Rukkydelta:
@Preccy69
I will advise you not to be involve in a relationship if you are not ready to have sex cos most guys of these days can't do without it females too. When you know you are ready for marriage or close to the age you want to get married then you can date. Even for you to be in a relationship is not advisable cause you may not be able to overcome the temptation cos you can't love someone without getting sexually attracted to them. From a kiss, it will lead to body touches before you can say jack sex has happened
If you want to stay celibate still marriage stay away from relationships for now

ok,thanks,I was very conscious, I thank God

smardray:
He could jst have left even when u had offered him sex.... Darling get on with good life

its d reason I can't start having sex now

dingbang:
be careful of such guys... They are only pretenders

Lols y nah

Rukkydelta:
@Preccy69
I will advise you not to be involve in a relationship if you are not ready to have sex cos most guys of these days can't do without it females too. When you know you are ready for marriage or close to the age you want to get married then you can date. Even for you to be in a relationship is not advisable cause you may not be able to overcome the temptation cos you can't love someone without getting sexually attracted to them. From a kiss, it will lead to body touches before you can say jack sex has happened
If you want to stay celibate still marriage stay away from relationships for now

Rukky what of when she is ready to get married & she is unable to find any hubby again, b\cos she has used her no sex policy to chase away her intending suitors ,what do u think 'll be her plight then.

Headlesschicken:
are you a virgin? if you r nt ready 4sex den u gotta learn how to stay on yuh own,or Berra still learn ow to gv head or do @nal... my humble advice that's if yuh a virgin tho,buh if u ain't then stop decieving yuhself... No one falls 4dt oath sh!t anymore..

I thank God I didn't try d oath or even sex,its d reason I don't want to start naw

preccy69:
he still wanted sex

You're still young and beautiful, so you still got time. Bone that dude and move on...
But I wouldn't advise going into another relationship if you ain't ready for sex, guys will always say anything for you to agree to their proposal, but finally finally they'll still ask for s3x

preccy69:
yea all dat happened, he was just being him

If he had indeed fukced your nyansh, and you had made him cuum left right and center, then he wouldn't be desperate for sex again.

preccy69:
ok,thanks,I was very conscious, I thank God

You are welcome dear
Good luck. Just focus on how to make your future better for now

MrBrownJay1:


If he had indeed fukced your nyansh, and you had made him cuum left right and center, then he wouldn't be desperate for sex again.

Hi dear
Anal sex,MouthAction are still sexual activities. It's not about keeping the hermen or avoiding front penetration,it is all about abstinence

preccy69:
Lols y nah

you seem to be naive..

1234IKECHhukwu:
Rukky what of when she is ready to get married & she is unable to find any hubby again, b\cos she has used her no sex policy to chase away her intending suitors ,what do u think 'll be her plight then.

You always look for a way to attack my post, why?
And what's the probability of what you are saying possible?
How many guys approach ladies below the age of 23 for a serious that can lead to relationship marriage? Please answer this question sincerely

at 19 u still a baby
u never grow boobi yet...
ur ukwu is yet to grow
ur hips never develop...
and u talking of buoyfwends and sex
hmmm all these indomie pickins sef

Baby Goan Repent Jesus Loves U more than anyone...U are still a teenager hope u know that??...u never reach Bang sef...abi do u want the guy 2 kill u with biggg kassava??

preccy69:
its d reason I can't start having sex now

u ar beautiful... U need more effort to resist that?... Goodluck on ur way

There are good guys out there...Just text me ur contact so we start off immediately..

preccy69:
I don't knw hw to start,ok
am just 19,we've been dating for a year nd six months now,we r crazily in love,I think I love him more,recently he's been acting strange no love texts messages,kisses, nd all d things he used to do,I miss d man I fell in love with, he's changed everything about him,so I went to see him on Saturday, nd he was on bed with another girl,he didn't even notice dat I opened door till I shut,den he came after me,he's 24,up to dis moment I can't bliv he cheated on me truth is we r nt having sex I asked if he could wait till after marriage nd he was cool with it,I confronted him nd all he could say was how long was I expecting him to stay,without sex,guys is it fair??u have a girl dat loves nd respects u,cares for u,its nt like he even asked me for it,I feel so hurt,he's been banging her for months nw,but is it all about d sex u guys getis itu myt b thinking dat it has to do with money but its doesn't I just wanted to b happy with him,dats all,we were close to taking an oath last year,but cos of his exams he couldn't come,he later convinced me to drop d idea my question is, are their good guys,is it all about a pair of legs dat spread

preccy69:
I don't knw hw to start,ok
am just 19,we've been dating for a year nd six months now,we r crazily in love,I think I love him more,recently he's been acting strange no love texts messages,kisses, nd all d things he used to do,I miss d man I fell in love with, he's changed everything about him,so I went to see him on Saturday, nd he was on bed with another girl,he didn't even notice dat I opened door till I shut,den he came after me,he's 24,up to dis moment I can't bliv he cheated on me truth is we r nt having sex I asked if he could wait till after marriage nd he was cool with it,I confronted him nd all he could say was how long was I expecting him to stay,without sex,guys is it fair??u have a girl dat loves nd respects u,cares for u,its nt like he even asked me for it,I feel so hurt,he's been banging her for months nw,but is it all about d sex u guys getis itu myt b thinking dat it has to do with money but its doesn't I just wanted to b happy with him,dats all,we were close to taking an oath last year,but cos of his exams he couldn't come,he later convinced me to drop d idea my question is, are their good guys,is it all about a pair of legs dat spread

...so u askin us if we want punnnny... correct?....wait..let me tink!!

Rukkydelta:

You always look for a way to attack my post, why?
And what's the probability of what you are saying possible?
How many guys approach ladies below the age of 23 for a serious that can lead to relationship marriage? Please answer this question sincerely

Rukky I attack u b/cos I think I like u with all sincerity even though I don't know u personally,but ur choice of words have made me got attracted to u & for the probability of what m saying being possible if u look around u 'll see ladies in their late 20's & early 30's still single do u know why they are still single not b/cos no one came for them in their early years but b/cos of the kind of decision OP decided to make for herself not considering her partner whom she is in the same relationship with,how can u tell someone to be in a relationship with u & not give them some sort of physical pleasure. I see it as hypocrisy to the highest order if u no ur not ready for sex pls stay away from relationships.& for ur last question I have seen young ladies get married at the age 18/19 the earlier a lady get's married the better for her.

preccy69:
he shouldn't have lied about waiting

You already made the decision for him. Next time you ask "what are your views on so and so subject"

All generalities are wrong.. Every person is different, their priorities, expectations and behaviors are different. And most people do not act rationally, I think.

1234IKECHhukwu:
Rukky I attack u b/cos I think I like u with all sincerity even though I don't know u personally,but ur choice of words have made me got attracted to u & for the probability of what m saying being possible if u look around u 'll see ladies in their late 20's & early 30's still single do u know why they are still single not b/cos no one came for them in their early years but b/cos of the kind of decision OP decided to make for herself [b][/b]not considering her partner whom she is in the same relationship with,
[b][/b]how can u tell someone to be in a relationship with u & not give them some sort of physical pleasure. I see it as hypocrisy to the highest order if u no ur not ready for sex pls stay away from relationships.& for ur last question I have seen young ladies get married at the age 18/19 the earlier a lady get's married the better for her.

Therefore we are saying the same thing cos I also said she should stay away from relationships if she is not ready to have sex
The earlier a lady get married the better? I know marrying early for both gender is good that's why I said she should go into a relationship when she is ready for marriage, if she wants to get married now then she can date
And when you say she wasn't considering her partner
If you go through her post you will see when the guy in question agreed to the no sex terms so I don't think she was being selfish. One thing I love is being sincere if you know you can't do something better say it now than later

Yes

preccy69:
but he knew it would hurt,he told me he would wait,he made me bliv he loved me wen it was all lies, even wen I knew keeping it wunt b easy he promised he would help,he would satisfy my urge but neva demand penetration,I was stupid all dis while bliving he would wait for a girl dat gives him nothing

The only problem you have now is that he didn't ask and if he had asked and persisted you would have obliged. You ain't different from him either, at 24 don't be too sure you'll be this naive.

preccy69:
av already done dat, its not all about sex,I loved him

how do you know you loved him?

If you don't want to have sex, stop having an intimate boy friend just male friends will be OK.

Lol. Preccy Why Wult Ur Bf Cheat. Imagine He Has Been Wif U For 18mnth Without Sex. Since U're Nt Ready To Play Why Jump Into Relationship... Ur Bf Has'nt Gained Anything From U, Dat Why He Cheated. So Think Twice!

Rukkydelta:

Therefore we are saying the same thing cos I also said she should stay away from relationships if she is not ready to have sex
The earlier a lady get married the better? I know marrying early for both gender is good that's why I said she should go into a relationship when she is ready for marriage, if she wants to get married now then she can date
And when you say she wasn't considering her partner
If you go through her post you will see when the guy in question agreed to the no sex terms so I don't think she was being selfish. One thing I love is being sincere if you know you can't do something better say it now than later

No I don't think we are saying the same thing, my question still remains what of when she is now ready for marriage & she is unable to find a suitor what becomes of her b/cos I can see in ur post when u were advising when she is ready for marriage she can now go for a relationship,for ur info things don't happen that way,u need a man to ask u for a relationship at his own will & time not b/cos u now ready a man 'll come & ask u for a relationship & ur hand in marriage, no things are not done that way. the guy in question agreed to the terms b/cos he thought he could bear the urge but along the line he couldn't hold it any more, well I don't blame him b/cos he's a human with hormones & who equally has blood & water running through him.

1234IKECHhukwu:
No I don't think we are saying the same thing, my question still remains what of when she is now ready for marriage & she is unable to find a suitor what becomes of her b/cos I can see in ur post when u were advising when she is ready for marriage she can now go for a relationship,for ur info things don't happen that way,u need a man to ask u for a relationship at his own will not b/cos u now ready a man 'll come & ask u for a relationship & ur hand in marriage, no things are not done that way. the guy in question agreed to the terms b/cos he thought he could bear the urge but along the line he couldn't hold it any more, well I don't blame him b/cos he's a human with hormones & who equally has blood & water running through him.

nd am metal or wood

I did the love thing It didn't work out ..
so my dear yes I all about sex hot crazy mind blowing sex finished

Bahddo:
how do you know you loved him?

lyk seriously

ghost3040:
There are good guys out there...Just text me ur contact so we start off immediately..

please

dingbang:
you seem to be naive..

thanks

1234IKECHhukwu:
No I don't think we are saying the same thing, my question still remains what of when she is now ready for marriage & she is unable to find a suitor what becomes of her b/cos I can see in ur post when u were advising when she is ready for marriage she can now go for a relationship,for ur info things don't happen that way,u need a man to ask u for a relationship at his own will not b/cos u now ready a man 'll come & ask u for a relationship & ur hand in marriage, no things are not done that way. the guy in question agreed to the terms b/cos he thought he could bear the urge but along the line he couldn't hold it any more, well I don't blame him b/cos he's a human with hormones & who equally has blood & water running through him.

what is your point? That marriage is a woman's sole purpose in life, so she should always grab the first guy that comes and never say she's not ready?