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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Erums(m): 10:07pm On May 16, 2017
Lord... I almost went thru this in my childhood with my dad....... It was really serious... He always tried to deprive me frm what i love... Always and always report me to my family relative of how bad i am... Just because i love football and have a group of friends where i take the lead.... Yeah i made some wrong moves too.... I remember wen he siezed all my cloths, so i cudnt go out anymore.... I had only a trouser and a shirt for more than 6-7 months.... I begged and begged until i got fed up and started clearing farms for neighbors jyst to raise money to buy shirts..... Oh Lord.... I remember this again... Im cnt help bt sheard a tear.... I cud remember he drove me out of the hux severally... Even to the extend i was refused entry for 2months... I was putting up with my friends.... Parking sand, filling houses, clearin bushes... Jyst to survive... I eat anywhere... Lord hv mercy...... 2months out and i missed my waec ssce chemistry and physic practical before an aunt of mine got to know and started looking for up for me..... She returned me home... Only she cud.... I was really wildered..... The one tin i appreciated my dad for was concerned with my education... He payed my fees... And other family responsibility... But i had no live... Until i grew stronger in mind... Dat one time i defended my sis.... I nearly fought bk wen he beat ny sis mercilessly.... He told he whole family that me and my sis fought him.....i cnt say alot i passed thru.... I was an outlaw in da hux...... Im grateful to God now... Im grown, graduated, working class.. Independent... Now someway, somehow.... We talk often as family..... I see everytin he did den made me stronger... I cant even tell alot... because my mum is late and my step mum cant even save cos she doesnt hv a say....... I realli suffered humiliation, reject, abuse, frm frnds, shame of no home to regard as mine.... I goto the football pitch to meet my peers... Bt dnt return home as dey all do..... Op... U need to be strong.... Face ur education... Its ur sure ticket outta dat hux... Ot else u got anoda and u will survive...... Qn 2012...i graduated frm uni... 2.1...imediately got into service baych A.... Thats how story change.... Go ; only wen needed or once a year..... The regard is now coming... Send dem money at intervals..... Im happi... I still love him dearly.... All he did nearly killed me but made me stronger... Thou i vowed not to treat my kids that way.....bt the memorys live on as part of me but will not be used to judge dem....


Pls love ur mum.... Love her frm within... I begg of u.... I dnt have a mum... I never knee her.. Thus no motherly feelings... U talked abt mothers day... I never wished my real mum happi mothers day... I wished my step mum and ulmy unkles wife... So u see....
Your love might change her... Create an inner peace eithin urself... Do the chores witot being told... Donot succumb to what shes says abt u... Innerly always know ure different.... Dats all i can say...
I LOVE MY DAD.... ITS BEST FOR ME TO.... NO MATTER WHAT..... ONELOV PPLE... Forgive my typos... embarassed embarassed

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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by runsguy: 11:52pm On May 16, 2017
Erums:
Lord... I almost went thru this in my childhood with my dad....... It was really serious... He always tried to deprive me frm what i love... Always and always report me to my family relative of how bad i am... Just because i love football and have a group of friends where i take the lead.... Yeah i made some wrong moves too.... I remember wen he siezed all my cloths, so i cudnt go out anymore.... I had only a trouser and a shirt for more than 6-7 months.... I begged and begged until i got fed up and started clearing farms for neighbors jyst to raise money to buy shirts..... Oh Lord.... I remember this again... Im cnt help bt sheard a tear.... I cud remember he drove me out of the hux severally... Even to the extend i was refused entry for 2months... I was putting up with my friends.... Parking sand, filling houses, clearin bushes... Jyst to survive... I eat anywhere... Lord hv mercy...... 2months out and i missed my waec ssce chemistry and physic practical before an aunt of mine got to know and started looking for up for me..... She returned me home... Only she cud.... I was really wildered..... The one tin i appreciated my dad for was concerned with my education... He payed my fees... And other family responsibility... But i had no live... Until i grew stronger in mind... Dat one time i defended my sis.... I nearly fought bk wen he beat ny sis mercilessly.... He told he whole family that me and my sis fought him.....i cnt say alot i passed thru.... I was an outlaw in da hux...... Im grateful to God now... Im grown, graduated, working class.. Independent... Now someway, somehow.... We talk often as family..... I see everytin he did den made me stronger... I cant even tell alot... because my mum is late and my step mum cant even save cos she doesnt hv a say....... I realli suffered humiliation, reject, abuse, frm frnds, shame of no home to regard as mine.... I goto the football pitch to meet my peers... Bt dnt return home as dey all do..... Op... U need to be strong.... Face ur education... Its ur sure ticket outta dat hux... Ot else u got anoda and u will survive...... Qn 2012...i graduated frm uni... 2.1...imediately got into service baych A.... Thats how story change.... Go ; only wen needed or once a year..... The regard is now coming... Send dem money at intervals..... Im happi... I still love him dearly.... All he did nearly killed me but made me stronger... Thou i vowed not to treat my kids that way.....bt the memorys live on as part of me but will not be used to judge dem....


Pls love ur mum.... Love her frm within... I begg of u.... I dnt have a mum... I never knee her.. Thus no motherly feelings... U talked abt mothers day... I never wished my real mum happi mothers day... I wished my step mum and ulmy unkles wife... So u see....
Your love might change her... Create an inner peace eithin urself... Do the chores witot being told... Donot succumb to what shes says abt u... Innerly always know ure different.... Dats all i can say...
I LOVE MY DAD.... ITS BEST FOR ME TO.... NO MATTER WHAT..... ONELOV PPLE... Forgive my typos... embarassed embarassed


Wow, wow, wow, this one reach to write a book o, honestly u should consider sharing your story thru a book, I think you have a lot to tell. Our parents generation were very harsh in terms of parenting but that was their own concept of discipline. As for me, my kids will get all the love and support.

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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by YoungBlackRico(m): 5:55am On May 17, 2017
Bumbae1:

Hmmm it is well just pray for op
Yeah, don't even know what to say.

I wouldn't want even a fly to touch mine, and here's someone who doesn't want hers around. Pretty sad, and I feel bad for op embarassed

*Hi, been a while. Do have a lovely day Mami smiley


©YBR
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 1:02pm On May 17, 2017
ahahnow:


Seun, lala please, I would like to formally request for the person to be removed from my post as he or she is slandering me and disregarded the degree of seriousness of my story. Thanks

Your plan was to ban me when you posted un-educated issues here, it is a shame, completely show of shame, you deliberately insight people to be violent to their mothers, you never thought of an un-African issues and the damages it caused, next time, you most learn to post things that could not cause negative issues in public domain, YOU MUST BE BANNED FROM N/L FOREVER


My story is about my mother. I called the police on her today. She is stu.pid. I know many of you will be against me because I insulted her but that is less than she deserves. Throughout my life she has physically and verbally assaulted me. The straw that broke the camel's back happened this afternoon when she told me to go and cook rice. I started to grumble about it. This doesn't mean I wont do it. I think its something about me that automatically happens when I have to do a chore but I still get the job done and she knows it. I hate her alot and have wished many times that I would just wake up one day and she is just not there. I have tried many times to look past my grievances with her but another day will be something new. I have thought many times about moving out of the house but I do not earn enough to do so. She told me one time to go and drink poison and die one day like that. Right now, if you see me, I have patches on my head because she pulled out my hair and I have scratches all over my face. She is always using fearmogering tactics to try to get me but it only makes me angry. Why should a mother want their child to be afraid of her. It is only in my household that a mother behaves more like a disgusting, lazy, violent roommate. She complains, she does cooks all that often, she will sweep the house and leave the debris in one corner where it will stay for many months, her toilet is dirty, and she is a housewife o. she doesnt work. she sat on me today and was hitting me. When I told her I couldnt breath she said she didnt care and that is what drove me to call the police. When my dad came home she was now forming victim, crying her crocodile tears. Today, I learned some people can not be loved. God knows I tried. I feel very bad for my dad, he suffers. This is why it is dangerous to marry a girl because her makeup is nice. I advice that you marry for brains only. Find out if the girl you want to marry loves children. Inside my mother is beyond rotten. If anything happens to her today. I do not know if I will shed a tear because I do not have a good memory of her. I never have. I know I am not wrong but if I am God will judge me and deal with me, what I deserve. However, I know for dam.n sure she is not innocent. She has never cared. If not for my dad, I would have dont worse. I have never in my life raised my hand to my mother but enough was enough. Mother's day was yesterday, I am not grateful for mine. In fact if she had swolled me it would have been better. I dont know if I will ever move past this but I know that I will never trust her. angry angry angry angry angry

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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 1:08pm On May 17, 2017
solasolasola:
Seun, abeg, this comment gives me a headache. Yet, that's one among many. Kindly do not mention me if you are not ready to improve.




What sin did i commit here that brought headache to you, the story line was so insensitive, in-sighting people on hatred, violent and many more, this is not an African style and will never be, N/L has a rule and all must respect,






My story is about my mother. I called the police on her today. She is stu.pid. I know many of you will be against me because I insulted her but that is less than she deserves. Throughout my life she has physically and verbally assaulted me. The straw that broke the camel's back happened this afternoon when she told me to go and cook rice. I started to grumble about it. This doesn't mean I wont do it. I think its something about me that automatically happens when I have to do a chore but I still get the job done and she knows it. I hate her alot and have wished many times that I would just wake up one day and she is just not there. I have tried many times to look past my grievances with her but another day will be something new. I have thought many times about moving out of the house but I do not earn enough to do so. She told me one time to go and drink poison and die one day like that. Right now, if you see me, I have patches on my head because she pulled out my hair and I have scratches all over my face. She is always using fearmogering tactics to try to get me but it only makes me angry. Why should a mother want their child to be afraid of her. It is only in my household that a mother behaves more like a disgusting, lazy, violent roommate. She complains, she does cooks all that often, she will sweep the house and leave the debris in one corner where it will stay for many months, her toilet is dirty, and she is a housewife o. she doesnt work. she sat on me today and was hitting me. When I told her I couldnt breath she said she didnt care and that is what drove me to call the police. When my dad came home she was now forming victim, crying her crocodile tears. Today, I learned some people can not be loved. God knows I tried. I feel very bad for my dad, he suffers. This is why it is dangerous to marry a girl because her makeup is nice. I advice that you marry for brains only. Find out if the girl you want to marry loves children. Inside my mother is beyond rotten. If anything happens to her today. I do not know if I will shed a tear because I do not have a good memory of her. I never have. I know I am not wrong but if I am God will judge me and deal with me, what I deserve. However, I know for dam.n sure she is not innocent. She has never cared. If not for my dad, I would have dont worse. I have never in my life raised my hand to my mother but enough was enough. Mother's day was yesterday, I am not grateful for mine. In fact if she had swolled me it would have been better. I dont know if I will ever move past this but I know that I will never trust her. angry angry angry angry angry

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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by ahahnow: 3:23pm On May 17, 2017
You are dumb. Here you are bashing me for being shameless yet you exposed your illiteracy by slandering me. Telling people I do drugs this and that. You should be permanently banned. You are a vegetable. Please go and join your gang in the deaf and dumb community. Thanks quote author=Freewoman post=56605632]

Your plan was to ban me when you posted un-educated issues here, it is a shame, completely show of shame, you deliberately insight people to be violent to their mothers, you never thought of an un-African issues and the damages it caused, next time, you most learn to post things that could not cause negative issues in public domain, YOU MUST BE BANNED FROM N/L FOREVER


My story is about my mother. I called the police on her today. She is stu.pid. I know many of you will be against me because I insulted her but that is less than she deserves. Throughout my life she has physically and verbally assaulted me. The straw that broke the camel's back happened this afternoon when she told me to go and cook rice. I started to grumble about it. This doesn't mean I wont do it. I think its something about me that automatically happens when I have to do a chore but I still get the job done and she knows it. I hate her alot and have wished many times that I would just wake up one day and she is just not there. I have tried many times to look past my grievances with her but another day will be something new. I have thought many times about moving out of the house but I do not earn enough to do so. She told me one time to go and drink poison and die one day like that. Right now, if you see me, I have patches on my head because she pulled out my hair and I have scratches all over my face. She is always using fearmogering tactics to try to get me but it only makes me angry. Why should a mother want their child to be afraid of her. It is only in my household that a mother behaves more like a disgusting, lazy, violent roommate. She complains, she does cooks all that often, she will sweep the house and leave the debris in one corner where it will stay for many months, her toilet is dirty, and she is a housewife o. she doesnt work. she sat on me today and was hitting me. When I told her I couldnt breath she said she didnt care and that is what drove me to call the police. When my dad came home she was now forming victim, crying her crocodile tears. Today, I learned some people can not be loved. God knows I tried. I feel very bad for my dad, he suffers. This is why it is dangerous to marry a girl because her makeup is nice. I advice that you marry for brains only. Find out if the girl you want to marry loves children. Inside my mother is beyond rotten. If anything happens to her today. I do not know if I will shed a tear because I do not have a good memory of her. I never have. I know I am not wrong but if I am God will judge me and deal with me, what I deserve. However, I know for dam.n sure she is not innocent. She has never cared. If not for my dad, I would have dont worse. I have never in my life raised my hand to my mother but enough was enough. Mother's day was yesterday, I am not grateful for mine. In fact if she had swolled me it would have been better. I dont know if I will ever move past this but I know that I will never trust her. angry angry angry angry angry

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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Nobody: 4:00pm On May 17, 2017
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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Nobody: 5:06pm On May 17, 2017
Erums:
Lord... I almost went thru this in my childhood with my dad....... It was really serious... He always tried to deprive me frm what i love... Always and always report me to my family relative of how bad i am... Just because i love football and have a group of friends where i take the lead.... Yeah i made some wrong moves too.... I remember wen he siezed all my cloths, so i cudnt go out anymore.... I had only a trouser and a shirt for more than 6-7 months.... I begged and begged until i got fed up and started clearing farms for neighbors jyst to raise money to buy shirts..... Oh Lord.... I remember this again... Im cnt help bt sheard a tear.... I cud remember he drove me out of the hux severally... Even to the extend i was refused entry for 2months... I was putting up with my friends.... Parking sand, filling houses, clearin bushes... Jyst to survive... I eat anywhere... Lord hv mercy...... 2months out and i missed my waec ssce chemistry and physic practical before an aunt of mine got to know and started looking for up for me..... She returned me home... Only she cud.... I was really wildered..... The one tin i appreciated my dad for was concerned with my education... He payed my fees... And other family responsibility... But i had no live... Until i grew stronger in mind... Dat one time i defended my sis.... I nearly fought bk wen he beat ny sis mercilessly.... He told he whole family that me and my sis fought him.....i cnt say alot i passed thru.... I was an outlaw in da hux...... Im grateful to God now... Im grown, graduated, working class.. Independent... Now someway, somehow.... We talk often as family..... I see everytin he did den made me stronger... I cant even tell alot... because my mum is late and my step mum cant even save cos she doesnt hv a say....... I realli suffered humiliation, reject, abuse, frm frnds, shame of no home to regard as mine.... I goto the football pitch to meet my peers... Bt dnt return home as dey all do..... Op... U need to be strong.... Face ur education... Its ur sure ticket outta dat hux... Ot else u got anoda and u will survive...... Qn 2012...i graduated frm uni... 2.1...imediately got into service baych A.... Thats how story change.... Go ; only wen needed or once a year..... The regard is now coming... Send dem money at intervals..... Im happi... I still love him dearly.... All he did nearly killed me but made me stronger... Thou i vowed not to treat my kids that way.....bt the memorys live on as part of me but will not be used to judge dem....


Pls love ur mum.... Love her frm within... I begg of u.... I dnt have a mum... I never knee her.. Thus no motherly feelings... U talked abt mothers day... I never wished my real mum happi mothers day... I wished my step mum and ulmy unkles wife... So u see....
Your love might change her... Create an inner peace eithin urself... Do the chores witot being told... Donot succumb to what shes says abt u... Innerly always know ure different.... Dats all i can say...
I LOVE MY DAD.... ITS BEST FOR ME TO.... NO MATTER WHAT..... ONELOV PPLE... Forgive my typos... embarassed embarassed

No, your typos are unforgivable... I should drive you from Nairaland so it would make you strong...

Lol...


Just kidding,,,,


You tried, but doesn't make your daddy any less mean

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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Nobody: 5:18pm On May 17, 2017
keep arguing and commenting rubbish
some parents are enough curses to their children
I know of a man who drugs his own daughter then rapes her when she falls asleep and the man is a nurse, so many children pass through worse conditions and they chose to hide these so they don't bring shame, disgrace and total isolation of the certain family from members of the community
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 5:51pm On May 17, 2017
Your mates were out there doing research and inventions and you are here promoting hates, My little son , why are you wasting your youthful age, still feeding from your parents, living under their shelter, asking uncles for advance monies, i believe you can do better if only you use your time wisely, stop promoting evil you fish head, listen to advice and be wise, fools only dual on egoism, the day you were born, your parents celebrates but today they regrets giving birth to you, they could have aborted you, if only they know that you will turn around to spread hates to your mother you fool, if you are normal why don't you use this thread to promote love to your parents, show them love, but i see now that you need a psychologists for proper re-examination, you call me an illustrate, am not bordered about that but let the world judge who needed help, me or you, block head





ahahnow:
You are dumb. Here you are bashing me for being shameless yet you exposed your illiteracy by slandering me. Telling people I do drugs this and that. You should be permanently banned. You are a vegetable. Please go and join your gang in the deaf and dumb community. Thanks quote author=Freewoman post=56605632]

Your plan was to ban me when you posted un-educated issues here, it is a shame, completely show of shame, you deliberately insight people to be violent to their mothers, you never thought of an un-African issues and the damages it caused, next time, you most learn to post things that could not cause negative issues in public domain, YOU MUST BE BANNED FROM N/L FOREVER


My story is about my mother. I called the police on her today. She is stu.pid. I know many of you will be against me because I insulted her but that is less than she deserves. Throughout my life she has physically and verbally assaulted me. The straw that broke the camel's back happened this afternoon when she told me to go and cook rice. I started to grumble about it. This doesn't mean I wont do it. I think its something about me that automatically happens when I have to do a chore but I still get the job done and she knows it. I hate her alot and have wished many times that I would just wake up one day and she is just not there. I have tried many times to look past my grievances with her but another day will be something new. I have thought many times about moving out of the house but I do not earn enough to do so. She told me one time to go and drink poison and die one day like that. Right now, if you see me, I have patches on my head because she pulled out my hair and I have scratches all over my face. She is always using fearmogering tactics to try to get me but it only makes me angry. Why should a mother want their child to be afraid of her. It is only in my household that a mother behaves more like a disgusting, lazy, violent roommate. She complains, she does cooks all that often, she will sweep the house and leave the debris in one corner where it will stay for many months, her toilet is dirty, and she is a housewife o. she doesnt work. she sat on me today and was hitting me. When I told her I couldnt breath she said she didnt care and that is what drove me to call the police. When my dad came home she was now forming victim, crying her crocodile tears. Today, I learned some people can not be loved. God knows I tried. I feel very bad for my dad, he suffers. This is why it is dangerous to marry a girl because her makeup is nice. I advice that you marry for brains only. Find out if the girl you want to marry loves children. Inside my mother is beyond rotten. If anything happens to her today. I do not know if I will shed a tear because I do not have a good memory of her. I never have. I know I am not wrong but if I am God will judge me and deal with me, what I deserve. However, I know for dam.n sure she is not innocent. She has never cared. If not for my dad, I would have dont worse. I have never in my life raised my hand to my mother but enough was enough. Mother's day was yesterday, I am not grateful for mine. In fact if she had swolled me it would have been better. I dont know if I will ever move past this but I know that I will never trust her. angry angry angry angry angry

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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Nobody: 6:03pm On May 17, 2017
Freewoman:
Your mates were out there doing research and inventions and you are here promoting hates, My little son , why are you wasting your youthful age, still feeding from your parents, living under their shelter, asking uncles for advance monies, i believe you can do better if only you use your time wisely, stop promoting evil you fish head, listen to advice and be wise, fools only dual on egoism, the day you were born, your parents celebrates but today they regrets giving birth to you, they could have aborted you, if only they know that you will turn around to spread hates to your mother you fool, if you are normal why don't you use this thread to promote love to your parents, show them love, but i see now that you need a psychologists for proper re-examination, you call me an illustrate, am not bordered about that but let the world judge who needed help, me or you, block head






You sound like you know him on person
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Erums(m): 6:33pm On May 17, 2017
Jkfc:


No, your typos are unforgivable... I should drive you from Nairaland so it would make you strong...

Lol...


Just kidding,,,,


You tried, but doesn't make your daddy any less mean


Lol.... Hilarious
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Nobody: 6:39pm On May 17, 2017
Why are you taking the dude's post so personal? Why you seem so pained? What's the post for to do with you? Why not leave him alone and let those with helpful contributions comment
Freewoman:
Your mates were out there doing research and inventions and you are here promoting hates, My little son , why are you wasting your youthful age, still feeding from your parents, living under their shelter, asking uncles for advance monies, i believe you can do better if only you use your time wisely, stop promoting evil you fish head, listen to advice and be wise, fools only dual on egoism, the day you were born, your parents celebrates but today they regrets giving birth to you, they could have aborted you, if only they know that you will turn around to spread hates to your mother you fool, if you are normal why don't you use this thread to promote love to your parents, show them love, but i see now that you need a psychologists for proper re-examination, you call me an illustrate, am not bordered about that but let the world judge who needed help, me or you, block head





Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 7:51pm On May 17, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
Why are you taking the dude's post so personal? Why you seem so pained? What's the post for to do with you? Why not leave him alone and let those with helpful contributions comment


When the bird of same feather speaks............................... it sounds like above
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 7:53pm On May 17, 2017
Jkfc:


You sound like you know him on person

Yes I do...................................
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Nobody: 7:54pm On May 17, 2017
Freewoman:



When the bird of same feather speaks............................... it sounds like above
birds speak?


Anyways, my relationship with my parents is the best any child can wish for. Sorry to disappoint you
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Oyindidi(f): 8:09pm On May 17, 2017
Erums:
Lord... I almost went thru this in my childhood with my dad....... It was really serious... He always tried to deprive me frm what i love... Always and always report me to my family relative of how bad i am... Just because i love football and have a group of friends where i take the lead.... Yeah i made some wrong moves too.... I remember wen he siezed all my cloths, so i cudnt go out anymore.... I had only a trouser and a shirt for more than 6-7 months.... I begged and begged until i got fed up and started clearing farms for neighbors jyst to raise money to buy shirts..... Oh Lord.... I remember this again... Im cnt help bt sheard a tear.... I cud remember he drove me out of the hux severally... Even to the extend i was refused entry for 2months... I was putting up with my friends.... Parking sand, filling houses, clearin bushes... Jyst to survive... I eat anywhere... Lord hv mercy...... 2months out and i missed my waec ssce chemistry and physic practical before an aunt of mine got to know and started looking for up for me..... She returned me home... Only she cud.... I was really wildered..... The one tin i appreciated my dad for was concerned with my education... He payed my fees... And other family responsibility... But i had no live... Until i grew stronger in mind... Dat one time i defended my sis.... I nearly fought bk wen he beat ny sis mercilessly.... He told he whole family that me and my sis fought him.....i cnt say alot i passed thru.... I was an outlaw in da hux...... Im grateful to God now... Im grown, graduated, working class.. Independent... Now someway, somehow.... We talk often as family..... I see everytin he did den made me stronger... I cant even tell alot... because my mum is late and my step mum cant even save cos she doesnt hv a say....... I realli suffered humiliation, reject, abuse, frm frnds, shame of no home to regard as mine.... I goto the football pitch to meet my peers... Bt dnt return home as dey all do..... Op... U need to be strong.... Face ur education... Its ur sure ticket outta dat hux... Ot else u got anoda and u will survive...... Qn 2012...i graduated frm uni... 2.1...imediately got into service baych A.... Thats how story change.... Go ; only wen needed or once a year..... The regard is now coming... Send dem money at intervals..... Im happi... I still love him dearly.... All he did nearly killed me but made me stronger... Thou i vowed not to treat my kids that way.....bt the memorys live on as part of me but will not be used to judge dem....


Pls love ur mum.... Love her frm within... I begg of u.... I dnt have a mum... I never knee her.. Thus no motherly feelings... U talked abt mothers day... I never wished my real mum happi mothers day... I wished my step mum and ulmy unkles wife... So u see....
Your love might change her... Create an inner peace eithin urself... Do the chores witot being told... Donot succumb to what shes says abt u... Innerly always know ure different.... Dats all i can say...
I LOVE MY DAD.... ITS BEST FOR ME TO.... NO MATTER WHAT..... ONELOV PPLE... Forgive my typos... embarassed embarassed
Oboi your English no be hereshocked

And you graduate with 2.1 grin
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Akinwale14(m): 8:15pm On May 17, 2017
Mehn this one na 1 chance oo,guy sha no vex beat ur mum to death oo,just move out and find work to do ok.
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Erums(m): 8:24pm On May 17, 2017
Oyindidi:
Oboi your English no be hereshocked

And you graduate with 2.1 grin


Pls will u pls shut up...i already said forgive my typos... Does it mean i cant arrangement them properly...
This is an informal platform... And i choose to write informally in as much the message is passed... Im cool....
So get a life.... Or get a job.
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Oyindidi(f): 8:31pm On May 17, 2017
Erums:



Pls will u pls shut up...i already said forgive my typos... Does it mean i cant arrangement them properly...
This is an informal platform... And i choose to write informally in as much the message is passed... Im cool....
So get a life.... Or get a job.
E mabinu but this your typo no be here
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Akinwale14(m): 8:31pm On May 17, 2017
grin grin grin grin
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Erums(m): 8:33pm On May 17, 2017
Oyindidi:
E mabinu but this your typo no be here


Yeye dey smell all ova u..... Ur monika says it all... Too bad
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by runsguy: 9:07pm On May 17, 2017
Freewoman:
Your mates were out there doing research and inventions and you are here promoting hates, My little son , why are you wasting your youthful age, still feeding from your parents, living under their shelter, asking uncles for advance monies, i believe you can do better if only you use your time wisely, stop promoting evil you fish head, listen to advice and be wise, fools only dual on egoism, the day you were born, your parents celebrates but today they regrets giving birth to you, they could have aborted you, if only they know that you will turn around to spread hates to your mother you fool, if you are normal why don't you use this thread to promote love to your parents, show them love, but i see now that you need a psychologists for proper re-examination, you call me an illustrate, am not bordered about that but let the world judge who needed help, me or you, block head


Abeg shut up, you sound so shallow. How did she promote hate or violence? how? she is sharing her story and she has the right to do so. What African culture are you talking about? How can it be ok for parents to abuse their children and people should not complain because it is un-african? SHE DID NOT SPREAD HATE IN ANY WAY, GO BACK AND READ HER POST and stop showing your ignorance and your bad English.

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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Oyindidi(f): 9:58pm On May 17, 2017
Erums:



Yeye dey smell all ova u..... Ur monika says it all... Too bad
Na you e dey smell for bodygrin
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by fart: 11:04pm On May 17, 2017
Freewoman your brain is made of frozen gutter water. See how your mouth is smelling like my moniker.
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 7:54am On May 18, 2017
fart:
Freewoman your brain is made of frozen gutter water. See how your mouth is smelling like my moniker.




I dont know why my enemies are increasing day after days in N/L, Free women is not free please

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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by amakadihot87(f): 8:03am On May 18, 2017
OmaniPadmeHum:
Some of the responses on Nairaland. The idiocy of Nigerians and the "if you talk bad about your parents curses will follow you" hogwash. There are a few parents who aren't worth it. I don't care if such a parent brought me into the world. After all what is so spectacular about the world? That you brought me into this world does not mean you should practically kill me. I did not tell you to have sex, have me and then murder me to complete the cycle of life. No Child Chooses to be Born. Some parents are violent, unreasonable, abusive and outrightly dangerous to their kids. They do things that physically and emotionally scar children for life. I know of parents that torture their kids and do all these things in the name of not sparing the rod. One tied her kid naked, beating him and rubbing pepper all over his body, then invited his friends and told them to see him all naked and tied up. Telling them to call him a thief wherever they see him. Daily, we are faced with horrible parents torturing their kids. Maiming them. Psychologically destroying them. Yet we hold on to this "parents are sacred. No matter what don't challenge them" notion. The same way we make women stay in abusive marriages because the man is the Head of the House. And because of the children bla bla bla. We are so horribly sentiment filled.

After all the beating and physical abuse, look at us. A bunch of corrupt, self centered, bigoted, prejudiced, thieving and lieing hypocritical humans who are only good at showing fake respect to elders and helping elders carry their bags. We are more concerned with how to bow down to greet and how to shake elders with two hands and every other eyeservice type attitude. Yet we are corrupt, horrible, bribe taking, power and office abusing, thieving, lieing, bad mannered, violent, demons. Our parental upbringing did not change how horribly greedy, selfish, self centered we are. Child Abuse is Child Abuse. Whether by the Parent or another adult. The US CAPTA (Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act) clearly recognizes that parents can abuse their Children and will also punish such a Parent. Unfortunately in Nigeria, we still have the backward parent can do no wrong sentiment. It is why till today, parents can accuse children of witchcraft and do all sorts to innocent young kids. Then another Modern Mary Slessor has to come save them for us again.


If this is truly the situation in your house, my advise is you move out quickly. That will end the friction. Why I say move out is because while you wait for it to get better the worse could happen. In defending yourself someone might get hurt or worse. If you are old enough to move out, try and do so. Already, it seems there are many captains in the ship already with too many cooks spoiling the broth in the galley as a matter of fact. For now, as much as possible, do obey her and don't grumble. It is a sign of disrespect. Let us assume it is a lecturer in school taking you a compulsory course, you won't give the excuses about always grumbling. Or if it was a soldier on the street your grumbling will do you more harm than good. You might need to change your attitude towards her. That she calls you names and insults you does not mean you must respond/reply. Unfortunately a lot of us don't know how to desensitize ourselves to words and insults. The only time you should
engage her is to defend yourself by trying to get away from her if she gets violent. Best solution is to try and move out.

............you are so full of wisdom

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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by younglleo: 9:18am On May 18, 2017
mainland bridge can help.jst tank me later

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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Nobody: 6:33pm On May 18, 2017
ahahnow:
My story is about my mother. I called the police on her today. She is stu.pid. I know many of you will be against me because I insulted her but that is less than she deserves. Throughout my life she has physically and verbally assaulted me. The straw that broke the camel's back happened this afternoon when she told me to go and cook rice. I started to grumble about it. This doesn't mean I wont do it. I think its something about me that automatically happens when I have to do a chore but I still get the job done and she knows it. I hate her alot and have wished many times that I would just wake up one day and she is just not there. I have tried many times to look past my grievances with her but another day will be something new. I have thought many times about moving out of the house but I do not earn enough to do so. She told me one time to go and drink poison and die one day like that. Right now, if you see me, I have patches on my head because she pulled out my hair and I have scratches all over my face. She is always using fearmogering tactics to try to get me but it only makes me angry. Why should a mother want their child to be afraid of her. It is only in my household that a mother behaves more like a disgusting, lazy, violent roommate. She complains, she does cooks all that often, she will sweep the house and leave the debris in one corner where it will stay for many months, her toilet is dirty, and she is a housewife o. she doesnt work. she sat on me today and was hitting me. When I told her I couldnt breath she said she didnt care and that is what drove me to call the police. When my dad came home she was now forming victim, crying her crocodile tears. Today, I learned some people can not be loved. God knows I tried. I feel very bad for my dad, he suffers. This is why it is dangerous to marry a girl because her makeup is nice. I advice that you marry for brains only. Find out if the girl you want to marry loves children. Inside my mother is beyond rotten. If anything happens to her today. I do not know if I will shed a tear because I do not have a good memory of her. I never have. I know I am not wrong but if I am God will judge me and deal with me, what I deserve. However, I know for dam.n sure she is not innocent. She has never cared. If not for my dad, I would have dont worse. I have never in my life raised my hand to my mother but enough was enough. Mother's day was yesterday, I am not grateful for mine. In fact if she had swolled me it would have been better. I dont know if I will ever move past this but I know that I will never trust her. angry angry angry angry angry

Whaat
i can't believe this. First time of reading/hearing a thing like this.
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 7:10pm On May 18, 2017
runsguy:


Abeg shut up, you sound so shallow. How did she promote hate or violence? how? she is sharing her story and she has the right to do so. What African culture are you talking about? How can it be ok for parents to abuse their children and people should not complain because it is un-african? SHE DID NOT SPREAD HATE IN ANY WAY, GO BACK AND READ HER POST and stop showing your ignorance and your bad English.

If what you read is good to you, may you continue to experience such in the rest of your life, may your children continue to see your corrections in their upbringing as bullying, and see your assistance to them as act of stupidity.
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 7:14pm On May 18, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
birds speak?


Anyways, my relationship with my parents is the best any child can wish for. Sorry to disappoint you

Your relationship with your parents shall permanently remain cordial, you shall never see evil, leave those that wanted to kill their parents, see them above you
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by rosieluv(f): 7:35pm On May 18, 2017
wow!! never heard of such before, I think you should leave your parents house,that's the first thing to do even if it means you have to stay with a friend or any of your family members. Just leave before she makes you do something you would regret.

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