Toks2008:
I guess this one is too controversial but it does make great sense.

when you don't have sense, a lot of things make sense to you

cococandy:
when you don't have sense, a lot of things make sense to you

Sometimes I sit and marvel at the shallow mindset and reasoning of some ladies....is it that you lack the minimal ability to communicate intelligently or you are just plain myopic?

Your two comments so far made no dint of sense but just abuses and to make mattes worse you are a big hypocrite advising a lady to allow her man commit adultery for relative peace to reign while coming here to rant and curse an objective reasoning without any intelligent contribution. . may GOD have mercy on your brain and I pity that unfortunate man that will make you a wife...I cant stand dumb ladies

Or you're a dumb ass. How about that?
I'll go for that option.

Obviously sarcasm is lost on you.
That's how dumb you are.

Toks2008:


Sometimes I sit and marvel at the shallow mindset and reasoning of some ladies....is it that you lack the minimal ability to communicate intelligently or you are just plain myopic?

Your two comments so far made no dint of sense but just abuses and to make mattes worse you are a big hypocrite advising a lady to allow her man commit adultery for relative peace to reign while coming here to rant and curse an objective reasoning without any intelligent contribution. . may GOD have mercy on your brain and I pity that unfortunate man that will make you a wife...I cant stand dumb ladies

cococandy:
Or you're a dumb ass. How about that?
I'll go for that option.

Obviously sarcasm is lost on you.
That's how dumb you are.

No gal.. it's no sarcasm but an honest advice just that when it comes to being abusive you lose your mind rather than think first

The same way I wrote a piece sometime ago...

https://www.nairaland.com/3290032/13-hypocrisies-idiosyncrasies-polygamy

You just gave a peace initiating advice as explained on the third point on that thread as attached...but many of your type asked for my head when that piece made front page.

The problem with many people is the lack of cognitive ability to reason outside the box,the ability to be objective and have unbiased views to issues.

Please let me beg you...I am a sapiosexual person and people like us will never come near your type and if we mistakenly do we will dump you in a flash. ..we are not interested in a slay queen without brains...curse less...think more and discuss intelligently so that you can be valued among seasoned people...

Nuff said

RabbaRabbi:
You this guy? You don carry your lies come here abi?

I have been observing this Op for some time now and come to concluded that his threads are nothing more than a trash misleading those that don't know the bible.

True christains, be ware of this op, he's an antichrist

The bible says study to show yourself approved..
Why dont you counter his conments or opinion with relevants scriptures. Thats how to do it, then others will also gain from you. But right now you have never made any point.

Some people can really miscontrue scriptures to suit themselves and what they do.
But let's even say the Bible does not support a woman divorcing an adulterous husband, times and seasons have changed and a lot of things that would be tolerated in the past, would not be today.
Most modern Nigerian women will pass.

Princewell2012:


The bible says study to show yourself approved..
Why dont you counter his conments or opinion with revevants scriptures. Thats how to do it, then others will also gain from you. But right now you have never made any point.

GOD BLESS YOU REAL GOOD!

I'm honestly aghast with the way many people make contributions on issues expecially on naira land. ..

Imagine my first paragraph explaining My stands on adultery yet they blinded their eye to that and rather than make us learn from them,they would rather curse and rant....

I keep asking what could be responsible for this shallow mindedness.

Just carefully go through the pages of this insightful thread and it will amaze you that those who rant and curse made no aorta of meaningful contribution...I weep for some people reasoning faculty.

Toks2008:


Comments like this makes me roll on the floor laughing my ass out.

Please how on earth do some ladies reason..in fact many ladies need to be caned and you need serious caning for this ignorant post...OK biko make I ask you...

Is there a way of stopping any man from cheating?

Even if you leave a philandering guy can you stay without stay wtout s.x as long as you live?

So what is the assurance that the new guy sef no be serious God father of philanderers?

See all these ignorant comments from babies who think they understand what it takes to weather the reality of man woman affair cracks me up...

Make I advise you miss or Mrs Alice in wonder land When you get married and incase your hubby cheats on you please leave him fast and carefully look for a decent guy who won't cheat on you and just in case the new guy cheats on you just leave him again as fast as you can and this time really take your time to look for a real man that won't cheat and if at all the third guy does same just leave the idea of marriage and start sleeping with yourself.

Better receive the sense you need now and stop your childish fantasy....

.... when it's not a must to remarry after separation...

mercy232:
.... when it's not a must to remarry after separation...

I wonder o...the lady should kuku remain single but she must not sleep with any man o cos that will be adultery or fornication and self service sef must not be done by her cos people say it's a big sin and lesbianism is out of it.

If your husband cheats and you have done everything possible to make him change, if he doesn't change you don't need the scripture to tell you to "LEAVE" my sister you need common sense.. Pls don't quote me oooo if you are one of dos people weh put religion for head like dada.

Toks2008:


I wonder o...the lady should kuku remain single but she must not sleep with any man o cos that will be adultery or fornication and self service sef must not be done by her cos people say it's a big sin and lesbianism is out of it.

yes o she must not sleep with anybody because misogynistic toks2008 said so.

If a husband who professes to be a Christian decides to commit adultery (a sin); a wife who professes to be a Christian can also decide to divorce him ('sin 1') and remarry ('sin 2').

Both parties will be judged separately on the last day.

I honestly wonder how we can condemn a part of the coon when we intend or are currently doing the other.

If OP who professes to be a Christian cannot speak out against adultery and instead is teaching wives how to accommodate their husband's wanderings, I can only conclude he is a 'Nigerian' Christian serving the 'Nigerian' God.

Odiegwu.

(I have never seen a thread of his on how to accommodate a wife's adultery)

Toks2008:


I wonder o...the lady should kuku remain single but she must not sleep with any man o cos that will be adultery or fornication and self service sef must not be done by her cos people say it's a big sin and lesbianism is out of it.

Isn't this a joke?

Do husbands go to hell for adultery? I don't think so.

Adulterous husbands in the making, just marry wives from Toks church. He would have doctrinated them enough to accept your wanderings.

Phew. I was being sarcastic with the so called 'Advice'.
Even after telling you sarcasm is lost on you, you still don't understand what I meant.
Gosh. Smh

Dumdum.

Toks2008:


No gal.. it's no sarcasm but an honest advice just that when it comes to being abusive you lose your mind rather than think first

The same way I wrote a piece sometime ago...

https://www.nairaland.com/3290032/13-hypocrisies-idiosyncrasies-polygamy

You just gave a peace initiating advice as explained on the third point on that thread as attached...but many of your type asked for my head when that piece made front page.

The problem with many people is the lack of cognitive ability to reason outside the box,the ability to be objective and have unbiased views to issues.

Please let me beg you...I am a sapiosexual person and people like us will never come near your type and if we mistakenly do we will dump you in a flash. ..we are not interested in a slay queen without brains...curse less...think more and discuss intelligently so that you can be valued among seasoned people...

Nuff said

Toks2008:


GOD BLESS YOU REAL GOOD!

I'm honestly aghast with the way many people make contributions on issues expecially on naira land. ..

Imagine my first paragraph explaining My stands on adultery yet they blinded their eye to that and rather than make us learn from them,they would rather curse and rant....

I keep asking what could be responsible for this shallow mindedness.

Just carefully go through the pages of this insightful thread and it will amaze you that those who rant and curse made no aorta of meaningful contribution...I weep for some people reasoning faculty.

Yes i have been on nairaland for long and these always been there responds. And i don't always like to go on religion section just because of it.
Believe me it is more than a month i visited this section. You will never learn anything, it has just been bashing, railing insulting and abusing just name it.


It is not a force to comment, if you don't know it, good allow others who are good or capable to reply them. I believe there is always answer to a very question, and there are those who knows it. Rather than abusing the person. And that is very very pathetic. Defending God very blinding is very very bad and you re not making God proud. And that is what BoKo haram were doing.

Good evening.

Princewell2012:


Yes i have been on nairaland for long and these always been there responds. And i don't always like to go on religion section just because of it.
Believe me it is more than a month i visited this section. You will never learn anything, it has just been bashing, railing insulting and abusing just name it.


It is not a force to comment, if you don't know it, good allow others who are good or capable to reply them. I believe there is always answer to a very question, and there are those who knows it. Rather than abusing the person. And that is very very pathetic. Defending God very blinding is very very bad and you re not making God proud. And that is what BoKo haram were doing.

Good evening.

cc cococandy

Key word Permit
If it needed God's permission, then it wouldn't be happening.
More aptly put:
Should a Christian or Moslem divorce an adultererous husband?

The answer is No. Pray for him to change his ways or get counseling from church or parental figures.

frosbel2:

100% trash

THE PHARISEES ALSO CALLED IT TRASH IN THE DAYS OF CHRIST.

sarahade:

If she sleeps around because her husband is a cheat go and beat her.
Omoale rada rada

ashawo jati jati who born you ?

cococandy:
Phew. I was being sarcastic with the so called 'Advice'.
Even after telling you sarcasm is lost on you, you still don't understand what I meant.
Gosh. Smh

Dumdum.

Why are you always angry ?

CAMNEWTON4PRES:


Why are you always angry ?

it's hard to deal with foolishness without getting angry

CAMNEWTON4PRES:
ashawo jati jati who born you ?

Yes I'm ashawo come and beat me. Mtcheeeeeeeew
Omo irankiran

sarahade:

Yes I'm ashawo come and beat me. Mtcheeeeeeeew
Omo irankiran

U dey confirm ur work ashawo. U see u like troubles. Na trouble go kill u