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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Erums(m): 10:07pm On May 16, 2017 |
Lord... I almost went thru this in my childhood with my dad....... It was really serious... He always tried to deprive me frm what i love... Always and always report me to my family relative of how bad i am... Just because i love football and have a group of friends where i take the lead.... Yeah i made some wrong moves too.... I remember wen he siezed all my cloths, so i cudnt go out anymore.... I had only a trouser and a shirt for more than 6-7 months.... I begged and begged until i got fed up and started clearing farms for neighbors jyst to raise money to buy shirts..... Oh Lord.... I remember this again... Im cnt help bt sheard a tear.... I cud remember he drove me out of the hux severally... Even to the extend i was refused entry for 2months... I was putting up with my friends.... Parking sand, filling houses, clearin bushes... Jyst to survive... I eat anywhere... Lord hv mercy...... 2months out and i missed my waec ssce chemistry and physic practical before an aunt of mine got to know and started looking for up for me..... She returned me home... Only she cud.... I was really wildered..... The one tin i appreciated my dad for was concerned with my education... He payed my fees... And other family responsibility... But i had no live... Until i grew stronger in mind... Dat one time i defended my sis.... I nearly fought bk wen he beat ny sis mercilessly.... He told he whole family that me and my sis fought him.....i cnt say alot i passed thru.... I was an outlaw in da hux...... Im grateful to God now... Im grown, graduated, working class.. Independent... Now someway, somehow.... We talk often as family..... I see everytin he did den made me stronger... I cant even tell alot... because my mum is late and my step mum cant even save cos she doesnt hv a say....... I realli suffered humiliation, reject, abuse, frm frnds, shame of no home to regard as mine.... I goto the football pitch to meet my peers... Bt dnt return home as dey all do..... Op... U need to be strong.... Face ur education... Its ur sure ticket outta dat hux... Ot else u got anoda and u will survive...... Qn 2012...i graduated frm uni... 2.1...imediately got into service baych A.... Thats how story change.... Go ; only wen needed or once a year..... The regard is now coming... Send dem money at intervals..... Im happi... I still love him dearly.... All he did nearly killed me but made me stronger... Thou i vowed not to treat my kids that way.....bt the memorys live on as part of me but will not be used to judge dem.... Pls love ur mum.... Love her frm within... I begg of u.... I dnt have a mum... I never knee her.. Thus no motherly feelings... U talked abt mothers day... I never wished my real mum happi mothers day... I wished my step mum and ulmy unkles wife... So u see.... Your love might change her... Create an inner peace eithin urself... Do the chores witot being told... Donot succumb to what shes says abt u... Innerly always know ure different.... Dats all i can say... I LOVE MY DAD.... ITS BEST FOR ME TO.... NO MATTER WHAT..... ONELOV PPLE... Forgive my typos... ![]() ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by runsguy: 11:52pm On May 16, 2017 |
Erums: Wow, wow, wow, this one reach to write a book o, honestly u should consider sharing your story thru a book, I think you have a lot to tell. Our parents generation were very harsh in terms of parenting but that was their own concept of discipline. As for me, my kids will get all the love and support. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by YoungBlackRico(m): 5:55am On May 17, 2017 |
Bumbae1:Yeah, don't even know what to say. I wouldn't want even a fly to touch mine, and here's someone who doesn't want hers around. Pretty sad, and I feel bad for op ![]() *Hi, been a while. Do have a lovely day Mami ![]() ©YBR |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 1:02pm On May 17, 2017 |
ahahnow: Your plan was to ban me when you posted un-educated issues here, it is a shame, completely show of shame, you deliberately insight people to be violent to their mothers, you never thought of an un-African issues and the damages it caused, next time, you most learn to post things that could not cause negative issues in public domain, YOU MUST BE BANNED FROM N/L FOREVER My story is about my mother. I called the police on her today. She is stu.pid. I know many of you will be against me because I insulted her but that is less than she deserves. Throughout my life she has physically and verbally assaulted me. The straw that broke the camel's back happened this afternoon when she told me to go and cook rice. I started to grumble about it. This doesn't mean I wont do it. I think its something about me that automatically happens when I have to do a chore but I still get the job done and she knows it. I hate her alot and have wished many times that I would just wake up one day and she is just not there. I have tried many times to look past my grievances with her but another day will be something new. I have thought many times about moving out of the house but I do not earn enough to do so. She told me one time to go and drink poison and die one day like that. Right now, if you see me, I have patches on my head because she pulled out my hair and I have scratches all over my face. She is always using fearmogering tactics to try to get me but it only makes me angry. Why should a mother want their child to be afraid of her. It is only in my household that a mother behaves more like a disgusting, lazy, violent roommate. She complains, she does cooks all that often, she will sweep the house and leave the debris in one corner where it will stay for many months, her toilet is dirty, and she is a housewife o. she doesnt work. she sat on me today and was hitting me. When I told her I couldnt breath she said she didnt care and that is what drove me to call the police. When my dad came home she was now forming victim, crying her crocodile tears. Today, I learned some people can not be loved. God knows I tried. I feel very bad for my dad, he suffers. This is why it is dangerous to marry a girl because her makeup is nice. I advice that you marry for brains only. Find out if the girl you want to marry loves children. Inside my mother is beyond rotten. If anything happens to her today. I do not know if I will shed a tear because I do not have a good memory of her. I never have. I know I am not wrong but if I am God will judge me and deal with me, what I deserve. However, I know for dam.n sure she is not innocent. She has never cared. If not for my dad, I would have dont worse. I have never in my life raised my hand to my mother but enough was enough. Mother's day was yesterday, I am not grateful for mine. In fact if she had swolled me it would have been better. I dont know if I will ever move past this but I know that I will never trust her. angry angry angry angry angry (Quote) (Report) 2 Likes (Like) 2 Shares (Share) 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 1:08pm On May 17, 2017 |
solasolasola: What sin did i commit here that brought headache to you, the story line was so insensitive, in-sighting people on hatred, violent and many more, this is not an African style and will never be, N/L has a rule and all must respect, My story is about my mother. I called the police on her today. She is stu.pid. I know many of you will be against me because I insulted her but that is less than she deserves. Throughout my life she has physically and verbally assaulted me. The straw that broke the camel's back happened this afternoon when she told me to go and cook rice. I started to grumble about it. This doesn't mean I wont do it. I think its something about me that automatically happens when I have to do a chore but I still get the job done and she knows it. I hate her alot and have wished many times that I would just wake up one day and she is just not there. I have tried many times to look past my grievances with her but another day will be something new. I have thought many times about moving out of the house but I do not earn enough to do so. She told me one time to go and drink poison and die one day like that. Right now, if you see me, I have patches on my head because she pulled out my hair and I have scratches all over my face. She is always using fearmogering tactics to try to get me but it only makes me angry. Why should a mother want their child to be afraid of her. It is only in my household that a mother behaves more like a disgusting, lazy, violent roommate. She complains, she does cooks all that often, she will sweep the house and leave the debris in one corner where it will stay for many months, her toilet is dirty, and she is a housewife o. she doesnt work. she sat on me today and was hitting me. When I told her I couldnt breath she said she didnt care and that is what drove me to call the police. When my dad came home she was now forming victim, crying her crocodile tears. Today, I learned some people can not be loved. God knows I tried. I feel very bad for my dad, he suffers. This is why it is dangerous to marry a girl because her makeup is nice. I advice that you marry for brains only. Find out if the girl you want to marry loves children. Inside my mother is beyond rotten. If anything happens to her today. I do not know if I will shed a tear because I do not have a good memory of her. I never have. I know I am not wrong but if I am God will judge me and deal with me, what I deserve. However, I know for dam.n sure she is not innocent. She has never cared. If not for my dad, I would have dont worse. I have never in my life raised my hand to my mother but enough was enough. Mother's day was yesterday, I am not grateful for mine. In fact if she had swolled me it would have been better. I dont know if I will ever move past this but I know that I will never trust her. angry angry angry angry angry (Quote) (Report) 2 Likes (Like) 2 Shares (Share) |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by ahahnow: 3:23pm On May 17, 2017 |
You are dumb. Here you are bashing me for being shameless yet you exposed your illiteracy by slandering me. Telling people I do drugs this and that. You should be permanently banned. You are a vegetable. Please go and join your gang in the deaf and dumb community. Thanks quote author=Freewoman post=56605632] Your plan was to ban me when you posted un-educated issues here, it is a shame, completely show of shame, you deliberately insight people to be violent to their mothers, you never thought of an un-African issues and the damages it caused, next time, you most learn to post things that could not cause negative issues in public domain, YOU MUST BE BANNED FROM N/L FOREVER My story is about my mother. I called the police on her today. She is stu.pid. I know many of you will be against me because I insulted her but that is less than she deserves. Throughout my life she has physically and verbally assaulted me. The straw that broke the camel's back happened this afternoon when she told me to go and cook rice. I started to grumble about it. This doesn't mean I wont do it. I think its something about me that automatically happens when I have to do a chore but I still get the job done and she knows it. I hate her alot and have wished many times that I would just wake up one day and she is just not there. I have tried many times to look past my grievances with her but another day will be something new. I have thought many times about moving out of the house but I do not earn enough to do so. She told me one time to go and drink poison and die one day like that. Right now, if you see me, I have patches on my head because she pulled out my hair and I have scratches all over my face. She is always using fearmogering tactics to try to get me but it only makes me angry. Why should a mother want their child to be afraid of her. It is only in my household that a mother behaves more like a disgusting, lazy, violent roommate. She complains, she does cooks all that often, she will sweep the house and leave the debris in one corner where it will stay for many months, her toilet is dirty, and she is a housewife o. she doesnt work. she sat on me today and was hitting me. When I told her I couldnt breath she said she didnt care and that is what drove me to call the police. When my dad came home she was now forming victim, crying her crocodile tears. Today, I learned some people can not be loved. God knows I tried. I feel very bad for my dad, he suffers. This is why it is dangerous to marry a girl because her makeup is nice. I advice that you marry for brains only. Find out if the girl you want to marry loves children. Inside my mother is beyond rotten. If anything happens to her today. I do not know if I will shed a tear because I do not have a good memory of her. I never have. I know I am not wrong but if I am God will judge me and deal with me, what I deserve. However, I know for dam.n sure she is not innocent. She has never cared. If not for my dad, I would have dont worse. I have never in my life raised my hand to my mother but enough was enough. Mother's day was yesterday, I am not grateful for mine. In fact if she had swolled me it would have been better. I dont know if I will ever move past this but I know that I will never trust her. angry angry angry angry angry (Quote) (Report) 2 Likes (Like) 2 Shares (Share)[/quote] |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Nobody: 4:00pm On May 17, 2017 |
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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Nobody: 5:06pm On May 17, 2017 |
Erums: No, your typos are unforgivable... I should drive you from Nairaland so it would make you strong... Lol... Just kidding,,,, You tried, but doesn't make your daddy any less mean 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Nobody: 5:18pm On May 17, 2017 |
keep arguing and commenting rubbish some parents are enough curses to their children I know of a man who drugs his own daughter then rapes her when she falls asleep and the man is a nurse, so many children pass through worse conditions and they chose to hide these so they don't bring shame, disgrace and total isolation of the certain family from members of the community |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 5:51pm On May 17, 2017 |
Your mates were out there doing research and inventions and you are here promoting hates, My little son , why are you wasting your youthful age, still feeding from your parents, living under their shelter, asking uncles for advance monies, i believe you can do better if only you use your time wisely, stop promoting evil you fish head, listen to advice and be wise, fools only dual on egoism, the day you were born, your parents celebrates but today they regrets giving birth to you, they could have aborted you, if only they know that you will turn around to spread hates to your mother you fool, if you are normal why don't you use this thread to promote love to your parents, show them love, but i see now that you need a psychologists for proper re-examination, you call me an illustrate, am not bordered about that but let the world judge who needed help, me or you, block head ahahnow: |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Nobody: 6:03pm On May 17, 2017 |
Freewoman: You sound like you know him on person |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Erums(m): 6:33pm On May 17, 2017 |
Jkfc: Lol.... Hilarious |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Nobody: 6:39pm On May 17, 2017 |
Why are you taking the dude's post so personal? Why you seem so pained? What's the post for to do with you? Why not leave him alone and let those with helpful contributions comment Freewoman: |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 7:51pm On May 17, 2017 |
Jacksparr0w127: When the bird of same feather speaks............................... it sounds like above |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 7:53pm On May 17, 2017 |
Jkfc: Yes I do................................... |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Nobody: 7:54pm On May 17, 2017 |
Freewoman:birds speak? Anyways, my relationship with my parents is the best any child can wish for. Sorry to disappoint you |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Oyindidi(f): 8:09pm On May 17, 2017 |
Erums:Oboi your English no be here ![]() And you graduate with 2.1 ![]() |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Akinwale14(m): 8:15pm On May 17, 2017 |
Mehn this one na 1 chance oo,guy sha no vex beat ur mum to death oo,just move out and find work to do ok. |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Erums(m): 8:24pm On May 17, 2017 |
Oyindidi: Pls will u pls shut up...i already said forgive my typos... Does it mean i cant arrangement them properly... This is an informal platform... And i choose to write informally in as much the message is passed... Im cool.... So get a life.... Or get a job. |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Oyindidi(f): 8:31pm On May 17, 2017 |
Erums:E mabinu but this your typo no be here |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Akinwale14(m): 8:31pm On May 17, 2017 |
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Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Erums(m): 8:33pm On May 17, 2017 |
Oyindidi: Yeye dey smell all ova u..... Ur monika says it all... Too bad |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by runsguy: 9:07pm On May 17, 2017 |
Freewoman: Abeg shut up, you sound so shallow. How did she promote hate or violence? how? she is sharing her story and she has the right to do so. What African culture are you talking about? How can it be ok for parents to abuse their children and people should not complain because it is un-african? SHE DID NOT SPREAD HATE IN ANY WAY, GO BACK AND READ HER POST and stop showing your ignorance and your bad English. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Oyindidi(f): 9:58pm On May 17, 2017 |
Erums:Na you e dey smell for body ![]() |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by fart: 11:04pm On May 17, 2017 |
Freewoman your brain is made of frozen gutter water. See how your mouth is smelling like my moniker. |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 7:54am On May 18, 2017 |
fart: I dont know why my enemies are increasing day after days in N/L, Free women is not free please 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by amakadihot87(f): 8:03am On May 18, 2017 |
OmaniPadmeHum:............you are so full of wisdom 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by younglleo: 9:18am On May 18, 2017 |
mainland bridge can help.jst tank me later 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Nobody: 6:33pm On May 18, 2017 |
ahahnow: Whaat ![]() i can't believe this. First time of reading/hearing a thing like this. |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 7:10pm On May 18, 2017 |
runsguy: If what you read is good to you, may you continue to experience such in the rest of your life, may your children continue to see your corrections in their upbringing as bullying, and see your assistance to them as act of stupidity. |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by Freewoman(f): 7:14pm On May 18, 2017 |
Jacksparr0w127: Your relationship with your parents shall permanently remain cordial, you shall never see evil, leave those that wanted to kill their parents, see them above you |
Re: I Want To Share My Story. Some People Can Not Be Loved by rosieluv(f): 7:35pm On May 18, 2017 |
wow!! never heard of such before, I think you should leave your parents house,that's the first thing to do even if it means you have to stay with a friend or any of your family members. Just leave before she makes you do something you would regret. |
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