Cinderella5:
the dictionary definition will do just fine. Someone who doesn't have enough to spend on necessities.

Quinn22:
Are you sure? Haven't you come across stories like this before?

tobianthony:


Very very common occurrence man ... Sorry to say but true .

Question is would the woman in retrospect rather the dude not be rich and have peace of mind ? At least from side chicks but not from bills

Cinderella5:
doesn't have to be a billionaire, just some comfort like owning your own apartment, having a job and other little important things.

Safiaa:
No. A leech is the wrong term. I find it so ironic that men will have so much standards and criterias for the women of their choice. From physical criterias that are so shallow to culinary criterias etc. The minute a woman decides she has 'standards' she's a gold digger. I agree that if a woman doesn't have shiiit and she wants a millionaire, she's reaching beyond her level. But for a woman to state that she doesn't date broke men or men below her financial status is completely her preference, especially if she's got money of her own. She's allowed to have her beliefs without being labelled a gold digger or a leech. Men get too emotional and soft when it comes to these topics, you forget to think rationally. Its due to low self esteem.

AuroraB:
That's unsettling

Quinn22:
They will eat your money and dump you Kai! Broke boys/Men are wicked

Cinderella5:
most of the time, it ends up like this, he makes it due to your effort later to abandon you or remember you use to nag forgetting the sacrifices made. Helping a guy climb is usually not worth it.

Draei:

You really wished i was angry, retardèd idle girls
like you are one of the reasons most guys wrongly
see girls as nothing buh sex gadgets...''olosho'' Ain't
got your time though, so please have fun.

Cinderella5:
A broke guy is not equal a broke girl, a broke guy is equal an ugly girl. Girls aren't termed broke.

Toks2008:


You ladies just use Grammer you don't even know the meaning ...what has low self esteem got to do with the subject matter.

A lady who believes in self reliance will never be put off by a broke guy cos she knows that being broke is relative and she has her money anyways and it's not as if the guy will leech on her.

Take the matter anyway you want and use whatever Grammer that catches your fancy...all I know. ..only a lady with a leech mentality will avoid dating broke guys....quote me anywhere on planet earth.

IdeyFindWife:


All these "mentally-retar.ded" threads overflogging cliches. Beggi-beggi girls on "ashawo-kobo-kobo" gold-digging levels looking for mugus to leech just dey put persin on RedAlert sef!

Your deliverance will come when you create ur wealth and control ur own reality instead of looking for moneybags upandan; u lot spend way too much time discussing shyt talk, mtcheww!

But, i don't blame you. Na d boys wey dey bother u for chyking to 'cool-bodi' we go blame; we don tell dem say "jobless man nor suppose dey erect preek", dem nor go hear, dey pop Alomo upandan, agbero generation ! U fit una selves!!

AHCB:
Base on your definition, might I ask if you, have enough to spend on your necessities? Like if you're your own woman?

Draei:

You really wished i was angry, retardèd idle girls
like you are one of the reasons most guys wrongly
see girls as nothing buh sex gadgets...''olosho'' Ain't
got your time though, so please have fun.

themonk:
you have a stupid mentality.

lefulefu:

u shouldnt be.u not a slayqueen/dragon like op

Cinderella5:
spot on. No one praises a guy for his looks, his money speaks for him, while a girls looks goes makes way for her lots of the time.

Berbierklaus:

How did you know I'm not a slay queen
Lolz.

Well,I don't know about other ladies, but at this stage and experience I've had in life,I find it absurd to see things the way they are seeing it on this thread.

No long stories.

Cinderella5:
whats the fun in a relationship where the guy cannot meet some financial demands of a girl? Cannot take her out to fancy places cos no money, we are just being realistic, call it leeching, doesnt matter.

Cinderella5:
even if I don't, it doesn't matter, it matters when it's a guy.

lefulefu:

yea u might be the beyoncy slayqueen but u certainly not the naija version slayqueen.i can vouch on dat

Cinderella5:
even if I don't, it doesn't matter, it matters when it's a guy.

Quinn22:
I'm telling you

AHCB:
Seriously? Quinn you're this myopic? I'm shocked!

Safiaa:
No. A leech is the wrong term. I find it so ironic that men will have so much standards and criterias for the women of their choice. From physical criterias that are so shallow to culinary criterias etc. The minute a woman decides she has 'standards' she's a gold digger. I agree that if a woman doesn't have shiiit and she wants a millionaire, she's reaching beyond her level. But for a woman to state that she doesn't date broke men or men below her financial status is completely her preference, especially if she's got money of her own. She's allowed to have her beliefs without being labelled a gold digger or a leech. Men get too emotional and soft when it comes to these topics, you forget to think rationally. Its due to low self esteem.

Draei:

A girl is labeled broke financially & mentally
the moment she hunts after all-ready made men.

Quinn22:
I'm not myopic, I'm just speaking from experience. Broke guys aren't worth the hassle

Acidosis:


Are you an orphan?


Do you enter into relationships to catch fun? Don't you have a life of your own?

Toks2008:


You ladies just use Grammer you don't even know the meaning ...what has low self esteem got to do with the subject matter.

A lady who believes in self reliance will never be put off by a broke guy cos she knows that being broke is relative and she has her money anyways and it's not as if the guy will leech on her.

Take the matter anyway you want and use whatever Grammer that catches your fancy...all I know. ..only a lady with a leech mentality will avoid dating broke guys....quote me anywhere on planet earth.

AHCB:
Wrong! Wrong! And wrong! You should look up the meaning of leech and gold digger. I believe you have not the slightest clue what those words mean.

AHCB:
Oh really. How nice. So you're the type who wants to date an already made guy, enjoy his money, tell him how to spend it, whom to spend it on, expect him not to cheat and want to be respected.

How illuminating.