VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

Sure you are not possessed by a demon?

[color=#990000][/color] it's beta you stop deceiving yourself

haha...mayb dis is why

I understand you bro, meek girls (not good girls, there's a difference) are boring

Bring out the slut in her ( trust me, it's in her but deeply buried) and you'll fall for her all over again.

Just give dis dude 9 months, he will come back here begging us for help on how to get back his humble wife that he divorced cause he no love her anymore.

Op, I know sm1 who was in dsame situation as you, the only difference is that, for him na Abuja run girls way make him ditch his newly married wife with same stupid flimsy excuse as yours.

Today his ex-wife is already happily married with two kids. while he WAS DUPED BY HIS ASHAWO GIRLFRIEND for 2 million naira. Up to dis day he ain't married & he is almost forty, he don turn to miserable drunkard, i would have pitied him if only i never knew how he treated his ex-wife

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

Why will you tell your wife ur not in love anymore. Its not ur gf o. I think u should organise to move in together 2wice a year is bad for a couple... Don't even dare tell her ur not in love anymore.

As a man im a Lil embarrassed at this childishness

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

How did know you are no longer in love with her? I ask because if it is anout feelings then k would let you know that mature live as expected in marriage is never about feelings but mutual respect and responsibilities towards each other


I am married and for years

Smh

fejeerow:
See what I was telling a friend the other day... people don't value virgins and decent girls anymore... they want the badgirl that will give then bj, doggie style and their ass.... isn't obvious this man is seeing someonelse that is turning his head... you don't believe in divorce then what do u want us to advice you on? Do u want to murder her so you can escape her? U better bring back the love and make your wife the bad girl u want her to be but foe u alone.. don't go and make decisions that u ll regret.

you've said it all
reminds me of a virgin who married at 38 funny enough the husband cheats on her almost all the time.

Falling out of love with someone is inevitable

if you advise some not to marry now everyone will shun you

folks like us who find it hard to be friends with other for a long time have this issue

anyway i advise he talks to wifey evry woman has a little cat inside that becomes a lion when needed
if it doesnt work DIVORCE dont suffer anybody unnecesarily

The issue here is distance! I won't advice anyone in a distance relationship(especially out of the country) to wed without getting his/her papers ready to meet the partner wherever he/she is to avoid stories that touch! If u say u can hold on,what of your partner? To the guy here try take a look back at what attracted her to you before you decided to marry her as your wife n make sure you rekindle the love

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StephDamielola:


Yes!

though i might not have spelt it correctly but i lived there for some years....


When it comes to Hips, Bro they got it... But when they get older, they suffer rheumatism due to the heavy butt load..

So to the OP, think about the pains she will put you through when she gets older and stick to your Naija Wife ok

Your description of those south african ladies caught me. Your right anyway, the guy aren't telling us the truth

Please you need to see Apostle Suleimon for spiritual cleansing. You are possess already by south Africans Ukwu

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

shoroniyen,,,, rubbish,, let me give you my own advice , I think what fit you is this slay Queen and slay mama that you will marry and get divorce for six month after they have achieved their aim from you... did you know there aim. they only come to men for one beautiful daughter or a hansom boy after which they will show you there other side been an oloso and you can't take it anymore the next thing divorce and they will move on with there life and leave you to your mystery....... abeg can I know that your wife so that I can try my luck...were 100%

Pls give her my number 08053294962. pls pls and pls give her my number I am serious in need of such wonderful qualities of wife materials that she posessed, in fact I have been looking for this kind of lady for dunky of years

can some one tell that junky .. that he may never see any one like her anymore in life... you will regret this for d rest of your life it you try such...

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

my advice to you is that you should try to reduce the distance between you and wife because distance is always a barrier for any kind of relationship. Try to let her live with you let say for months and let see what will happen.

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

The love didn't just stop, it NEVER existed...you never love her form the go...PERIOD

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

My guy before you utter those words to her.. Think about your life. Did you promise anyone marriage before? How was your sex life in SA, SA women can do jazz pass 9ja people sef, Zimbabwe's and all.

I am not saying that this will be the cause oo.. Just that from Experience, story i heard before from a friend.

Since you are not in love with your wife anymore, are you falling for another person? When did this start? You chop iyabasera.

I am not trying to funny and you don't have to reply me but sometimes we need to take a little step back and reexamine our lives.

It could be also your ditched another dude and married you. Things they happen my guy.

I was deeply touched when you mentioned your wife's good character and all and women with those qualities are hard to find these days..

Cheers man!

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

even if love hits u in d face u can't recognize it ,but all d same since u urself said u don't believe in divorce I'll say take up ur cross and carry on else u might end up burning ur fingers

Go for deliverance Bro. You are under attack

just send me her phone I promise to take kia of d situation for u end of story

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

I pray e no go tee before you understand the truth...Don't hurt her feelings please..You have no idea of what the effect will be on her.

Love is not the only thing that keep you going in marriage.Friendship,commitment and determination and prayers does. You can teach her the things that attract you in other women. If she's not that social,or satisfy you well in one way or the other, You can teach her all that. You don't need to leave her for other girls because of that. Besides,you might even regret it later. Train her, bring her up to your standard and you will both be happy and have peace of mind.

StephDamielola:
I just pity for that Virtious Woman.... Truly you don't deserve her type.

You deserve those SA girls with big hips that drinks mungwongoti


Truth be told, you are seeing another Woman. YOu are just looking for excuses to justify your crazy thoughts

Why don't you leave matters like this to people that are intellectually matured enough to handle it and give the right advice. What makes you think you have the right to judge and condem him.

For all we know, it could just be a case of early marriage crisis which will pass with time.

You don't have to insult people that seek advice.

StephDamielola:


Yes!

though i might not have spelt it correctly but i lived there for some years....


When it comes to Hips, Bro they got it... But when they get older, they suffer rheumatism due to the heavy butt load..

So to the OP, think about the pains she will put you through when she gets older and stick to your Naija Wife ok

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VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

The problem is you don't see her most times.She visits like one week and leaves while you spend 15 weeks on your own.Try to work her papers there so that you can see her all the time.

Immaturity

Both you and your wife are plain stupid, getting married under a very unrealistic arrangement. Your wife must be plain naive and innocent. I used to be like that before. What did she think? That your marriage will work away from the country? Rubbish rubbish rubbish.

VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.
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[quote author=StephDamielola post=56598437] I just pity for that Virtious Woman.... Truly you don't deserve her type.

You deserve those SA girls with big hips that drinks mungwongoti


Truth be told, you are seeing another Woman. YOu are just looking for excuses to justify your crazy though
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VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?.

Bros, go and learn how to love your wife. It takes time and you can do it.

Seek Gods face in prayers and let God take control of your heart.

You also need to check the type of friends and company you keep to just have a change of heart like that.

U never jam, when you jam bad girlz, you will appreciate your wife more and treat her like a Queen