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Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by marvelck: 8:11am On May 14, 2017
Things A Girl Shouldn't Tell A Guy She's Just Meeting & Hoping To Date

When meeting a new girl, there are things a guy shouldn't talk about or ask her...Especially anything that has to do with her past...for they say old things have passed away, and everything is now new (if she has indeed become a better person). And girls should also be mindful of the the things they talk about when starting a new relationship with a guy. Yeah, the guy might be eager or curious to know how you ve spent the last two or three years of your life. But you have the right to talk about it or not. And if he keeps insisting, my dear walk away. There is none without a past...the most important and relevant thing is NOW!

Written below are some of the things a girl shouldn't tell a guy she is about to date...

1. The No of Guys You've Dated In The Past: Biko, don't disclose such an information to him if he's the over sensitive type. Don't know why most guys are so curious to know the number of guys a girl has dated in the past...some might end up using the information to taunt the girl later should the relationship go south. So, don't disclose such information to him. You can talk about your past experience if you want to...but don't let anybody force you to.

2. The No Of Guys You've Slept With: This one is a No No...Some guys usually use such information to taunt the girl later. I ve seen cases like that. And once the number is on the high side, that girl will never be respected by the guy. So, don't ever disclose such an information, no matter what. That is part of your past, and as a result is no longer relevant.

3. If You Like Sex A Lot: There are girls who are sex freaks. They can have sex almost everyday. Well, that's who they are...but telling every guy you meet or that shows interest in you, that you love sex alot, wont do you any good! Dating a sex freak scares a lot of guys due to obvious reasons. Girls who like sex a lot are usually perceived to be loose and unfaithful. And no man wants to date or marry such a girl. He might enjoy having sex with you, but will never desire to marry you. Once he's ready to settle down, he'll simply go and look for a decent girl to marry, after enjoying himself with you. So be wise. Even if you like sex a lot, don't ever show it to the guy. You can even pretend (like some girls do) to dislike it. So as to pass yourself as a responsible girl... Every man wants a good girl. Keep all your sex expertise on hold while in a new relationship. And more importantly, try and work on your high libido for your own good. Sex no be food!

4. Don't Show You Like Money A Lot: Yeah, men don't like girls who love money so much or are too materialistic. They can date such a girl, but will never be committed to her. Even if you cant help it, don't ever display or confess your love for money to any guy. Its usually a turn off.

Like I used to say when starting a new relationship, the principle of ' Don't Ask, Don't Tell' should be applied/implemented by both parties. Its necessary. Cos when you are starting a new relationship, you are new, fresh and better than before...

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Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by Dotwillis1(m): 8:16am On May 14, 2017
The dumbest is asking how many times she had sex... That's hell lot of a mathematics..undecided

Take for example she had 4 relationships in the past and all slept with her not once not twice..
.multiplying the figures will be hard..she wont even give the correct answer so why ask

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Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by smartty68(m): 8:19am On May 14, 2017
That's your opinion OP.

My Bae and I talked about our past - the past helps even more to know your fiancé/fiancée better.

We don't keep secrets - this helps a lot in building a successful relationships!

The key things in a good relationship is "Love & Understanding", followed with " Maturity" - how you're able to handle issues when it arises

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Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by Paramount01(m): 8:20am On May 14, 2017
realy
Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by Readir: 8:23am On May 14, 2017
Ok
Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by yarimo(m): 8:42am On May 14, 2017
And don't tell him the number of ABORTIONS you have done.

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Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by nelson16(m): 8:44am On May 14, 2017
Seems like a fantastic recipe for eventual divorce! Nevertheless, a bad coin always turns up!

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Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by CivilzedTyger(m): 10:53am On May 14, 2017
smartty68:
That's your opinion OP.

My Bae and I talked about our past - the past helps even more to know your fiancé/fiancée better.

We don't keep secrets - this helps a lot in building a successful relationships!

The key things in a good relationship is "Love & Understanding", followed with " Maturity" - how you're able to handle issues when it arises
Hey what you don't know cannot kill you. Sometimes ignorance is the key to wisdom

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Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by princefunmmy(m): 12:28pm On May 14, 2017
So what happens when if finally knows the truth? That will be worse than telling him the truth in the first place... Because he will not even complain, he will just keep using the girl and next thing, na the guy wedding IV she go see
Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by SmellingAnus(m): 1:02pm On May 14, 2017
Different strokes for different folks... As for me I love to hear everything o... grin and I sure will not use it against you...
Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by terrezo2002(m): 1:43pm On May 14, 2017
All these worldly relationships everywhere. If you know what you did was right, share it with your partner.
The reasons you can't share your sex experiences, abortions, and every other wayward life is because those things are bad.
Before you start any relationship, know God and have a relationship with Him first.
Your body is the temple of God, don't abuse it.
Marriage is honourable, don't defile yourselves before going into it.
Jesus loves you

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Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by vicben27(m): 2:37pm On May 14, 2017
my wife to b told me everytin about her past, how many guyz shez bin wit! d funny thing is dat her honesty made me to love her d more! so pple a quait different
Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by xynerise: 2:40pm On May 14, 2017
I won't ask a girl how many men she had had sex with because I can't answer that for myself. She shouldn't dare to ask me because the figure will make her break up with me
Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by fatymore(f): 3:44pm On May 14, 2017
But guys can ask stewpid question.like are you a virgin.. As if been a virgin make good wife...

You can only want a virgin if you are also one undecided
Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by SolexxBarry(m): 3:54pm On May 14, 2017
Its actually immature to ask how many times she has had sex, undecided what DA hell is ma business with dat
Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by Darwinthegreat(m): 4:04pm On May 14, 2017
Enlightening
Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by smartty68(m): 7:34pm On May 14, 2017
CivilzedTyger:
Hey what you don't know cannot kill you. Sometimes ignorance is the key to wisdom
@bold, is love we're talking about here, someone you might spend the rest of your life with.

Or

You rather prefer some else's exposes her secrets when you least expected? And then you'll feel disappointed in the end.

No! No! No!
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Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by rosieluv(f): 8:32pm On May 14, 2017
smartty68:
That's your opinion OP.

My Bae and I talked about our past - the past helps even more to know your fiancé/fiancée better.

We don't keep secrets - this helps a lot in building a successful relationships!

The key things in a good relationship is "Love & Understanding", followed with " Maturity" - how you're able to handle issues when it arises
maturity also comes into play
Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by Fmartin(m): 9:18pm On May 14, 2017
fatymore:
But guys can ask stewpid question.like are you a virgin.. As if been a virgin make good wife...

You can only want a virgin if you are also one undecided
wadup hajiya cheesy
Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by Nobody: 9:26pm On May 14, 2017
fatymore:
But guys can ask stewpid question.like are you a virgin.. As if been a virgin make good wife...

You can only want a virgin if you are also one undecided

Are you a virgin. Simple Yes or No.
Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by fatymore(f): 9:36pm On May 14, 2017
cruchenuti:


Are you a virgin. Simple Yes or No.
no..but is it your concern tongue
Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by Nobody: 9:38pm On May 14, 2017
fatymore:
no..but is it your concern tongue

Even if you were a Virgin, would you say yes lmao. Girls will always be girls you know
Re: Its Not Everything A Girl Must Tell Her Boyfriend(photo) by Beejayx: 10:10am On May 15, 2017
marvelck:
Things A Girl Shouldn't Tell A Guy She's Just Meeting & Hoping To Date

When meeting a new girl, there are things a guy shouldn't talk about or ask her...Especially anything that has to do with her past...for they say old things have passed away, and everything is now new (if she has indeed become a better person). And girls should also be mindful of the the things they talk about when starting a new relationship with a guy. Yeah, the guy might be eager or curious to know how you ve spent the last two or three years of your life. But you have the right to talk about it or not. And if he keeps insisting, my dear walk away. There is none without a past...the most important and relevant thing is NOW!

Written below are some of the things a girl shouldn't tell a guy she is about to date...

1. The No of Guys You've Dated In The Past: Biko, don't disclose such an information to him if he's the over sensitive type. Don't know why most guys are so curious to know the number of guys a girl has dated in the past...some might end up using the information to taunt the girl later should the relationship go south. So, don't disclose such information to him. You can talk about your past experience if you want to...but don't let anybody force you to.

2. The No Of Guys You've Slept With: This one is a No No...Some guys usually use such information to taunt the girl later. I ve seen cases like that. And once the number is on the high side, that girl will never be respected by the guy. So, don't ever disclose such an information, no matter what. That is part of your past, and as a result is no longer relevant.

3. If You Like Sex A Lot: There are girls who are sex freaks. They can have sex almost everyday. Well, that's who they are...but telling every guy you meet or that shows interest in you, that you love sex alot, wont do you any good! Dating a sex freak scares a lot of guys due to obvious reasons. Girls who like sex a lot are usually perceived to be loose and unfaithful. And no man wants to date or marry such a girl. He might enjoy having sex with you, but will never desire to marry you. Once he's ready to settle down, he'll simply go and look for a decent girl to marry, after enjoying himself with you. So be wise. Even if you like sex a lot, don't ever show it to the guy. You can even pretend (like some girls do) to dislike it. So as to pass yourself as a responsible girl... Every man wants a good girl. Keep all your sex expertise on hold while in a new relationship. And more importantly, try and work on your high libido for your own good. Sex no be food!

4. Don't Show You Like Money A Lot: Yeah, men don't like girls who love money so much or are too materialistic. They can date such a girl, but will never be committed to her. Even if you cant help it, don't ever display or confess your love for money to any guy. Its usually a turn off.

Like I used to say when starting a new relationship, the principle of ' Don't Ask, Don't Tell' should be applied/implemented by both parties. Its necessary. Cos when you are starting a new relationship, you are new, fresh and better than before...
Her character attitude, flavour,readiness and maturity determines if we would kip her or not...
I don't ask sha unless its warranted

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