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I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 9:50am On May 13, 2017
So i was climbing up the stairs and at the same time staring at this beautiful lady coming down.
I was lost that I missed a step, i staggared to get my balance and almost fell.
When she got to me, she smiled at me and said sorry. I was kind of ashamed, i managed to smile back and thanked her.
After my transaction with the bank i summoned the courage to talk to her atleast I have nothing to loose even if she declined.
I walked up to her, told her she looked gorgeous, inquired her name, she said she is omolayo i told her i almost broke my leg on the stairs because of her beauty, it would be a sin not have her contact before I leave.
She couldnt stopped blushing continously and asked me what I intend to do with her number.I said she would definitely get to find out, she smiled before she scribbled her digits down on a small piece and stylishly passed it to me.
I bounced out of the bank feeling fulfilled. I decided not to call her immediately and waited till weekend.
I called her up and asked to meet with her but she said her place was very far and besides she takes her weekends to rest and do her chores but she will be working half day the coming monday since its an holiday but she is not promising or assuring me. I understood and ended the conversation.
When it was monday, i was free. I decided not to bother or call her since she didn't assure me nor was it certain having at the back of my mind that she would call me if she changed her mind and wished to see me. I took a chill and enjoyed my day.

Later in the week i went to the bank. Stepping into the bank i sighted her, i noticed she saw me from the corner of my eyes but i decided to complete my transaction 1st as the priority before any other thing. So I faced the huge queue and battled for a space.

When i was done. I walked to her waved at her but she was blank cold, i thought she didn't notice so i raised my voice aloud and greeted her but no response. This was someone i was standing directly opposite her desk.
Her body language was completely oblivious of my presence.
I was shocked, @fter some seconds without any idea and outrightly confused i quickly left not to embarass myself.
I was lost in thought as i stepped out wondering what, how, where exactly things went wrong.
This was the same damsel that we are both excited smiling and laughing with ourselves the last time.

I thought so hard but couldn't figure something out. I only called her once after that day but her voice was cold and her response was i should call her back that is sleeping.
I gave up from that point but still couldn't figure what went wrong.
Anytime i visit the bank i hold onto myself and stay on my lane but she still steals glances at me and i always do too.
What could have actually gone wrong ?

Your scrutinizations are welcomed
Re: I Have No Idea by pasqal09: 9:54am On May 13, 2017
It's very obvious that you have no inkling abt the ways of the opposite sex.
Re: I Have No Idea by Nobody: 10:19am On May 13, 2017
Raydans:
So i was climbing up the stairs and at the same time staring at this beautiful lady coming down.
I was lost that I missed a step, i staggared to get my balance and almost fell.
When she got to me, she smiled at me and said sorry. I was kind of ashamed, i managed to smile back and thanked her.
After my transaction with the bank i summoned the courage to talk to her atleast I have nothing to loose even if she declined.
I walked up to her, told her she looked gorgeous, inquired her name, she said she is omolayo i told her i almost broke my leg on the stairs because of her beauty, it would be a sin not have her contact before I leave.
She couldnt stopped blushing continously and asked me what I intend to do with her number.I said she would definitely get to find out, she smiled before she scribbled her digits down on a small piece and stylishly passed it to me.
I bounced out of the bank feeling fulfilled. I decided not to call her immediately and waited till weekend.
I called her up and asked to meet with her but she said her place was very far and besides she takes her weekends to rest and do her chores but she will be working half day the coming monday since its an holiday but she is not promising or assuring me. I understood and ended the conversation.
When it was monday, i was free. I decided not to bother or call her since she didn't assure me nor was it certain having at the back of my mind that she would call me if she changed her mind and wished to see me. I took a chill and enjoyed my day.

Later in the week i went to the bank. Stepping into the bank i sighted her, i noticed she saw me from the corner of my eyes but i decided to complete my transaction 1st as the priority before any other thing. So I faced the huge queue and battled for a space.

When i was done. I walked to her waved at her but she was blank cold, i thought she didn't notice so i raised my voice aloud and greeted her but no response. This was someone i was standing directly opposite her desk.
Her body language was completely oblivious of my presence.
I was shocked, @fter some seconds without any idea and outrightly confused i quickly left not to embarass myself.
I was lost in thought as i stepped out wondering what, how, where exactly things went wrong.
This was the same damsel that we are both excited smiling and laughing with ourselves the last time.

I thought so hard but couldn't figure something out. I only called her once after that day but her voice was cold and her response was i should call her back that is sleeping.
I gave up from that point but still couldn't figure what went wrong.
Anytime i visit the bank i hold onto myself and stay on my lane but she still steals glances at me and i always do too.
What could have actually gone wrong ?

Your scrutinizations are welcomed
You bleeped up big time.
You used too much logic.
Why do you think ladies always fall for players?
It's the chase man.
How can you be the one doing the hold up?
You got her number you didn't call till much later.
That doesn't seem desperate.
We love desperate.
Makes us feel 10X good looking.
Boosts our self ego.
You spoke to her and followed her words.
Heck we need T feel like we were convinced to go out with you.
Doesn't matter if we really want it more than you.
Makes us look hard to get and high chick status approval.
So yes you messed up her game and she is angry at you.
Now go right back and tho time make sure you do all the chasing and persuasions.
That's what we thrive on.
ATTENTION!!!
Re: I Have No Idea by SirMichael1: 10:22am On May 13, 2017
cry Yours is really strong o. I think you should have called her that Monday and inquired if she was still gonna be free.

You see, most women want their men to fight for them even when she says no. She thought you would have called and probably had been waiting for you that very Monday.

You could still call and apologize. You can never tell when luck's gonna hit you. smiley
Re: I Have No Idea by SNOWCREAM(m): 10:22am On May 13, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
You bleeped up big time.
You used too much logic.
Why do you think ladies always fall for players?
It's the chase man.
How can you be the one doing the hold up?
You got her number you didn't call till much later.
That doesn't seem desperate.
We love desperate.
Makes us feel 10X good looking.
Boosts our self ego.
You spoke to her and followed her words.
Heck we need T feel like we were convinced to go out with you.
Doesn't matter if we really want it more than you.
Makes us look hard to get and high chick status approval.
So yes you messed up her game and she is angry at you.
Now go right back and tho time make sure you do all the chasing and persuasions.
That's what we thrive on.
ATTENTION!!!
that's all
Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 11:01am On May 13, 2017
SirMichael1:
cry Yours is really strong o. I think you should have called her that Monday and inquired if she was still gonna be free.

You see, most women want their men to fight for them even when she says no. She thought you would have called and probably had been waiting for you that very Monday.

You could still call and apologize. You can never tell when luck's gonna hit you. smiley
I was thinking in that direction too. I never knew it might be a big deal since it was a case of maybe.
I actually never wanted to be forward
Re: I Have No Idea by SirMichael1: 11:03am On May 13, 2017
Raydans:
I was thinking in that direction too. I never knew it might be a big deal since it was a case of maybe.
I actually never wanted to be forward
Do call her, alright? smiley
Re: I Have No Idea by Nobody: 1:24pm On May 13, 2017
SNOWCREAM:
that's all
Why do I take your signature more important than your mention?

Re: I Have No Idea by cloudyskygrind(m): 1:58pm On May 13, 2017
Very easy dude. Walk up to her next time. Don't call to her from afar. Be bold and say look, I'm not really good at this, I'm not sure where i went wrong but I'd like to start again.
Dinner with me this weekend, after that I'll never bother you again.

Come back and testify. It works like magic
Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 2:06pm On May 13, 2017
cloudyskygrind:
Very easy dude. Walk up to her next time. Don't call to her from afar. Be bold and say look, I'm not really good at this, I'm not sure where i went wrong but I'd like to start again.
Dinner with me this weekend, after that I'll never bother you again.

Come back and testify. It works like magic
Lol. This line sounds like a movie
Re: I Have No Idea by cloudyskygrind(m): 2:07pm On May 13, 2017
Raydans:
Lol. This line sounds like a movie
Then play it back to life
Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 2:14pm On May 13, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
You bleeped up big time.
You used too much logic.
Why do you think ladies always fall for players?
It's the chase man.
How can you be the one doing the hold up?
You got her number you didn't call till much later.
That doesn't seem desperate.
We love desperate.
Makes us feel 10X good looking.
Boosts our self ego.
You spoke to her and followed her words.
Heck we need T feel like we were convinced to go out with you.
Doesn't matter if we really want it more than you.
Makes us look hard to get and high chick status approval.
So yes you messed up her game and she is angry at you.
Now go right back and tho time make sure you do all the chasing and persuasions.
That's what we thrive on.
ATTENTION!!!
Hmmm. You ladies feed on attention right but at the same time desperation ìs a turn off.
You don't need to put me under à mental stress deciding when to take actions or not. I should be able to take you by words and not otherwise. And anger shouldn't have anything to do with it
Re: I Have No Idea by Nobody: 2:28pm On May 13, 2017
Raydans:
Hmmm. You ladies feed on attention right but at the same time desperation ìs a turn off.
You don't need to put me under à mental stress deciding when to take actions or not. I should be able to take you by words and not otherwise. And anger shouldn't have anything to do with it
Raydans the issue here now is your signature.
Makes me wonder if I should take what I'm reading serious or not.
Re: I Have No Idea by Nobody: 2:30pm On May 13, 2017
cloudyskygrind:
Very easy dude. Walk up to her next time. Don't call to her from afar. Be bold and say look, I'm not really good at this, I'm not sure where i went wrong but I'd like to start again.
Dinner with me this weekend, after that I'll never bother you again.

Come back and testify. It works like magic
grin cheesy
Who have you tried that on and got a positive result?
cheesy grin
Abeg no kill me with laugh.
Re: I Have No Idea by jejemanito: 2:35pm On May 13, 2017
Raydans:
So i was climbing up the stairs and at the same time staring at this beautiful lady coming down.
I was lost that I missed a step, i staggared to get my balance and almost fell.
When she got to me, she smiled at me and said sorry. I was kind of ashamed, i managed to smile back and thanked her.
After my transaction with the bank i summoned the courage to talk to her atleast I have nothing to loose even if she declined.
I walked up to her, told her she looked gorgeous, inquired her name, she said she is omolayo i told her i almost broke my leg on the stairs because of her beauty, it would be a sin not have her contact before I leave.
She couldnt stopped blushing continously and asked me what I intend to do with her number.I said she would definitely get to find out, she smiled before she scribbled her digits down on a small piece and stylishly passed it to me.
I bounced out of the bank feeling fulfilled. I decided not to call her immediately and waited till weekend.
I called her up and asked to meet with her but she said her place was very far and besides she takes her weekends to rest and do her chores but she will be working half day the coming monday since its an holiday but she is not promising or assuring me. I understood and ended the conversation.
When it was monday, i was free. I decided not to bother or call her since she didn't assure me nor was it certain having at the back of my mind that she would call me if she changed her mind and wished to see me. I took a chill and enjoyed my day.

Later in the week i went to the bank. Stepping into the bank i sighted her, i noticed she saw me from the corner of my eyes but i decided to complete my transaction 1st as the priority before any other thing. So I faced the huge queue and battled for a space.

When i was done. I walked to her waved at her but she was blank cold, i thought she didn't notice so i raised my voice aloud and greeted her but no response. This was someone i was standing directly opposite her desk.
Her body language was completely oblivious of my presence.
I was shocked, @fter some seconds without any idea and outrightly confused i quickly left not to embarass myself.
I was lost in thought as i stepped out wondering what, how, where exactly things went wrong.
This was the same damsel that we are both excited smiling and laughing with ourselves the last time.

I thought so hard but couldn't figure something out. I only called her once after that day but her voice was cold and her response was i should call her back that is sleeping.
I gave up from that point but still couldn't figure what went wrong.
Anytime i visit the bank i hold onto myself and stay on my lane but she still steals glances at me and i always do too.
What could have actually gone wrong ?

Your scrutinizations are welcomed


Grab a copy
Don't thank me later

Re: I Have No Idea by cloudyskygrind(m): 3:12pm On May 13, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
grin cheesy
Who have you tried that on and got a positive result?
cheesy grin
Abeg no kill me with laugh.
Hey miss, I've tried it on so many girls, tested and trusted. If you doubt it, try it on any guy wait and see the magic
Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 4:31pm On May 13, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
grin cheesy
Who have you tried that on and got a positive result?
cheesy grin
Abeg no kill me with laugh.
Haha. That one. Huh. Ignore that one on this one o cheesy
Re: I Have No Idea by firstking01(m): 4:59pm On May 13, 2017
Like pilate said to the crowd(jews) that wanted to crucify jesus, "i found NO wrong in this man" but they cheered the more, "crucify him", crucify him", "crucify him" or you'd cease to be cesar's friend...


At raydans, "i found no one jot of wrong in your actions"...infact you did what a responsible man who's looking for a wife was supposed to do....you were moderate in all your conduct....there's a thread on dating drills for guys by harddon or the other one improve your dating game by one weird moniker like that xxxxxxxted somethinge...either of this threads you'd see where the op said when you get a ladies no don't be in a rush to call her, call her like the following day or two days after pls be very brief with the call...but ensure you leave her with something to ponder about you before you hang off the call...this works miracles trust me.



How ever, amidst all odds you did the very right thing believe me including the way you let her be....some of em ladies reek of maturity...
Re: I Have No Idea by SNOWCREAM(m): 6:01pm On May 13, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
Why do I take your signature more important than your mention?
lol, I can't say, you're funny grin
Re: I Have No Idea by Nobody: 7:21pm On May 13, 2017
Raydans:
Haha. That one. Huh. Ignore that one on this one o cheesy
Are you sure you are replying the right quote?
Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 7:42pm On May 13, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
Are you sure you are replying the right quote?
I mean ignore the signature for now for this post wink
Re: I Have No Idea by antysocial: 7:54pm On May 13, 2017
My opinion, she is a gold digger Nd she is using the reverse psychology on u Nd it's working.
Re: I Have No Idea by Boldtrust(m): 7:57pm On May 13, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
You bleeped up big time.
You used too much logic.
Why do you think ladies always fall for players?
It's the chase man.
How can you be the one doing the hold up?
You got her number you didn't call till much later.
That doesn't seem desperate.
We love desperate.
Makes us feel 10X good looking.
Boosts our self ego.
You spoke to her and followed her words.
Heck we need T feel like we were convinced to go out with you.
Doesn't matter if we really want it more than you.
Makes us look hard to get and high chick status approval.
So yes you messed up her game and she is angry at you.
Now go right back and tho time make sure you do all the chasing and persuasions.
That's what we thrive on.
ATTENTION!!!
you are making me fall in love with you. grin
Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 8:36pm On May 13, 2017
jejemanito:


Grab a copy
Don't thank me later
Lol. which chapter you don read am reach now
Re: I Have No Idea by Nobody: 8:40pm On May 13, 2017
antysocial:
My opinion, she is a gold digger Nd she is using the reverse psychology on u Nd it's working.
sad huh undecided
What are you trying to say please?
Re: I Have No Idea by jejemanito: 8:41pm On May 13, 2017
Raydans:
Lol. which chapter you don read am reach now
I still dey Table of Contents embarassed
Re: I Have No Idea by Nobody: 8:43pm On May 13, 2017
Raydans:
I was thinking in that direction too. I never knew it might be a big deal since it was a case of maybe.
I actually never wanted to be forward
SirMichael1:
Do call her, alright? smiley
Have you called her?
Re: I Have No Idea by hafees: 8:48pm On May 13, 2017
Apologies, but if she works at the bank and your balance is no sexy....
Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 8:50pm On May 13, 2017
IAmSirMichael:
Have you called her?
huh huh
Not exactly.
The zeal is unlike before. She don dull me
Re: I Have No Idea by Nobody: 8:56pm On May 13, 2017
Raydans:
huh huh
Not exactly.
The zeal is unlike before. She don dull me

Lol. Don't worry, seeing her in the bank again will rejuvenate that feeling
Re: I Have No Idea by Euphoria19: 9:05pm On May 13, 2017
ladies are complicated and confusing, she was just acting like she doesn't care and was playing hard to get, and when you didn't fall for it she got angry, it's not your fault,she wanted you to call her so that she could feel special and good about herself and that's not wrong but her reaction afterwards was not necessary, she could've just stated that she ended up being free and was disappointed when you didn't call which isn't your fault cause she gave you the impression that she's a busy bee, ladies are complicated, even me sef I don't understand myself sometimes, don't read into it
Re: I Have No Idea by Raydans(op): 9:07pm On May 13, 2017
IAmSirMichael:

Lol. Don't worry, seeing her in the bank again will rejuvenate that feeling
Hehehe. I know my way around trust me. If its about being bad. Just that am retired from the game grin grin
I just don't invest so much energy on woman matter again. I let things flow now cool
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