StephDamielola:
I just pity for that Virtious Woman.... Truly you don't deserve her type.

You deserve those SA girls with big hips that drinks mungwongoti


Truth be told, you are seeing another Woman. YOu are just looking for excuses to justify your crazy thoughts

I agree with the emboldened.

op I am presently in your shoe. I married my wife 4 years again. after our only son I fell out of love with her. I am not seeing another woman. I have never done that but I am just not in love with again. she is very beautiful and have good character. I do not know how it happen. though she have noticed it and have confronted me severally but I do tell her I still love

you want olosho ?

Like everyone is saying, dude u re cheating on her. But from what I see she d quiet reserve type, u should spice things up. Make her the bad girl u want.

StephDamielola:


Ese Sir......

On my way to your fridge

Ok. Just one bottle o na recession period we dey abeg

You can't do that. Marriage is for life. Fight it out. The devil is at work to destroy you. Do all you can and resist it.

LoveJesus87:
Ok. Just one bottle o na recession period we dey abeg

I promise you, na just one bottle

fejeerow:
See what I was telling a friend the other day... people don't value virgins and decent girls anymore... they want the badgirl that will give then bj, doggie style and their ass.... isn't obvious this man is seeing someonelse that is turning his head... you don't believe in divorce then what do u want us to advice you on? Do u want to murder her so you can escape her? U better bring back the love and make your wife the bad girl u want her to be but foe u alone.. don't go and make decisions that u ll regret.

are you a virgin and are you an urhobo ? Please reply asap

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

fall in love with her again

fejeerow:
See what I was telling a friend the other day... people don't value virgins and decent girls anymore... they want the badgirl that will give then bj, doggie style and their ass.... isn't obvious this man is seeing someonelse that is turning his head... you don't believe in divorce then what do u want us to advice you on? Do u want to murder her so you can escape her? U better bring back the love and make your wife the bad girl u want her to be but foe u alone.. don't go and make decisions that u ll regret.

what has the topic got to do with virgins and decent girls? So a girl giving her man doggie or bj automatically makes her indecent right? The truth is there are many of u girls out there looking for justifiable excuse to become olosho....well continue

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

This things happen. Why don't you open up and have a discussion with her. Try it first and see how it goes. Remember, nothing in this life is by force. Everyone has a choice

StephDamielola:
I just pity for that Virtious Woman.... Truly you don't deserve her type.

You deserve those SA girls with big hips that drinks mungwongoti


Truth be told, you are seeing another Woman. YOu are just looking for excuses to justify your crazy thoughts

But, even though I have move and lived almost around the country and gone to work in may other countries. That is not all. I am also a pensoiner, meaning that I am of age but still find it difficult to understand what is wrong with majority of our people, Nigerians? I cannot say this young man is not normally, as in, if there are some mental problems with his brain region. Anyway, as long we continue to grow these class of young men, we should then know that there are serious problemw. Why would a young man allow himself to be growing downward?

VicMadich88:
I dnt drink nor smoke, my dear!

How can you not be in love again with your humble and beautiful wife?

StephDamielola:


Distance is also part of the problem. Lets tell the truth, this Partners need sex and more closeness. Sex isn't only for procreation, it helps to solve problems, to ease tensions and to renew the bond between two lovers.

I believe the SA girl from Kwazulu Natal have been giving him head and he is busy screaming Nakupenda.....

Now this got me laughing

PRAY WELL AND TRY IGNITE THAT LOVE AGAIN COZ IF YOU LEAVE HER THERE'S TENDENCY OF YOU FALLING IN WRONG HANDS.

When a man marries a wrong wife, even the devil leaves him alone, because he is finished already

Primebuilders:
op I am presently in your shoe. I married my wife 4 years again. after our only son I fell out of love with her. I am not seeing another woman. I have never done that but I am just not in love with again. she is very beautiful and have good character. I do not know how it happen. though she have noticed it and have confronted me severally but I do tell her I still love

Marriage is really tough, am scared.

I appreciate people like you and @OP that speaks out.

VicMadich88:
We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore.

Love plays very little role in marriage depending on your definition of love. What I feel is important is tolerance and understanding because that's what's keeping mine healthy and sweet. Love is a fiction that has to do with juvenile delinquency. If your woman is good appreciate her and control whatever evil spirit that is telling you to stop loving her because you will still stop loving your new found love once you bring that one home and the cycle continues.

onyenze123:


How can you not be in love again with your humble and beautiful wife again?

To love someone isn't about how humble an beautiful they are, God fearing an soforth. Its about how they make you feel. And she doesn't make me feel good, its like whatever I do for her is neva enaf...Sometimes I wud send money for her to fly here, bt she dsnt and tells me about choir practice an church conference blah blah blah...I understand tht she is a woman of God, bt she also my wife!

In my humble opinion.get away from de oda woman distracting u.travel and go be with ur wife for some time doing all de tins u want to do as a man nd as a couple including bedmatics.U will rekindle wateva dat has been lost. Also talk to ur wife about the long distance thing cos its not doing u guys any good

May God have mercy on you, I pity the innocent girl. When u have started cheating on d girl. Its well

StephDamielola:


I promise you, na just one bottle

Ah?! Wetin be dis? And u say just one bottle Oh boy u be beta crook d DSS are coming over for a coffee

StephDamielola:
I just pity for that Virtious Woman.... Truly you don't deserve her type.

You deserve those SA girls with big hips that drinks mungwongoti


Truth be told, you are seeing another Woman. YOu are just looking for excuses to justify your crazy thoughts

just listen to yourself.. why are you women very emotionally unstable?.. dont you understand what it means not to love anymore?. d guy is saying his heart.. how he feels because of posterity.. he doesnt love her again . not dat he hates her but d sexual feeling and butterfly feelings are gone. those feelings that make you want to be in someones arms forever are gone. whether it was caused by SA girls or Naija girls doesnt marra.. due to d respect he has for d girl, its not dat easy for him as it would before any average guy who doesnt care for his woman.. he is in indeed a very tight corner now and needs sound advice and phsychological help.. pls ladies if your marriage is not sweet anymore to you do no manage it.. seek for phsychological help or professional advice or counselling.. and pls when a guy says he doesnt love you anymore, do not ask if its because or girl a or b or c.. just jejely walk away while you can .. maybe in tears but better than when he secretely transfers his heart to soneone else and keeps you as his statue babe or statue wife.. then the home becomes a battle ground..

fejeerow:
See what I was telling a friend the other day... people don't value virgins and decent girls anymore... they want the badgirl that will give then bj, doggie style and their ass.... isn't obvious this man is seeing someonelse that is turning his head... you don't believe in divorce then what do u want us to advice you on? Do u want to murder her so you can escape her? U better bring back the love and make your wife the bad girl u want her to be but foe u alone.. don't go and make decisions that u ll regret.

Is bj and doggie the sign of a bad girl?

chibboy:
just listen to yourself.. why are you women very emotionally unstable?.. dont you understand what it means not to love anymore?. d guy is saying his heart.. how he feels because of posterity.. he doesnt love her again . not dat he hates her but d sexual feeling and butterfly feelings are gone. those feelings that make you want to be in someones arms forever are gone. whether it was caused by SA girls or Naija girls doesnt marra.. due to d respect he has for d girl, its not dat easy for him as it would before any average guy who doesnt care for his woman.. he is in indeed a very tight corner now and needs sound advice and phsychological help.. pls ladies if your marriage is not sweet anymore to you do no manage it.. seek for phsychological help or professional advice or counselling.. and pls when a guy says he doesnt love you anymore, do not ask if its because or girl a or b or c.. just jejely walk away while you can .. maybe in tears but better than when he secretely transfers his heart to soneone else and keeps you as his statue babe or statue wife.. then the home becomes a battle ground..

Oga Emotionally Stable.. We have heard you But Don't quote me again

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

i appreciate your sincerity my man.. i have advice for you if you are interested

at op marriage is for love commitment and responsibility do not shy away from this three if you want to last long in marriage.

If you can't let go off her, then you are still in love with her. You know love is a stupid feeling... All you need to do is to spend a day or two alone with her play, eat and dance with her, then sleep and see the way things will work out between the both of you.......i have withnessed such in my life before.

StephDamielola:


Oga Emotionally Stable.. We have heard you But Don't quote me again

listen to yourself.. i see u are short tempered and like a said emotionally unstable.. fix yourself up.. you r nit ripe for a relationship not to talk marriage.. girls like you are heartbreakers..

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

bros you need Jesus. . I guess is the distance that makes you think the lobe is not there. Why don't u allow her move over permanently

chibboy:
listen to yourself.. i see u are short tempered and like a said emotionally unstable.. fix yourself up.. you r nit ripe for a relationship not to talk marriage.. girls like you are heartbreakers..

You are really tempting me but all the same, take your filthy, stinking demoralized self out of my radar..

StephDamielola:


Show us her Butt Please?

If she has a moderate hip, then she has bogus and conspicuous Butt

hey stephy baby, nakupenda