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My Wife Is Not Interested In Sex Anymore / "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" / "My Husband Can’t Go 3 Rounds Anymore" - Nigerian Lady Complains (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by blovesther(f): 6:57pm On May 17, 2017 |
oyetpel:what are you appreciating in them God forbid They better go for deliverance because their spiritual wives is dealing with them Fall out of love ke? Mtcheeee |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by eagleonearth(m): 7:00pm On May 17, 2017 |
StephDamielola:i dey suspect you oo, how did you know all this oo |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Chukabiz1961(m): 7:26pm On May 17, 2017 |
I don't want to call you a big fool to avoid being looked down at. |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by oyetpel(m): 7:29pm On May 17, 2017 |
blovesther:Miss perfect, i appreciate them so that i can learn from their mistakes before i marry. So marriages have gone wrong and you are blaming op because he spilled his own out? If not that we are Africans, do you know how many divorce Westerners undergo because they fell out of love from there partners? Here you are blaming an African man that is thriving to put his home together. |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by iamKeo(m): 7:32pm On May 17, 2017 |
do you have a gun?
if yes take it out
point it at your head
then hang |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Bashnigga(m): 7:35pm On May 17, 2017 |
buskie13:Nkunbonti, Hmmmm . The lady that actually mentioned it said she wasn't sure of the spelling. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Bashnigga(m): 7:43pm On May 17, 2017 |
VicMadich88:I pray she changes her mind Bro. Why don't you explain everything to her & make her see reasons why you want her to relocate to SA |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by humilitypays(m): 7:47pm On May 17, 2017 |
Lolz |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by godquality: 7:49pm On May 17, 2017 |
StephDamielola:i love this piece but only a woman can write this. |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Ibiyomee(f): 7:51pm On May 17, 2017 |
Let her know this now before it is too late. People like you will definately fall for the wrong person at the end. That's why I love KARMA |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 8:40pm On May 17, 2017 |
You are as confused as thé calabash with which your village people are remoting you. Reject it ans live! |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by babestella: 9:01pm On May 17, 2017 |
VicMadich88: I'll not abuse you, you have your reason and your right, but it's a pity you are hurting her so bad. Pls send me her number, i have humble, kind hearted man that'll appreciate her like a woman should be loved and treated. You're not being fair to her. |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by vicben27(m): 9:07pm On May 17, 2017 |
d devil is screwin wit ur brain man! beta wake up b4 u realize is too late! |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by emiye(m): 9:21pm On May 17, 2017 |
Dear VicMadich88 . Before tying the knot wit her, you ought o have resolved the relocation part. You two need to be together. You lack companionship (good communication and friendship) and good sex . At least one of the two must be present. When both is missing in any marriage, all other good qualities might not save the marriage. Your first assignment is to get her to change her rigid stance on relocation, judging by what you have written here, she has not given any SENSIBLE reason to justify why she has not relocated to be with you. I see many comments here have been throwing sticks and stones at you partly because you didnt clearly outline the problems at your first post. Your subsequent posts somewhat makes it appear your wife is still yet to grapple with the meaning of marriage. Once a lady gets married her nuclear family composition changes to her husband and her. A wife who says she doesnt want to be with her husband outside the country so she can be in Nigeria with her family members is CLOWNING and needs a marriage seminar or training. She should relocate PROMPTLY and thereafter you two can work out ways so she can still be in close contact with her FORMER nuclear family members. All the church conference brouhaaha should wait, she should attend your church and be attending conference in your church in SA. BE A MAN, and take a stand in your marriage. If after a good persuasion she doesnt change her stance with no SENSIBLE reason, she is either not yet ripe mentally for marriage or probably she is playing you and not in love with you. 2 Likes |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Drabrah(m): 9:59pm On May 17, 2017 |
StephDamielola: Really! Una no go kill pörzin 4 NL |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Cityguy: 10:10pm On May 17, 2017 |
Don't want to say what is on my mind after reading through this. Honestly! |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Lordchinak2: 10:23pm On May 17, 2017 |
LOOK FOR A STRONG ROPE AND HANG YOURSELF! |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by loshybab(m): 10:29pm On May 17, 2017 |
fejeerow:ohhhhhh milady! I'm an exception coz I still value virgins like anything. Don't generalize, i could however be skilled in turning a decent girl into a 'baddo sneh' |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by aisammy4: 10:42pm On May 17, 2017 |
StephDamielola: Make God open your eyes to see exactly where u r heading to. If you think she not good or beautiful enough, make her beautiful. It's simple, take her out to a boutique and shop sexy things. Check her out very well before you lose ur juwel. I pity you wey find good thing, want drop am for a decayed one...tufiakwa |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by SURElee(f): 11:33pm On May 17, 2017 |
When you wanted to marry her did you come on NL to announce you wanted to marry her? Now you no longer love her you come here to disturb our lives, Nonsense! People like you think marriage is a walk in the park, rosy all the time. Wake up and smell the coffee, there are times you will not feel the love you have for your spouse, but the friendship shared keeps you going. It's your job to rekindle your love for yoursef, or do you need the NL community to rally round, buy christmas lights, connect the lights to a socket or switch to spark up your marriage for you? Mscheewwwww! Mr man get to work and put in the work in your marriage, forget those fingerlings distractions you probably have entangled yourself with. We are not stupid not to know you skipped the fact that you have distractions and away matches from your story. |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by joephilip13: 1:00am On May 18, 2017 |
Everyday is a Bank account & Time is our currency.No one is rich,no one is poor,we all have same 24hrs each.
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Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by danigbo(m): 5:07am On May 18, 2017 |
You will learn to love her with time. Na so e de be. But keep away from negative friends. Good luck. |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by SAMTOBIJU(m): 5:18am On May 18, 2017 |
StephDamielola:UR COMMENTS ON THIS TOPIC IS EPIC ND FUNNY.CAN'T STOP LAUGHING.... |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Tuksgrad(f): 6:09am On May 18, 2017 |
Lionessza: Lol yeah hey. 1 Like |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 6:20am On May 18, 2017 |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by blovesther(f): 6:34am On May 18, 2017 |
oyetpel:hmmmmmm |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by onenigamilitia: 7:18am On May 18, 2017 |
Your funny niga, keep working on yourself and your marriage, believe! You will find that love again. You seem weak talking bout this, nobody forced you to get married and she wasn't forced on you. Y do u want to fall your own hand? Go for counselling. |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Jetjacky(m): 7:23am On May 18, 2017 |
StephDamielola:love your message. Are you taken? Nice pics |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Awokoyaolusola: 8:37am On May 18, 2017 |
There may be more to this. Confide in ur Pastor, spiritual angle might b necessary too. Provided u r not cheating on her. |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by 0kp0nku: 9:50am On May 18, 2017 |
The major problem here is the distance between the couples. |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by unmask: 10:36am On May 18, 2017 |
Op please divorce her.....it is better to divorce her now and both of you find happiness.....than keep her and remain miserable for the rest of your life. Good you came out clean #respect |
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by unmask: 10:40am On May 18, 2017 |
SURElee:and if after putting all the work his feelings does not change, can he then leave her? 1 Like |
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