively!

I thin it common with ladies,
But no matter how shy or quiet a guy is, once he gets close to you, I mean very close my sister everything will change
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by addictiv(m): 11:01pm On May 05, 2017
Am a reserved melancholic guy and i enjoy the company of extroverted and outgoing ladies most often because they re much easier to deal with and they tend to keep less secrets. If they re pissed they ll confront you right away. They re more like an open book compared to their introverted and quiet counterparts who ll make the relationship feel like an interview. .However anybody can fit in with any kind of personality as long as you both have mutual understanding and effective communication between each other...

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Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by obayaya(m): 11:04pm On May 05, 2017
tomisinuno:
Hmmm
Mathschic, you must love maths. I love maths also. We hav same thing in common, and i am also the quite type too wink

My Gee
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by Babysho(m): 11:23pm On May 05, 2017
AktorLee:
being reserved doesn't mean u are quiet. it means u just don't talk anyow or act anyow esp in public. But when you are with bae, d beast in u comes out.

My experience though. She even complains i talk too much when we are alone.


I'm happy for you
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by Nobody: 12:03am On May 06, 2017
hedonistic:
I'm somewhat quiet, generally reserved, but highly outgoing, and an expert conversationalist, a career fun lover...compulsive pleasure seeker..... But NOT loud.

Bottom line is that you can't just lump everybody into two extreme categories. Things are never always in black and white alone... There are different shades of colour in the mix.

Ambivert , rare breed, combination of the introverted and the extrovert, depending on the situation. most people are actually ambiverts, like yhu put an introvert in the right situation, he would seem extroverted, verse versal for the extrovert.

research the term.
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by MathsChic(f): 12:12am On May 06, 2017
tomisinuno:
Hmmm
Mathschic, you must love maths. I love maths also. We hav same thing in common, and i am also the quite type too wink
Lol. Really? You love maths? Can you square a circle?
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by MrMacinterchi1: 12:14am On May 06, 2017
Acidosis:

introverts don't get bored.
#truth

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Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by Nobody: 12:18am On May 06, 2017
Nomfanelo99:


wish I had the time to explain all this . All I can say is there's more to an individual thn just personality .
true temperament is another side ,human mind is generally complicated
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by Nobody: 12:35am On May 06, 2017
moi introverted, I love it when a lady is extroverted, stylish, knows how to gain and sustain attention. I don't like it when a guy is extroverted, they kinda do dumb things, I don't believe/feel its okay for a male to loss composure all the name in the name of being extroverted.
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by Vick4rill(m): 12:39am On May 06, 2017
KevMitnick:

He expects you to change your bad ways, so he gives u all the rope you need. But because he is quiet and reserved, you think he is dumb and stupid... Lol, big mistake. These set of people are actually the most intelligent and thoughtful. If you know one, please be open and sincere with him, no games and you'll be ok. I promise.
see as you are desperately trying to sell yourself..does been an introvert authomatically makes u an intelligent person? or the amount of effort you put in your self that matters?
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by GodblessNig247(m): 12:44am On May 06, 2017
Azil:
Ambiverted.

That's me... I go quiet sometimes and go loud sometimes. Depending on the mood, situation and ambiance
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by GeniusDavid(m): 2:31am On May 06, 2017
AktorLee:
being reserved doesn't mean u are quiet. it means u just don't talk anyow or act anyow esp in public. But when you are with bae, d beast in u comes out.

My experience though. She even complains i talk too much when we are alone.
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by ROYH(m): 6:45am On May 06, 2017
AktorLee:
being reserved doesn't mean u are quiet. it means u just don't talk anyow or act anyow esp in public. But when you are with bae, d beast in u comes out.

My experience though. She even complains i talk too much when we are alone.
talking about me..

you're mouthed jhor...
you be what?
Re: Quiet Reserved Guys VS Loud Outgoing Guys, Your Pick by ROYH(m): 6:56am On May 06, 2017
robotix:
don't mind all the stupid ladies saying boring. I am an introvert myself and I don't talk any how. An ex who left me will do any sacrifice to have me back now... but it's too late. Just like the idiots who have think quiet and reserve introverts are boring, she thought too.

I don't like people who see introverts are misfit.

Most of these people don't even know the amount of work done mentally by an average introvert and they almost always solve problems before them.
i stand with you Jawe, before we (introvert) do something or carry it out physically, we would had done the mentality equation in head + mind before...
even in public, we choose our words carefully not to be taken for granted....

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