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Please I need a serious advice here. its lengthy but please endure and to help u advise me properly. There is girl her elder bros ( my friend, though he came to ask my close female friend hand in marriage and that was how we knew each other ).He linked us together cos he wanted me to marry his sister due to he liked my kind of person and am really searching and ready to settle down. so I started communicating with the sister, we communicated like more than a month, I do the major calling, sent her card on Mather's day, even though we have not seen each other. so I told her I would like us to meet in April, she accepted. luckly for me I got opportunity from the place of my work to travel down east for a wedding. that faithful week and morning I never new I could make the journey. so I called the faithful morning and greeted her. after getting off the phone with her, I was immediately informed that we are leaving that morning for the wedding. so tried calling her back to inform her that I will be coming to east finally so we could see. this girl didn't pick my calls throughout that day, I even sent her a text that can we meet at onitsha, no reply. though I got to aba late called but she didn't pick. I sent her a text that am longer in onitsha , that am now in aba, that was when she finally picked up. I inquired why she treated me that way, she said she doesn't like people taking her unawares and she is not prepared to see me(she has already told me earlier that she isnt in any serious relationship). I said OK fine am sorry and I explained why it was like that. I begged her that let me see her own my way back on Sunday, she refused. she said she would be in their village by Sunday, I pleaded I don't mind driving down to her village just for her to see me briefly. she said she doesn't know. despite all my explanations and pleading, this girl didn't pick up my calls the whole Saturday, and Sunday till I got to my base. though I sent her some text on Saturday night that her not picking up calls is childish and she replied thank u. at my base we got talking back, I pretended that nothing happened and waiting for her to show remorse but none came. luckly for me we got talking one day and she wasn't happy and I asked her what was the problem, she should share with me. lol, she told me she was broke and needed some money, I laughed in mg mind. I waved it off and the next day she asked that I didn't even say anything after telling me her problem. I said OK I will do something. the next day she said xup. I now came out plane that I would have loved to give her money but I can't because of 1) what she did to me and no sign of remorse and apology 2) we haven't see each other to know if we really like our physical appearances and talk a few word about how to go forward. she explained that she stays with her parent and that she doesn't have any excuse to leave house and that she needed time to prepare for my visit but I took her unaware. she apologised . she said I should not worry that she would create a better time for us to see. I said OK. the next day she asked me about the money, I didn't even reply her chats, she called the hell out of my phone I didn't pick. after some days, I responded and told her I was busy, she said OK what about the money? I asked how much. 15k. that she needed it to solve a problem. I said OK, I told her blunt I don't have , she said OK that I should borrow her that she will pay back. I sent her the screen shot of my account balance. she some how believed I don't really have. ever since den, our communications became frosty, it takes her time to reply my chats, if I call, she picks up when she likes. most times she doesnt even pick. I became tired. I complained again, that I cant take this from her , that if she doesn't want me, she should spell it out and let me stop disturbing her. she said that she doesn't like my impatient (she is 22 by age). I asked what does impatient got to do with this. you treating me like a kid and wants me to patients?. I told her I won't bother her with calls again and I will allow her be. so I stopped calling and chatting with her. after few days she started she chatted me up and I didn't reply , again and again, then later I did. and we started chatting , I used the opportunity to profess more love and my intentions to her, along the line she asked me to start calling her again which I did. but just recently she stopped picking up my calls and replying chats. this has happened for the past two days. please should I leave her and move on ? or should I report her to his bros? I really do like her and want to build a life with her. but I don't give a shit ,. please I need serious advice . sorry for the lengthy wright up just for my readers to get better details that with help their judgement . thanks.

Fvckk!! dude...

You expect me to read the pile of bullshhitt!!

Bros from my own understanding she is not interested in u. methinks she has someone else. am glad you didn't fall maga to her. just free her jare. but if you want to wait and understudy her better you can do so, but my friend don't give her any cash. thread with caution. the small gal believe she has ample time on her hand. so she can always search for husband. just be car

Bros from my own understanding she is not interested in u. methinks she has someone else. am glad you didn't fall maga to her. just free her jare. but if you want to wait and understudy her better you can do so, but my friend don't give her any cash. thread with caution. the small gal believe she has ample time on her hand. so she can always search for husband. just be careful

y do you have to comment if you know you can't read the right up. you are one of the people killing out reading habit .

She isn't into you as much as you're into her.

BiafraBushBoy:
Fvckk!! dude...

You expect me to read the pile of bullshhitt!!

Do you have to be this childish, how old are you ?

thanks @serengroup. God bless u

Quick question

have u got to see her in person?

This long epistle cos of a girl

Guys, I think its time we learn how to prioritize things in our life.

I came to Abj this evening for a seminar tomorrow, I'm staying at my girlfriend's place. I tried to touch her this night and she started acting up, I jejely carry one pillow enter floor. Life is too short for unnecessary things.

Let me accomplish my mission here first, before any other thing.

thanks kimbra

Wait wait!! You are ready to settle down yet you don't have 15k in your account or you just don't want to give her. Which one

Limescale:
Do you have to be this childish, how old are you ?

I will appreciate if you don't quote me online again.

Thanks in anticipation.

kimbra:
She isn't into you as much as you're into her.

Sup...

Now it's gonna be like .... yea... that's how I act!!

Pls Sir move to someone else...
Talking about seeing her,why not tell her to send you her PIC on WhatsApp or Facebook

I'm getting the impression that she might be trying to use you(maybe she likes you but she doesn't love you, there's a difference). If you say you don't have the money that she asked for and you showed her the proof, i don't understand why she would act up and stop talking to you because of that.

BiafraBushBoy:
Sup...

Now it's gonna be like .... yea... that's how I act!!

Of course, that's how you act. No excuses.

sorry for that. she declined the first attempt of seeing her in person. and she has not given room for the second attempt either, rather, all I see is not replying chats and not picking calls. I can't give cash to whom I have never set my eye on. even last week she asked me to scratch her airtime , I did (200). but she never called me with it. should I talk to her elder brother?

dollyjoy:
Wait wait!! You are ready to settle down yet you don't have 15k in your account or you just don't want to give her. Which one

And you where expecting him to dish out 15k to her after being treated in that manner just 'cause he wants so settle down?.

she has sent me pictures and even video of her severally but I don't still understand her acting up

kimbra:
And you where expecting him to dish out 15k to her after being treated in that manner just 'cause he wants so settle down?.

Was referring to the screenshots he supposedly send to her.

manNature:
sorry for that. she declined the first attempt of seeing her in person. and she has not given room for the second attempt either, rather, all I see is not replying chats and not picking calls. I can't give cash to whom I have never set my eye on. even last week she asked me to scratch her airtime , I did (200). but she never called me with it. should I talk to her elder brother?

i fail to see why and how u would love a girl u havent met in person but then again it happens everywhere even here on nl


dude just move on to the next girl and ermm try talking to ur bros too


anyways.....

kimbra:
Of course, that's how you act. No excuses.

I left you a msg and no reply before phn got bad and I am in a fix!!

Using a modem for lappy... I just got it today.

Phn dpesn't send mgs. I already told ya!

How am I gonna do it?

Limescale:

Hope you respect my decision!

Have a good night. No need to respond!

#Peace.

Davash222:
This long epistle cos of a girl

Guys, I think its time we learn how to prioritize things in our life.

I came to Abj this evening for a seminar tomorrow, I'm staying at my girlfriend's place. I tried to touch her this night and she started acting up, I jejely carry one pillow enter floor. Life is too short for unnecessary things.

Let me accomplish my mission here first, before any other thing.

Is touching her part of the Seminar preparations??

Sharp buddy!!! I gat your back homeboy

BiafraBushBoy:
I left you a msg and no reply before phn got bad and I am in a fix!!

Using a modem for lappy... I just got it today.

Phn dpesn't send mgs. I already told ya!

How am I gonna do it?

Forget it.

kimbra:
Forget it.

You don't say that!!

I already got that stuff by the time I promised to!!

What am I gonna do with it?? Chew it or what??

Come on dear...

BiafraBushBoy:
Is touching her part of the Seminar preparations??
Sharp buddy!!! I gat your back homeboy

Lols. Bro, its all about priority.

BiafraBushBoy:
Hope you respect my decision!

Have a good night. No need to respond!

#Peace.

Your decision?

Davash222:
Lols. Bro, its all about priority.

Lol... I understand you buddy!!

An old man said.... "Life is too short to polish my shoes when it is still gonna get dirty in the next few mins"

Trust me, I have always saved five minutes every day because I don't polish my shoes again .

Talk less of wasting time on some bullshit!!